Mommy is...stretchable.
妈妈比较 有拉伸性
What do you mean by stretchable?
有拉伸性是什么意思
Daddy's hard. You can't move him.
爸爸很硬 你没法改变他
He gets mad, and that's it.
他会生气 然后就没有然后了
Mommy gets mad too,
妈妈也会生气
but she's more like putty.
但她更像面团
And she gets sad too.
而且她还会难过
That's when it's the most stretch.
这就是拉得最开的时候
Putty, um... I wonder how is it that you stretch her?
面团 呃 我想知道你怎么拉开她
You just--
你就...
Can I... Can I talk now? Please?
我能 我现在能说话吗 拜托了
- Is it okay if Mommy talks? - Yep.
-妈妈说话没问题吗 -嗯
Okay.
好的
I'm not stretchable. I'm not putty.
我不容易拉伸 我不是面团
Well, that's her experience of you.
这是她对你的感觉
That isn't true.
那不是真的
I try very hard to be in control of her and everything,
我非常努力地保持对她和一切事物的掌控
but, um, may as well not even be there at all.
但是 或许还不如不在
Well, perception is reality, so--
个人的感知就是现实 所以...
Also, I don't get sad.
还有 我并不会难过
You seem sad right now.
你现在看起来就很难过
You do seem sad right now.
你现在看起来确实很难过
We're here to talk about how to get you better.
我们是来谈怎么让你变好的
All we do is talk about me.
但是我们一直在说我
I can be sad. I mean, I'm allowed to be sad, right?
我可以难过 我的意思是 我有权难过 对吧
Well, of course.
那当然了
But, um, you must know that this is all tangled up together
但是 你肯定知道这些都是息息相关的
and you of all people should know--
而且你比其他人更清楚...
I know. I know, but, um...
我知道 我知道 但是
this... this isn't how things...
这 这样事情
...are gonna get better. Um...
不会有所好转
Mommy, please don't cry...
妈妈 拜托别哭
No, no. I--
不 不 我
- ...because then I'll cry. - Sweetie.
-你这样我也想哭 -小甜心
- She... - Sweetie, it's okay. It's okay.
-她 -小甜心 没事的 没事的
We want the tube removed. Now.
我们希望拔管 现在就做
- No, you can't kill me! - And to do that, we need...
-不 你不能杀了我 -要这样做的话 我们得
No, she won't do what she has to do
不 她不愿意做该做的
because she knows that she has this safety net.
就是因为她知道自己有退路
Things are not stable enough right now to--
现在情况还不够稳定...
It's clear that we have different goals.
很明显我们的目标不同
You want her to get better before the tube can be removed.
你希望她好转后再拔管
I think the tube needs to come out,
我认为必须把管子取出来
and then she can get better.
她才会好转
We all have the same goal here.
我们的目标是一致的
But what I'm learning as we're talking all together
但根据我们谈话的内容 我意识到
is that you and I need to spend some time, just the two of us,
你和我需要花点时间 就我们两个
without her here...
不在她面前
...to talk about some serious issues.
讨论些重要问题
I'm gonna need you to
我需要你
restart the tube feedings at night
重新开始夜间的插管喂食
and I need you to start doing...
还有我需要你开始
Did you get the kind with no cheese?
你买的是没有芝士的那种吗
I can't explain this to you every time, sweetie.
我不能每次都跟你解释 小甜心
They would just laugh at me and say it's bread, okay?
他们会笑着说那样就只是面包了 好吗
I'll take the cheese off when we get home, of course.
当然 我会在回家后把芝士去掉的
Is it the kind with the little
是那种有小小的
green and black things in the sauce?
绿色和黑色东西的酱吗
It's the same kind we always get.
是我们一直买的那种
That kind has the things in the sauce.
那种的酱里有那些东西
I can't... I can't eat it.
我不能 不能吃那个
Like, can you scrape it off--
所以 你能不能刮掉...
Do you even want the tube out or is it just me who wants it out?
