他生活 he lives
在残疾中 他被他的 with disability he was bullied by his
父亲欺负 说他没用 father telling him that he is useless
但上帝保佑他有一个 but god blessed him with a wife who
从不放弃 never gave up on him
no matter what different criticism by
the society
他的妻子 telling the wife that he married the
wrong guy meet
一个震惊世界的爱情故事 a couple with a love story that shocked
the world
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我们的内心都是一样的， we are all the same on the inside no
无论我们外表如何 matter what we may look like outside
，如果我们要 we are all the same if we are to be
敞开心扉，我们都是一样的，我们需要开始接受我们 opened up we need to start embracing our
在外表上的差异 differences on the outside
并看到 我们彼此平等 and seeing each other as equals for who
we are
我有残疾 我的腿不能 i live with disability my legs don't
正常工作 function
对我来说运动很困难 making movement for me is difficult
人们说我 people say i crawl
像两栖动物一样爬行 like an amphibian
这一个除了我是我的妻子 this one besides me is my wife
在这里的生活对于像我们这样失业的人来说并不容易 life here is not easy for people like us
who are unemployed
然而，我们无法 and yet we are disabled getting what
获得养家糊口的东西 provide for the family
是一个问题，但上帝消除了 is a problem but god makes away what
似乎不可能的东西 seems to be no way
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根据我父母告诉我的， according to what my parents told me for
我认为我生来就有残疾， me i think i was born with a disability
因为我是爬行长大的 像 because i grew up crawling like the way
我一样，但我妈妈说 i do but my mother says
我不是这样出生的，而是 i was not born this way rather that it's
polio
我小时候注射了一些小儿麻痹症 i got from some injections i had when i
was too young
，妈妈告诉我，我有一次 the mother told me that i once suffered
脖子受伤，他们没有钱，只是把 the neck they had no money but just took
我带走了 去医院 me to the hospital
，也许是因为他们从不付钱， and maybe because they never paid
医生 doctors injected me
不小心给我注射了这些注射剂让我 carelessly those injections caused me to
痛苦不堪 suffer poorly
妈妈说我死后又 mom said that i died later came back to
life
复活了 她说我用身体的一部分复活而另一部分 she said i resurrected with one part of
the body
死了 发生在我 and the other died that happened when i
有两个 到三年 had two to three years
孩子尝试站立和走路的阶段 the stage where child is trying to stand
and walk
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因为在那之前我可以尝试站立 because before that i could try stand
但出院后我得了 but after coming from the hospital i had
小儿麻痹 这一切 infantile paralysis that's what happened
都是因为 all because of poor
注射不良 救了我的母亲 injection saved my mother
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我长大了 年纪大了 i grew up older finding myself this way
我年轻的时候发现自己这样 我从来不知道 when i was young i never knew that i
我需要 could need
这些来保护我的膝盖 我的膝盖 these to protect my knees my knees would
总是在地上划伤 always scratch themselves on the ground
我长大后满是伤疤 我 and i was full of scars when i grew i
找到了方法 保护他们 figured out the way to protect them
并改变我的工作方式 and changed the way i worked
只是我的童年 just my childhood having fun and playing
与朋友 with friends
一起玩乐和玩耍总是一个问题 我不会最喜欢 was always a problem i would not enjoy
和其他孩子一起玩 playing with other kids to the fullest
因为他们有腿 他们可以 because they had legs they could jump
在这里跳来跳去 run here and there
踢足球并享受但为了 我 play football and enjoy but for me as
只要我没有腿 long as i had no legs
有时我只会看他们玩 成为 sometimes i'll just watch them play be a
粉丝 fan
是的 在内心深处 我觉得为什么我不能 yeah deep inside i feel like why i'm not
able to join them
在童年时期加入他们 我没有 during my childhood i had no
自我接纳 self-acceptance
我非常担心自己直到 i worried so much about myself until
当我来到这个城市 when i came in this city
并与除了我之外的这个美丽的妻子结婚时， and got married to this beautiful wife
我意识到一切皆有 besides me i realized everything is
可能 possible
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在我年轻的时候我怀疑自己 at my young age i doubted myself
想知道我看到 wondered what i seen
了什么，所以他会给我这样的 to god so that he would give me such a
