ok
with
have to tell you I'm both challenging exciting
my excitement is I like a chance to give something back my challenges
the shorter something I usually do is 50 hours
I'm not exaggerating I do weekends or what I do and even more than that
obviously coach people but I mean to immersion
because paddling language you mind if I just on principle she got in it and you
did it so often they became Rio and
the bottom line while I'm here besides being crazy mo fo is that
I'm really in a position I'm not here to motivate you obviously many back
a lot of times that some people think I do and it's the furthest thing from oMG
what happens though is
people say to all the motivation I saw a lot of interesting I want to do
I'm the white guy I don't know why you do what you do
what is your motive for action what is it that drives you in your life today
not ten years ago are you running the same pattern because I believe that the
invisible force
up internal drive activate is the most important thing in the world
I'm here because I believe emotion as the force of life
all of us here have great minds you know most of us here great minds
paid I love i neva got away but we all know how to thank you in our minds we
can rationalize anything we can make anything happen
we can I agree with what was described few days ago but this idea that people
work in their self-interest but we all know that that's bullshit at times
you don't work in our self-interest all the talk because one emotion comes into
it the wiring changes in the way it functions
and so it's wonderful for us the pink intellectually about how the wife of the
world is I'm
specially those are very smart we can play this game in our head but I really
want to know what's driving you might like to
maybe invite you to do by the end of this talk is export where you are today
for two reasons one so that you can contribute more and true so that
hopefully we cannot just understand other people more but maybe appreciate
the morning
create the kind the connections that can stop some challenges that we face in our
society they're only gonna get
magnified by the very technology that connecting us
because it's making us intersect in that intersection doesn't always creeper
view everybody now understands everybody and everybody appreciates every but
soul I have session basically for thirty years
and their obsession has been what makes the difference in the quality people
watch
what makes a difference in the performance go back to hard to argue
preserves all amounts owed on for thirty years
I get the phone call when the athlete is burning down on national television
and they were had by five strokes and now they can get back on course
I got is %uh right now that the resulting helping matters I get the
phone call when the child is gonna commit suicide or something right now
and 29 years a very great but I have never lost more than 29 years doesn't
mean I won't someday
but I'm them and the reason is an understanding abuse human need someone
to talk to you about
arm so when I get those calls about performance that's one thing I can make
a change
but also I'm looking at sea what is it that shaping that person's ability
to contribute to do something beyond themselves
so maybe the real question is you know I look at whitcomb favors to master
lessons one is
there's the scientific achievement which almost there in his room as Master to an
amazing step
that's how do you take the invisible make it visible right I take what you
dream about to make it happen wetherbee your business
your contribution society money whatever it is for your body your family
but the other Western apply for is rarely mastered the art of the film
Cosi it is easy right we know the rules write the code you fall over
and you get the result what you know the game you this you know you up the ante
don't you but when it comes to for film about San
art in the reason is it's about appreciation for their contribution
you can only feel so much by yourself so
I have an instinct laboratory try to answer the question of the real question
which is what the difference in somebody's life if you look at somebody
like
those people that you've given everything to like all the resources
they say they need even know how to build a computer you give me bass
computer you can log in join you there a comparable
and those people very often you know some of them I'm sure
and that the rest of their life will always love education money in
background spending life going into rehab
and many people they've been through ultimate pay
psychologically sexually spiritually emotionally abused and not always for
all stand they become so the people to contribute the most to society so
because we gotta ask ourselves really is what is it
what is that the shapes are so we live in a fair be called shirt most of us
don't do that the coaches bear because what I mean by that is
the mindset that we are past and everyone in this room wouldn't be in
this review but that perry but the most the society thinks biography is destiny
the past people's the future course it does a pulitzer
but what people in this room know on what we have to remind ourselves ok you
can know something intellectually you can know what to do with the night use
it not a playa
so really we gonna myself his decision is the ultimate power
that's what it really is now when you ask people you know have you feel to
achieve somehow never fail to achieve something significant life say I
thanks for the interaction at a high level there