你到底想不想去掉管子 还是只有我想
You have to be...
你必须
Jesus.
天
Oh, poo.
哦 真惨
Oh...
噢
You got your wish. No cheese.
你的愿望满足了 没有芝士
- Did you will that to happen? - Yeah.
-你是不是在心里默念这事发生 - 对
Are you some kind of witch or something?
你是不是巫师之类的
Hey, straight to the table. Actually, no.
嘿 直接去桌子那边 等等 不
Wash hands first, and then straight to the table.
先洗手 然后直接去桌子那边
I don't have to go to the bathroom though.
我还不想上厕所
No one's making you go to the bathroom.
没人要你上厕所
I'm just asking you to wash your hands, please,
我只是让你先洗手 好吗
like we always do.
和往常一样
Is Daddy coming? Where's Daddy?
爸爸会来吗 爸爸在哪
Uh, he said maybe bedtime.
呃 他说可能睡觉的时候
When does he go again?
他什么时候再出发
He just got back, so... in a month?
他刚回来 所以 一个月后
Mommy?
妈妈
Yeah.
怎么了
I did have to go to the bathroom.
我确实要上厕所
Okay.
行
This might take a while.
可能要一会儿
Okay.
行
Mommy?
妈妈
Yeah?
怎么了
The bathroom has water in it.
厕所里有水
Okay, well, that's good.
行 那挺好的
No, I mean on the floor.
不 我是说地上
Come quickly!
快来
Are you coming?
你来了吗
Mommy!
妈妈
Oh, my God. What?
哦我的天 什么情况
Why didn't you tell me as soon as you came in here?
为什么你不一进来就告诉我
I just noticed...
我刚注意到
because I had to go to the bathroom so bad.
因为我之前好急
I don't like how it feels on my socks.
我不喜欢袜子打湿的感觉
Where's it coming from? How deep is it?
这是哪里来的 有多深
Are we gonna die?
我们会死吗
Is the house gonna fall on top of us?
房子会垮下来压倒我们吗
Mommy?
妈妈
Can you lift me up and carry me out?
你能把我抱出去吗
Yep, just stay there, okay? Hold on.
好 在那别动 好吗 等一会
Mom, why are you leaving me? Where are you going?
妈 为什么扔下我 你要去哪
Just please stay on the toilet, okay?
乖乖呆在马桶上 好吗
No.
不
Can you please come...
求你过来
Can you come now?
你能现在过来吗
Oh, my...
哦 我的
Oh...
哦
...my fucking God.
我的老天
Mommy!
妈妈
Mommy, you're not telling me what it is!
妈妈 你不告诉我发生了什么
Mommy!
妈妈
- What's going on? - What?
-发生了什么 -什么
What's happening, Mom?
怎么回事 妈
Are we gonna die?
我们会死吗
- Hey. - Hey, yeah.
-嘿 -嘿 对
We just got home, and you would not believe--
我们刚到家 你不会相信
Oh, my God! Oh, my God!
哦我的天 哦我的天
No, no, no! Do not come here.
不 不 不 别过来
Do not come in here!
不要进来
Right now, go, go, go! Right now! Right now!
马上 走走 马上 马上
Go, go, go, go!
走 走
Go! Oh, my God!
走 哦我的天哪
Nothing is familiar or real.
没有什么是熟悉或真实的
Ever.
从来没有
Every time I feel this way I get
每次这样感觉 我就变得
further and further away from being in myself, and, like, I can never get back.
离自己越来越远 好像 永远回不去一样
When you think about time,
关于时间
how do you see it?
你是怎么看待的
How do I see time?
我怎么看待时间
Time is a series of things to get through.
时间是一系列需要经历的事情
Each goal is a cliff.
每个目标都是一座悬崖
There's nothing at the end of it,
尽头什么也没有
but then it comes, and there's just another cliff.
它到来 然后只是又一座悬崖
I'm so mad at you!
