片名：美食、祈禱和戀愛
I have a friend, Deborah, a psychologist... 我的朋友，心理學醫生黛博拉
...who was asked by the city of Philadelphia... 費城邀請她
...if she could offer psychologicaI counsellng to Cambodian refugees... 為新近到達該城的柬埔寨難民
...boat people, who had recently arrived in the city. 那些“乘小船的人”提供心理慰籍
Deborah was daunted by the task. These Cambodians... 黛博拉被該任務嚇到了，這些柬埔寨人
...had suffered genocide, starvation, relatives murdered before their eyes... 遭遇過種族大屠殺、饑荒 以及親眼目睹親人被殺害
...years in refugee camps, harrowing boat trips to the West. 多年的難民營生活 讓他們擠上狹小的船逃至西方
How could she relate to their suffering? 她如何能理解他們的遭遇？
How could she help these people? 她怎樣能夠幫助到這些人？
So guess what all these people wanted to talk about... 那猜猜這些人想和我的朋友
...with my friend Deborah, the psychologist. 黛博拉，心理學醫生說什麼
lt was all, "I met this guy in the refugee camp. 不外乎這些：我在難民營裡碰到那人
I thought he really loved me, but when we got separated... 我以為他真的愛我，但我們分開後
...he took up with my cousin. Now he says he loves me... 他和我的表妹一起，現在他說他愛我
...and keeps calllng me. They're married now. What should I do?" 並不停給我電話，他們已經結婚了 我仍然愛他，我該怎樣辦？
This is how we are. 我們都是這個樣子
May I help you? 要我幫忙嗎？
I'm llz Gilbert. I'm writing a magazine article on Ball. 我是莉斯·吉伯特 我在寫有關巴厘島的文章
I wanted to meet a medicine man. 我想見一位巫醫
Everyone said I should meet Ketut llyer. Am I in the right place? 人們告訴我應該來找柯圖泰，是這嗎？
Wait. 稍等
I mean, here I am with a ninth-generation medicine man... 我說，和一個第九代的巫醫在一起
...and what do I wanna ask him about? 我會問他什麼呢？
Getting closer to God? 接近神靈？
Saving the world's starving children? 拯救世間饑餓的兒童？
Happy to see you. I am Ketut llyer. 很高興見到你，我是柯圖泰
Nope. I wanna discuss my relationship. 不，我想知道的是我的命運
You are a world traveler. 你是個環球行者
You will llve a long time... 你的生命線很長
...have many friends, many experiences. 會有很多朋友，豐富的經歷
You will have two marriages. One long, one short. 你會經歷兩段婚姻，一段長，一段短
Am I in the long one or the short one? 那我現在處於較長一段還是較短一段？
Can't tell. 天機不能洩露
Also you will lose all your money. 而且你會失去你所有的錢財
I think in next six to 1 0 months. 我預測會是6-10個月內
Don't worry. You will get it all back again. 不過別擔心，一切都會回來的
And you will come back to Ball... 然後你會回到巴厘島
...and llve here for three or four months and teach me Engllsh. 住在這裡3-4個月並教我英語
I never had anybody to practice my Engllsh with. 還沒人和我一起練習過英語呢
And then... 到那時
...I will teach you everything I know. 我會把我所知的全部傳授給你
Wait. 等會
I have this for you. 這個給你
Keep grounded so it's llke you have four legs. 腳踏實地則如擁有四腳
That way, you can stay in this world. 那樣，你就能在世間立足
Also, no looking at world through your head. 還有，別用頭腦看世界
Look through your heart instead. 而應用心看世界
That way, you will know God. 那樣，你便知道神之旨意
Which is why you came here, no? 這也是你來此的原因，對吧？
See you later, alllgator. 再見了，美國人
6個月後
I proofread all of her manuscripts. 我校對過她所有的手稿
My wife is very, very beautiful, but she can't spell for anything. 我妻子非常、非常漂亮，就是不會拼寫
Look at Uncle Stephen. 來看史蒂夫叔叔
And Auntie llz. 還有莉斯阿姨
I'm counting the minutes for this to be over so I can get in my big girI pants. 我指望著這快點結束 我才能穿得下原來的褲子
You look fantastic. You just had a baby. 你看起來好極了，才剛生完寶寶呢
Oh, you're lying. I'm fat, I'm exhausted... 哦，你這個大謊貓，我發福了，筋疲力竭了…
...I can't keep two thoughts. I feeI llke llza Minnelll. 都無暇想事了，就像是賴莎·明耐麗
Stephen, can you hold Jack? 史蒂夫，幫忙抱傑克一小會？
-l'm gonna introduce you to Walter. -Yeah. - 我要向你介紹沃爾特 - 好的
Hey, dude, you wanna grab a beer or something? 嘿，哥們，來瓶啤酒還是啥？
My new book comes out in April. Thank you for asking. 我新書四月出來，謝謝你關注
-Great. -May. - 太好了 - 五月
May. May. 五月、五月
This is Andre. You two are Times' Most Notable nominees. 這是安德列 你倆都是時代雜誌最熱門的提名者
-So glad to finally meet you. -Nice to finally meet you. - 很高興終於見到你 - 很高興終於見到你
I fed him nachos. ls that bad? 我喂他吃了玉米片，沒事吧？
You look comfortable. What'd you feed him, chloroform? 你看起來很舒服，你喂他吃了什麼？麻藥？
-Give him to his dad. -I told you, nachos. - 把他交給父親 - 我剛說了，玉米片
Know what? I'd be asleep too if I had a dump llke that. 知道嗎？如果吃了這些我也會睡成那樣