惩罚，我的母亲总是 punishment and my mother always
安慰我 我告诉我 comforted me telling that
这就是我的出生方式 this is how i was born there is nothing
我无法改变它 i can change about it
只有上帝引导我度过这一生 only god to guide me through this life
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我在一个村庄长大 我从未见过 i grew up in a village i had never met
任何 anyone disabled
残疾人 我以为我是唯一的残疾人 i thought i'm the only disabled guy in
那个 the world
世界 这就是为什么我总是问上帝 that's why i always asked god the reason
他为什么抛弃我的原因，但是当我离开我的 why he forsaken me but when i left my
父母并开始忙碌以 parents and started hustling so as to
成为一个男人 become a man
时，我继续遇到其他 in so doing i went on meeting other
残疾人 disabled people
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我自己的父亲总是欺负我 my own father had always bullied me
能在家里找到我， whenever he could find me at home
他会责怪我没有做 he would blame me for not doing
不同的活动，包括 different activities including fetching
做饭等等，但到那时我 cooking and so on yet by that time i
无法应付， could not manage
他公开告诉我我没用， he publicly told me that i'm useless
他们会责怪 they would blame me
我把我留在一个地方找到 in leaving me in one place and finding
我 又在同一个地方 me in the same place again
，他总是和我妈妈吵架 and he would always quarrel with my mom
我父亲从我出生起就从来不喜欢我， my father never liked me ever since i
因为我是如何出生的， was born because of how i was born
这让他每次下班后都和我妈妈离婚， this made him divorce with my mom every
并给 time that came from the job and phoned
我打电话回家 me home
一些冲突 it always brought some conflict that
让他们吵了一夜 would make them quarrel the whole night
爸爸在我残疾后就抛弃了我 dad abandoned me right after i became
disabled
没有人甚至没有一个灵魂以我为荣 no one not even a single soul was proud
to be my my side
，我在社会上从未得到尊重， and i was never given respect in the
这使我的 society that made my face
脸总是扭曲 愤怒的 to be always distorted with rage
爸爸迫害妈妈，她别无选择，只能 dad persecuted mom and she had no option
离婚 other than divorcing
爸爸从不高兴看到我在身边 他 dad was never happy seeing me around he
总是批评我妈妈生了 always criticized my mom for producing
我，好像他没有 me as if he did not take part
参与其中 他总是因为我而和我妈妈吵架 in it he would always fight with my mom
just because of me
爸爸会无缘无故地打我我 my dad would beat me for no reason my
爸爸非常喜欢我的弟弟 dad favored my young brother so much
，他很感激他，他 and he appreciated him that he would
总是因为他做的事情 always give him praise for doing things
我 i can't manage
做不到我没有腿而称赞他 yet i had no legs
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我面临的挑战之一是由于 我的 one of the challenges i faced due to my
残疾 disability
是蜜蜂来找我们的那一天，其他 was the day bees came to us and other
人很快就跑掉了 people quickly ran away
， and bees tongued me the whole face as
只要我不能像那天那样跑起来 long as i did not manage to run
as they did that day i nearly died only
，蜜蜂 that one guy came with fumes and smokes
就整张脸用舌头吐我 我 and saved me
因为受到了虐待我决定 due to the mistreatment i got i decided
to go
离家出走我告诉妈妈无论发生什么 away from home i told mom that whatever
事，如果 happened if
它死了我都会死但是如果它要离开 it's die i will die but if it's to leave
我会离开 i will leave
我不会永远和你在一起所以我 i won't stay with you forever so i left
就这样离开了 that way
时间到了 我长大了，我可以看到 time came when i grew and i could see
有些东西 我不能 there are things i could not manage
像洗衣服钓鱼水 like washing my clothes fishing water
和做其他活动一样 and doing other activities
我想到了解决方案是我的 i thought of it and the solution was my
上帝赐予的美丽妻子 god-given beautiful wife
虽然这并不容易我从没想过 though it wasn't easy i never thought
有人可以接受我的提议但她 one can accept my proposal but she
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没有 didn't
当我有团队时，他给我发了一个信使 he sent me a messenger when i had the
我并没有立即欢迎他 team i did not just welcome him
instantly
我将我的生活比作独居， i compared my life to living alone and
并将其 compared it
与与他一起生活进行比较 我看不出任何 with living with him i could not see any
影响 我知道只要在那里他会比我获利更多 impact i knew he would profit more than
i would