我好气你
如果有腿 我会踢你
Oh, shit.
哦 糟了
Yo, you know about holotropic breathing?
哟 你知道全息呼吸法吗
Mm-mm.
呃不
Yo, this shit is lit.
哟 这是正儿八经的
Basically, you trick your brain into thinking it's dead,
基本上就是 你欺骗大脑让它相信它死了
and you see the fucking universe.
然后你就能看见整个他妈的宇宙
You know what I'm saying?
你懂我意思吗
So you won't feel paranoia and guilt if something's wrong.
这样坏事发生时你就不会感到疑神疑鬼或内疚
I've got a friend who does Reiki and shit like that.
我有个朋友有做灵气疗法还是什么
Nah, see what I'm saying? This is like hyperventilating.
不 明白我在说什么吗 这类似过度呼吸
When you die, they say you let off this chemical.
他们说死的时候你会释放这种化学物质
And when you're dreaming, you let off the same chemical.
做梦的时候 你会释放同样的物质
It's sort of like that, you know?
有点像那个 懂吗
You make your brain think it's dead,
你让大脑认为它死了
but being brain-dead is still alive.
但脑死亡依然是活着的
- Holographic breathwork? - Holotropic.
-全息图呼吸？ -全息
Tropic. Holotropic.
没有图 全息
- Is that real? - What?
-那是真的吗 -什么
- The... the dead brain thing? - Oh, yeah.
-那个 死的大脑什么的 -哦 对
I mean, shit. I guess anything could be real.
我是说 该死 我猜什么都可能是真的
I mean, anything could be bullshit too.
我是说 什么也都可能是屁话
You know what I'm saying?
你懂我什么意思吗
But you know that feeling like when you're not...
但你知道那种感觉吧 在你不
Yeah.
什么
Oh, you're making fun of me.
哦 你在和我开玩笑
- Miss, I don't even know you. - Okay.
-小姐 我都不认识你 -行吧
Um, yes on these, but no on the wine.
这些可以 酒不行
Why?
为什么
2点后不提供酒
The law prohibits me from selling you this wine right now.
法律规定我现在不能卖你酒
But it isn't even 2:00.
但是还没到2点
It's 1:58.
1点58了
Right, but--
对 但是
By the time I ring these up, it will be past two.
等我把这些结账完 就过2点了
Huh. Um...
呵
I'll just get the peanut butter cups.
那我只要花生酱纸杯蛋糕
You can put them on my room.
记在我房间的账上
Will do.
好的
I can't talk about this anymore.
我没法再说这些了
I'm telling you. Please.
我告诉你 拜托
Hey, hey. Look, if that's what Dr. Spring thinks is best,
嘿 嘿 听着 如果斯普林医生觉得这样最好
then we have to listen to Dr. Spring.
那我们得听斯普林医生的
There is no "we" though.
哪里有“我们”
It's just me. I... I'm...
只有我 我在
- It's not fair. I'm telling you. - Whoa!
-这不公平 我想和你说 -喔
Fair? Listen, I'm working, all right?
公平？听着 我在工作 好吗
I'm dealing with a lot of assholes. You have no idea.
我要面对一大群混蛋 你根本想象不到
And I cannot do anything about
而且我没法在这里
what's going on there from here.
处理那边发生的事
We need to be a team. You have to go there today
我们是一个团队 你今天得去那边
and check in and let them know
去监工 让他们知道
- that this whole thing is not-- - I know. I know.
-这整件事不... -我知道 我知道
The problem with that logic, though,
那个逻辑的问题在于
is that I'm not a housewife.
我不是家庭主妇
- I work too. - Whoa, whoa, whoa.
-我也工作 -喔 喔 喔
Mommy, this hotel food is gross.
妈妈 旅馆的食物好恶心
- Good morning. - This is disgusting.
-早上好 -让人作呕
Wow.
哇
You guys look just like twins. Anybody ever tell you that?
