[音乐] 谈论死亡可以很
Talking about dying can be very difficult , it makes people feel [音乐] 谈论死亡可以很
Talking about dying can be very difficult , it makes people feel 困难 它让人感到不舒服 似乎更容易忽略
uncomfortable. It seems easier to ignore but it's important to talk or to ask 困难 它让人感到不舒服 似乎更容易忽略
uncomfortable. It seems easier to ignore but it's important to talk or to ask 但重要的是交谈或提问以倾听并了解我们的
questions to listen and to know what our loved ones would like when death comes. 但重要的是交谈或提问以倾听并了解我们的
questions to listen and to know what our loved ones would like when death comes. 亲人会喜欢在死亡来临之前谈论死亡
Talking about dying before you need to can help you and people around you to be 亲人会喜欢在死亡来临之前谈论死亡
Talking about dying before you need to can help you and people around you to be 可以帮助你和你周围的人能够自然地接受和谈论
able to accept and talk naturally about fears and wishes . It gives everyone the 可以帮助你和你周围的人能够自然地接受和谈论
able to accept and talk naturally about fears and wishes . It gives everyone the 恐惧和希望它让每个人都有机会分享他们的担忧，当我们
chance to share their worries. When we talk we have the chance to make informed 恐惧和希望它让每个人都有机会分享他们的担忧，当我们
chance to share their worries. When we talk we have the chance to make informed 谈话 我们有机会一起做出明智的选择 每个人都会知道什么
choices together. Everyone will know what you want around food drink dignity and 谈话 我们有机会一起做出明智的选择 每个人都会知道什么
choices together. Everyone will know what you want around food drink dignity and 你希望周围的食物饮料尊严和疼痛缓解有更多的身体变化
pain relief have more physical changes to expect and why these might happen. 你希望周围的食物饮料尊严和疼痛缓解有更多的身体变化
pain relief have more physical changes to expect and why these might happen. 期待以及为什么这些可能会发生 孩子们在很大程度上是损失的一部分
Children are very much a part of loss, but they are often overlooked. Some 期待以及为什么这些可能会发生 孩子们在很大程度上是损失的一部分
Children are very much a part of loss, but they are often overlooked. Some 但他们经常被忽视，一些成年人认为他们在保护
adults think they are protecting children from growing up worries, 但他们经常被忽视，一些成年人认为他们在保护
adults think they are protecting children from growing up worries, 从小到大的孩子担心祖父母往往有一个特殊的
grandparents often have a special relationship with their grandchildren. 从小到大的孩子担心祖父母往往有一个特殊的
grandparents often have a special relationship with their grandchildren. 与孙辈的关系，但有些父母不鼓励任何
But some parents discourage any discussions about death and loss but the 与孙辈的关系，但有些父母不鼓励任何
But some parents discourage any discussions about death and loss but the 关于死亡和损失的讨论，但真相通常没有一个可怕的
truth is usually less scary than a child's imagination. From speaking to 关于死亡和损失的讨论，但真相通常没有一个可怕的
truth is usually less scary than a child's imagination. From speaking to 孩子的想象力从与老年人交谈我们知道他们找到了
older people we know that they find it easier to speak to their peers about 孩子的想象力从与老年人交谈我们知道他们找到了
older people we know that they find it easier to speak to their peers about 与同龄人谈论死亡和死亡比与他们的年轻人更容易
death and dying, than with their younger friends and relatives. We've heard from 与同龄人谈论死亡和死亡比与他们的年轻人更容易
death and dying, than with their younger friends and relatives. We've heard from 我们从经历过死亡的人那里听到的朋友和亲戚
people who have experienced a death that they wish there had been more prepared. 我们从经历过死亡的人那里听到的朋友和亲戚
people who have experienced a death that they wish there had been more prepared. 他们希望有更多的准备，特别是对周围的期待
Particularly what to expect around physical changes, what to ask doctors and 他们希望有更多的准备，特别是对周围的期待
Particularly what to expect around physical changes, what to ask doctors and 身体变化 向医生和护士询问什么以及如何提出疑虑和询问
nurses and how to raise concerns and ask questions about their care. People worry 身体变化 向医生和护士询问什么以及如何提出疑虑和询问
