um okay so 好吧，好吧
we'll crack into it here basically just 我们将在这里基本介绍一下
to kind of lay out the structure of this 以此来布置这种结构
live stream I'm going to spend the first 直播我将花第一
five minutes just kind of laying out 5分钟只是一种布局
what we're going to be talking about why 我们将要谈论的是为什么
I'm doing a live stream and kind of what 我做的直播流和什么样
to expect this coming month and then the 预计今后一个月，然后再来
rest of it will just be pure on fucking 其余的只会对他妈的纯粹
content okay so the reason I you know 内容好，所以我知道的原因
I'm doing this live stream kind of 我正在做这种直播类的
inspired the idea and in case you missed 启发了这个想法，万一你错过了
it this is why I have a brand new pick 这就是为什么我有一个全新的选择
up product coming out May 11th at 11:00 新产品将于5月11日11:00发布
a.m. est okay if you want the URL it's 美东时间上午好，如果你想要的网址是
my game is a 10.com 我的游戏是一个10.com
and if you actually head over there now 如果你现在真的在那边走
and put your email in you'll receive a 并把你的电子邮件，你会收到一个
video where I talk about day game um so 视频里我说说一天的比赛庵等等
that's coming out May 11th and I was 这是5月11日出来，我是
thinking before then like what could I 在那之前想想我能做些什么
really do to just offer a fuck ton of 真的只是提供一吨他妈的
value you know this is just how I roll 值你知道这就是我如何滚动
it's like I'm always just putting out as 这就像我一直只是把它当成
much as possible and the idea of these 并尽可能的这些 想法
live streams kind of came about so the 直播流如此传播
game plan is up until launch May 11th 比赛计划是，直到推出5月11日
every Wednesday with the first one being 每个星期三与第一个星期一
right now I'm going to be doing these 现在我将要做这些
live streams okay and they'll probably 直播流可以，他们可能会
go for you know 30 minutes to an hour so 去为你知道30分钟到一个小时如此
and there'll be different themes okay 并且会有不同的主题
and today's theme we're going to dive 和今天的主题我们将要潜水
deep into abundance versus scarcity and 深入丰盈与稀缺和
kind of share with you my take on it now 与我分享我现在的感受
which is a lot deeper than I've kind of 这比我有点深刻得多
ever dissected it in the past and every 曾经在过去和每一个过程中剖析过它
week there'll be a theme 一周会有一个主题
okay so schedule in basically starting 好的，所以安排在基本开始
now every single Wednesday until May 现在每个星期三到五月
11th livestream 3:00 p.m. PST and in 太平洋时间下午3点，太平洋时间 11日
between these live streams I'm going to 在我要去的这些直播之间
be doing daily pick up videos in a Q&A 每天在问答环节中 选择视频
format 格式
okay so there'll be the live stream 好的，所以会有直播
comment during the live stream and then 在直播过程中发表评论，然后评论
basically I'm going to pick one of the 基本上我会选择其中的一个
comments answer it in a video the next 评论在下一个视频中回答它
day it will usually be like these two 一天， 它通常会喜欢这两个
three five-minute videos comments under 下面有三个五分钟的视频评论
that video I'll pick another comment 那个视频我会选择另一个评论
answer that one the next day in a video 在第二天在视频中回答这个问题
so on and so forth okay so it's gonna be 等等等等， 好吧，所以它会是
every Wednesday live stream in-between 每个星期三的直播都在中间
Q&A videos every single day and I really 问答视频每一天，我真的
just want to customize this to you you 只是想定制这个给你
know I want to keep it engaging 知道我想保持它的参与
really share with you the pickup content 真的与你分享取件内容
that I've been working on this past you 我一直在为你过去的工作
know for the past year because I haven't 知道过去一年， 因为我没有
been putting it out in case you haven't 如果你没有的话，一直在推销它
noticed this channel is pretty much 注意到这个频道非常多
stayed blank uh but that doesn't mean 保持空白呃，但这并不意味着
haven't been doing shit 没有做过狗屎
in the meantime so that's the game plan 在此期间，这是游戏计划
okay so be sure to kind of stay focused 好，那么一定要保持专注
on that and with the product to this 在这方面，并与产品
little heads up in terms of what it is 就它是什么而言，小小的头脑
I'll reveal more information as you know 如你所知，我会透露更多信息
we get closer to the launch date but 我们接近的发布日期，但
basically the name of the product is 基本上这个产品的名字是
10-game and the reason being is I 10场比赛，原因是我
basically structured the product out 基本上把产品结构化了
into what I call the ten laws of game 根据我所说的游戏规则
okay and what I tend what I realize is 好吧，我倾向于我所认识的是
if you look at you know the way the 如果你看看你知道的方式
pickup community kind of evolved you 皮卡社区的一种进化你
know I've been in this for over nine and 知道我已经在这个超过九
a half years now when I started out 年半的时间现在，当我开始了
everyone was about routines everyone was 每个人都是关于每个人都是的惯例
about what to say what to do the 关于怎么说什么做
techniques and what would happen and you 技巧和会发生什么，你
might have you know been aware of this 可能你知道这一点
if you've been in this for a while if 如果你已经在这里一段时间了
you read the book the game is that 你读过这本书就是那个游戏
people will kind of turn into these 人们会有种变成这些
social robots you know the the 社会机器人你知道的
techniques or routines or scripts were 技术或例程或脚本
there to help you but when added up 那里帮助你， 但加起来时
happening is they actually stifled you 发生的是他们实际上扼杀了你
you know it's like oh I must stick to 你知道这就像哦，我必须坚持
this you kind of killed the soul of the 这个你有种遇难者的灵魂
game you killed the fun of the game and 游戏中，你杀了游戏的乐趣和
that's how most people you know went 这就是你认识的大多数人去过的地方
about it now there was a shift from 关于它现在有一个转变
there where everyone then went natural 在那里每个人都变得自然
and they kind of gave up these scripts 他们放弃了这些剧本
gave up these routines and started 放弃这些例程并开始
bringing more of this humanity out and 带来更多的这种人性
YouTube came about and kind of helped YouTube的是约和那种帮助
propel this and things were awesome 推动这一切，事情真棒
until guess what if you go on YouTube 直到猜测如果你去YouTube
now there's kind of like this 现在有这样的情况
overabundance of content and what 内容过多和内容过多
happens is that the content was 恰巧是内容是
originally there to help you but it now 原本在那里帮助你，但现在
stifles you even this content saying 扼杀你甚至这个内容说
okay be natural go in you're like okay 好吧，很自然，进去就好了
must be natural but there's this person 必须是自然的， 但有这个人
saying this and this person saying this 说这个，这个人说这个
and there's just so many ideas so many 这么多的想法太多了
concepts so much content out there that 概念如此多的内容，在那里，
we kind of went back to this feeling 我们回到了这种感觉
stifled and just killing the fun you 扼杀，只是杀死你的乐趣
know that was joke when I go out I can 当我出门时，我知道这是开玩笑