-We'll give him to his mom. -Come here then. - 交給媽媽 - 來這吧
-Wanna help me change his diaper? -Yes, I do. - 想不想一起幫他換個尿布？ - 好的
Hey, how's the vintage car thing going? 嘿，老爺車的事怎樣了？
Oh, no, no, no. I changed jobs. I'm a pastry chef now. 哦，不了，不了 我換工作了，現在是個糕點師
-You mean you're a baker. -Yeah. - 你是說糕點師？ - 是的
You wanna get baked? 你想被烤？
I know, I know. 我就知道，我就知道
It's hard, isn't it? 真不容易，是嗎？
Oh, no. This is so much fun. 哦，不，一切充滿樂趣
Did you know the exact moment you wanted to have a baby? 你還記得你什麼時候決定要孩子的嗎？
I can't remember, but l've had the box since before I got married. 記不起來了，但結婚前我就準備了一個盒子
What box? 什麼盒子？
It's girly and embarrassing, and you'll laugh at me if I tell you. 這真有點令人難堪，告訴你會取笑我的
I will laugh at you, but you still have to tell me. 我會取笑你，但你還是得告訴我
Come on. 好吧
Under the bed. 床底下
I've been filllng it with baby things... 我把嬰兒的用品都往裡面塞
...waiting untiI Andy was ready to be a father. 一直等到安迪做好當爸的準備
So sweet. 真甜蜜
Does this come in my size? 這個大小我也能穿？
I have a box just llke this, except it's filled with NationaI Geographics... 我也有個類似的盒子 但裡面裝的全是《國家地理》
...and The Times traveI section. 和《時代》上旅行的文章
All the places I wanna see before I die. 裡面全是我死前必去的勝地
llz, having a baby is llke getting a tattoo on your face. 莉斯，有了孩子就如同在臉上刻下刺青
You kind of wanna be fully committed. 你只想全身心投入
So my trip to Aruba next week, which is just a basic, you know... 下周的阿魯巴島之旅只是個起點
..."where to sleep, swim and stuff your face" piece.... “去哪裡睡覺，游泳，享用美食…”（廣告詞）
I got a new bikini. 我買了新的比基尼
And it turns out, I have unllmited minibar access. 而結果是我去了無數的迷你吧
-You know what that means? -Jet lag? - 知道那意味著什麼嗎？ - 時差？
You, me... 你，我…
...macadamia nuts. 澳洲堅果
That was cute. 太可愛了
You know who I was talking to at the party who was really inspiring... 知道嗎，在聚會上給了我啟發的人
-...was Tara's friend. -Brian. - 是塔拉的朋友 - 布萊恩
Brian. Unbellevable. He's a teacher, you know that? 布萊恩，難以置信，他是個老師，你知道吧？
He's a substitute teacher, isn't he? 是個代課老師，不是嗎？
Yeah. He was talking about the budget cuts that are happening now. 嗯，他說學校現在正在縮減預算
There's no money for anything. 什麼都沒錢
There's no music classes, there's no arts classes. 音樂課沒了，美術班不上了
They're volunteering their time to do all of this after school. 他們在課後義務教這些
They're educating our kids, you know? 是他們在教育我們的孩子呢
I think you'd make a great teacher, honey. 親愛的，我想你也會成為一個偉大的教師
Thank you, but I was thinking more of llke... 謝謝，但我想得更多的是
...education. Getting my masters, going back to school. I don't know. 深造，回去把碩士學位拿了，我也說不準
You know? 你知道嗎？
I-- You know.... 你懂的
-Going back to school. -l'm just thinking out loud. - 回去讀書 - 把想法說出來而已
I was getting the sinking feellng that Ketut's prophecy was coming true. 我開始不安的感到柯圖泰的預言就要靈驗了
Was I in the shorter marriage? 這是我短暫的一段婚姻嗎？
We'd only bought this house a year ago. 房子是一年前剛買的
Hadn't I wanted this? 難道我不想要這些嗎？
I had actively participated in every moment of the creation... 為了創造現在的生活
...of this llfe. 我已全心全意地投入了
So why didn't I see myself in any of it? 為何在其中我卻找不到自我？
The only thing more impossible than staying... 比留下來更難的事情
...was leaving. 是離開
I didn't wanna hurt anybody. I wanted to sllp quietly out the back door... 我不想傷害任何人，我想從後門偷偷溜走
...and not stop running untiI I reached Greenland. 直到格陵蘭島
lnstead, I made a decision. 但我沒有這樣，而是做了個決定
To pray. 祈禱
You know, llke, to God. 你懂得，向神祈禱
And it was such a foreign concept to me, that I swear I almost began with: 而我基本對祈禱這回事毫無概念 我甚至是這樣開頭的：
"l'm a big fan of your work." “我是你的超級粉絲”
Hello, God? 喂，上帝？
Nice to finally meet you. l.... 很高興終於見到你，我…
I am sorry l've never spoken directly to you before... 很抱歉我從未與你直接對話過
...but... 但
...I hope l've expressed my... 希望對於你所賜予我的
...ample gratitude for all the blessings you've given... 生活中所有的一切
...to me in my llfe. 我已表達了足夠的滿足和感恩
I'm in serious trouble. 我現在很痛苦
I don't know what to do. 不知道如何是好
I need an answer. 我需要一個答案
Please, tell me what to do. 請，告訴我如何是好
Oh, God, help me, please. 哦，上帝，請幫幫我
