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现在 now
外国 foreign
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他和其他人一样出生正常， he was born normal as other people and
他正在和他的女朋友计划婚礼 he was planning a wedding with his
girlfriend
，当他每天工作时， by when he was working on his daily job
他受到了可怕的电击， he had a terrible electric shock that
差点夺走了他的 nearly took his life away
生命 为了切断他的 it resulted to the cutting of both his
arms
双臂，社会上的父母朋友兄弟姐妹和 the society parent friend sibling and
所有亲戚都 all relatives
抛弃了他，说他会在 abandoned him saying he would make it in
生活中成功，他们告诉他他没有希望 life they told him that he is hopeless
了，他最好的朋友之一把他 one of his best friends chased him away
赶出了家，说他 from the house saying he can't be able
不能 付 to pay
房租 他很沮丧 rent he was depressed
他希望他会自杀 he wished he would commit suicide
但只有他的妻子承认 but only his wife admitted to never give
无论如何都不会放弃他 him up no matter what
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尽管他有残疾，但他一直在做每一项活动 he has been doing every activity despite
the disability he has
他会洗衣服 挖厨师 游泳 he can wash clothes dig cook swim
骑马 洗碗 洗碗等 ride wash dishes and other different
他证明了错误的仇恨者的不同活动 activities he's proving wrong haters
他正在殴打欺负者会见fabrice he's beating the bullies meet fabrice
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首先，我的职业是焊工 first of all i'm a welder by profession
我做焊接 i do welding
我有一天和我的同事在现场值班 i was on duty one day on the field with
my workmates
有一些安装 我们正在 there are some installations we're
制作 making
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我触电摔倒了第二天我 i had electric shock and fell down i
发现自己 found myself
在医院里 in the hospital the next day with
麻痹和双臂酸痛 paralysis and soreness in both arms
我记得的最后一件事是让我的 the last thing i remember was asking my
同事给我一根管子 workmate to give me a tube
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同事是唯一一个 later on workmates are the only one who
向我解释一切是如何发生的 explained to me how everything happened
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他们告诉我， they told me i was caught by electricity
当我拿到一个管子时，我被电击中了 when i was handed a tube
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这是一个金属管，当拿着 it was a metallic tube by when holding
它时， it
它被高电流的明线压碎了 it crushed with open wires that had high
current
因此袭击了我，我从 hence striking me and i fell down from a
建筑物上摔下来然后昏倒了 building then fainted
，他们把我送到了医院 and they rushed me to the hospital
医生告诉我唯一 doctors told me that the only thing
可能的就是切断我的四肢 possible was to cut off my limbs
，那时我什至不能伸展我的手臂， by then i could not even stretch my arm
即使我的腿不能正常工作， even my leg was not functioning well
所以 他们决定进行 so they decided to carry out the
手术 operation
，我醒来后发现我的 and i woke up finding that i no longer
一些肢体已经没有了， have some of my limbs
但我祈祷我为今天的我感到自豪， but together with praying i'm proud of
who i am today
我祈祷并祈求上帝与我亲近， i prayed and asked god to be close to me
并在我做任何事情时帮助我 做 and help me in whatever i do
，上帝永远不会失望 nts 所以自从 and god never disappoints so ever since
上帝一直在我身边 god has been by my side
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现在我结婚了我有一个妻子 right now i'm married i have a wife who
在日常活动中帮助我 helps me in daily activities
并且上帝在我发生事故之前祝福我们生了一个男婴 and god blessed us with a baby boy
我们还没有 before i had an accident we were not yet
结婚她还在 我的未婚夫 married she was still my fiance
我们可以讨论和组织我们希望 we could talk and organize how we wanted
我们的婚礼看起来像 our wedding to look like
我们永远不知道会发生什么 we never knew what was going to happen
我妻子假装我们 and my wife to fabrice we have known
从小 each other since childhood
就认识 我们是邻居 我们曾经 we were neighbours we used to fetch
一起打水 一起爬树 water together climb trees together