你俩就像双胞胎一样 有人这么说过吗
Uh, no. You're the first person
呃 没有 你是第一个
to notice and/or say that.
注意到和或并这么说的
Everyone says that.
每个人都这么说
- Hey, cutie. Wanna see a trick? - Yeah.
-嘿小可爱 想看个把戏吗 -想
Whoa. How'd you do that?
喔 你怎么做到的
Mommy?
妈妈
You should take it. She's never gonna eat it.
你应该拿走 她永远不会吃的
Okay.
好吧
Am I gonna throw up now?
我会不会现在吐出来
- Yeah? - You hung up on me.
-喂 -你挂我电话
Look, I know you have a lot on your plate,
听着 我知道你很忙
but she's getting better,
但是她在好转
and the rest of it is totally temporary.
其他的都是暂时的
The ceiling will get fixed, I promise.
天花板会解决好的 我保证
The sky is not falling. None of this is your fault.
天没有塌 这些不是你的错
- I love you. - I'm sorry. I love you too.
-我爱你 -对不起 我也爱你
What's so bad about a hotel anyway?
再说旅馆有什么不好的
And while you're there, take advantage of the pool.
你住的时候 正好可以去泳池
They got a pool, right?
他们有泳池 对吧
You always said you wish you had a pool,
你总是说家里有个泳池就好了
so now you have one.
现在有了
Why don't you go? You can do some laps, lounge a little.
为什么不去呢 可以游几圈 晒晒太阳
Get a floatie. Kick back, get a couple of margarita...
找个充气浮床 躺会儿 喝几杯玛格丽特
Okay.
好
Did you know that you can train hamsters to love you?
你知道可以训练仓鼠爱上你吗
No.
不
You can train them to love you.
你可以训练它们爱你
Well, I would love if you would finish your bacon.
如果你吃完培根我会爱你
That way I can tell everybody you got 100% on breakfast.
这样我就能告诉所有人你早餐定额全完成了
And once they love you, you can get them to do everything
一旦它们爱上你 你就能让它们做任何事
including tricks.
包括耍把戏
Let's start with one bite.
一口一口来
♪ Ring, ding Ring-a-ring-a-ling-dang ♪
♪叮 当 叮叮叮当♪
♪ Ring-a-ling-a-ding-dang-do ♪
♪叮叮叮当咚♪
♪ Ring, ling Ring-a-ling-a-ding-dang... ♪
♪叮 当 叮叮叮当♪
♪ Keeps him from lovin' you ♪
♪让他不要爱上你♪
Is the parking guy gonna get mad again?
停车场的家伙会不会又生气
Double-park! Double-park! Double-park!
并排停车 并排停车 并排停车
Okay.
好吧
Gotta be fast. You know what happened last time.
得快点 你知道上次发生了什么
You've missed the last few weeks of family sessions.
过去几周的家庭咨询你都没参加
Yeah.
对
I told you what happened.
我告诉过你发生了什么
Our entire ceiling fell down, and with all that chaos,
我们的天花板整个掉下来了 简直一团糟
and we're living out of the hotel--
我们又住在旅馆
So we need to schedule something as soon as possible
所以我们得尽快确定一个日程
to talk about her goals and the treatment process.
谈谈她的治疗目标和方式
Yeah. Yeah, okay. Yeah.
行 行 好的 行
Duh.
得了
Yeah.
行
Oh, you meant now? Okay. All right.
哦 你是说现在 好 没问题
Well, uh, let me look at my schedule.
呃 让我看看我的日程安排
I should probably do that...
我应该在...
I know that you already know this,
我知道你知道这点
but you can't start letting feelings of guilt and control
但你不能让病情和治疗
about this illness and treatment affect you.
造成的内疚和控制感影响到你
It's no one's fault.
这不是谁的错
That's right. That's what I keep hearing.
没错 大家一直在这么说
Also, I really need you to start taking care of yourself.
还有 你真的得开始照顾好自己了
Right. Yes.
对 是
No. Put my oxygen mask on first.
