what does wealth mean to you
does it mean freedom from ever worrying about money again
the ability to do things you want to do?
when you want to do them!
being able to comfortably provide for your family and loved ones ?
or the power to create a legacy which you can always be proud
Now let's join Tony in his Wealth Mastery Seminar
where we'll learn the secrets of the psychology of wealth
as well as tools to help you create the long lasting financial freedom that you deserve!
The more you can call ??????? That's sense of wealth!
That's sense of abundance in you!
The more you can feel : That's sense of joy!
The more easy it's gonna be for you to ??????
cause you're not gonna be in the scares feels for ??????????
Now that's not enough by itself!
you've got this great sense of abundance and you do the wrong mechanics!
and be a disaster! True or false ?
(True)
but ????? have an area to get you started with
you want to have the emotion and psychological strength cause that's gonna carry you thru
the mechanics of boring or frustrating
or when things aren't working out, your motion...
your psychology is what will carry you!
and you got to keep doing it!
Everyone knows if you've done the studies, Dr Seligman very famous for doing studies
on optimism
And in those studies do you know what he found out ?
People that are pessimist are much more realistic!
They're much more accurate!
If you give them a test, and you ask them to look at something
and give you a size measurement of it
or to evaluate their own success or failure to a task...
in every studies Seligman done, he did the University of Pennsylvania if I remember quickly originally
what he found was that optimists always see themselves as doing better than they really did...
They basically biased themselves!
what happens the pessimists they're 10 times more accurate!
But here's what he found out...
what he found out was because the people who are accurate
never push themselves because they know it's never been work anyway whereas
the optimist see it better than it is so they keep doing it!
cause they have the illusion they did "Well I'll do it even better next time!"
and because of their optimism they do it more often and so optimist succeed!
out of four to five ???? depending on the task
result ultimately...
beyond anything that a pessimist will do
and they're not as accurate!
all that's a big way of saying is if you can develop a psychology of resilience
in yourself
you don't have to be optimistic or fake you can be real, the real ?????
whatever shows up you are larger than anything that can happen to you
you are larger than any financial challenges that you could ever fix.
who here has gone thru a very tough financial time where you don't know how to pull off ?
but eventually you did... How many have done this before... Say "I"!
(I)
How many had this happening more than once in your life ? Say "I"!
(I)
then the true history could guide you to know you can get through this and not
let you be overwhelmed by the moment
but also the ?????? can put you in that sense of wealth
for GM's of wealthy...
???? friends there... you know we have 325 acres and
3 miles of ocean frontage It's unbelievable!
but you ????? those 2 villages, my friends initially will say
Wow! Look at their houses, look at their homes
they don't really have electricity and ????? like this but...
they don't feel poor...
it's your identity
the way you define the wealth determines if you are wealthy or not!
so all ?????? things for you knowing that two-thirds of ??????
two dollars a day
that you could get yourself to really feel grateful yes or no ?
(YES)
how much of your life do you get benefits from today that you never had
to create ?
Think about it!
??????? write on but why ?????? books you didn't have to write
and the internet you can access in seconds and got answers to ??????? anything
the people in your life you don't have to raise
but are there for you
think about all the different aspects of your life
if you want to be wealthy all you have to do is associate...
so before we do the financial part...
cause financial independence is different than wealth!
wealth is a state of mind, financial independence is being in that position where you don't
ever have to work again.
Or if you work you do it cause you really....
(Want to!) Want to!
Now I give you a clue : if you get financially independant and you don't work you'll be miserable!
I can tell you I got so many friends they have sold their company maybe 50 million $
1 million or almost 1 billion $
it was really exciting for a while...
but after a while it's like... bored...
????? business gave him a sense of
contribution ???????
it was always growing, figuring out how to solve problems in the end
or the people ?????? connected to the business or the employees and friends and associates
it was significant cause they were doing something worthwhile!
any ?????? cause he knews the business and also ???????
cause it's always changing
and now he has this money....
so the real secret is to be financially free to be financially independant
you want to get where you never have to work again.... but you do!
because you want to!
That's what life gets very cool when you don't have to work but you want to...
your have to work harder!
?????????? I don't have to work! That's one of the most ?????? experience in life!
So I'm gonna tell you I'm not just saying this is some little...
positive thinking technique I'm telling you this is the secret
the real secret
to shift it inside of you and add a ????? value!
most people are trying to pursue something in the future that they
already have!
I want you think of what it is you think you want that will make you
wealthier and financially free!
Tell me! What it is you want for financial freedom ?
How will you know when you're wealthy ?
Anyone! Tell me!
Raise your hand!
How will you know you're truly wealthy? How will you know you're financially free ?
Yes Madam right here!
(When my husband is no longer)
(distressed about financials... finances)
that's when you'll be financially free!
(right)
Then you'll probably never gonna be free!