一起玩耍 作为 and play together as neighbours who
与我们一起度过大部分童年时光的邻居， spent most of our childhood together
我们的爱情故事开始于我们在 our love story began when we were at
学校学习焊接时，我正在 school he was learning welding and i was
追求我的激情智能职业 pursuing my passion intelligent career
as well
早在 2016 年， back in 2016
他告诉我他爱我， he told me he loves me and without
hesitation
我也毫不犹豫地爱他， i also loved him
他做到了 我们 he did an accident when we were
准备婚礼那天 preparing for a wedding day
的一次意外，当他发生意外时，他告诉他的 by when he had an accident he told his
同事不要告诉我这件事，因为他 workmates no to tell me about it for he
认为我会很沮丧， thought i would be depressed
但我给他的一个人打电话，他告诉 but i called one of his guys and he told
我这有点 意外，所以我不得不 me it's a little accident so i had to
去医院 come to the hospital
，我打电话说情况比 and i phoned the situation worse than
他们说的更糟， they said
我必须照顾他并在他 i had to take care of him and be by his
身边，因为在那段时间他没有其他人 side because he had no one else during
， that time
我发现他躺下并给他 i found him laying down and gave him
牛奶 milk
医生打电话 我问 doctors called me and asked me the
我和他之间的关系 relationship between me and him
我说我是他的朋友 然后医生告诉 i said i'm his friend then doctors told
我 除非他们把病人的胳膊 me that the patient's arm
切掉，否则他们的胳膊无法痊愈 cannot get healed unless they cut them
off
我从那一刻起就哭了，因为 i cried right from that moment because
它让我的听力受到了很大的伤害 it hurt me so much
，我会 再也没有看到他的手臂 hearing that i'll never see his arms
， again
但丈夫之前知道，当我有这样的坏消息时，他 but the husband knew that before and he
没有告诉我任何关于他的手臂 did not tell me anything about his arms
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我也没有 when i had such bad news i also did not
让他知道你知道 let him know that you know the next day
他第二天手术 he was operated
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作为 as he had no one else to help him at the
除了我和他的另一个朋友 hospital except me and his other friend
，他在医院没有其他人可以帮助 who would remain there like when i would
go home and prepare food
and hot water for the patient then come
back and stay with him
他 after he came out of hospital he went
回到他住的地方和人们 没有像 back where he lived and people did not
treat him
他们给他的那样尊重他 他们 with the same respect they gave him they
开始把他当作一个 started treating him like someone who is
在社会上毫无价值和无助的人 worthless and helpless in the society
他来找我我们 after two months he approached me and we
谈过 talked about it
他告诉我一切和生活 he told me everything and life is
在事故发生后 experiencing after the accident
每个人都转身 他反对他 everyone had turned his back against him
作为爱他的人 as someone who loved him
我决定和他住在一起 i decided to live with him
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]很多人讨厌并向他 a lot of people hated and showed him
表明他们讨厌他 that they hate him
这让他生气和沮丧 it made him angry and depressed to the
以至于他来找我说 extent that he came to me and said
他是否也讨厌 我我会自杀 if he also hate me i will commit suicide
他的仇恨我告诉他我永远不会 his hate i told him that i will never
恨他 hate him
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但他无法相信 but he could not believe that people
人们告诉他我会恨他 were telling him that i will hate him
但我不能这样 but i could not do such
做到那时所有人包括朋友 so by then everyone including friends
亲戚 relative
父母都被抛弃了 他，但 parents all abandoned him but still
我仍然在他 i was there for him
身边 没有什么可以阻止我 there is nothing that would stop me from
爱他 我们所穿的这具身体 loving him this body we are wearing
今天或明天都不是我们的 它可以被 is not ours today or tomorrow it can be
带走 taken away
我的生命没有任何代价 这 there is no price to my life all this
一切都是 当我说 all that's when i said
信件将完成并且我们将分享 letters will be done and we will share
一切时 everything
，去年我们有幸生了一个 and last year we were blessed with a
新生婴儿，他会擦掉 newborn baby he will wipe
我们所有的眼泪， all our tears
因为我们分享了 due to the fact that we shared
