No amount of money will ever make you wealthy because as soon as you get there
you will raise the game because growth is life but having to grow in order to
feel significant enough means you will always be poor it's a game that never
ends let's talk about money now not wealth what does it take mechanically to
get this thing called financial independence and what does financial
independence as opposed to wealth wealth is a product of the mind again no amount
of money you ever achieve will make you wealthy life will pay whatever price you
ask of it you know what's interesting you gotta ask intelligently
now if you're gonna ask intelligently there might be five elements of that
number one you'd have to have specifically wouldn't you you wouldn't
ask in a general way people do the lost time I want more money fine here's a
dollar get out of here very often you're getting what you're
asking for you're just not aware of how generally you're asking clarity is power
the more clear you are about exactly what it is you want the more your brain
knows how to get there your brain is a servomechanism it's like a bomb those
bombs those missiles they have a servomechanism so if the target moves it
knows what the target is it follows it you're a brain when you condition it
knows exactly what to go for it will find a way to get there
but when you decide what's most important to you your brain goes after
it everyone I know successful have builds
what I call an RPM plan and RPM has been built on the metaphor that the way to
get from where you are to where do you want to go to the fastest is you got to
build power like in a car RPMs and the R stands for they know the result they're
after they know what they want precisely if you don't know exactly what you want
or you let yourself get beyond that to something generally you're not gonna
achieve we all have goals the problem is I've said before on this program is that
were unconscious in the use of our resources
most people's goals are to quote pay the lousy bills or to get by or to survive
or get out of debt or make it through the day make the relationship a little
better get a better job and short they're caught up in the trap
of making a living rather than designing a life remember that our goals affect us
whatever they are if we don't consciously plant the seeds of what we
want in the gardens of our minds we'll end up with weeds if we want to discover
the unlimited possibilities within us we must find a goal big enough and grand
enough to challenge us to push beyond our limits and discover our true
potential remember that your current conditions do not reflect your ultimate
potential but rather the size and the quality of the goals upon what you're
currently focusing we all must discover or create a magnificent obsession
whenever you look at somebody and say why are they more successful anybody
else it's always because of step one they've raised their standard
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way personally professionally or your company is boring as it sounds as stupid
as annotated Sam cuz even though that's not sexy it is the only thing that
creates lasting change back unless they raise their standard never sounds so
trite and stupid and positive Finke or school but the truth is it's the truth
so maybe I can language it away that's more compelling to you or more simple
what does it mean when we say raise our standards it means you turn your shoulds
in the must see the difference in people is that they turn their shoulds in the
must the things that you used to say I should do you do your sheds when it's
convenient when it's comfortable when it goes your way but when something is a
must not the other people but a must to you
do you find the way to get it done yes or no so the difference in people is
once their muscle another word for that is what's their standing if you want a
great jump in the quality of your life an extraordinary jump in the quality of
your life you got to set yourself up to win you got to set yourself up with a
process that allows you to consistently grow consistently enjoy your life and
consistently produce the results that you're really after but if you've got
what you know that focus the target and you got the toolbox and you're still not
getting what you want it's because you got inner conflicts that's the third
pillar you've got to resolve your inner conflicts because that as I try to
explain to you 80% of success in anything is your psychology and 20% as
the mechanics so those inner conflicts are when you take two steps four and you
pull three steps back right when you say boy I'm totally committed this but you
don't follow through this is my expertise the y-guy part why why do you
keep saying you want this you have crystal clarity you have the tools and
you're still not getting it there's a conflict in you you want to be totally
successful but you're afraid at some level that if you will are totally
successful you will not be loved you'll be rejected you want to be in a
position where you have total free time and you want to build a billion dollar
enterprise these are conflicts you really truly know you have the tools and
talents to make this happen but a part of you doesn't think you deserve to
succeed this is something you did something you made up or you think
making money or being successful economically is not spiritual and you're
committed to being spiritual and yet the other part of you it's the inner
conflicts between fighting parts so what do we do in this third pillar think of
it as a vault we got unlock think of it as unlock and unleash that's the third
teller the way you unlock and unleash if you identify the conflicts do you get
clear what they are so you may have total clarity even the tools but how can
you call the unleash and commit when you're being pulled in two different
directions there's only how do I solve them there
isn't one way you've got to get clear about what's most important to you today
not what you think you should do based on an old blueprint of all belief system
your parents society your friends otherwise you'll succeed and not be
fulfilled so I want you identify the conflicts now what you got to do is
align align your life with what you really value align your life with what
is most important to you and then once you are on a position where you're
aligned guess what you'll do take action you won't have to work at it when
everything's in alignment there's nothing pulling you away boom
you go for it but when you say I want a relationship but at the same time
simultaneously I want to be in a position where you know I never have to
you know I only get what I want every moment or I never have to commit to
anything who's gonna obviously you're never gonna
get there that inner conflict must be resolved once you align and you take
action because what's gonna happen you're gonna achieve and once you
achieve you succeed when you succeed I'll tell you what you add to it
celebrate right and then contribute pay it forward if you will as corny as that
sounds paying for don't pay it back take what
you've got what you've learned and bring it to someone else
if you bring it to someone else it continues that cycle of fulfillment of
joy of meaning in your life everything I just finished by reminding you what I
think everybody knows in their heart nothing you get will ever make you happy
nothing doesn't matter how many people respect you there's money you have to
mean things you have but who you become will make you very happy or very sad and
so ultimately there's one way to test your life in the busyness of your life
make sure you take just a few minutes to give yourself the gift of making
progress every day cause that's the one word that'll make you happy
progress doesn't matter what you achieve feels good for how long you know you got
it it's wonderful it's exciting you appreciate it and then but if you're
still growing if you're not growing you're dying if you're making progress
and you're not where you want to be physically but all of a sudden you took
this book and you started make some simple changes and you started walk move
exercise you make a couple 9-3 changes you got some energy now and you start
feeling everyday even if you're not yet to the thirty pounds you want to lose
just the momentum will make you happy if you're in a relationship where you're
settling or your relationship you're not in a relationship and you're settling
for being alone with something inside of you craves more and this book triggers
you and gives you the plan and how to finally connect and break through your
own fears and connect with people and light them up the way you really want to
just even before you're there just the progress will light you up and we all
have to keep growing to feel that alive so would it be progress in your business
progress in your body progress or your energy your relationship your kids your
finances your career I don't care what it is that's what my life's about so my
heartfelt wish for you in this video becomes a trigger for more progress and
then out of that progress you'll have things that you enjoy in your life that
you'll now be able to give to other people too
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