hello and welcome back to the lab 你好 欢迎来到实验室
where we take your questions and turn them into experiments 在这儿 我们接受你的提问并将他们转化为实验
my name is Mitch 我是Mitch
and I'm Greg 我是Greg
and what if i told you that there was a list of questions that could make you fall in love with a stranger 有一组问题能让你爱上一个陌生人 你信吗
well it turns out there who is actually a study done where they took a specific set of 36 questions 其实还有个这样的研究 他们找了一组特定的36个问题
had to complete strangers ask them to each other 让完全陌生的两个人 互相提问
and increase the likelihood that they would fall in love 增加了他们相爱的可能性
显然一次实验证明不了什么 and obviously in general just doing one experiment doesn't prove anything
但我们觉得找俩陌生人过来 强迫他们做这个实验 but we thought it would be awesome to get to strangers in here
forced them to do this experiment and see what happens 看看会发生什么 这很有趣
接下里就是见证奇迹的时刻了 so this is what happened
my name is cam and I'm 24 我是cam 今年24岁
my name is Emily and I'm 22 years old 我叫 Emily 今年22岁
I'm nervous about today to be perfectly honest 老实讲 今天我很紧张
i really want to see if the study works 我真的想知道这个研究能不能真的起作用
I think it will be you know what if we hate each other 我觉得 万一 我们很不喜欢对方
and we don't like what we're saying 或者 我们不喜欢谈论的话题呢
I i think it would be cool to see if it's effective 我 我倒是觉得看看是不是真的有用也不赖
hey how's it going 你好 最近怎么样
great how are you 挺好的 你呢
也挺好的 你叫Emily 对吗 good Emily right
yeah it's me 是的
cool 好
very nice to meet you too 见到你很高兴
are you nervous at all for this 你有没有一点紧张
yeah 有点
me too 我也是
we can just get started 我们开始吧
so the first question 第一个问题
given the choice of anyone in the world whom would you want as a dinner guest 如果你可以和这世界上的任何一个人一起吃顿饭 你希望是谁
um instinctually i want to say Clint Eastwood 第一直觉 我会选Clint Eastwood （美国演员 Taylor Swift野梦MV男主的父亲 ）
you guys i would say only like Neil Armstrong or something like that 不错 我会选Neil Armstrong 或者其他类似的人 （美国宇航员登月第一人）
think i would like to be famous 我还挺想出名的
I guess not I'm a list celebrity or anything like that 不是那种一线的
maybe a d-list one for some people know who you are 十八线的 或者有人认得出就行
you know you'd be that guy 你懂得 就像你这样的人
thanks some to myself on the car ride over here 我开车过来的路上就在唱歌
我在听 Taylor Swift的歌 I was listening to Taylor Swift
nice what song 不错 哪首歌
the whole album 整张专辑
oh nice 真好啊
back like fearless not even her new stuff so 都不是她的新专 是比较早的Fearless那张
keeping the question is pretty buddy as you can see 他们给的问题还真是比较“轻松”啊
I used to think i was going to I really young like in high school 我曾经觉得自己会早逝 高中什么的
when I was angsty was like I'm going to be that i'm going to be that's going to happen 当我很痛苦的时候 我就觉得自己会......
but then i hit 18 I was like 但当我成年了 我的想法变了
forget that Emily you're going tolive to a hundred you're making the Century Club 忘掉不愉快吧 Emily 你肯定会加入百岁老人俱乐部的
I've always wanted to be a good artist 我一直想成为一名优秀艺术家
I think he may be a bit more I'm assertive 我想变得强势一些
like maybe not too much so though 就像 强势一些就可以了 也不用太过
I don't want to push people and in doing anything we don't want to do 我不想逼人家 让他们做他们不愿意做的事
my most terrible memory was the morning my sister called me 我最糟的回忆是 有天早上 我姐（妹）给我打了个电话
to tell me my mom had a heart attack 告诉我 妈妈心脏病发作了
yeah she's okay 嗯 她现在没事了
okay that's good but she's ok but I could imagine that is terrifying 好 没事就好 我都不能想象那该有多可怕
yeah that is a bad memory 是的 太糟糕了
-she's doing she's like everyone else -yeah she's doing well -她 她现在怎样 像其他人一样吗 -嗯 她很好
-Good -yeah she's doing well -挺好的 -她现在还挺健康的
yes i would say mine I would be when my grandma's mind just kind of started deteriorating 我最可怕的回忆可能要数我祖母开始记忆衰退的时候
because you lived with us for my whole life 因为 她一直和我们住在一起