他无能为力 我 as long as there is nothing he can do i
问自己我从哪里来， asked myself where am i coming from and
我要去哪里 where am i heading to
我想知道我们 i could wonder if there is something we
作为一个家庭是否 as a family
可以一起实现某些事情 can achieve together
我担心和他一起去 i worried about how going with him would
会是什么样子， look like as a couple
但后来我改变了 我的想法并说为什么 but later i changed my mind and said why
not
我不看看其他残疾人，并 i looked at other disabled people and
意识到可以和他一起生活 realized it's possible to live with him
，我们最终 and we ended up
生活在一起 living together
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但我的朋友没有一个欢迎 but none of my friends welcomed the idea
爱上 of falling in love with this
我这个丈夫的想法，他们所做的就是 阿斯基 ng husband of mine all they did was asking
不管我是不是瞎 whether i'm blind
了 我是不是疯了 他们说 whether i'm not out of my mind they said
你怎么敢 how dare you
和像蛇一样爬行的人住在一起 live with someone who crawls like a
你不是贬低自己吗？ snake are you not devaluating yourself
他们中的一些人从来没有 and some of them have never came to
来看我，因为 visit me and ever since
我们不是朋友 we are not friends anymore
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当我们几乎一无所有时，我们住在一起 we lived together when we had almost
nothing
，人们会取笑我们 我 and people would make fun of us i was
被每个人都气馁 discouraged by everyone
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人们争辩说我要和 people were arguing for me to live along
这个可怜的人一起生活 this poor man
并找到其他人 我与 and find someone else i fought the
那些反对我的人战斗 婚姻 battle of those against my marriage
我所做的不是实践 毫无意义 what i did was not practice no sense
他们告诉我 they told me
我知道这个人是完美的伴侣， i knew this one was the perfect partner
尽管他有残疾 despite his disabilities
但即使现在人们接近我并 but even now people come close to me and
问 asked
我如何同意成为他的妻子 但上帝的 how i agree to be his wife but god's
计划超出了我们的思考 plan are beyond our thinking
能力 遇到了 capabilities i have met
不同的人 但这个是 different people but this one is the
对的 right one
虽然我们没有很多钱 though we don't have a lot of money
虽然没有很多财产 though don't have a lot of possessions
虽然我们生活在极端贫困中 though we live in extreme poverty but
但最重要 the greatest of all
的是我们彼此相爱 我会去 is that we love each other i will travel
旅行 你 沙英里 a thousand miles
只是为了和他在一起，我会 just to be with him and i will do
为他做任何事 anything for him
我的大多数朋友都抛弃了我，因为 most of my friends abandoned me because
我嫁给了这个丈夫， i got married to this husband
但无论在什么情况下，我都不会 but no matter what circumstances i will
never
放弃我的丈夫， give up on my husband
我们的第一个孩子辍学了， our first born dropped out of school
因为我们有 没有办法支付他的 because we had no way of paying him
分数 score fees
可悲的故事是他 the sad story is how intelligent he is
在课堂 in class
和现实生活中的聪明程度，但遗憾的是他 and in real life but it's a pity he is
没有上学， not schooling
我们现在没有任何方法可以解决这个问题， we don't have any way of solving that
我失业了，但如果我能 right now i'm unemployed but if i could
得到 足够的资金，我将开办一家小 get enough capital i would start a small
企业 business
，以帮助我谋生，因此 that would help me earn a living hence
能够提供 being able to provide all the
necessities
家庭的所有必需品，包括让我的 of a family including taking back my
children
孩子上学等等 to school and so on
美国大多数人都想 america most people wonder
知道我们如何做爱，但我是残疾人 how we make love yet i'm disabled it's
好吧我们做爱虽然 okay we make love though
我的双腿残疾我整个身体 my legs are disabled my whole body
机能良好 functions well
而且我的器官没有问题我们 and my organ has no problem we have
到目前为止有三个孩子 three children so far
所以你明白一切都很好 so you understand everything is all good
男人的权利应该 the right of a man should be the same
和veneman的权利一样 right of veneman
没人sho 无论情况如何，我们都会受到与其他人不同的对待， nobody should be treated different than
another person
no matter what the situation is
我们都是人类，我们都应该 we are all humans and we should all get
得到相同的待遇， the same treatment
感谢您观看这是 afrimax thank you for watching this is afrimax
english english
，我是 elijah and i'm elijah
you you