(I know that I need to find out from me)
(what that definition is)
(and then)
(he will... Will I guide him?)
Will you what ?
(Will I guide him to find his own definition then)
Well here's ???????? First of all
has she defined a scheme in a way she has control over? yes or no? (No)
so the chances of her ????? truly financially free or wealthy are... slim to none!
cause could they make... Have you made more money ?
How long have you been together with your husband ?
(33 years)
33 years...Well ?????? (applause)
By the way... Do you love him ?
(I love him so much...)
Does he love you ?
(Yes!)
Are you a rich woman ?
(I am the most wealthy woman in the world)
??????????????????
Now notice .....
if she is so ????? to that part of her wealth
can she get to where she feels rich ? yes or no ?
(yes)
and by the way from that place she could look at him in a different way and say
"Isn't amazing that I have a man the care so deeply for us....
that he really wants to make sure always doing well in this area...
And all his worry is a way of always try to demonstrate that he wants to take care of me and love me...
and take care of her family...
and how lucky am I!"
"How incredibly rich am I to have a man that cares that much!"
Would that be a different meaning? yes or no ?
(yes)
Would you feel different ?
but ???? is that he has to give up his worry
she can control him number one...
number two
He may think that worry is the way to demonstrate wealth to himself and other people...
and you can get financially free...
by defining the game in a winnable way!
a certain amount of money that we need and that covers...
what we're gonna call "Financial Security"
which might be :
your housing...
your cars
your food and basic entertainment.
How many would feel ???? if you didn't have to work, if your investments alone...
the income from your investments... the income...
covered those four items or housing for the rest real life
your food...
right... your travel and some entertainment
How many think that would feel pretty good ? Say "I"
(I)
And by the way
that number is way smaller than what most of you think of when you think
about being financially independent
which is everything covered without working
so ???????
and you don't know exactly what that number is for you...
and what it's gonna take for that number, you don't have to work to ?????? it
then we can look at financial independence where you don't have to work...
and everything is covered!
Do we go to financial freedom
you don't have to work, and everything you can think of is covered...
Anything you wanna do for yourself or others ????? that's a different level isn't it ?
And most people think of financial freedom come of a gigantic number and
if you ????? of anything you want there's nowhere near as big as you've think
and because it's so big, you'll never even start the journey
and you don't think it's gonna happen
so you talk about that you hope you get some big hits sometime with your business or something but
you never get going! How many followers Say "I"
(I)
So the first thing you got to do is shift from your wealth being to how he thinks and feels
And if you can do that then I gave him the space...
to be able to see you're happy!
Does that make sense ? (Yes it does) Give a big hand! Thank you very much!
Somebody else ?
How do you know... How do you know when you're wealthy or when you're financially free ? Somebody else!
How about this ?????? right here Yes Madam', give me a hand!
(When... When I have enough money to keep anyone around me for filling their dreams...)
ok... so when I have enough money to fulfill everyone's dreams around me
How many have learned that whenever people meet their dream, they usually create a new one ?
So that means basically you'd better to never stop anything! (yeah)
Right...So you have to fill all of them, and why does it take that for you to be wealthy ?
(I feel sometimes I'm.... I hate to use the word "luck" but I feel I'm luckier thant those around me)
OK...
So... So guilt is part of your motivation? (yes)
OK...
Well that... Coming from guilt that's an abundant place
(laughs)
So the truth is she can never be abundant because she has a belief system sign
which is a limitation that says "If I have more than others, there's something wrong"
and many people ?????? "I have to give it all away"
This is not in your head
That puts me more stress than ???????? do it again
but...the most powerful where we impact to the people is we impact them by your example
so don't get me wrong, I mean....
I think most of you know I help feed millions of people each year
I do projects and ????????? I do projects all over the world
I love when I get ????? in my life
?????? contribution ?????????
Not just with my words, with my time, not just my money, my time and energy
but I also have learned the balance I didn't know before cause I used to think
I only love by giving everything (yes)
And if I have to give you something for you to love me then we just made a trade!
That's not love, that's horsetrading!
or... ???????????????? (laughs)
????????? that only loves you if you give them something, like money
???????????????????????????? (laughs)
But that's really what it is, isn't it ?
So if you can make that shift you can also say "If I try to make everybody else's dream happen, then I got the joy of it"
like... when I ?????? and no money... whenever I went to lunch... I bought one for somebody
you know I've found a way ??????? When we went to lunch I won't let anybody else buy.
and I did that until my early 20's cause it's my way of feeling that I was a giver
and not a taker
which make me feel good about myself!
But I ???????? to do with this very wealthy man ????????????????
but I'm gonna make sure I paid for it and I've still that basic nature
But here's the balance on me now : I don't have to... cause what happen is ???? grab my wrist
They took the check from me and said "Are you gonna cheat me of the ????? and buy me a lunch ?"