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fasten your seatbelt buckle up tight
today were talk about conversations that
lead to SPX how does that happen
we're handling a distillery district of
Toronto great play it's kind of quiet
and if I jump outside and talking about
this and shares with you right now I had
to learn a long time ago I was
struggling man I was like the nerdy kid
that was like in the school of
photography class and I would be there
doing chemicals I'm like nobody around
nobody interested in me I had a crush in
school Mike Russian school like hey you
know I do the paper that had the do you
like me yes or no circle one get the
paper crumpled back at the end of the
class just horrible situations man and
love with my best friend for two years
Gordon her house every day knowing her
mom by her best her by her name
eating food and then just nothing she
goes back in her ax I've had horrible
situations I think it really came down
to the fact I didn't know how to make
anything sexual and know how to take a
conversation and just make it
interesting so if you don't do this
you're screwed you'll forever be that
person okay and it goes for females as
well you're a female you might like a
guy and you don't know how to make the
first move
you might just be like smiling at him
and winking you think that's enough it's
not enough it's not of a sign he knows
you like him but he does know you want
to take it there so there's things that
we can do to make it happen now listen
this isn't the be-all-end-all
instruction okay this is not everything
there is to know but this is some ways
to get the ball rolling at least get
some skin in the game and have things
work out for you so I'm gonna share it
with you here right now and open to
suggestions if you have great ways of
doing this as well jump in the comments
section down below and share with me
your personal tips and tricks on how you
make things happen okay and also feel
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it so first things first how do you turn
things sensual the first way internal
conversations sexuals by
misinterpretation in english they call
that a double entendre so just means
something that has two definitions so if
I say it's a it's a really cold and
lonely night right that could mean two
things could mean it's cold I'm alone or
if it means cold but I want to have
something happen I'd like to meet
somebody or have some intimacy or some
connections of warmth right so anytime
you can
hidden meaning onto a sentence it helps
out a lot we can do this first and
foremost through a statement of intent
and that is just a sentence that you use
to show your attention interested in
someone by putting a little second
meeting on there so how does that work
well you were adorable I want to put an
angel your ultrasound or something about
you I can't decide if I love it or I
hate it I like what I've seen here so
far just anything like that okay now
there's also conversations you can have
with somebody and they're talking about
the experience they had right and didn't
say you know I was up studying late at
night like oh you study all for the
night you get do your best to work at
night right you could always add a
little sentence in there that shows that
you have a sexual intention in your
conversation so you're just going very
dry platonic and boring you can spice it
up a little bit so another way is
talking about sensation it involves a
physical sensation or a smell or a touch
any story that involves that really
helps out right you can talk about
sensations in general you'd say
something like ah you know what these
clothes are so like ridiculous if I had
my choice I probably wouldn't wear these
scratchy itchy sweaters if we lived in a
new society I just loved that not even
like clothes that much okay notice how I
dropped it in there was talk about
sensations of clothes we're gonna tell
that story so I'll give you story right
now when I was 14 years old my friend
went to a little bit prints like a
convenience store we bought our first
Playboy we stink the guy actually 10
bucks and he put it in a brown paper bag
so when we read it in the parking lot
the next day he calls me tells you this
crazy story mer had Cindy Crawford on
the cover and the stories about this
girlfriend and her boyfriend and he put
a blindfold on her and he wants to try
something crazy
he blindfold his girlfriend he laid her
down nicely and then he went to the
fridge and got a popsicle out and came
back to the bedroom and proceeded to you
know you can tell the story about what
happened right not super graphic detail
and then you say what do you think about
that or like how do you ever done
something crazy like that like what do
you think about people that do that okay
you want to make it not about who will
this person do this with you that's
because my blue and it's crazy don't do
that not like will you do this with me
but just make it like hey what do you
think about that or like have you ever
heard something crazy like that would
you ever do something like that don't
make it about you and that person that's
too much that's too forward it's just
gonna be crossing the line is gonna get
them intimidated but you feel like
they're committing to something verbally
and they don't want that either but not
ready for that so just make a
hypothetical
have you ever done something like that
would you ever do some like that have
you
I heard a crazy story like that very
hypothetical what do you think of that
okay I'm just curious no judgment right
make sure there's no judgment in your
tone or the sentences that you're saying
when eventually you and that person can
create a sensual intimate space where
you both feel safe with each other and
can potentially try new things and be
adventurous and number three is gonna be
selling the dream selling the dream baby
you gotta sell that dream that comes
from the realization that nobody
actually wants what they have they all
want the fantasy they all want to get
bigger and better if you said it
somebody practically hey you know I'm
gonna be really supportive and I'm gonna
hug you affectionately and I'm gonna be
reliable have you a good way to like
turn them off immediately okay so but
turning somebody on is all about a dream
it comes when you buy a product you buy
your car a little bit what your life is
gonna look like when you get that car
who you're gonna have around you the
trips are gonna go on alcohol it's not
even slowed by the alcohol it's like
what kind of person you'd be if you
drank that alcohol kind of friends you'd
have around you who would you attract
through the alcohol okay that's what it
all comes down to selling the dream baby
right so we're not even concerned about
what's in reality we're considered the
dream so how do you do that in a phrase
or a sentence or a conversation well the
first part is to write it's gotta be
about you and them together it's got to
be a Wiis scenario or a scenario
conversations go from I to you to us and
us is the most intimate us and we and
we're gonna do together it's a whole
fantasy okay it's a roleplay so any type
of rural situation we can work out a
fantasy where it's you as one individual
and the other person also evolved makes
it just tremendous okay so let's think
of some right now a great one is if you
were 19 and I was 19 I would totally
take you to prom we'd steal your dad's
car and go down to the lake and you
could take my virginity
right and that's hilarious like if
you're like 35 and the other person is
like 35 and you're obviously not
teenagers another one is uh let's fly
away to Jamaica rent a cottage on the
beach and adopt a puppy and look at all
the elements that are going in place
they're running away to Jamaica
that's adventurous that's Nadia's
forbidden on the beach everybody loves
the beach it's fun it's adventurous and
then adopting a puppy she's like oh
cutes comfort right wraps it all
together than an incredible fantasy that
nobody could say no to you you're just
saying yes the idea is not necessarily
saying yes to you it's just ESP ID
another one could be let's have 10,000
chocolate babies and even Paul Jordan
say Pierre
even the girls so that's funny to me
because George st. Pierre is a UFC
fighter he's a dude obviously you can't
name girls George and having 10,000
chocolate babies is physically
impossible right whatever you have you
just multiply it by ten and that's like
the grant cardone theory right 10x rule
were you 10x everything that you're
doing let's make a fantasy crazy
outlandish adventurous funny impossible
ridiculous blow it up making cartoonish
make it silly make it go on too far then
bring it back like that's the elements
you want to have involved in a few
things that you're doing okay so yeah I
gave you the three steps or three ways
you can make any conversation sensual
and sexual so now you use it with
knowledge young Jedi because with great
responsibility it's attached to great
power and now you have your power so use
it responsibly
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