一切并一起长大，我们 everything and grew up together we had
有很多共同点， so much things in common
而她是 我唯一爱上的女孩 and she's the only girl i fell in love
告诉她我会自杀 with so telling her that i would commit
suicide
是因为她是唯一认识 was because she's the only one who knew
我的人而且她是唯一一个没有让 me and she's the only one who did not
turn
她背弃我的人 her back against me
我无法想象 i would not imagine life after the
没有她 accident without her
遇到某人的事故发生后的生活和 相信他们 meeting someone and trusting them was
是我无法想象的事情 something i could not try to imagine
我真的不想失去她 我 i really did not want to lose her i
以为我永远不会遇到一个 thought i would never meet someone who
像她去世的方式那样理解我的 understands me the way she died
人 许多人这样说 他们真的 many people who said such they really
不知道我们的背景 did not know our background
他们不知道我们是怎么死的 遇见了他们从来不知道他们之间 they did not know how we met they never
的纽带 knew the bond were having
他们只是可以说出他们毫无意义的 they just could give out their pointless
想法 ideas
我非常爱她她一直是一个 i love her so much she has been an
了不起的 incredible person
人此外当我需要她时她一直在我身边 in addition she has been by my side when
i needed her
她不仅仅是啊 ouswife 做 she's not just a housewife who cooks
电子邮件和洗你的衣服 她是一个 emails and washes your clothes she's a
家庭主妇 她把家人团结在一起 homemaker who holds together the family
并确保 and makes sure that everything
一切都像你回家后一样特别 is as special as it can be once you get
home
虽然他没有胳膊 他帮助我 though he has no arms he helps me in
在家里的日常活动 无论是 their day activities at home whether
washing dishes
洗碗 当我在做其他事情时，孩子 lifting the baby when i'm doing other
在某种程度上非常有帮助， things is so helpful in one way or the
other
大多数时候我照顾孩子 most of the time i take care of the baby
，她 and she handles the rest
处理我童年时期 from my childhood i liked working just
的其余事情 can't sit here and do nothing
做其他活动时，我会 when she's doing other activities i come
过来抱起婴儿， and lift the baby
例如在婴儿哭闹时 like when the baby is crying i help her
，我会尽可能地帮助她进行一些听不见的活动， as i can in few activities that are not
heard
只要头部功能良好， as long as the head functions very well
我会考虑做不同的事情，例如 i think of doing different things like
当有脏布时 when there is a dirty cloth
我 可以洗它，不管它是在除草 i can wash it whether it's doing weeding
和挖掘，我这样做是因为我习惯 and digging i do because i'm used to
工作我不懒惰 work i'm not lazy
，只要我还在呼吸我会继续 as long as i'm still breathing i'll keep
工作，感谢上帝我 working and also thank god that i'm
还在呼吸， still breathing
但很多人面临 我遇到的这种情况 but many people faced such case i faced
，男人 年纪 and managed to live
大了，他们中的大多数人都死了，但对我来说，我还活着 most of them died but for me i'm alive
，现在他们一起过着幸福的失败 and right now they live a happy failed
生活， life together
正如人们所说，找到妻子的男人 as it said the man who finds a wife
找到了宝藏 finds a treasure
，他从上帝那里得到了恩惠 and he receives a favor from the lord
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的过程 压力 困难和 the process of stress hardship and
心碎是准备 heartbreak are preparatory
压力是你 stress is the training you need to grow
成长到下一个阶段所需的训练 你的生活 up to the next level your life
即将要求你 is about to demand of you
life is consistently demanding your
growth
change is the most powerful way to get
you examining
and growing without stress your life
几乎毫无意义 would be nearly meaningless
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压力让你动起来，让你的 stress makes you move and it makes your
生活 life worth living
变得有价值 来自压力的痛苦感觉让 it's the painful feeling to come from
你意识到自己 stress which awakens you
是多么的有活力，以及你能感受到 to how alive you are and to how deeply
you can feel
的深度 这是度过 it's the journey of getting through
这些艰难时期的旅程 these hard times you become bolder and
在满足您的需求时变得更勇敢， braver in getting your needs
谢谢您的观看，我是 elijah meet thank you for watching i'm elijah
，这是 afromax english and this is afromax english