Tell me what to do and l'll do it. 告訴我怎麼做，我就會去做
Go back to bed, llz. 莉斯，回床上去
I don't wanna go to Aruba. 我不想去阿魯巴島
I don't wanna be married. 我不想結婚
You know, there's a whole divorce section downstairs. 你知道吧，樓下還有一大塊離婚專區
-"Pepper grinder." -She's having... - “胡椒磨” - 她有點
-...a nervous breakdown. -This is what girls do. - 精神失常 - 女孩們會這樣
-She's processing. -Why doesn't she get drunk or laid? - 她正在經歷 - 她為什麼不去酗酒和放縱？
That's what I would do if you left me. 如果你離開我，我就會這樣做
No, you wouldn't. 不，你不會
-No, I wouldn't. -She moved out, she filed for divorce. - 是，我不會 - 她搬出來了，申請了離婚
They were together eight years. She's got no home. 他們在一起都8年了，她現在無家可歸
"Legacy." “遺產”
Every word in Itallan is llke a truffle. A magic trick. 義大利語的每一個單詞都如同松露 充滿戲法
Honey, I get it. It's your llfe raft right now. 親愛的，我明白，這是你的救生筏了
When Andy and I broke up for two weeks, I bought a loom. 安迪和我分開兩周後，我買了織布機
A frigging loom. And he tried to start a microbrewery. 一台可恨的織布機，而他則開小啤酒廠
I don't know how you guys aren't sick of me now. I'm sick of me. 為什麼你們不厭煩我，我都受不了自己了
Are you kidding me? We love having you. 開什麼玩笑？我們喜歡你
It's kind of llke having a writer in residence. 就如同特聘了一位作家
But you are a writer. You should be writing something. 你是個作家，你應該寫點東西
Maybe I could write about a woman who goes to Italy to learn ltallan. 或許我可以寫個一個女人 去義大利學習義大利語的故事
Call it Carbohydrates and Conjugations. 這叫“碳水化合物和混合物”
I'll start looking for a place. 我要開始找房子了
-l'm falllng in love with you. -l'm not who you think I am. - 我愛上你了 - 我不是你想像中那樣
I'm just your fantasy. 我只是你的幻覺
No, that's bullshit. You're real. 不，胡說，你無比真實
Your scars, your talent. 你的傷痕，你的才華
The fact that I own a piece-of-crap bar... 我來經營那間小酒吧
...and you accept that that's all l'm gonna do. 你也同意我那樣做了
Okay, this sucks. 好了，真沒勁
-I second that. -Don't be rude. - 我同意 - 別沒禮貌
I love your pain. 我愛你的傷痛
And I love that when we're together, I can make it go away. 我愛我們在一起，我會趕走你的傷痛
-Oh, he's good. -You're love... - 哦，他很棒 - 你的愛…
-He's hot, there's a difference. -...is llke a hot panini. - 他很性感，與眾不同 - …猶如滾燙的帕尼尼（意式三明治）
And when I look into your eyes, I hear dolphins clapping. 當我深視你雙眼，我聽見海豚拍擊
I did not write that llne. 這句臺詞不是我寫的
Here's what he doesn't know yet. 還有他所不知的
I disappear into the person I love. 我與所愛之人融為一體
I am the permeable membrane. If I love you, you can have it all. 我是一張滲透膜 如果我愛你，你會擁有我的一切
My money, my time, my body... 我的財富、時間、身體
...my dog, my dog's money. 我的小狗，我小狗的財富
I will assume your debts and project upon you... 我會償還你的債務
...all sorts of nifty quallties you've never actually cultivated in yourself. 並為你設計所有你從未想過的美麗之物
I will give you all this and more... 我將給你這一切…
...untiI I am so exhausted and depleted... 直至我傾盡所有
...the only way I can recover... 我恢復的唯一方法
...is by becoming infatuated with someone else. 是與他人熱戀一場
-Ellzabeth, hi. -Hi. - 伊莉莎白，嗨 - 嗨
Oh, really? 哦，真的嗎？
How you doing? 近來怎樣？
Cheers. 乾杯
-Thank you. -I owe you an apology. - 謝謝 - 我得向你道歉
-For the walkouts. -Well, l'm not everyone's cup of tea. - 為那些退場的人 - 並不是所有人都喜歡我作品
I doubt that. 我不同意
I, on the other hand, was shit. 我，換句話說，一無是處
-Although I was trying very hard. -"Shit" is a strong word. - 儘管我非常努力了 - 說“一無是處”太嚴重了
Thank you. 謝謝
You seem shorter in person than on the stage. 你比舞臺上看起來要矮些
-Really? I hear that a lot. -Sorry. - 是嗎？很多人都這樣說過 - 抱歉
It's okay. 沒關係
It's unnerving when... 當一個陌生人比你還更能看清自己時
...a totaI stranger sees you more clearly than you see yourself. 這多少會令人尷尬
That's what I mean by saying you're short. 我指的就是說你矮
Are you hearing dolphins clapping right now? 你在聽海豚拍擊嗎？
I took a few llberties with your material. 我對你的作品做了少量的發揮
I give you full permission to make fun of me. I know you're dying to. 我允許你盡情地取笑我，我知道你想這樣
You're far too charming to make fun of. 你迷人到無法取笑
I'm still hearing them. 我仍聽見海豚拍擊
Is that your guru? 那是你的宗教領袖 古魯？
You're joking, but, yes, it is. 你在開玩笑吧，但，確實是的
She's beautiful. 她很漂亮
Yeah. A friend told me about her. 是的，朋友告訴我的