nurses and how to raise concerns and ask questions about their care. People worry 关于他们的护理的问题 人们担心开始可能会
about starting conversations that might upset or offend often we may be 关于他们的护理的问题 人们担心开始可能会
about starting conversations that might upset or offend often we may be 经常感到不安或冒犯我们可能会害怕我们可能会听到和
frightened about what we may hear and how we will react. We might feel awkward 经常感到不安或冒犯我们可能会害怕我们可能会听到和
frightened about what we may hear and how we will react. We might feel awkward 我们会如何反应 我们可能会因为提到失去尊严的厕所而感到尴尬
about mentioning losing dignity, toilet issues and washing. Sometimes if a friend 我们会如何反应 我们可能会因为提到失去尊严的厕所而感到尴尬
about mentioning losing dignity, toilet issues and washing. Sometimes if a friend 如果朋友或亲戚去世，有时会出现问题和洗涤
or relative have died it makes us all think about our own 如果朋友或亲戚去世，有时会出现问题和洗涤
or relative have died it makes us all think about our own 它让我们所有人都思考自己的生活和未来，这可能是因为
lives and futures. It could be because of a terminal diagnosis or a change to a 它让我们所有人都思考自己的生活和未来，这可能是因为
lives and futures. It could be because of a terminal diagnosis or a change to a 最终诊断或一般健康问题的改变，这有时会
general health issue. This will sometimes make us wonder how will everyone cope 最终诊断或一般健康问题的改变，这有时会
general health issue. This will sometimes make us wonder how will everyone cope 让我们想知道没有我每个人将如何应对没有他们我将如何应对
without me?How will I cope without them? What about my pet, my grandchild? How can 让我们想知道没有我每个人将如何应对没有他们我将如何应对
without me?How will I cope without them? What about my pet, my grandchild? How can 我的宠物呢 我的孙子 我怎么能谈论我的内疚或羞耻
I talk about my guilt or shame about something that's happened in the past? 我的宠物呢 我的孙子 我怎么能谈论我的内疚或羞耻
I talk about my guilt or shame about something that's happened in the past? 过去发生的事情为什么我女儿不能接受我是
Why can't my daughter accept that I am dying? How can I tell my family I want to 过去发生的事情为什么我女儿不能接受我是
Why can't my daughter accept that I am dying? How can I tell my family I want to 如果你正在考虑，我怎么能告诉我的家人我想停止治疗
stop treatment? If you are thinking about these issues it's very probable that 如果你正在考虑，我怎么能告诉我的家人我想停止治疗
stop treatment? If you are thinking about these issues it's very probable that 这些问题很可能其他人也是如此，我们都有顾虑
others are too, we all have concerns about being brave and pretending it's 这些问题很可能其他人也是如此，我们都有顾虑
others are too, we all have concerns about being brave and pretending it's 关于勇敢并假装没事的时候
okay when it's not. We often worry about how others will 关于勇敢并假装没事的时候
okay when it's not. We often worry about how others will 我们经常担心别人会怎么想我们都担心不做
feel. We all have worries about not doing the right thing not knowing what to 我们经常担心别人会怎么想我们都担心不做
feel. We all have worries about not doing the right thing not knowing what to 正确的事情不知道会发生什么或理解护理或
expect or understanding the care or being able to speak out. All of these 正确的事情不知道会发生什么或理解护理或
expect or understanding the care or being able to speak out. All of these 能够说出来所有这些感觉是很正常的，也很好
feelings are very normal and good to share, talking in the normal way will 能够说出来所有这些感觉是很正常的，也很好
feelings are very normal and good to share, talking in the normal way will 以正常方式分享谈话几乎总是有效的
almost always work. Remember humor has an important place 以正常方式分享谈话几乎总是有效的
almost always work. Remember humor has an important place 记住幽默也很重要，即使在死后也没有权利或
even in death, there are no right or wrong ways to talk it will be different 记住幽默也很重要，即使在死后也没有权利或
even in death, there are no right or wrong ways to talk it will be different 错误的谈话方式对我们来说会有所不同所有引导性问题都可以提供帮助