kind of look around the venue and see 看看周围的场地，看看
who's doing pick up by how stifled they 谁正在接受他们的窒息
are or how little amount of 是或多少量
fun they're having okay it's just 有趣的是，他们没有问题，只是
ridiculous it's like everyone's there 可笑的是， 它就像每个人都在那里
having a blast like that's what you 像这就是你的爆炸
should go out you know it's like fucking 应该出去你知道这就像他妈的
Town Square it's like you're going out 城市广场就像你要出去
to express to have a fucking awesome 表达有一个他妈的真棒
time some experiences of women maybe 时间可能是女性的一些经历
take things further yet most guys go out 进一步采取行动，但大多数人都出去了
to practice game and it's just absolute 练习游戏，这只是绝对的
hell you know you go out you're like 你知道你出去你就是这样
holy shit like you're stressing out 就像你真他妈的会讲出来
beforehand and I'm sure if you're 事先和我相信如果你是
watching this you can relate it's like 看着这个你可以把它描述得像
okay time to go out like even hours 好的时间，甚至几小时外出
before that anxiety starts kicking it 在那之前焦虑开始踢它
you know it's like okay got to do well 你知道它像没事一定要做好
you're heading to the club you're scared 你正在前往你害怕的俱乐部
shitless you know you may numb yourself 无耻的你知道你可能会麻木自己
with some drinks like okay talking about 有些饮料好像在说什么
some pre-party drinks 一些派对前饮品
got to do this and you arrive at the 要做到这一点，你到达了
venue everyone's having a blast except 场地每个人都有一个爆炸除外
you and you're there like okay got to do 你，你有没有像好该怎么 做
this got to do this scared shitless you 这让做这个吓得狂妄你
have all the lists of things you have to 有你需要的所有事情清单
do all of the content you've been 做你曾经的所有内容
looking up all of the videos you've been 查找你去过的所有视频
watching and that adds even more 观看，并增加更多
pressure because now you have to be 压力，因为现在你必须是
perfect you're like okay I got to do 完美， 你没事我必须做
this got to do this Catholic this up 这要做到这一点天主教了
what about this what if I forget this oh 那么如果我忘了这个哦，那么呢？
my god kills the soul kills the fun and 我的上帝杀死了灵魂，消除了乐趣
there's just so much content no matter 无论如何，只有很多内容
how perfect you think you can perform 你认为自己的表现有多完美
you will fuck it up at some point and as 你他妈的它在某些时候和
soon as you fuck up fucking idiot that 一旦你他妈的他妈的白痴
little mental chatterbox just starts 一点心理喋喋不休就开始了
insulting you yourself up and you know 侮辱你自己，你知道
your nights out of days out or just 你的夜晚没有出去或只是
fucking hell okay and this is something 他妈的地狱没关系，这是一些东西
that I mean I've realised for quite some 我的意思是我已经意识到了一些
time now and this is one of the big 时间了，这是 大的一个
reasons guys give up you know there's a 原因男人放弃你知道有一个
huge turnover rate in the pickup 皮卡车的周转率很高
community where every six months or so 社区每隔六个月左右
80% of the guys who say if I'm giving a 80％的人说，如果我给一个
seminar in a city 80% of those guys six 研讨会在一个城市80％的这些家伙六
months later are gone they gave up okay 几个月后， 他们放弃了没事
and the reason being is they're just not 原因是他们不是
having fun and it's too intolerable okay 玩得开心，这太让人无法容忍了
you can tolerate it in the beginning 你可以在开始时容忍它
you're like you know what fuck man 你就像你知道什么他妈的人
willpower plow through this shit yeah 意志力通过这个狗屎是啊
cool but six months later if you're not 很酷，但半年过去了，如果你不
enjoying it you're done okay it's the 享受它，你做得好，它是
same as me for example right now I'm 和我一样，例如现在我是
getting back in shape if every time I'm 如果我每次都 恢复体形
going to the gym it's just absolute hell 去健身房，这绝对是地狱
if every day you know when I'm eating 如果每天你知道我什么时候吃东西
I'm like okay must count every little 我很好，必须数一数
calorie and it's like paranoia I eat a 卡路里， 这就像我吃了一个偏执狂
little too much I'm beating myself up 有点太多，我打了自己
you're like fuck you fuck that up too 你就像他妈的你他妈的太了
many calories you dumb idiot fuck shit 许多卡路里你哑巴白痴他妈的狗屎
guess what 你猜怎么了
I'm not going to maintain this as a 我不会保持这种作为
long-term habit I'll plow through in the 长期的习惯，我会在犁过
beginning and most people do it's like 开始和大多数人这样做
hey new year's go to the gym they plow 哎新的一年。我们去他们犁健身房
through in the beginning but it's just 通过在开始，但它只是
too intolerable and you give up okay so 太难以忍受了，你放弃了
this is something I've noticed and what 这是我注意到的和什么
I've really been working on for the past 我一直在努力过去
year is to structure game and to teach 一年是结构游戏和教学
game in a more flexible manner a 游戏以更灵活的方式a
flexible way that really allows you to 灵活的方式， 真正让你
bring that soul back in that fun back in 把那个灵魂带回那种乐趣之中
your uniqueness back to the field okay 你的独特性回到了领域没关系
and what I basically did is I structured 而我基本上做的是我的结构
it into ten laws okay thus ten game the 它分为十个法律好吗因此10场比赛
ten laws of game and these are the macro 这十个游戏规则就是宏观
concepts that you should focus on this 你应该把重点放在这个概念上
is the shit that really matters and if 是真的很重要，如果
you focus on this 你专注于此
okay then compass everything like 好吧，然后指南针一切
everything that I've ever done in game 我在游戏中所做的一切
no matter how advanced it has been it 不管它有多先进
falls under one of these ten laws and by 属于这十项法律之一，通过
just focusing on this it allows you to 只是专注于此，它可以让你
get out of your own fucking way you 走出你自己的他妈的方式你
don't worry about the details the 不要担心细节
details will take care of themselves as 细节会照顾自己的作为
long as you're focusing on this here it 只要你在这里关注这一点
allows you to be flexible it allows you 允许你灵活的让你
to have fun it allows you to just start 有乐趣它可以让你 刚开始
enjoying your time out with women and as 享受与女性和你的时间
soon as I started teaching this I mean 我开始教我这个 意思
the results my clients have absolutely 结果我的客户绝对有
exploded 爆炸
okay so that's what the products going 好吧，这就是产品的功能
to be about and on top of that too I 到约而最重要的 是我太
went through all of my infield from you 通过我所有的内场的去从你
know the past five to six years 知道过去的五到六年
everything that I didn't release 所有我没有发布的东西
everything that I have and I'm packaging 我拥有的所有东西都是我的包装
that up to breaking it down so it's 直到它分解，所以它
really everything I've got so that's the 真的是我所拥有的一切，所以这就是我的所为
product may eleventh so keep an eye out 产品可能会在第十一位留意
for that okay and until then as I 为那好吧，直到那时为止
mentioned every Wednesday there's going 每个星期三都会提到
to be a live stream and in between be 是一个直播流和之间是