I was out of work and feellng pretty desperate for something. 我那時失業了且萬念俱灰
Not the last time I was out of work, the time before that. 不是在上一次失業的時候，而在那之前
And I just had this feellng llke I was looking in all the wrong places. 我有一種找錯地方的感覺
Looking for what? 找什麼？
God. 上帝
She has an ashram in India. I'm dying to go, but... 她在印度有個靜修處，我一直想去
...you know, you have to get, llke, three stages of hepatitis shots... 但你也清楚，你得經歷必備的階段 就如疫苗需要注射3次一樣
...and my insurance always runs out. 而我總是用光救濟金
I'll go when the time's right. 等時候恰當我就會去的
There's a gathering of her students every morning. 每天早上都有她學生的聚會
If you want, I could take you sometime. 如果你想去看看，我會帶你過去
If you're not unnerved by 1 00 crunchy people chanting in Sanskrit. 如果100多個用梵語吟唱的人 不會讓你煩躁的話
I need to be unnerved. 我需要煩躁下
David. A yogi from Yonkers. 大衛，一位來自揚克斯市的冥想者
I didn't exactly fall in love with the guy. 我並沒有真正愛上他
What happened was I dove out of my marriage... 只是我從婚姻中跑出來
...and into David's arms... 跑入大衛的懷抱
...exactly the same way a cartoon circus performer... 就如同卡通故事裡的人物
...dives off a high platform and into a small cup of water... 從高高的跳臺上跳入一小杯水中
...vanishing completely. 消失得無影無痕
Your underwear, my queen. 你的內衣，我的女皇
He just folded my dellcates. 他只是折疊了我的衣物
Oh, my God, baby, you are in so much trouble. 哦上帝，寶貝，你麻煩大了
Thirty-six? 36樓？
My cllent is simply not interested in a divorce. 我的委託人不想離婚
Is he serious? 他是認真的嗎？
Is he really representing himself? 他真的是這麼想的嗎？
One semester of law schooI right here, baby. 法律學院一期學生在此，寶貝
Great. Well, what would it take to interest your cllent? 好，那麼，你的委託人要怎樣才想離婚？
Okay, so here's the deal. You have screwed up my llfe... 好吧，條件如下：你搞砸了我的生活
...but what I wanna know is why couldn't you find yourself... 但我想知道的是
...in our marriage? Why didn't you say what you were thinking? 為什麼你在我們的婚姻中找不到自我？ 為什麼你不說出自己的想法？
-I did. You never llstened to me. -No. You never said: - 我說了，你卻從未認真聽過 - 不，你從未說過
"Hey, you know what? You suck. l'm deeply unhappy." “嘿，知道嗎？你爛透了，我非常不開心”
You just took off. You never gave me a chance to address those problems. 你只會閃開 你從沒有給我機會去糾正這些問題
That's not fair. That's just quitting. I took vows. 這樣不公平，這是逃避，我發過婚誓
Till death. And I take them seriously. 至死不渝，我是認真的
I belleve this is just a phase and l'm willlng to wait it out. 我認為這只是一個階段，而我願意等待
You are always waiting, Stephen. 你一直在等待，史蒂芬
Waiting for me to come home, to wanna have kids... 等我回家，養個小孩
...to make you dinner. I don't know why we can't accept... 為你做飯，我不懂為什麼你不能接受
...we don't wanna llve in unhappiness anymore. 我不想再生活得不快樂了
I accept the fact that I am occasionally unrellable... 我承認我有時有些不可靠
...and I often get sidetracked, but I thought you llked that about me. 我也經常轉移話題，但我以為你欣賞我那點
I thought it was okay that I had hopes and dreams. 我認為有希望和理想很好
Have a dream. Stephen, great, fine. Do that. Just pick one. 史蒂芬，既然有夢想，很好，選擇一個去做
Okay, I pick one. I pick you. 好的，我選擇一個，我選你
I know this is awful. 我知道這樣說很過分
But I belleve with every molecule of my body that you will find the person... 但我確信你會找到那個
...that wants just what you want. 你想要的人的
That will give you what you want and what you deserve. l'm not her. 她會給你想要的和應得的，但我不是那個人
Well, you obviously know nothing about what I want. 好吧，你顯然對我想要的一無所知
My cllent would llke to submit a song he wrote... 我的委託人想獻上自創歌曲一首
...that he belleves is relevant to these proceedings. Goes something llke this: 他認為很符合這個程式，大概是這樣吧：
Are you kidding? 你開什麼玩笑？
Quitter, quitter, quitter! 逃兵！逃兵！逃兵！
How about I take the blame? I am the one who couldn't deal... 錯的是我好嗎？我是那個無法忍受
...with another weekend roaming some box-shaped superstore... 週末在超市里閒逛
...buying appllances on credit... 還要賒帳購物
...and pretending to be a couple that neither one of us ever knew how to be. 還要裝成一對 我們根本都不懂什麼叫夫妻的夫妻
You wanted that toaster. 你不是想要吐司機嗎？
"You llke faking it, fine. You're stellar. I'm the failure. I suck at faking it." “你喜歡做作，好吧，你是主角 我是失敗者，我厭煩做作了”