a but if you if you ask people why didn't you achieve something somebody
working for you
you know or partner even yourself we fail to achieve a more what's the reason
people say they fail to achieve one hr
don't have a do know enough to have a knowledge didn't have a
money than ever time however
technology you know I do have the right manager
bird turnovers bring Part II the
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world over including the Supreme Court have in common
bear are claimed to you missing resources
and maybe accurate you may not have the money you may not have the Supreme Court
but that is not the defining factor the
and you correct me if I'm wrong the defining factors metal resources its
resources on us
and what i mean specifically rounder some freights is if you have
e-motion human emotion something I experience from you
day before yesterday at a level that is as profound as a member to princeton if
you communicate with emotion I believe you to beat his ass and more
the
but
how easy for me to tell him what he should do a
serious problems but
I know when we watch the debates
when we watch the debate about time their emotions that black people's
ability to dismantle acting capacity in the way we came across the some people
matter
as I know people wanted to vote in your direction and didn't
and I'm was upset but there was a motion that was a Roman on talking about your
say I
the so emotion is it if we get the right a motion
we can get ourselves into anything we get or if you're creating a play for my
phone enough can you get through to anybody yes or no
if you don't have the money but your creditor me know if you find a way
so this is the ultimate resource but this is not the story but people tell us
write the story people tell us is a bunch a different story but also in
other resources but ultimately
if you take a look here put up if you want see what all the reason we have
accomplished so that's one place
he's broken my pattern that son of a bitch do I appreciated the energy up to
your back
what determines your resources we said decision shape destiny which is my focus
here
if decisions a deafening what the terminus three decisions what you gonna
focus on
right now your prescriber to focus on in the second consciously or unconsciously
the many inside jokes on something gotta give a new meaning
and whatever that meaning as produces a motion is this the end or the beginning
is God punishing me or rewarding me or is this the roll the dice
in a motion been creates what we're gonna do all the action so
think about 20 might the decisions that shape your destiny that sounds really
happy but
in the last five or 10 years 15 years have we been some decisions you made
that you made a different decision
your life would be completely different from a bigger one of us would better or
worse a I
so the bottom line is maybe it was where to go to work
and you met the love in your life there maybe was a criticism I know the Google
geniuses I saw here
I mean I understand their decision was to sell their technology at first
where they made that decision versus to build your own culture how would the
world be different how will their lives be different there
impact the history of our world is the decisions
one woman stands up and says no I won't go to the back of the bus
sure just a better life that decision shape our culture
or someone spanning from a tech or being in a position like Oregon's Armstrong
and someone says to you
you got testicular cancer that's pretty tough for any mail special you ride a
bike
comment
you got in your brain you got in your loans but what was his decision what to
focus on
differ most people want me it wasn't the end with the beginning what we gonna do
because of a Windows seven championships he never once once before the cancer
because he got emotional fitness
psychological strength that's the difference in human beings i've seen
over three million have been around for my lap I have three million people
from a different country but I had a chance to interact with
all the last 29 years and after a while patterns become obvious
you see that South America and Africa maybe connect in a certain way right
other people so it sounds ridiculous it's simple so
what shape Lance what shapes you to invisible force
very quickly one state we all have had time save you time you did something
after unique about yourself I can't believe I said that became we think that
that was so stupid who's been there say I
hear them from Happy New York mine tells me
cart it was in your ability was your state
your model the world is what shapes you long-term your motherboard is the filter
that's what's shaping its that's what makes people make decisions we want to
inform somebody want to know what already influences
and it made a three part I believe first what your target what you're after
which I believe it's not your desired future desires goals
we're going two goals iron pot is this all there isn't even there say I
so it needs we have I believe you're searching meets
second what you want to target that's driving US and UN cover it protrudes you
don't forget you encrypt
but if I know what your map with the belief system for telling you how to get
those needs
some people really get those needs destroy the world from people's to build
from
create something web from and then there's the fuel you pick
so very quickly strictly vetoed the Art Ross wants certainty
now he's not goals in his eyes is a universal everyone you've certainly the
pic avoid pain please be comfortable