sure to check back daily 务必每天检查一次
comments or the videos I'm going to be 评论或我将要观看的视频
answering the comments in the next video 在下一个视频中回答评论
it's like daily QA vids okay so just a 这就像每日质量保证视频没关系，所以只是一个
little five minutes here to kind of 这里有五分钟的时间
introduce everything here and let's 在这里介绍一切，让我们来
crack into the contents okay so as I 裂解成内容好以便我
said um what I want to talk about here 说， 呃我想在这里谈论什么
is really 是真的
abundance okay what it means to come 丰盈好吧意味着什么来
from a place of abundance which I'm sure 从我确定的丰富的地方
you've heard before you know this is a 你听说过，你知道这是一个前
term that kind of gets thrown around a 长期以来，这种情况被人们抛弃了
lot it's like hey man you got to have 很多它就像你必须拥有的嘿人
abundance it's important to have 丰有很重要
abundance if you're coming from a place 如果你是从一个地方来的话
of scarcity you're fucked you're not 稀缺的你做爱时，你不是
going to get the girl so on and so forth 去找女孩等等等等
but in my 但在我的
this is probably yeah probably the most 这可能是最可能的
important thing to understand when it 重要的是要了解它何时
comes to success with women and ideally 在女性和理想的情况下取得成功
to success in life okay because this is 因为这是生活中的成功
really the first or or the foundation of 真正的第一或或者是基础
everything bad that happens in an 一切都很糟糕
interaction every little bit of stress 互动每一点点的压力
every little bit of anxiety every little 焦虑每一个小一点一滴
bit of worry you trying to like suck 有点担心你想要吸吮
validation from the girl you building an 从你建立的女孩验证
ego it all comes from coming from a 自我这一切都来自一个
place of scarcity okay so here's what 地方稀缺的 好了，这里就是
happens 发生
somehow we kind of assume that were 不知何故， 我们认为是
incomplete 残缺
we're not enough we don't have enough 我们还不够，我们还不够
value or down here and the girl is up 价值或在这里，女孩是起来
here that's the assumption that in a way 在这里，这是一种方式的假设
is kind of conditioned into us you know 是种练成我们要知道
if you look at society you've probably 如果你看看你可能有的社会
heard of social conditioning you know 听说你知道的社会条件
what's blasted at you every single day 你每一天都在吹嘘什么
if you watch a movie and there's 如果你看电影，那里有
commercials come on it's like hey you 商业广告就像是你
got to be model looking if you're not 如果你不是，那么你就会成为模特
model looking you're not going to get 模型看起来你不会得到
the girl you got to have the money you 女孩，你得有你的钱
gotta have the Lamborghini you got to 你必须得到兰博基尼
have status you got to have the 有地位你必须有
lifestyle you got to have you know 你必须知道的生活方式
social proof you have to have access to 社会证明你必须有权访问
all these cool things and if you don't 所有这些很酷的东西，如果你不这样做
have that you're not enough for the girl 你有没有足够的女孩
and this is blasted in you like in songs 这在你的歌中就像在你身上一样
I get television shows you go online you 我收到电视节目你上网你
see it everywhere okay and you're kind 看到它无处不在，你很友善
of conditioned to just look at this look 的条件只是看看这个样子
at your situation be like well I'm not 在你的情况下，我很好，我不是
you know one of the top players in those 你知道那些顶尖球员之一
fields there so I'm probably not enough 在那里，所以我可能还不够
okay now I'm going to compensate here 好吧，现在我要在这里补偿
and I guess I'm going to go up and prove 我想我会去证明
to her why she should go with someone 她为什么应该跟别人一起去
who's not enough and basically from 谁是不够的，基本上来自谁
there everything that you do in an 有一切你在一个
interaction everything that his game is 互动的一切，他的比赛是
based on this negative assumption of you 基于你的负面假设
not being enough of you being incomplete 没有足够的你是不完整的
and this one hand makes you feel 这一只手让你感觉
miserable which will transfer onto the 惨其将转印 到
grill and it just repels every girl you 烧烤，它只是排斥你的每一个女孩
fucking talk to okay this is really the 他妈的说话好吧，这真的是
first fuck up that leads to many other 首先他妈的导致许多其他
fuck-ups and until you fix this on any 他妈的，直到你解决这个问题
other little 其他一点
you make will just be superficial will 你所做的只是肤浅的意志
be temporary because at some point 因为在某个时刻是暂时的
she'll realize this assumption that you 她会认识到你的假设
have where you just think you're a 有你认为你是你的地方
complete piece of shit okay and you can 完整的狗屎没关系，你可以
test yourself on this where when you 在你这个地方测试自己
walk up to a girl are you coming from 走到一个女孩你从哪里来
the frame of she likes me I'm perfect 她喜欢我的框架我很完美
I'm complete let's have some fun or holy 我完全让我们有一些乐趣或圣洁
shit she's gonna reject me unless that's 狗屎她会拒绝我，除非是这样
what scarcity is I'm not enough she's 她是什么稀缺是我不够
not gonna like me I'm a piece of shit 不会喜欢我，我是一坨屎
I'd better prove her wrong I better sell 我最好证明她错了，我更好卖
myself I better demonstrate value 我自己我更好地展示价值
because I don't have value I better 因为我没有价值，我更好
throw up some value because she's not 抛出一些价值，因为她不是
gonna like me automatically because I'm 会自动喜欢我， 因为我是
not enough so you can kind of see the 不够，所以你可以看到
two categories abundance scarcity and if 两大类稀缺和如果
you're in scarcity if you're coming from 如果你来自你，那么你很缺乏
this second place here which I gotta 这是我得到的第二个地方
prove her unless you've got to fix that 证明她，除非你必须解决这个问题
okay 好的
so let's kind of examine this in detail 所以让我们仔细检查一下
can I have a few notes here so if you 如果你愿意，我可以在这里做几个笔记
think about it assuming you're not 想想看，假设你不是
enough is basically assuming you're 足够基本上假设你是
lacking something to be enough okay and 缺少的东西足够好和
funny enough what are you lacking like 足够你在缺乏像搞笑
when going up to the girl you're yours 当你想到你的女孩
okay in your mind you're lacking the 没关系，在你的脑海中，你缺乏这个
money the status so on and so forth and 金钱的地位等等 ，等等，并
you think you're lacking the girl you 你认为你缺乏的女孩，你
think oh if I get a hot girl like that's 想想，如果我得到这样一个热辣的女孩
in a way what also drives you to get the 以某种方式也促使你获得
girls like oh if I get the call girl 女孩喜欢哦，如果我得到应召女郎
will finally be complete 将最终完成
okay anywhere you're seeking completion 没关系，你想要完成的任何地方
you're coming from scarcity now I made a 你现在来自稀缺现在我做了一个
video about this and if you've been 视频关于这个，如果你一直
following my contents on my new channel 在我的新频道中关注我的内容
Julianne himself I talked about letting 朱丽安本人谈到让步
go of desire and this is really what 去的愿望，这真的是什么
happens when you are coming from 当你从那里来的时候会发生
