太谷二中启航学校 太谷·山西
英语视听阅读教学专用视频
Here I’ll teach you about body language basics.
So many people say that your body speaks much more loudly than your words speak.
And it's probable it has quite a bit of truth.
It’s really important that as you speak you exhibit your great body language.
The most important aspects of your body language are :
No1,your shoulders.
And where is your shoulders’ position as you speak to other people.
So your shoulders could be like this.
They can be like this.
That slight change makes a normal difference and what you body is saying about you.
This little change could make me seem like I’m insecure or don’t have much confidence.
But moving my shoulders up changes the entire dynamic(有活力的）and how I’m coming across.
Also,a really important part of your body language is your hands.
What are you doing with your hands.
Now some people have a really hard time with what to do with your hands as they're speaking.
If you have a hard time with it.
What I say just is if you’re sitting, just putting your hands in your lap.
When you are standing, just making sure they are at your sides or fold it in front of you.
A lot of people have a hard time ,
with playing with things,playing with bracelets,playing with hair.
Fumbling(摸索）with your pockets.
So be aware as you speak next time of what your hands are doing.Where are your hands?
Are they stationary?
Or you can ask someone else to make an assessment for you.
Have a conversation with them and ask them to keep an eye on where your hands are during the conversation.
Another important element of your body language is the fact that you need to be standing still.
So if you’re moving during a conversation,
that can give us an impression that you are nervous or you are uncomfortable during the conservation..
So be sure you are standing stationary and you are not moving around as you talking .
And your feet as you talking, you don’t want to be moving your feet around or lifting up your knee.
Do you want to make sure those are stationary as well.
The whole idea is you don’t want to distract someone while they’re speaking or while you’re speaking .
Not only about distracting，but it can make you come across as insecure or less than confident even uncomfortable during a conservation.
You definitely don’t want to give us this impression.
So your body language speaks a great deal.
You want to make sure you have a great body language as you’re communicating and speaking with other people.
It’s probably one of the most important elements to make a good first impression.