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What does softcore porn do to us?
What does porn in general do to both men and women
and the way we relate to each other, all the way the all adults relate to each other?
suppose the undercurrent if
this is right
sex is something we're all interested in because of biological programming
but our attitudes towards sex have become warped and perverted
and have deviated from its true function as an expression of love and a means for procreation
because our aculturation the way we have designed and expressed it has become really really confused
I heard a quote from a priest, he said
pornography is no problem because it shows us too much it is a problem because it shows us too little
I don't think what the priest mean is he would like to see more gone a logical one more filthy shot
I think what he saying is that pornography reduces the spectacle of sex
to a kind of an extracted physical act
There's a lot of statistics here that we've got about pornography
The Journal of Adolescent Health talks about the effects of prolonged exposure to porn
including and exaggerate perception of sexual activity in society, really I think that a bit.
Diminish trust between intimate couple's. I get that sometimes
The abandonment of hope of sexual monogamy sometimes I wonder if it's possible
The belief that promiscuity is the natural state. I don't want to have that believe
Because I was obsessed with porn when I was a teenager
it was burned nostalgic mess stuff makes me sound I would have two
find magazines places and steal things from under beds
So living in this culture now where there just iceberg of filth flowting through every house on wifi
It's inconceivable. and what it must be like to be a young adolescent boy now with this kind of access to porn
it must be dizzying an exciting but corrupting in a way that we can't even think about
In fact Gill Manning the Sociology says
the upper limits of the impact of [this kind of access to] porn has yet to be fully realized because these people haven’t reached sexual maturity
I think my own relationshipwith pornography is kind of the hob
of my feelings of inner conflict and dault I know the pornography is wrong
I shouldn't be looking at it. a lot of people working in it, and they are doing so
because of rwong reasons: desperation, self-doult
I'm sure there is a lot of people watching pornography, going"Hey I love it."
but there is a general feeling there in your core you look at pornography
this isn't what's the best thing for me to do and this isn't the best use of my time now
I don't put that laptop lid down and think
'There, what a productive piece of time spent connecting with the world.'
I feel like if I had total dominion over myself I would never look at pornography again. One day at a time, I would kick it out of my life
And one of the reasons that I sense that pornogrphy isn't good for me as an individual
is because there is a kind of conclusions reached by Gary R Brooks
who’s observed the consumption of soft core pornography like Playboy.
He talks about the five main symptoms of looking at soft-core porn
but softcore porn really is everywhere, fifty Shades of Grey softcore porn
TV adverts, billboards are fulle of softcore porn
Here are some of the effects of this symbolism of this culture
Voyeurism: An obsession with looking at women rather than interacting with them.
I do that sometimes I think that woman looks beautiful
what I think is:"Oh, hope she gets on well with her dad I hope she
doesn't have diabetes. what she like his sister
soul is another person here in paris by just think well she looks nice
Objectification: An attitude in which women are objects, rated by size, shape, body parts.
guilty of that all of the time. because you know i've been acculturated and train to
this is something I work on like"no, come on, see everybody is equal human being."
but once that biological drive to procreate is connected with the culture of objectification
has a very hard equation to break
Validation: The need to validate masculinity through beautiful women.
they see something that I've suffered from terribly
Trophyism: The idea that beautiful women are collectables who show the world what a man is.
Oh, no, I've done that before
Fear of true intimacy: The inability to relate to women in an honest and intimate way, despite deep loneliness.
Oh God! Pornography while exalt men’s sexual needs or his needs for sensuality and intimacy
I think because I've been exposed to such a lot of pornography
from such a young age is clear that those phenomena I personally related to.
as I was reading this artical I can't swallow.
me, pornography is not something I like
it's something I haven't been able to make along-term commitment to not looking at
it affected my ability to relate to women to relate myself my sexuality, my own spirituality
So a film like Fifty Shades of Grey even this from a female perspective
Hey it's only a problem when we have women's porn, yeah? or men's porn is no problem?
No man's porn is problem as well.
Pornography is like trying to solve the problem of racism by inventing a word for black people to call white people that’s equally as bad as the n-word
What would the direction we should be going in
is how can we understand our sexuality how can we express it lovingly in harmony
with the principles that it's there to demonstrate procreation and sensual love between consenting adults
this cloud of pornographic information
and even soft cultural somg like Fifty Shades of Grey and dum adverts of lollipops and staff
is making it impossible for us to relate to our own sexuality out own psychology and our own spirituality
because this powerful prime resource whenever is pluged in is jarring anddistracting
I think what it is, is the circuit in the mine that's connected to sexuality moves very very quickly
the circuit in mind that is connected to love and compassion to little bit slower
so if you're constantly bombarded with great waves have filth
it's really difficult to remain connected to trues
So suppose that we can do, we go and see fifty Shades of Grey or look at pornography,
Dude, what you got to do.
But try to have an idea of what you want from loving relationship I'm what you want from sexuality
do have I a lovely weekend I'm gonna just shut this laptop now
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