scarcity it's like you're going up and 稀缺就像你正在往上走
there's just this this need of trying to 这就是这种需要尝试
fill this lack or void that you have and 填补你拥有的这种缺失或空白
you're not really interacting with the 你并没有真正与之互动
girl as a woman you're interacting her 女孩作为一个女人，你正在与她互动
with her is like this object to kind of 她是这样的对象来样
fill that void now this will be 现在填补这个空白
repelling as I mentioned and secondly 正如我所提及的排斥，其次
what'll probably happen is you're going 可能发生的是你要去的地方
to start self sabotaging okay why 开始自我破坏为什么
because the longer you've experienced 因为你经历的时间越长
this feeling of lack this feeling of 这种感觉缺乏这种感觉
need scarcity desire whatever you want 无论你想要什么都需要稀缺欲望
to call it you've slowly become addicted 称它为你已经慢慢上瘾了
to it okay and take a second to think of 它好，并采取第二个想到的
this you've probably right now been 这你现在可能已经过去了
really needing a girl for a long time 确实需要很长一段时间 ，女孩
okay so much though that you're now 好吧，尽管你现在是
watching videos about how to get girls 观看关于如何获得女孩的视频
you're probably obsessed about this 你可能着迷于此
you're probably thinking about it every 你可能每个人都在想它
single day like fuck I need the girl I 单日喜欢他妈的我需要女孩我
need the girl I need the girl I need the 需要女孩我需要我需要的女孩
girl 女孩
and guess what after a while that kind 过了一会那种你猜怎么着
of becomes you you kind of become this I 变成你， 你变成了我
need the girl 需要女孩
you know it's similar to someone who's 你知道它和其他人 相似
just positive all the time what happens 只是积极的时候会发生什么
they get addicted to positivity you can 他们沉迷于积极性， 你可以
go up throw something negative at them 向他们抛出一些消极的东西
and they're like okay cool but anyway 而且他们好像很酷，但无论如何
they'll switch it automatically to 他们会自动切换到
something positive 积极的东西
someone who's negative all the time 有人谁是负面的所有 时间
they've addicted themselves to 他们已经沉迷自己
negativity you can go up and throw 消极情绪， 你可以去扔掉
something positive at them they'll find 他们会发现 一些积极的东西
a way to link it back to something 一种将它链接回某种东西的方法
negative you know it's like oh yeah that 消极你知道这就像是这样
was great but what about this little 很棒，但是这个小东西呢
detail let's focus on the negative now 细节让我们关注现在的负面情况
what happens here is with this feeling 这种感觉发生在这里
of need of scarcity of lack of desire 需求的缺乏欲望 稀缺的
it's the same thing you become addicted 你变得沉迷同样的事情
to that feeling and if you get the girl 那种感觉，如果你得到这个女孩
what will happen that feeling will 这种感觉会发生什么
disappear so unconsciously you're not 不知不觉地消失了
even going to once to get the girl 甚至要去找女孩
you're going to self-sabotage because 你会自我破坏，因为
you want to keep feeling this I need 你想保持我需要的感觉
girls I need girls I need girls because 女孩我需要女孩我需要女孩，因为
you wouldn't even know what to do if you 你甚至不知道如果你做什么
got the girl okay and this is actually 得到了这个女孩，这其实是
one big reason guys get rejected too 一个大原因家伙被拒绝过
it's like they'll go up say hi to the 这就像他们会上去打个招呼
girl and slightly she reacts well and 女孩和她稍微反应良好
because she reacts well it kind of gets 因为她反应良好
rid of this lack it's much easier to 摆脱这种缺乏，它更容易
just get rejected and be like fuck see I 只是被拒绝，像他妈的看到我
need another girl and I go up to another 需要另一个女孩和我去了另一个
one what's harder is if she reacts well 一个更难的是如果她反应良好
she's like oh hey and suddenly they just 她就像嘿嘿，突然间他们只是
freeze they can't handle the interaction 冻结他们无法处理交互
going well you know or it goes well and 进展顺利，你知道或者进展顺利
instead of like handling it going well 而不是像处理好它一样
what do you think what's the next thing 你认为接下来会发生什么？
to do what's the next thing to do where 做什么是应该做下一个事情
can I take it next because you don't 我可以接下来，因为你没有
even know how to handle not having this 甚至知道如何处理没有这个
feeling of lack not having this feeling 缺乏感觉没有这种感觉
of needing to be somewhere else of 孤男寡女在别处的
actually getting what you want you know 实际上得到你想要的知识
the same will happen if you get a 如果你得到一个相同的结果会发生
make-out it's like I got to make out now 化妆就像我现在要做的那样
watch and you just panic a lot of guys 看，你只是恐慌了很多家伙
have very short interactions because 有很短的交互，因为
they panic this is why you eject a 他们恐慌，这就是为什么你弹出一个
little too early you panic you don't 有点太早你恐慌，你没有
even know what to do but you get what 甚至知道该怎么做，但你得到了什么
you think you want consciously 你认为你需要自觉
okay so this here is big you're going to 好的，所以这里这是很大的你要去
self-sabotage you're going to play not 你不会玩的自我破坏
to lose versus play to win it's going to 失去与发挥赢得它会
repel girls because they're just going 因为他们刚刚走，所以排斥女孩
to feel that's lychee vibe you know I 觉得这是荔枝的氛围，你知道我
like to compare a girl in a club or you 喜欢比较一个俱乐部或你的女孩
know wherever is a millionaire 知道哪里是百万富翁
surrounded by poor people where people 被穷人包围的地方
are going up to her they really want the 打算到她自己真正想要的
money and they're putting on this front 钱和他们正在这个前沿
they may be nice they may be an asshole 他们可能很好，他们可能是一个混蛋
they may do some push-pull they may spit 他们可能会做一些推拉，他们可能会吐
some game but what do they really want 一些游戏，但他们真正想要什么
they want the money you know they are 他们想要你知道的钱
trying to take and just that is 试图把和这一点是
repelling and no matter how good you 不管你有多好，都要排斥你
think you are at hiding that little 以为你是在隐藏了一点
taking vibe sooner or later it's going 服用氛围迟早它会
to come out and you're going to lose her 出来，你会失去她
okay and this here is also the reason 好吧，这也是原因
you experience it just terms how you 你只是用你的方式来体验它
feel 感觉
approach anxiety or anxiety in general 总体上焦虑或焦虑
fear or guilt it's because you're trying 恐惧或内疚，因为你在尝试
to take it's because you need ok so 接受它是因为你需要这样
reflect on this to reflect on this ooh 反思这个反映在这个哦
it's like gum that's why your approach 这就像口香糖，这就是为什么你的方法
anxiety it's like you could get what you 焦虑就像你可以得到你的东西
want or you could not get it and 想要或者你无法得到它
suddenly you're like whole shit I really 突然之间，你真的像整个狗屎一样
hope I get it I really hope I don't not 希望我能得到它我真的希望我不会
get it now there's anxiety because you 现在得到它， 因为你有焦虑
don't know how it's going to either win 不知道如何取胜
or you lose because you're trying to 或者因为你正在努力而失败