不 先顾好自己
I'm just gonna have to get blunt here.
我就直白点说吧
So she needs to reach her weight goal in the next week.
她必须在下周达到体重目标
If she does that, then we can put tube removal
如果完成了 我们就能把拔管
and discharge dates on the books
和出院提上日程
but if she doesn't do that,
但如果她没有完成
I'm gonna have to reassess the level of care
我就得重新评估护理等级
because obviously something is not working here,
因为显然治疗没有奏效
and this is what I need to talk to you about.
这就是我必须和你聊的
When can we sit down properly?
我们什么时候能坐下来正式谈
Yeah, fine. Uh, September 7th.
好 可以 9月7日
It's September 15th.
今天是9月15日
September 20. I mean, September...
9月20 我是说 9月
September 20.
9月20
Hey!
嘿
Hey! I told you not to do that, and the next time
嘿 我和你说过不要这么做 如果有下次
I will report you to the building.
我会向大楼管理投诉你
You have no authority to report me.
你没有权利投诉我
You won't be allowed in the lot. I'll have you towed!
你会被禁止进入停车场 我会把你车拖走
Oh, sure! Call them!
哦 当然了 打给他们吧
I'm not in there long enough
我进去的时间
for them to even come!
都不够他们赶来的
Whatever!
随便吧
Asshole.
混蛋
The apartment is a 30-minute walk,
公寓就步行30分钟路程
but it might as well be on Mars.
搞得像在火星上一样
And I just, I can't...
我只是 我不
Every time I go check, it looks worse,
每次我去检查 看起来都更糟了
and I... I have no control.
我 我控制不了
Have you tried discussing a compromise
你有没有和房东
with your landlord?
谈过折中方案
Perhaps they could section off the room with the hole,
也许他们能把有洞的房间隔离开
then you could live freely in the rest of the apartment.
然后你能在公寓其他部分自由活动
Live freely with asbestos
自由活动 在石棉
and 100-year-old dust and black mold spores?
还有一百多年的尘土和黑霉菌里吗
That's your advice?
这就是你的建议
It's not advice. It's a question to consider.
这不是建议 是一个值得考虑的问题
I should really show you this hole.
我真应该给你看看那个洞
It's an entire nightmare on my ceiling.
是我天花板上的一整个噩梦
When does Charles return?
查尔斯什么时候回来
This is week three of eight.
现在第三周 一共八周
I mean, you should know that. Don't you write things down?
我是说 你应该知道的 你不记下来吗
It's your job to remember
你的工作要求你记住
the boring details of my fucking life.
我操蛋生活的枯燥细节
We do have to stop now. We are out of time.
我们得停下了 时间到了
I have another patient coming, so...
我还有另一个病人要来 所以
Wait, now?
等等 现在？
What about the ten-minute warning?
提前十分钟提醒呢
Yeah, I just wasn't paying attention.
对 我没注意
You didn't respond to the email that I sent you about my dream.
我发你的关于我梦的邮件你也没反馈
I don't respond to my client's dream emails.
我不会回复咨询对象的梦境邮件
Okay. So, if you don't bring it up,
行 那 如果你不谈及
then what is the point?
那还有什么意义
Okay. Uh, you got me.
好 呃 你问倒我了
I had a dream, and I need to talk about it today,
我做了个梦 今天我必须说说
and I didn't get any time
但我没来得及
because you didn't give me a warning.
因为你没有给我提醒
We can discuss the dream you emailed next session.
我们可以在下一次咨询中讨论你邮件写的梦
Well, it's actually a different dream.
实际上这是另一个梦
- Well, I don't really-- - About you.
-我真的不... -关于你的
- Okay, quickly. - Okay.
-好 快一点 -好的
I was in a hospital day room
我在医院的休息室
or a recreation room or something,
或者活动室还是什么
and I knew my daughter was also in the hospital
我知道我的女儿也在医院
but... but far away, another part,
但 但是很