now how do you get control everybody develop a skill
give up smoke a cigarette if you got totally certain ironically we owe me a
bit like you're not certain about your help or your children
or money you don't think much we're not sure the seal is going all the peerless
many speakers
but what we go for certainly differently we get total certainty
we get what we feel for certain you know what's going to happen is going to
happen how can happen to feel
bored out your mind so God in her infinite wisdom
gave us a second you mean which is I'm certainly
when he Brierley we need surprised how good your love surprises
say I bullshit you like this price as you walked
car what you don't want you call problems but you need them
so varieties important government in a video or film but you've already seen
was done miss
get a fucking life Co
right while you're doing it you're so that's good did you read it before saw
it before but you're hoping a been long enough you forgot my personal ID
30 many critical significance we only feel important special
unique you get it by making more money you can do it by being more spiritually
can do it by giving
yourself in a situation where you put more tattoos and earrings in places
humans don't 10
whatever takes the fastest way to do this you have no background no culture
nobly from resources or socialist violence
about a gun to your head now live in the hood instantly on significant 0-10 how r
10 how certain mind to respond to me 10
how much uncertainty who knows what can happen ex-cop exciting
I'd climb up into a cave and do not stop only downer told her I D uncertainty
and its significance as it do you want to risk your life or
so that's why violence is always around will be around us we have a
consciousness change
as a species now you get significantly waiver to be significant YouTube unique
and different
here's what we really need connection a lot for me
we all want it most people settle for connections loves to scary
don't want to get hurt who your government hurt in an intimate
relationship
say I if you don't raise your hand you have another ship to come on
and you're gonna get hurt again aren't you glad you came to this positive is it
but here's what's true we need it we can do it through
intimacy true friendship through prayer to walking in nature
if nothing else works for you get a dog a cat got a dog is a purely for two
minutes if I could be going for six months when you're back up again five
minutes later I
now be a first for needs every human find a way to me
even if you live yourself you have split personalities
but the last two needs the first for needs are
call me the personalities like all last two
other needs the spear and this is where performer comes you'll get from a first
for your figure a way smoke drink do whatever
meet the first four paul asked to provide you must grow we all know the
answer to your bro you what
relationships are growing a business is not granted you're not going to matter
much money you have a friend you have
how many people love you if you like al the reason we grow I believe
as we have something to give about for the six meters to contribute me on
ourselves
cuz we all know corny as it sounds seedlings giving
we all know my smile about me about we this culture knows that this man knows
that
that's exciting when you see nicholas up you're talking about a hundred dollar
computer the most passion exciting things he's a genius
but he's got calling now you can feel the difference in him
is beautiful im back calling conductor the people in my own life
my first touch because we have eleven years old Thanksgiving no money no food
and when I got a star but my father was Cali messed up my mom is letting nobody
messed up
and somebody came with one hundred food my father made three decisions and what
they were briefly
its focus was this is charity was it mean I'm were close
what I gotta do we my family which he did but I'm honest people experience as
a wife
my tree decisions gimme a different path I said focus on
there's food concept you come
second because what changed my life is what shape me as a human being
somebody's gift only notice but my father was a no one gives a shit
also in so many I don't know they're not asking for advice given or family food
looking out for us
in many believe this was it mean that strangers care
and what that mean size strangers care about me my family I care about them
former Delmer
produce make a difference so I'm 17 I when I one day and Thanksgiving at my
target for years
have enough money for you to families most fun thing ever to my life most
moving
been extracted 420 buddy was doing next year
8 I wouldn't do it for brownie points but after a high-pressure I could use
some help
her so sure enough I went out and when I do I got my friends involved in a group
company 111 company liable to foundation
now eighteen years later I'm proud to tell you last year we've had two million
people in 35 countries are a foundation
all during the holidays Thanksgiving Christmas can only deduct it from here
thank you so I don't tell you have to brag to talk about proud of human beings
because they get excited to contribute once they have a chance to experience it
not talk about
so finely I'm bad at a time for
the target bedsheets you pictures with different people who have the same meets
but are you a certainty freak about what you value most or uncertainty
this man here could be a certainly free to decline does propose case
are you driven by significant sum up we all meet all six but whatever your