take something if there was nothing to 如果没有什么可以采取行动
take because you're in abundance you're 因为你很充足
not coming from scarcity you're not 不是来自稀缺，你不是
coming or approaching this girl trying 来临或接近这个女孩尝试
to fill that void because you really 填补这个空白，因为你真的
need her you desire her to fill that 需要她，你希望她填补这一点
lack there won't be approach anxiety 缺乏不会有方法焦虑
it's the difference between taking or 这是采取或之间的区别
giving let's just say I told you right 给我们只是说我告诉过你
now go up and ask someone for a hundred 现在上去问一个人一百
bucks you better get that hundred bucks 你最好拿到那一百块钱
there's going to be some anxiety if I 如果我会有一些焦虑
tell you hey go up and give that person 告诉你嘿， 上去给那个人
100 bucks 100块钱
are you going to experience anxiety my 你会不会经历我的焦虑
guess is no go up and interrupt that 猜测是没有的，并打断它
conversation to give them a hundred 交谈给他们一百
bucks you're probably not going to 你可能不会去的
experience that much anxiety okay so 那么经历那么多焦虑就好了
this is the beginning it's like that 这就是这样的开始
assumption of lack self sabotage kicks 缺乏自我破坏踢的假设
in a repelling litchi vibe kicks in you 在排斥荔枝氛围踢你
experiencing approach anxiety experience 体验方法焦虑体验
fear experiencing guilt because there 因为有恐惧而感到内疚
will be guilt too you may experience 会内疚过，你可能会遇到
this usually off the open or when it's 这通常是公开的或者是什么时候
time to ask for the number or maybe try 时间要求的数量或也许尝试
to make something happen 使事情发生
so you're like whole shit here we go 所以你就像我们这里的完整狗屎一样
because you know you're taking and you 因为你知道你在和你在一起
don't really know what kind of value 真的不知道什么样的价值
you're giving her you don't really see 你给她看不到
the exchange something to think about - 交换想要的东西 -
what's the value you're offering the 你提供的价值是什么
girl do you know what is she getting out 女孩你知道她出去什么
of it most guys like I don't know I just 大多数人都喜欢我不知道我只是
know what I want out of it yeah well no 知道我想要的是什么，没错
shit you're experiencing this anxiety no 狗屎，你正在经历这种焦虑没有
shit there's this feeling of guilt 狗屎有这种内疚感
because in your mind you're fucking or 因为在你的脑海中你是他妈的或者
over okay that's why fear kicks in and 过了好吧，这就是为什么恐惧开始了
that's why you just feel like shit okay 这就是为什么你只是觉得好狗屎
on top of that - there's the pressure or 最重要的是- 压力还是存在的
stress of trying to maintain this front 试图维持这个前沿的压力
or maintain this cool guy image / ego 或保持这个酷小伙伴的形象/自我
because that's what you'll do you know 因为这就是你所知道的
you're not enough because you've assumed 因为你假设你还不够
scarcity you've assumed you're not 稀缺你认为你不是
enough so you compensate by putting on a 足以让你通过穿上一件补偿品
front putting on a stick creating this 前面放上一根创造这个的棍子
ego and now you have to maintain this 自我，现在你必须保持这一点
ego so you're afraid it's eiffel's you 自我，所以你害怕它是埃菲尔的你
because you're afraid of acting in a way 因为你害怕以某种方式行事
that's in congruence or out of line with 这是一致的或不符合的
this ego and you're now seeking external 这个自我，你现在正在寻找外部
proof and her reactions to you to 证明和她对你的反应
confirm this image so your friend like 确认这张图片让你的朋友喜欢
maintain it you're being boxed in by it 保持你被它装箱
and you're trying to fuel it and that 和你想加油吧和
there is what drains you that there's 有什么会让你流失
what causes all the mental torment that 是什么原因导致所有的精神折磨是
there's what just makes you feel like 有什么让你感觉像
shit 拉屎
okay this is also the reason you run out 好的，这也是你用完的原因
of things to say why because you're 事情要说，为什么因为你
trying to maintain a front and when you 试图保持前沿，当你
talk instead of it being genuine 而不是真的
expression what is it really it's you 表达它真的是你
looking at this front it's like I want 看着这个阵线就像我想要的那样
to be this person here I want to be this 在这里成为这个人我想成为这个
cool guy is this something this cool guy 酷家伙是这个很酷的家伙
would say is this something that is 会说这是这样的
congruent to this image I want to live 与我想要生活的这幅图像一致
up to to compensate for me not being 直到补偿我没有
complete yes no okay no what about this 完成是的没有好的没有这个
mmm yes okay no maybe oh maybe yes but 嗯，是的好吧，不，也许哦，也许是的，但是
because it's not even really you you 因为它甚至不是你
don't really know what will be congruent 真的不知道什么是一致的
so you just end up fucking 所以你刚刚结束了他妈的
you're like I don't even know and you 你就像我甚至不知道你
run out of things to say if you were 跑出来的东西 说，如果你是
trying to live up to anything you would 试图辜负你的意愿
just be able to talk and talk and talk 只是能够谈话，谈话和谈话
just because that's who you are 只是因为这是你是谁
anything you say is congruent to you 你所说的任何话都与你一致
because you're being you you're not 因为你是你，你不是
trying to live up to this front or live 试图辜负这前或活
up to this image 直到这张图片
so that'll stifle you it'll stifle you 所以这会扼杀你，它会扼杀你
even bringing out any trace of 甚至带出任何痕迹
uniqueness or any kind of soul can 独特性或任何一种灵魂都可以
imagine this in the beginning it's like 它就像一开始想象这
where's the soul you're boxed in because 你装箱的灵魂在哪里，因为
you don't know if the soul is good 你不知道灵魂是否好
enough your uniqueness in your mind is 你的想法足够你的独特性了
not good enough because you've assumed 不够好，因为你已经假设
that you're not good enough it's like 那你不够它就像好
hmm what parts of me could I bring out 嗯，我可以带出哪些部分
that live up to this image it's not 这辜负这一形象它不是
spontaneous it's not real there's zero 它不是真实的，而是零
value in that okay on top of that - 在这样行不行价值最重要的 是-
there's that lychee vibe where you're 那里有荔枝的氛围
trying to get the reactions like please 试图得到喜欢的反应
react well to the image please fuel the 反应良好的形象请加油
image that I'm cool for most guys that's 对于大多数人来说，我很酷
why they want the girl - it's like just 为什么他们想要的女孩-这就像刚
to fuel that image that's why they can't 为这种形象加油，这就是为什么他们不能这样做
have fun talking anyone it's like well 玩得开心，谈论任何人都很好
if the girls not beautiful by society 如果女孩不被社会美丽
standards um what there's nothing to 标准嗯什么没有什么
take I can't really fuel my cool guy 拿我不能真正加油我的酷家伙
image you know and you just feel stifled 你知道的形象，你只是感到窒息
stress it requires a lot of efforts - if 强调它需要很多努力- 如果
you're going out in your nights require 你需要在夜间外出
efforts your interactions require 努力您的互动需要
efforts it's just hell absolute hell and 努力它只是地狱绝对地狱和