-lt was not my finest hour. -So where do things stand now? - 那時真得意不起來 - 那事情現在怎樣了
We're prepared to offer half of everything... 我們打算讓出一半財產
...and my cllent's retirement accounts. 包括我委託人的退休金
Take it all then. Everything. 都拿走吧，所有
He still said no. 他還是說不
-He hates me now. -He doesn't hate you. - 他現在恨死我了 - 他不恨你
His heart is broken. 他心碎了
I think he hates you. 我認為他恨你
I'm never letting you out of the basement. 我不會讓你從地下室出去的
Why don't we talk next week and we'll see where things stand? 我們何不下周再談，看看事情的進展？
-Okay. -These things have a way... - 好的 - 事情自會有
...of working themselves out. 解決的辦法的
So why'd you become a vegetarian? 你為什麼成為素食主義者了？
I saw some cows slaughtered one time. 我有次親眼看到母牛被宰殺
Barely touched your dinner. 你幾乎沒有怎麼吃
He's 28. 他才28歲
This is hard for him, isn't it? And you? 對他而言並不容易，不是嗎？你呢？
The meditations help. 冥想會有幫助的
llz. 莉斯
You remember a couple of years ago, when you threw yourself into... 你還記得幾年前你給廚房翻新的事嗎？
...the renovation of your kitchen? You were consumed... 你全心全意
...with being the perfect wife and cook. 就為了成為一個完美的家庭主婦
I was trying to make it work. 我只是努力扮演好我的角色
Well, I think chanting and meditation is the same thing... 我認為祈禱和冥想是一碼事
...in a different costume. 只是穿著不同的外衣
Definitely give me that documentary. 一定要給我那紀錄片
I've been thinking about vegetarianism. 我一直想做個素食主義者
My triglycerides are through the roof. 我的甘油三酯快爆棚了
Yeah. Thanks for everything. 感謝你們
Great to meet you. 很高興認識你們
-What? -Nothing. lt's just... - 怎麼？ - 沒什麼，只是有點…
...you know, you used to look llke Stephen. 你知道嗎，你過去有點像史蒂芬
Now you kind of look llke David. 現在則像大衛
You know? 懂嗎？
What I meant was, you know how people start resembllng their dogs? 我是說，你知道“物似主人形”嗎？ 人會變得和他的寵物狗相似
Why would he say that, we look llke the same dog? 他為什麼那樣說，我們看起來像同一只狗？
-He was joking. -Not funny. - 他開玩笑而已 - 一點都不好笑
Well, he had five Heinekens. He was bombed. 他喜力喝多了，腦袋被炸了
Well, not funny. 一點都不好笑
We don't look llke the same dog. 我們不是同一類型的狗
If anything, you're a collle and l'm a Tibetan mastiff. 總之，你是牧羊犬，我是藏獒
Don't you wanna give me a chance to miss you? 不給我一個想你的機會？
It begins when the object of your affection... 這始于你所心愛的人
...bestows upon you a heady hallucinogenic dose... 在你身上注入一種令人興奮的致幻劑
...of something you've never even dared to admit you wanted... 你甚至從沒敢於承認這是你想要的
...an emotionaI speedball of thunderous love and excitement. 這是一種能快速擴散的飽含強烈 愛與興奮的情感
Soon you start craving that attention with the hungry obsession... 不久，你就會像癮君子一樣如饑似渴地
...of any junkie. 癡迷這種東西
When it's withheld, you turn sick, crazy, not to mention resentful... 一旦無法得到滿足，你變得噁心 狂躁，更別提憎恨那個
...of the dealer who encouraged this addiction in the first place... 一開始向你兜售這個
...but now refuses to pony up the good stuff. 而後又拒絕出售這好玩意的商人
Just frustrated, l'm concerned. I don't understand. 我很沮喪，我很煩惱，我不明白
What don't you get? 你什麼不明白？
What's going on? You don't look me in the eye. 我們究竟怎麼了？你連正眼都不瞧我了
-You don't finish your-- -Nobody's asking you to make the bed! -你不跟我說話 -沒人要你鋪床
-You don't have sex with me! -Sometimes I'm not in the mood! -也不和我親熱了 -有時不在狀態罷了
Goddamn him, and he used to give it to you for free. 該死的，過去這還是免費給你的
Next stage finds you skinny, shaking in a corner... 下一個階段就是你瘦骨嶙峋地在角落中發抖
...certain only that you'd sell your soul... 你會為再一次擁有那東西
...just to have that one thing one more time. 而出賣你的靈魂
Well, then why don't we discuss it? Why don't we sort it? 好吧，那麼我們為什麼不好好談談？ 為什麼不解決它？
-Why don't we act llke adults? -Okay. Can I have a llttle space? -為什麼不能像個成年人那樣？ -好吧，我能有點個人空間麼？
-How about that? -Meanwhile... -怎樣？ -同時…
...the object of your adoration is now repulsed by you. 你也開始排斥這種心愛之物
-You don't always make me miserable. -There's a comfort. -你並不總是令人痛苦 -這安慰讓我好受些
I just-- Sometimes I need to come home... 我只是…有時候回到家裡
...and have a llttle David time. 我只需要擁有一點自己的時間
He looks at you llke someone he's never met before. 他看著你就如同見到陌生人一般
-ls that okay? -Yeah. No, it's fine. -這樣不行嗎？ -當然，很好
And not have to, llke, you know, justify it. 而且你也不必，糾正它
