whats up this is Jackie Jones from how to get a girlfriend on board
and in this short video you're going to discover the five simple steps
guys are successfully using to ask a girl out in step 1
we're gonna discover the simple and easy way to open the conversation powerfully
in a positive way that makes a positive impact that first impression on her
so that she feels hot be talking to us and step 2:
you're going to learn how to make her feel comfortable so that she's gonna one
wanna spend more time with you and step 3:
we're going to learn exactly the perfect time to ask her out
and exactly what to say to her Oscar I'll
in step 4 were gonna discover the easy way
to get her phone number in a way that's cool and casual and finally in step 5
I'm gonna teach you the exact way to call a Rob
and set up the first day with her so that she's here to meet you
alright so let's get this thing started step 1:
opening the conversation with enthusiasm if you want to ask a girl out she asked
to be excited to spend more time with you
so you wanna make a good first impression being playful
lighthearted and fun makes her feel good to talk to him
confuse the SM is a former excitement enthusiasm is contagious
you want her to get excited that she's talking to you my this will set up a
positive momentum
that will make the rest of the conversation go a lot smoother
and easier so step one is all about
opening up the conversation with a good energy a good positive by
and going in with some enthusiasm to get very excited
step 2 how to make you feel comfortable
in your presence the main objective of this step
is to make her feel comfortable the girl you're talking to wants to feel like she
knows you a bitch first
she wants to feel like she can trust you she needs the fuel a positive energy
from you
and energy that tells her if I spent time in the sky
it's gonna be fun exciting and a positive experience
before a woman will wanna go out with you she wants to feel comfortable
around you so it's very important to make you feel comfortable
during your interaction with her the important point is this:
don't make asking her out a big deal
or event if you're making it a big deal you're gonna feel nervous
anyone come across has relaxed and playful
think of it this way you just inviting someone tell
just the same way you did by one of your friends I'll so
here are some simple tips on how to make her feel comfortable
in your presence number one
make sure you remember to smile a smile
with people that he's when you're looking at her with a warm
genuine smile she's gonna feel relaxed
and she's gonna feel safe the next tips for making her feel comfortable
is be playful act the same way you to act around your friends
remember this isn't attached you just having a fun conversation
with someone who you find beautiful an attractive so joke around playfully
teased her
have fun being too serious breaks the connection between people
she doesn't wanna see the serious you she wants to see the same cool relaxed
guy that you are
when you're around your friends to remember smiling
laughing and joking around brings people
closer together and makes them feel cultural
another element making her feel comfortable is giving her a compliment
women love to be complemented so make sure you let her know that you
appreciate something
about her give her a compliment do all these things and you're gonna make her
feel comfortable
relaxed and happy in your presence
the key to this is don't take yourself her
or the interaction too seriously remember
you doing this because you want to have more fun in your life you wanna bring
someone fun
into your life and enjoy the time with her step 3:
went to know the perfect time to ask her out
and exactly what to say to her before we get into this stuff
let's take a look at the term asking her out instead of looking it
as I'm asking this girl out look at it from a different perspective
look at it from the perspective of I'm simply extending
out an invitation this way if she declined the invitation
she's not rejecting you she simply declining the invitation
that you gave her okay so now back to step 3
so now you've made her feel comfortable your book smiling and laughing
so I can you ask her out how can you extend out an invitation to her
the best time NASCAR art is an emotional peak in the conversation
an emotional peak is basically when the by is going very well
ideally when you see that she's smiling laughing
and having a good time an emotional peak is the best moment to ask her out
because at that moment she's build with positive emotions
she's feeling really good so how do we do it
at the moment with energy and the interaction is high
you can very casually say something like
you know what you're really fun you should come out with me sometime
alright that simple so now let's bring down this invitation and see what we're
doing
at a deeper level number one
we're not asking her out casual inviting her to spend some time with us
so what is the so-called first and foremost
it keeps both love you very comfortable it's very casual
playful and pressure free remember
your number one goal is the keeper feeling comfortable
around you so that means you do not want to put pressure on her
asking a girl out puts pressure on your
it's like a big event that will either end in sheer ecstasy
or underdog disappointment and that's a lot of pressure
but if you just extend an invitation then
all the pressure is gone it's very casual when you give her an invitation
this way it makes it easy per decline without embarrassing herself
or you now the specifics of what you say
aren't too important just be playful and casual
simply put up invitations to women you like and if they like you back
they're going except those invitations perform at the invitation
is as follows: it's a compliment
plus an invitation she wants to know why you're inviting her out
so give her a reason for why you wanna spend time with
give her a compliment about her personality that lets her know that you
appreciate her
for more than just for looks it shows her that you really want to get to know
her
as a person so when you say something like you know one
not only are you super to but actually really funny
I want to spend some more time with you should come out with me this weekend
will have a lot of fun together when you say all that basically what you're
saying is
I like you because a this personality quality you have
and because I find you attractive and a asking you out because I want to spend
more time with you because I appreciate those things
a barge so this is a very casual way that lets her know why you're asking her
out
and also with an invitation and doesn't have
a lot of pressures so she's not going out to reject
she just declined the offer or accepts the offer
listen no one likes birthdays alright first dates are scary
there's a lot of pressure and it's a very serious
but everybody likes meeting up with new people
and having a good time so look at it not as a first date
look at it as you want her hanging out and having a good time
together stuff for how to get her former
this that is very simple after she's accepted your invitation
simply say something like alright let's exchange contact information what's your
number
or what's a better way to contact you Facebook or Paul
and then just exchange information and say okay cool
I'll give you a shout sometime and we'll set something up an important thing to
do
after you get her contact information is do not leave right away
stay there for at least a minute or two after that
the reason is because she does not want to see you
get her number and then run away as if you just stole something from
when you take her number and then continue in a calm
cool playful relaxed way talking to her its gonna show her
that this guy's cool is normal and it wasn't a big deal for him so
there's not going to be any pressure moving forward
step 5: how to call her can set up your first day
I suggest calling the girl rather than texting her
for Facebook messaging her it is more personal when you call her
and be built for comfort so when you call her
keep the call re the point of getting her phone number isn't to sit there and
have
hours of conversations with her the point of getting the phone number
did the setup a meeting as soon as possible
so just talked to were be cool playful and fun
and taller what you'd like to do at one today at what time
and see if she's available and then set up a time to meet
an important thing to remember when you're setting up a date is you need to
take the lead
the woman doesn't want to make the plans she wants the man to make the plans
and take care of everything so you decide where you wanna go
and what time you're going to me and if that doesn't work for her she let you
know
a woman always appreciate a man who takes the lead
and makes the decisions on how to setup the first meeting
alright so that I ask a girl out using those five easy steps
now if you want to learn more about women and dating and how to act on a
date
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