this is the reason why you're trying to 这就是你试图去尝试的原因
maintain this image here and if you want 在这里维护这个图像，如果你想
to get a little deep here this is also 在这里稍微深入一点，这也是
what happens in life in general you know 一般而言， 你知道生活中会发生什么
somehow you know if you look up a lot of 不知何故， 你知道你是否看起来很多
safe spiritual teachings you'll you'll 安全的精神教义，你会的
read a lot about this where it's like 阅读了很多关于这个的地方
somehow we have assumed the word not 不知何故， 我们已经承认这个词不是
complete or we're not enough either okay 完成或我们不够好或者
we kind of get disconnected from you 我们有点和你断绝关系
know the all or oneness or whatever you 知道全部或一个或任何你
want to call it and we assumed this 想打电话给我们，我们假设这一点
scarce identity of you know I am this 你知道我是这个的稀缺身份
separate being I am this person I'm this 单独是我是这个人我是这个
individual I'm this ego okay and from 个人我是这个自我好，从
there because we're disconnected from 因为我们已经断开连接
all that we feel lack 我们感到缺乏的一切
and we try to go fulfill you know that 我们试图去实现你所知道的
void that's inside us we create this ego 作废这里面我们，我们创建这个自我
that we keep trying to fuel and this is 我们一直试图加油，这是
why most people's lives are just 为什么大多数人的生活是公正的
miserable they require a lot of effort 悲惨的是他们需要 付出 很大的努力
it's like maintaining this image at all 这就像维护这个图像一样
times you're very rarely at ease at 在你很少放松的时候
peace or relaxed and the solution is not 和平还是放松，解决办法不是
to get more of that external stuff it's 获得更多的它是 外部的东西
to re-examine this false negative 重新审视这个假阴性
assumption of you being disconnected of 假设你被断开
being incomplete okay and it's the same 不完整，这是一样的
with game 与游戏
it's you reexamining this first 这是你首先重新审视
assumption that starts everything here 假设，在这里开始一切
everything that happens running out of 发生的所有事情都将耗尽
things to say approach anxiety all comes 事情要说接近焦虑一切都
from you not assuming that you're 从你不假设你是
complete that you have value you coming 完成你有价值的你来
from scarcity and when you can kind of 从稀缺和当你可以种
get rid of that false assumptions 摆脱那种错误的假设
assumption things just flow things are 假设东西只是流动的东西
fun game should not really require 有趣的游戏应该不需要
effort you know the same with meditation 你的努力与冥想一样
linking it to you know it in life in 将它链接到你了解它在生活中
general spirituality it's like people 一般的灵性就像人一样
think oh to meditate it requires effort 想想哦，冥想它需要努力
it's like you know what requires effort 这就像你知道什么需要努力
is not meditating it's living up to this 并不是在冥想它正在实现这一点
ego once you can let go that meditation 自我一旦你可以放开那个冥想
should be your default it should be like 应该是你的默认应该是这样的
peaceful at ease it should require 它应该要求和平
effort otherwise you're in a way trying 努力， 否则你在一个方式尝试
to fuel another ego or another persona 为另一个自我或另一个角色提供燃料
or take on this other stick okay so some 或者采取这个其他的棍子好，所以一些
stuff to really reflect on here okay I 我真的想在这里反思一下
kind of just hit you on multiple angles 只是在多个角度打你
are you coming from scarcity or you 你来自稀缺还是你？
coming from abundance okay now if you 如果你现在来自丰盛现在好了
are coming from a scarcity how do you 来自稀缺性你怎么样
transition to abundance okay and this is 过渡到丰盈好吧，这是
something that I go an extreme depth in 我深入了解了一些东西
in a 10-game because again this is 在10场比赛中，因为这是
really the foundation it's like how to 真的是如何如何的基础
just get out of your own way but one 除了其中一个之外，你可以走出自己的路
thing that really helped me um is next 这真的帮了我的事嗯是下一个
time you're out so you're going out 你出门的时候，所以你要出去
tonight today whenever next time you're 今天晚上，每当你下一次
out ask yourself what can I do right now 出来问自己什么，我现在 就可以做
to get what I think she'll give me 得到我认为她会给我的东西
without needing her 不需要她
okay this is a little technique to kind 好的，这是一种善意的小技巧
of jumpstart you or like a stepping 跳开你或者像踩一样
stone if you will to kind of get to that 石头，如果你会来样 去那
state of abundance okay so what can I do 丰盈状态还好，那么我该怎么做
right now to get what I think the girl 现在得到我认为的女孩
will give me without needing the girl 会给我不需要女孩
okay because you think okay if I got the 好的，因为你觉得好，如果我得到了
girl I would feel XYZ how can you do 女孩我会觉得XYZ你怎么办
that to yourself without the girl how 那对自己没有女孩怎么样
can you get that outcome without her 没有她你能得到那个结果吗？
because once you have that outcome now 因为一旦你现在有了这个结果
you're in abundance and when you go talk 你有很多，当你去谈话时
to her now you're in abundance because 对她来说，现在你有很多，因为
you already have what you think she'll 你已经有了你认为她会的东西
give you or what you'll get from getting 给你或者你会从越来越得到
her okay that's what I do when I'm out I 她没关系，这就是我出门时所做的一切
mean what can I do okay and for most 意味着我可以做什么，并为最
people it's like feeling good just 人就像是感觉良好
feeling good in general you get the girl 一般你感觉很好， 你会得到这个女孩
you'll feel good so the question becomes 你会感觉很好， 所以问题就变成了
how can I feel good without the girl how 没有女孩，我怎么能感觉良好
can I make myself feel good and this is 我能让自己感觉良好吗？
learning how to gain yourself instead of 学习如何获得自己而不是
going out trying to game the girl trying 试图去尝试游戏那个女孩
to give reactions you're not doing it to 给你不做给反应
yourself and then you in a way you know 你自己，然后以你知道的方式
gain yourself into abundance now you're 获得自己成为丰现在你
in abundance because you feel good okay 纷纷因为你感觉良好好吗
so some things to think about is okay 所以有些事情要考虑 是好的
well how can I gain myself what does it 以及我怎样才能让自己得到什么
mean to gain myself how can I make 意味着获得自己， 我怎样才能使
myself feel good 我自己感觉很好
huge how can I make myself feel good 我怎么能让自己感觉良好
once you feel good the question then 一旦你感觉良好，那么问题
becomes how can I make myself feel even 变成我怎么能让自己感觉到甚至
better and what makes you feel even 更好，甚至让你感觉到什么
better than already feeling good is 比已经感觉好的更好
sharing those good feelings with the 分享与那些美好的感情
girl it's the giving of the good 女孩是给予善的
emotions 情绪
that's what amps it up that's what games 这是什么放大器， 这是什么游戏
should be it's like I feel awesome what 应该是这样，我觉得很棒什么
will make me feel even more awesome 会让我感觉更加棒
sharing this with the girl and then 与女孩分享，然后
ideally what'll make us feel even more 理想情况是什么会让我们感受更多
awesome having sex 真棒做爱