The irony is you can hardly blame him. 令人諷刺的是你無法責備他
I mean, check yourself out. You're a mess. 我的意思是，放棄吧，你糟透了
Unrecognizable even to your own eyes. 自己都對自己感到陌生了
You asked me to come here? Here I am. 你叫我來這裡？我在這了
And it turned into something else. 然後事情就變樣了
-Didn't it? -You are such a child. -是不是？ -還是個孩子氣
-Right. I can't take this anymore. -Great. Perfect. -好吧，我受不了了 -很好，很棒
That's a great response to a conversation. 這是對談話最好的回應
Goddamn it. 該死
You have now reached infatuation's finaI destination. 你現在已經到達熱戀的終點
The complete and merciless devaluation of self. 這是完全且無情的貶值
You wanna go away for a year? 你要離開一年？
Do you know what I felt when I woke up, Della? 知道我早上醒來有什麼感受嗎，迪莉婭？
Nothing. No passion, no spark, no faith, no heat. Absolutely nothing. 什麼都沒，激情，火花，信念，溫暖 什麼都沒有
I've gotten past the point where I can be calllng this a bad moment. 已經超出我稱之為糟糕的界限了
And it just terrifies me. Jesus, this is llke worse than death to me... 這讓我震驚，天啊，這真比死去還難受
...the idea that this is the person I'm gonna be from now on. 難道我要和這人相守下去嗎
This happens to people. 人都會遇到這種情況
They fall in love in their 20s, get married... 20多歲，戀愛結婚
...do the granite countertop, white-picket fence in their 30s... 30多歲，養家糊口
...and somewhere they reallze, "This is not for me." 然後會突然意識到：這不是我想要的
So they faiI and they fall down, they hurt llke hell, they straighten up... 他們受到打擊，感到絕望，他們想重新振作
...and march their asses to the shrink's office. 他們會勇敢地去看他們的心理醫生
-They can't just check out. -I am not checking out. - 他們不會就這樣放棄 - 我不是放棄
I need to change. 我需要改變
You have a support system here, llz. 莉斯，在這你有支持著你的人
You have friends and family who love you. 你有愛你的朋友和家人
And do you feeI my love for you? My support for you? No. 你感到我對你的愛和支持了嗎？沒有
There's, llke, nothing. I have no pulse. 什麼也沒，我都沒感覺了
-I am going to Italy. -ltaly. Why ltaly? - 我要去義大利 - 義大利，為什麼是義大利？
-What did you have for lunch? -I don't know. A salad. - 你中午吃啥了？ - 不記得了，沙拉？
Exactly. I used to have this appetite for food, for my llfe... 對，我曾對食物、對生活充滿食欲
...and it is just gone. 但現在全沒了
I wanna go someplace where I can marveI at something. 我要去一個能給我刺激的地方
Language, gelato, spaghetti, something. 比如語言，霜淇淋，義大利面等等
-You're talking llke a college kid. -l've been acting llke one. - 你說起來就像是個大學生 - 我一直都像個大學生
Since I was 1 5, I've either been with a guy or breaking up with a guy. 打從15歲起，不是在和人拍拖就是和人分手
I have not given myself two weeks of a breather... 我從沒有給自己兩周的時間來休息
...to just deaI with, you know, myself. 來整理自己
What's going on with you and David? 你和大衛之間發生什麼了？
What, did you fall out? 怎麼了，掉下去了？
I don't know how to be here. 我不知道怎麼會在這裡
You wanna know how to be here? Stop constantly waiting for something. 你想知道怎麼到這裡，就別不停地等待什麼
I'm going to Italy and then l'm going to David's guru's ashram in lndia... 我要去義大利 然後我要去大衛的古魯在印度的靜修所
...and l'm going to end the year in Ball. 年底我會去巴厘島
That's what l'm gonna do. 這是我的打算
That's harder to argue with. The beaches are nice. But why? 聽起來無可爭議，海灘很美，但是為什麼？
-Ketut told me I would. -Guy with no teeth. - Ketut告訴我我會這樣 - 牙齒沒了的人
When you're desperate... 當你生活絕望時
...and some guy who, yes, looks a llttle llke Yoda... 而某人，就如同尤達大師（星球大戰角色）
...hands you a prophecy, you have to respond. 給你一個預言，你得回應
-Do you need a Xanax? -Always. - 需要鎮靜劑嗎？ - 當然
Okay, l'm just gonna say it. I'm gonna say it and be done with it. 好吧，我只想說，想做就做吧
What if it doesn't work? 如果沒用呢？
My whole llfe fits in a 1 2-foot-square box. 我的全部家當就在這12英尺的盒子裡
You know how many times I hear that in a day? 你知道我一天聽多少次這樣的話嗎？
Most of them never come back for their whole llfe. 多數人都不會回來取走他們的家當
-Hello? -llz. - 喂？ - 莉斯
Good news. Stephen just signed the divorce papers. 好消息，史蒂芬簽離婚協議了
I'll probably be back in a week, penniless with dysentery. 我可能會在一周後身無分文、帶著痢疾回來
You're my hero. 你是我的英雄
Hey. 嘿
If you stay, we'll go out for lndian every night. 如果你留下，我們每晚都去印度所
You never asked me to stay. 你從沒叫我留下
Go, go, go. 走，走，走
You know what's funny? 知道什麽事是最可笑的嗎?
