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到现在为止 我已经持续了一年多的异地恋了 I've been in a long distance relationship for over a year now
异地恋是一场亘古不变的倒数 and the best way I can describe it is a constant countdown
见不到他时 我倒数着能再次见到他的日子 I'm either counting down the days until I can see him again
见到他时 我又倒数着我们剩下的独处时间 or I'm savoring how much time we have left together
在期待和不安间不断徘徊 It's a strange balance of anticipation and anxiety
说实话 有时太过沉浸其中会使我心烦意乱 and honestly it can kind of mess with my head if I focus on it too much
但我更喜欢关注我们俩美好的未来图景 but I always like to think of the bigger picture
保持耐心大概是异地恋中的头号法则吧 Being patient is probably the number one rule when you're in a LDR
最糟糕的感觉莫过于你不知道什么时候能再见到彼此 the worst feeling by far is not knowing when you're gonna see each other again
但是一旦你定下日期买好机票 这就到了开始倒数的时候了 but once you lock in a date and book a flight that's when the timer begins
无论发生什么事 他永远都在我的脑海里 No matter what's happening they're always in the back of your mind
尤其是遇到一些趣事时 and especially fits something amazing
你会特别希望能和他一起分享 because you just wish that they were there to experience it with you too
但使我勇敢向前的动力是 but what keeps me going is knowing that
明了所过去的每一天每一小时每一分 every day hour and minute that passes
都意味着你离他们越来越近 you are that much closer to seeing them
在异地恋中你会感到孤独 You're gonna have moments of loneliness when you're in LDR
当这一天很糟糕或者你觉得失落的时候 When we've had a terrible day or you're feeling down
没有拥抱甚至不能牵手 这是很难熬的 not being able to hug him or even hold his hand is tough
但是有其他方式让他们知道 你就在他身边 but there are other ways to show that you're there for them
可以是一条短信,语音,视频聊天, 甚至可以是一束花 whether it's a text, a voice memo, skype, or even flowers
你们会以全新的方式交流和保持亲密 You communicate and stay estimate in different and innovative ways
这表明你们的感情已经超出了物质 and it proves that your relationship is beyond something physical
已跃升为更深层次的精神伴侣 it's anything but shallow
当你身处异地恋的时候 when you're in LDR
它促使你在这段关系中变得独立 it forces you to be independent in your relationship
没有男友在身边让你不得不依靠自己 Not having a boyfriend live nearby gives you no option but to do things on your own
你有额外的时间去工作做自己喜欢的事 you have extra time to work on your job,your interest,your passions
你可以更好地和朋友家庭相处 you can spend quality time with their friends,family
巩固和他们的关系 and just develop strong relationships with them
你不会变成那种一谈恋爱 You will never be one of those people
家人朋友就找不到你的那种人 that just disappear when they get in a relationship
当你身处异地恋时你学着如何依靠自己 when you're in LDR you learn how to rely on yourself
你会开始对机场又爱又恨 you start to have a love and hate relationship with the airport
动身去见他依然能让心中我小鹿乱撞 And getting ready to see him still gives me butterflies
很不可思议吧 It's razy
当坐在飞机上时 你会等不及快点起飞 Once you're there you literally can't wait to take off the ground
见到你日思夜想的人也许是这上最幸福的事了 Seeing them on the other side is probably one of the best feeling in the world
很多想说的话终于可以向他倾诉了 It feels like you just saved all your talking then you're finally catching them all in
和他们在一起的每个时刻你都会倍感珍惜 you just appreciate every moment when you're with them
因为这是你长久以来耐心的等待所换来的 because it's something that you've been patiently waiting for
甚至像堵车和做早餐这种小事 even little things like getting stuck in traffic or making breakfast
都变得很是新鲜 they're all adventures now
我没想过我会谈一场异地恋 I didn't plan to be in a long distance relationship
但爱总是这样地不期而至 But love finds you in unexpected places