that's an interactions how can I more 这是一个互动我怎么能更多
fun how can we have more fun more fun 有趣的我们怎么能有更多的乐趣更多的乐趣
more fun more fun all the way to sex but 更有趣的是更多的乐趣一路上性，但
notice a big shift here is it's no 注意到一个重大的转变是不是
longer how can I take it's how can i 我怎么能这样呢？我怎么能这样呢？
generate this and how can I give not 生成这个，我怎么不给
taking giving offering value okay and 采取提供价值好的和
when you're coming from this giving 当你从这个捐赠来
frame as I mentioned before some things 正如我之前提到的一些事情
to be aware of in some actions you may 要了解您可能会采取的某些行动
want to cut off if you're doing this now 如果你现在正在做这件事，就要切断
is it 是吗
you're coming from giving if you're 如果你是来自捐赠者
coming from abundance do you care if 如果来自丰富，你会关心吗？
you're talking to a girl you find 你正在和 你找到的女孩说话
attractive or not the answer is no 有吸引力或不是答案是否定的
because there's nothing to take from her 因为没有什么可以从她那里拿走
you're not trying to take validation 你并没有试图进行验证
from a girl with good looks versus oh 从一个好看的女孩与哦
there's nothing to take from a girl with 没有什么可以从一个女孩带走
bad looks do you care if the girl is 你看起来不好看，如果这个女孩是
interesting or boring the answer is no 有趣或无聊的答案是否定的
because again there's nothing to take 因为再次没有什么可采取的
you don't need her to be interesting to 你不需要她很有趣
fuel to like give you good topics 燃料喜欢给你很好的话题
because you already got that outcome you 因为你已经得到了这个结果
already are in abundance okay so talk to 已经很充足了，所以说话
everyone if you're not used to doing 每个人，如果你不习惯做
this even if you don't feel like doing 即使你不喜欢这样做
it now condition yourself focus on the 它现在让你自己专注于
doing first before getting to the being 先做得到的幸福之前，
it's like okay tonight when I go out I'm 今天晚上我出门时就好像是
just going to have fun interacting with 只要有乐趣就可以互动
all girls interesting boring doesn't 所有女孩有趣的无聊不
matter hot not doesn't matter every 事情热点并不重要
single girl I'm just gonna have a blast 单身女孩我只是会有一个爆炸
sharing these good vibes that's game 分享这些好玩的游戏
okay you go out and you talk to everyone 没关系，你出去，你跟大家
you're not worried about what about to 你不担心什么即将
hug the hot ones because even that 拥抱热门的，因为即使这样
thinking about what what about the hot 想着什么是热的
ones 那些
what's the assumption you're not even 什么是你甚至不甚至的假设
going to get the hot one linking back to 去获得热门的链接
scarcity another question is how would 稀缺的另一个问题是如何将
you act if you knew at the end of the 如果你知道结束时你会采取行动
night you'd fuck a ten would you care 晚上你会他妈的十个你会在乎吗
would you rush things throughout the 你会在整个过程中匆匆一顿
night no would you view talking to 晚上你不会和你说话
different people as like wastes of time 不同的人就像时间的浪费
no you're only doing that when you're 不，你只是在你这样做的时候
trying to take and you have to fix this 试图采取，你必须解决这个问题
okay another advantage to if learning 没关系，如果学习的另一个好处
how to have just as much fun with every 如何 与每一个人 一样有趣
single girl is it gets rid of you know 单身女孩是否摆脱你知道
these labels this this judgment if you 这些标签如果你这个判断
will because what happens is you know 会因为发生了什么而你知道
this is more of like an 这更像是一个
intermediate-to-advanced sticking point 中到高级粘点
by the way where you know guys can if 顺便说一下，你知道人们可以在哪里
you only talk to girls you find 你只会跟你找到的女孩说话
attractive you can become pretty 有魅力， 你可以变得漂亮
consistent with not to put numbers but 符合不要把数字，但
just to give you a general idea girls 只是为了给你一个 女生 的一般想法
who are cute ish but you will not ever 谁是可爱的，但你永远不会
become consistent with girls you are 与你是女孩一致
just if you're absolutely attracted to 只要你绝对被吸引
okay why because you just care a little 好吧，为什么因为你只是在乎一点
too much they're they're too high up on 太多了， 他们太高了
that pedestal even if you go out a lot 即使你出去很多，也是这个基座
the key to get there is to kind of 到达那里的关键是有点
desensitize yourself and like not even 使自己脱敏， 甚至不想
view any girls being on a pedestal so 查看任何女孩在底座上如此
there are two ways one you only surround 有两种方法你只能围绕
yourself with tens to the point where 你自己有几十个点到哪里
you realize hey they're just human and 你意识到他们只是人类而已
you kind of let go of this judgment of 你有点放弃这个判断
you judging them as tens the other way 你把它们看成是另一种方式
is to just learn and have fun talking to 是只学习和娱乐 谈话
every single girl because when you learn 因为当你学习每一个女孩
to have fun like genuine fun talking to 享受真正有趣的交谈的乐趣
a girl you don't find attractive 一个你不觉得有吸引力的女孩
suddenly it'll take a while but suddenly 突然它会需要一段时间， 但突然
that judgment of not find you're 没有找到你的判断
attractive will be gone and if you get 吸引力将消失，如果你得到
rid of it on one side say with the 摆脱它在一边说与
unattractive girls it also disappear on 没有吸引力的女孩也会消失
the other side of the attractive girls 吸引女孩的另一边
and now you can go up to those 现在你可以去那些了
attractive girls and there won't be that 有吸引力的女孩 不会有那
same need or that same extra you know 相同的需求或相同的额外知识
validation opportunity placed upon them 验证机会置于他们身上
okay and I mean yeah for now just focus 好吧，我的意思是现在只是焦点
on this when you go out next time you go 在你下次出门的时候就这样
out how can you get the outcome you 你怎么能得到你的结果
think the girl will get you will give 认为女孩会得到你会给
you or you can take from the girl 你或你可以从女孩身上取下
without the girl and again it comes down 没有女孩，再次下降
to how can you make yourself feel good 如何让自己感觉良好
once you feel good how can you share 一旦你感觉良好，你将如何分享
that with the girl 那个女孩
how can you offer value and then from 你如何提供价值，然后从中获利
there the whole interaction should 那里的整个互动应该
progress is how can we have more fun how 进步是我们怎样才能获得更多乐趣
can we have more fun how can we both 我们能玩得更开心吗？
feel even better coming from giving not 从不给予更好的感觉
taking okay and the more you do this at 采取好的，你做的越多
some point you'll just kind of get used 有些时候你只是种习惯
to this vibe of just being in abundance 到这种充满活力的氛围
and you won't really even have to do 你甚至不需要做
anything you know there won't be any 你知道的任何东西都不会有
actions required to get that outcome 需要采取行动来实现这一结果
you'll just naturally feel good okay so 你自然会感觉很好
these are kind of the just again some 这些都只是一些
content to get you thinking about this 让你思考这个问题的内容
reflect on it are you coming from 反思一下你是从哪里来的