This is the first time in my llfe there's no one waiting at home for me. 這是我生命中第一次 家中沒有人等我回去
I don't even have a home to come back to. 現在都無家可歸了
Oh, God. You'll make friends. 哦，老天，你會交到朋友的
You'll make friends with a backpack, of course. 你會結識一個背著背包的朋友，無疑的
It'd be great to get away. 一走了之顯然很好
Andy and I were talking about getting a llttle villa in Florence for a month. 安迪和我打算在佛羅倫斯的小別墅呆上一個月
You know, and in 1 0 years, when Jack is older.... 10年內，當傑克長大些…
What? 什麼？
You know why I was giving you such a hard time? 艱難離別之時，知道我為什麼告訴你這個嗎？
I love my job, my guy and my kid, but.... 我愛我的工作，我丈夫和孩子
I wish I could go. 但我希望我也能去
I love you and l'm proud of you. 我愛你並為你自豪
Now go. 走吧
There is a wonderfuI old Itallan joke... 有個印度的古笑話
...about a poor man who goes to church every day... 說一個窮人每天都到神廟裡
...and prays before the statue of a great saint, begging: 在神像前祈禱道
"Dear saint, please, please, please let me win the lottery." “偉大的神，求你，求你，求你讓我中頭彩”
Finally, the exasperated statue comes to llfe... 最後，神像受不了了
...and looks down at the begging man and says: 顯靈並俯視著祈禱者說
"My son, please, please, please buy a ticket." “孩子，求你，求你，求你，買張彩票先”
So now I get the joke. 現在我領會到這個笑話的真諦了
And l've got three tickets. 而且我手握三張票
You heat the water on the stove. 在火爐上把水燒開
So if I want to bathe...? 那麼如果我想洗澡？
You put the water in the tub. 你把水倒進浴盆
Okay. 好的
Yeah. lt doesn't really seem llke enough water to bathe in. 看來水不夠洗
Not enough. 水不夠
Yes, it's enough. 不，夠了
Fill it up three, four, five times. 倒3、4、5次
Everything that's important gets cleaned. 重要的是洗乾淨
Is this safe? This... 這樣安全嗎？這些…
...scaffolding? Scaffol-- 架子？…
It holds up the ceillng. 這些架子支撐著頂棚
Otherwise it will fall apart. 不然頂棚就會倒下來
Everything falls apart, my dear. 所有的東西都會到下來，孩子
The only thing permanent in llfe is family. 生活中唯一永恆的東西是家庭
You're not married. 你還未婚啊
No, divorziata. 不，離婚了
Why divorced? 為什麼離婚？
We broke it. 我們搞砸了
You're more happy now? 你現在更幸福嗎？
I have one rule. 我有條規矩
No strange men spending the night. 不准留陌生男人過夜
You American girls when you come to ltaly... 你們這些美國女孩來到義大利
...all you want is pasta... 想要的全是義大利麵食
...and sausage. 和香腸
I'll take it. 好的
Good. You chose well. 很好，你選對了
Cappuccino. 卡布奇諾咖啡
-lt's a zoo in here. -And my ltallan sucks. - 這裡就像是動物園 - 我的義大利語糟透了
-How long have you been here? -Two weeks. You? - 在這多久了？ - 兩周，你呢？
Six weeks. You'll get better. 六周，會慢慢變好的
Two cappuccinos, please. 請來兩倍卡布奇諾咖啡
And warm the milk this time. 這次要溫牛奶
Yesterday it was too hot and burned my tongue. 昨天太燙了燙了我的舌頭
-You llke Napoleons? -Of course. - 喜歡千層酥嗎？ - 當然
And two Napoleons, please. 來兩塊千層酥
Your Itallan is fantastic. 你的義大利語好極了
I have a wonderfuI tutor. I'll give you his number if you llke. 我有個非常好的老師 如果你需要我會把他電話給你
-He's really good and he needs work. -Oh, great. - 他相當不賴，而且他也需要找活 - 哦，太好了
Are you Dutch? German? 你是荷蘭人？德國人？
Swedish. Even colder people, if you can imagine. 瑞典，更冷地方的人，如果你能想像
-l'm llz, by the way. -Sofi. - 我是莉斯 - 索菲
You can say: 你可以說
It's past. 這過去了
Too fast, but okay. 太快了，不過還好
You can say: 你可以說
Yeah.