you know to see her forget who i am and you know 你知道 看着她忘记我是谁
call me a different name and she would wake up some days and you know 叫错我的名字 有的时候
and she's a nine year old woman and wonder why she didn't have school 她会回到九岁那年 然后问为什么她今天不用上学
that whole part is pretty terrible i would say 那整段记忆都挺糟糕的
so yeah really hard 所以 嗯
really hard 非常痛苦
I know people need affection and I do too 人人都需要感情 我也不例外
but I have to like more think about sometimes my actions 但我有的时候 会多想想自己的行为
people need validation sometimes 有时 人们需要确认感情
and they need to hear that or see by touch stuff like that 他们需要听见你说出来 或者通过触碰 以及类似行为
romantic love hasn't hasn't been a big role in my life for the past a little over a year now 在过去一年多里 爱情并不是我生活的重心
I'm trying to be a bit more cautious about who i give and receive that love from 我在对待我爱和爱我的人时很谨慎
because it is so important 因为这太重要了
I have a stuffed animal Buster he's a dog 我有个毛绒玩具 它叫Buster 是条狗狗
so I probably might save buster 所以我也许会救Buster
my fluffy is also a dog 我的毛绒玩具叫Fluffy 也是条狗狗
good ok monster Buffy should meet one day 真棒 Fluffy和Buster哪天该见一面
yeah 嗯
I was worried about this coming into it 我其实刚参加这个实验时有点担心
because I can't be a little bit awkward 因为我有时候不太擅长人际交往
make me feel at ease 但你让我慢慢放松下来了
you know you seem very cool and calm and we're confident at the same time 你看起来很酷 很冷静 同时还非常自信
so I guess that's three 说了三个优点哈
yeah you have to have a good personality 但你的性格真的非常好
I also like what you're wearing 我也挺喜欢你的着装风格
oh thank you 啊 谢谢你
These colors really compliment you and make you look handsome 颜色挺适合你的 你看上去很帅
cool.Thank you. 好 谢谢你
You are welcome. 不客气
I like your face it's a nice face 呃 我喜欢你的外貌 你长得很美
your face is very symmetrical which 你的脸很对称
it is something we subconsciously look forward to it 人们会下意识地寻找这一点
because I know that I consciously look for 我知道这点 所以我总是下意识地关注这点
I said like a lot like like this like that 我很喜欢说像 像这样 像那样 but you're very very well sir 但你其实善于辞令
actually swear all time 我其实很喜欢说粗话的
Nice 还好
trying really hard to aviod 非常努力地不要说出口
shit fuck alright shit fuck 没事
curse like a sailor 经常满口粗话吗？
hey yeah it would be nice to have someone that you can literally say anything and everything 是的 如果真有这么个人 你能把所有的事都跟他分享
and they would still like you and respect you and I think you're big weirdo 而且 他们依旧喜欢你 尊重你 不觉得你奇怪
you were very very nice smile 你笑起来很好看 --> 00:04:37,097 I would definitely make out with you 我很愿意和你亲热
ok yeah I was kind of thinking about that 好 嗯 我也在想这个
like on our break is like yeah I would definitely make out with him 我们休息的时候 我也想着 和他亲热也不赖
yeah I think he's pretty attractive 我觉得他很有吸引力
we have a lot of things in common and I like what I like 我们很相似 我对自己的喜好也很坚定
so it's a good thing. 所以 这是件好事
I think it's a good thing that you know you have a lot of stuff in common 我觉得我们有这么多相似之处是一件好事
you a lot more awkward 我本来觉得会很尴尬
but it was it was more just exciting 但其实让人很激动啊
yeah 嗯嗯 没错
I like you you're cool 我喜欢你 你很棒 80 00:05:06,410-> 00:05:06,910 yeah thank you 是吗 谢谢你 81 00:05:07,010-> 00:05:08,910 yeah yeah it was interesting getting to know a lot about you 嗯 嗯 没错 了解你这么多事真的很带劲儿
because a lot of those questions are necessarily stuff you'd say right away 因为哪些问题里面你一般不会直接回答
or even sometimes ever to someone 甚至有可能 永远不会向别人提及
Would you guys like to see each other after this? 这次研究结束后 你们还会和彼此私约吗
—yeah ya like em okay -yeah 是的 嗯 我会还和他见面的 -是的
and any of you guys want to there is no any pressure 好的 如果你们愿意 没压力哈
you two can kiss each other 你们俩可以亲吻对方了
-sure -Jesus -好啊 -我滴神啊
sounds good 听起来不错
自那以后 Cam和Emily已经约会了三次
very good 非常好
maybe we'll follow like a few 也许一见钟情是有可能的