abundance or scarcity from there okay 丰富或稀缺从那里好吧
like just bringing awareness will help a 像只是提高认识将有助于
lot and just kind of like well shit I am 很多，只是有点像我很好
coming from scarcity kind of nuke those 从稀缺性来样的核弹那些
habits re-examine that assumption like 习惯重新审视这个假设
where does it come from is it founded on 它是从哪里来的？
anything concrete and then from there 任何具体的，然后从那里
make this transition to abundance okay 让这个过渡到丰盈好吧
and yeah I guess that's the first live 是的，我猜这是第一次现场演出
stream here I guess if you guys have any 在这里流我猜如果你们有任何
last questions on this I'll give another 最后的问题我会给另一个
five minutes for the Q&A 五分钟的问答
and then be sure to comment because 然后一定要评论，因为
tomorrow I'll answer the first question 明天我会回答第一个问题
that stands out and we'll start those 突出，我们将开始这些
daily q and A's till next Wednesday's 每日q和A's直到下周三
livestream same time same place first 首先同时播放同一个地方
time I see someone livestream first time 我第一次看到有人直播
I've done a livestream 我做了一个直播
cool ideally questions on topic 理想的话题冷静问题
UH one sec UH一秒
I read one I didn't see the beginning of 我读了一篇我没有看到开头的文章
the question but it said find it boring 这个问题，但它说，发现它无聊
so my guess is what if you find it 所以我的猜测是如果你找到它的话
boring well if you find it boring say 无聊的话，如果你发现它很无聊
talking to certain girls it's not the 与某些女孩谈话，这不是
girls fault 女孩的错
that's your fault why because again 那是你的错，为什么因为再次
you're assuming that you're too boring 你假设你太无聊
and you need someone else interesting to 你需要别人有趣的东西
compensate for it so it's also 弥补它，所以它也是
reinforcing the fact that you're not 加强了你不是的事实
complete the fact that you're not enough 完成你还不够的事实
okay 好的
anywhere where you need something 任何地方你需要什么东西
external to feel complete you're fucking 外在感觉完全你他妈的
up and it's based on a false / negative 这是基于假/负面的
assumption and the question here is not 假设和这里的问题不是
okay well how can I find a girl - two - 好吧，我怎么能找到一个女孩 -两个 -
that's so interesting that it 这很有趣，它
compensates for me being such a boring 补偿我这样一个无聊
piece of shit it's getting creative a 一块狗屎它变得有创意了
lot of games getting creative here okay 很多游戏在这里获得创意没关系
notice I said how can you make yourself 请注意我说你怎么可以 让自己
feel good that's up to you 感觉很好，这取决于你
that's unique to you as well what I what 这对你来说是独一无二的，也是我所了解的
makes me feel good it's not necessarily 让我感觉良好，这不一定
what'll make you feel good so that's we 什么会让你感觉很好，那就是我们
have to be creative if you're talking to 如果你正在交谈，必须具有创造性
a girl who you find boring then the 一个你觉得无聊的女孩
question should be oh shit you know red 问题应该是哦，你知道红色
little alarm bell here I'm depending on 这里的小警钟我依赖于
her because I'm finding her boring what 她因为我发现她无聊
can I do to give myself the outcome I 我可以做我自己的结果吗？
think a girl who is interesting would 想一个有趣的女孩会
give me and now you got to get creative 给我，现在你必须有创意
and find that there okay 并发现那里没关系
the same of the girl you don't find 你找不到的女孩也一样
attractive it's like a little arm Bell 它有吸引力，就像一只小手臂贝尔
I'm needing a girl who's attractive what 我需要一个有吸引力的女孩
can I do now to make myself fuel or get 我现在可以做些什么来使自己加油或得到
the outcome I think a girl who's 结果我认为是一个女孩
attracted would give me thus making 吸引会给我这样做
yourself feel good okay if you feel good 如果你感觉良好，自己感觉很好
and you feel the way you think a girl 你觉得你认为一个女孩的方式
would make you feel there's no longer 会让你感觉不再存在
that same need you're no longer in 你不再需要的相同需求
scarcity it's no longer coming from a 稀缺它不再来自a
place of lack okay it's all about the 缺乏的地方好吧，这是所有关于
place it's coming from here and this is 它来自这里， 这是
why I started with this topic is this is 为什么我开始这个话题是，这是
more important than the actions that you 比你所采取的行动更重要
take if your actions are coming from 采取这样的操作是从哪里来的
this place of lack this place of 这个地方缺乏这个地方
scarcity this place of need coming from 这个需求来自稀缺的地方
this false assumption of you not being 这个错误的假设你不是
complete you're not being enough no 完成你没有足够的没有
matter what you do you're fucked you got 无论你做什么你做爱时，你得到了
to fix the attitude before the action 在行动之前解决态度
attitude before action okay so get 行动之前的态度 好，所以得到
creative here that's my challenge to you 这里有创意，这是我对你的挑战
get Korea 得到韩国
when you're out how can you be in 当你外出时你怎么能进去
abundance how can you not need anything 丰盛你怎么不需要任何东西
how can you give yourself everything you 你 怎么可以给自己的一切你
need okay and a lot of what we've been 需要好的和我们一直以来的很多
talking about here is doing but ideally 在这里谈论的是理想的做法
it's just kind of realizing they are 这只是一种意识到他们
already there you're just telling 已经在那里，你只是在说
yourself you need more you know you're 你自己， 你需要更多你知道你是
already there and that will just kind of 已经在那里，那只是一种
come with time after after a while 随着时间的推移过了一段时间
you'll just realize like fuck I'm 你只会意识到 我 喜欢他妈的
already good I don't even need to do 已经很好，我甚至不需要这样做
anything to be interesting or to feel 任何有趣或感觉的东西
good I'm just feeling good all the time 好， 我一直都很好
and this is why you know learning game 这就是为什么你知道学习游戏
is just so powerful - it just changes 只是如此强大-它只是改变了
who you are in just such a deep level 你在这样一个深层次的人
and this will translate into every you 这将转化为你的每一个
know area of your fucking life 知道你他妈的生活的领域
and we'll just be fucking amazing okay 我们会很棒的
and I love this emphasis - just to kind 我喜欢这种强调- 只是为了善良
of harp on this of how can I make myself 竖琴在这我怎么能做我自己
feel good that is what games should be 感觉很好，那就是游戏应该是什么
it's not about going out and getting 这不是要出去走走
validation getting all these external 验证获取所有这些外部
things it's how can I feel good if 事情是这样的， 如果我能感觉良好
you're not going out if you're going out 如果你要外出，你不会外出
and you're not feeling good you have to 而你感觉不太好，你必须
fix this okay this is like the big 解决这个问题，这就像大
reason I even made this product it's 我甚至制造这个产品的原因
like you have to fix this because you 就像你必须解决这个问题，因为你
won't survive if you're watching this 如果你正在看这个，它将无法生存
I'm sorry in six months you will be gone 对不起，六个月你会离开
unless you find a way to feel good 除非你找到一种感觉良好的方式