for us all. Leading questions can help conversations to develop some people 错误的谈话方式对我们来说会有所不同所有引导性问题都可以提供帮助
for us all. Leading questions can help conversations to develop some people 一些人会死在家里 一些人在医院和
will die at home, some in hospitals and hospices doctors and nurses are there to 一些人会死在家里 一些人在医院和
will die at home, some in hospitals and hospices doctors and nurses are there to 临终关怀医院的医生和护士会在那里提供帮助，并将支持尊严并保持
help and will support dignity and keep the dying person comfortable. And 临终关怀医院的医生和护士会在那里提供帮助，并将支持尊严并保持
help and will support dignity and keep the dying person comfortable. And 临终者舒适无痛，并联系到您的亲戚和
pain-free and reach your relatives and friends. There may be times when staff do 临终者舒适无痛，并联系到您的亲戚和
pain-free and reach your relatives and friends. There may be times when staff do 朋友 有时工作人员不解释护理计划或
not explain the care plan or the physical changes to be expected 朋友 有时工作人员不解释护理计划或
not explain the care plan or the physical changes to be expected 亲友可以预期的身体变化
in a way that relatives and friends can understand. This is an important issue as 亲友可以预期的身体变化
in a way that relatives and friends can understand. This is an important issue as 了解这是一个重要问题，因为有时这些焦虑可能会使
sometimes these anxieties may make friends and relatives appear rude and 了解这是一个重要问题，因为有时这些焦虑可能会使
sometimes these anxieties may make friends and relatives appear rude and 朋友和亲戚显得粗鲁和困难，工作人员可能会被视为
difficult and staff may be perceived as uncaring and matter-of-fact. Having easy 朋友和亲戚显得粗鲁和困难，工作人员可能会被视为
difficult and staff may be perceived as uncaring and matter-of-fact. Having easy 不关心和实事求是的易于理解的对话将使
to understand conversations will make sure everyone knows what is going to 不关心和实事求是的易于理解的对话将使
to understand conversations will make sure everyone knows what is going to 确保每个人都知道会发生什么以及为什么有时随着人们的到来
happen and why. Sometimes as people come to the end of their life they may be 确保每个人都知道会发生什么以及为什么有时随着人们的到来
happen and why. Sometimes as people come to the end of their life they may be 到他们生命的尽头，他们可能对嘈杂的声音没有反应
unresponsive the sound of the noisy breathing is like snoring. It doesn't 到他们生命的尽头，他们可能对嘈杂的声音没有反应
unresponsive the sound of the noisy breathing is like snoring. It doesn't 呼吸就像打鼾，它不会打扰人，但会更
tend to disturb the person but more those around them. They will still be 呼吸就像打鼾，它不会打扰人，但会更
tend to disturb the person but more those around them. They will still be 他们仍然能够听到周围的人的声音，并会从中得到安慰
able to hear and will find comfort in your voice and touch hold their hand and 他们仍然能够听到周围的人的声音，并会从中得到安慰
able to hear and will find comfort in your voice and touch hold their hand and 你的声音和触摸握住他们的手说任何你需要的眼泪都可以
say whatever you need to. Tears are okay they don't need to be hidden they're 你的声音和触摸握住他们的手说任何你需要的眼泪都可以
say whatever you need to. Tears are okay they don't need to be hidden they're 他们不需要隐藏他们是告别预期死亡的一部分
part of the goodbye. The expected death of a loved one is not an emergency 他们不需要隐藏他们是告别预期死亡的一部分
part of the goodbye. The expected death of a loved one is not an emergency 心爱的人不是紧急情况 没有什么需要匆忙采取
nothing needs to be done in a hurry, take some time give everyone the opportunity 心爱的人不是紧急情况 没有什么需要匆忙采取
nothing needs to be done in a hurry, take some time give everyone the opportunity 有时间让每个人都有机会做适合他们的事情 记住我们
to do what's right for them. Remember we will all have our own way of grieving 有时间让每个人都有机会做适合他们的事情 记住我们
to do what's right for them. Remember we will all have our own way of grieving 都会有我们自己的悲伤方式尽量不要判断
try not to judge. 都会有我们自己的悲伤方式尽量不要判断
try not to judge. [音乐]
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