belief system is
taught you in a different direction and move in a direction your destination
address that
the centerpieces the map think about is
the operating system told you how to get there and some people's map years I'm
gonna save lives even if I die for other people and their fireman somebody else's
I'm gonna kill people to do it
they're trying to meet the scene Eva significance right they wanna
them honored on a run in your family but they have a different map
and there are seven different we scheduled to enter from done the last be
fears
a motion I so wanna part map right time somebody along times a hundred years
from the author's is three seconds which is what I have and the last one a party
mention adultery if you got a target and you get a map and what's a
I can use Google because I love max may have made a good for match its ok to use
MapQuest
how you made this fatal mistake of using that pressure from talk here this pain
and you don't get there we'll match it or believes guarantee you can never get
to where you want to go
blasting is the motion
now you're talking about a motion there are 6,000 emotions
that we all have words for the English language teachers a linguistic
representation right to change my language
but if your dominant emotions
are you have more time at twenty thousand people 4,000 and I am right now
all the emotions the big screen to average week and again along with many
are 15 you're an apparent motion the others different character some emotions
peoples' minutes less than 12 and have for those make them feel like shit
so we got five or six good for convenience
rights likely to happy happy excited oh shit frustrated frustrated over one
depressed
how do you know somebody no matter what happens find a way to get pissed off
from in North America
corner know what happens no matter what happened they find a way
to be happier tried how many of America's Got 1911 happen of initial
burst
I was in Wal I was with two thousand people from 45 countries were
transferred in four languages
simultaneously for programmers conducting for a week made before was
called emotional mastery
I got up had no plan for this and I said but are we on a list
fireworks are you crazy ship fun stuff eminent am i stopping at this point was
to say but never do what I want to say
and also my sad when you people really start to work when he faced death
me with this whole thing about you were going to get off the silent
if nine days from now you're gonna die who'd you call what would you say what
did you do
one woman well that night is when I won't happen one woman to come to the
seminar
in which he came there sure her previous boyfriend have been kidnapped and
murdered
her render a new boyfriend want to marry her and she said no to do we model
Weifang
it's over with she said it over when I finish that night she called and left a
message true story at the top
the World Trade Center reworked saying I love you
I was watching now II wanna marry or stupid remain
she was asleep it was 3am for us when he called back from the top and said honey
I can't tell you what this means
he said I don't have to tell you this but you give me the greatest gift
because I'm gonna die
and she played the recording for us in the room
trees on larry king where and he said you're probably wondering how on earth
this could happen you twice in all I can say to you is this must be God's message
to honey from now on
every day give your all love your ultimate anything ever stop you she
finishers
mansions up he says I'm from Pakistan a Muslim
I'd love to hold your hand and say I'm sorry but frankly this is retribution
I can try to rescue them at a time the
sure
10 factor
10 seconds are yours for about 10 seconds I can tell you about this man on
stage with a man
from New York who work in the World Trade Center at about two hundred new
yorkers there
more than fifty lost their entire companies their friends marking up to
Palm Pilots one
financial trader this woman made a steal balling 30 friends crossing of an old
I'm
and what I did people said what are we gonna focus on
what does this mean was it what we gonna do I took the grouping got people focus
on a few moves somebody today
your props to be how to serve somebody else there are people who have a country
song
angling screaming yelling ever she was in pretty or choose not american she
doesn't know anybody here
I said you always get angry she said yes do people not guilty
said people got sad and I took these two men hundred mark on indirect
negotiations
Jewish man with family in the occupied territories from New York who would have
died
it was work that day and his men want to be a terrorist
I made it very clear any regression happens on film which will be happy to
send you
so you can really see what actually happens that my verbal is a shiner but
the two of them
now we can begin to change the police I'm also world they work together to
bring
friends for years now to very smart in synagogues the idea how creepy 0 book
just called my jihad my way of peace so transformation can happen so my
invitation to use this
explore your web the web in here
the needs the beliefs the emotions that are controlling you
for two reasons so there's more you to give match Eve to you
we all want to do it but I think Jeff that was gonna fill you up and secondly
so you can appreciate
I just understand that in to watch what's mine but appreciate
what's driving other people tell me where we'll go change cover shipping
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