I welcome almost their second last lecture relationships and love life or life hacks and personal improvement.
I have not seen any courses, articles, posts, anything of any kind related to utilizing chat.
GPT four Relationships and love life advice, dating advice, relationships, success and personalized
advice when it comes to relationships.
I'm quite excited about the possibilities within the space and using a tool like this to help personalize
that advice for people.
Because it is like having a love doctor or a love coach in your pocket and you can write your entire
situation that you're going through.
You could even paste text messages or emails.
I know you want to be wary with what you're sharing with chat, so it's up to you how much information
you want to share with it.
But you could give a high level overview of the situation you're going through and talk through the
specific challenges related to that situation and get some some contextual advice from chat on the next
steps to take and how to best handle it as if you were speaking to a a relationship coach or a marriage
counsellor.
Just remember this is aggregating all of the books and the blog posts and the content on the internet
related to this topic and giving you the best possible coaching related to the situation that you're
in.
Again, with my caveats related to finances and other more risky topics where the advice needs to be
taken with a word of warning, this one is no different if you're asking it to make decisions for you.
Just understand the impact of those decisions and don't say to your spouse, Chuck D told me to do this
or told me to say this.
It's kind of like the same thing of getting advice from a friend and saying, My friend told me to do
this and blaming your friend.
You need to take accountability for how you're going to communicate, what you need to communicate,
and use this as, again, guidance as to how to best structure that communication and the steps you
can take to.
Start that that conversation.
So we've got some ideas here related to dating, planning, creative dates, making a good impression,
all fun things that a robot can help you with.
But again, this is a robot that's read every book on loving relationships and how to have a successful
marriage and partnership and whatnot.
So it is interesting to see what it comes up with.
The example I've chosen is understanding and navigating complex emotions, which I'm sure we've all
had to manage, particularly when it comes to any kind of partnership, whether a romantic partnership
or professional.
But this prompt here is related to insecurities within a relationship.
And if I paste this in without any context, it's not going to work.
So I'll give it a refresh, reconnect to the server.
It's going to provide high level guidance, almost like if you are asking a coach and they gave you,
you know, this pragmatic guide as to the steps you need to take to manage insecurity.
So just read out the first paragraph and security and relationships can stem from a variety of factors
such as past experiences, low self esteem or fear of rejection or abandonment.
It's important to understand that these feelings are normal and that everyone experiences them at some
point in their lives.
Solid advice.
Let's contextualise it to a hypothetical situation.
Can you take any contextualize?
Can you?
Make.
This advice specific to my to my situation where I'm starting to feel insecure about my partner.
Hanging out with the opposite sex.
Pretty common one, right?
All the same sex or whatever, sex is going to make you insecure.
But a common one for many relationships is the partner hanging out with the opposite sex.
So these are some specific and personalized examples to your situation.
Communicate your feelings to your partner.
Express them, especially them.
How you feel when they spend time with members of the opposite sex.
Make sure to express that it is not about trust, but about your own insecurity.
Set boundaries.
Communicate what makes you feel comfortable and what does not.
For example, if you're not comfortable with them going out alone with members of the opposite sex,
let them know.
And.
Again, you can see the areas in which taking on this advice could be risky at a high level because
you're not understanding maybe the science or the.
Professional guidance as to why this is the case.
So for anything like this, where you're getting that high level bit of feedback, I highly, highly
recommend that you drill down further to understand the logic behind any of this advice, particularly
for things around your relationship, your partnerships that could have serious material impacts if
you took the wrong advice and went forward with it.
But from my experience reading self-help books and having spoken to hundreds of people about their relationships,
I'm one of those people who likes to listen and help people with their personal problems.
I see myself as a good listener, so I've got a fair amount of personal experience with providing relationship
advice.
I've read this before.
The the advice is pretty solid, you know, in line with what I'd expect, particularly from a tool
like this and it having aggregated all of this information.
So let's maybe expand upon point one.
Give me samples of how I can do this.
So it's reiterated point one and then saying when communicating your feelings to your partner, it's
important to be as clear and specific as possible.
Here are a few examples.
If I can express your concerns.
I feel really insecure and hanging out with people from the when when you hang out with people from
the opposite sex, it makes me feel like you don't want to be with me.
I know it's not fair, but I can't help feeling jealous when you spend time with other women Men.
Can you understand that
if this isn't your style or how you like to communicate, you can use those tone of voice suggestions
to then maybe add a little bit of.
Sincerity or humor, if that's more your approach or some more detail.
But take this as a form of guiding light to steer you in the right direction.
Then you can use this as a piece of educational advice to then take on and implement it in your own
life.
All right.
How else can we expand upon this?
And I think when it comes to anything that's high risk like this, read everything it's spitting out
because all of that context, it's like when you ask a professional, they're not going to give you
the examples or the actions or the decisions you need to make without saying why they're giving you
those, why they're providing that advice.
So if you skip any of the information it's trying to communicate to you, you might miss some some very
important context or instructions related to implementing this advice successfully.
Let's just read out the last one.
Additionally, it is important to have this conversation when you are calm and not in the middle of
an argument, as it will make it easier for you to express yourself clearly and effectively.
I couldn't agree more.
Let's try.
Can you give me ten ideas for opening statements to bring this up with?
My partner in a friendly, casual and fun tone.
Each one is less than ten words.
Very curious.
He's a great suggestions.
You know, some might not be for everyone, but at least it steps you onto the path of addressing this
and gives you confidence that there's options for you to take to move forward and try and come to a
resolution for anything that you're struggling or dealing with.
Great.
I hope this was interesting.
I know this is a touchy one.
And for people who are.
Apprehensive about taking advice on such personal things in their life from a tool like a chat.
But just know that you can read it with a grain of salt and verify any of that advice with friends,
family, Google Books that you read.
But I still think if people are using this for their work to write essays, to code, to perform very
complex and specific and highly intellectual tasks, it can also apply that same logic to other areas
which aren't related to work in the same approach you would take by first verifying the information,
ensuring that it's.
Referencing relevant sources and case studies and examples that professionals have mentioned in blog
posts or whatever it is.
But it's a great starting point.
If you don't feel comfortable sharing these things with friends, family, or you don't have the money
to afford a therapist, it can be a great first step to move in the right direction.
And after having used this for similar topics, I can say wholeheartedly that the advice is impressively
close to a lot of the readings and personal suggestions that I've had that have worked for me in my
relationship and I.
I recommend giving it a go and seeing how it navigates your own unique situations within your personal
and professional relationships.
Great.
This was a little bit longer, but thank you for listening and excited to see you in the last lecture
regarding personal entertainment and how chat you can waste your time drafting songs, poems, film
scripts, novels, jokes and so on.
Cheers.
See you there.