What a beautifuI word. 多美的單詞呀
Come on, it's "let's cross over." It's so ordinary. 得了，意思是讓我們過去，很常用的
No, it's the perfect combination of ltallan sounds. 不，這是義大利語發音的完美結合
It's the wistfuI "ah," the rolllng trill, the soothing "ess." 有親切的“ah”，延綿舒緩的顫音“ess”
-That's true. -I love it. - 確實 - 我太喜歡了
All right, let me teach you a word. 好的，讓我教你一詞
Therapist. 忘憂品
-Come on. -Good. You gotta learn humor. - 得了 - 很好，你得學點幽默
-lt's not. -Come on. Cheers. - 不是這意思 - 好了，乾杯
-Shall we continue Tuesday at 5? -Yes. - 週二5點繼續？ - 好的
-With another bottle of the therapy? -Of course. - 再來一瓶忘憂品？ - 當然
-You're doing very well, llz. -Thank you. - 你表現得很棒，莉斯 - 謝謝
And you must be very pollte with yourself... 你在學新東西時
...when you learn something new. 一定都是這麼文雅的
Yes. Grazie, I agree. 是的，謝謝，我認同這點
But your Engllsh-- How are you even talking to me llke this right now? 但你的英語…怎麼說成這樣？
I think you're gonna teach me more than I teach you. 我想你教我 會比 我教你更多一些
You have good Itallan. Very good. 你的義大利語很好，相當棒
All right. 好了
I am alone. 我很孤獨
I feeI so guilty. I've been in Rome for three weeks... 我感到內疚，在羅馬三周了
...all l've done is learn a few ltallan words and eat. 所做的就是學了幾個義大利單詞和吃東西
You feeI guilty because you're American. 你感到內疚因為你是美國人
You don't know how to enjoy yourself. 你不知道怎樣享受生活
-I beg your pardon? -lt's true. - 什麼意思呢？ - 確實
Americans know entertainment, but don't know pleasure. 美國人知道娛樂，卻不懂快樂
This is Luca Spaghetti, by the way, you know. 插一句，他是盧卡·意粉
Your name is Luca Spaghetti? 你的名字是盧卡·意粉？
Yes, that's what our family is called. 是的，我們家族的名字
We invented it. I'm serious. llsten to me. 我們發明了它，我是認真的，聽我說
You want to know your problem? Americans. 你想知道自己的問題嗎？美國人
You work too hard. You get burned out. 你工作賣力，你耗盡自己了
Then you come home and spend the whole weekend... 然後你們在家穿著睡褲
...in your pajamas in front of the TV. 在電視旁過週末
That's not far off, actually. 確實，差不多
But you don't know pleasure. You have to be told you've earned it. 但你們不知道什麼是快樂 你們被告知那是應該的
You see a commerciaI that says, "It's Miller time"... 你們看到廣告裡說：現在是米勒時間
...and you say, "That's right. Now I will go to buy a six-pack." 你們就會說：好吧，我得去買半打啤酒來
And drink the whole thing and wake up the next morning and you feeI terrible. 然後喝光，第二天早上起來發現自己糟糕透了
But an ltallan doesn't need to be told. 但義大利人不需要被告知
He walks by a sign that says, "you deserve a break today"... 當他路過寫著“值得為自己放一天假”標語時
...and he says, "Yeah, I know. 他會點頭說：“嗯，我知道”
That's why I'm planning on taking a break at noon... “所以我中午打算休息一會”
...to go over to your house and sleep with your wife." “去你家睡你的老婆”
We call it "dolce far niente." 我們稱之為“悠閒”
It means... 意思是…
...the sweetness of doing nothing. We are masters of it. 閒人之樂，我們是主人
He's right. He says... 他說對了，他的意思是…
...you can't learn ltallan llke this. 你不能像這樣學義大利語
You don't speak the language just with your mouth, speak it with your hands. 不能僅用嘴說義大利語，還要學會用手去說
llke this? 像這樣？
Okay. ls yelllng. 是的，這是叫喊
'THAT MEAI WAS EXCELLENT' “這頓飯棒極了”
'SUCK IT' “去你的”
All this gives me a stomachache. 一切都讓人胃痛
'SCREW YOU' “去你的”
-I think that's my neighbor Lorenzo. -Charming. - 我想那是我的鄰居洛倫佐 - 真可愛呀
ANOTHER WAY TO SAY 'SCREW YOU' “去你的”另一種說法
So anyway, to start off l'd say.... 不管怎樣，我來起個頭
Excuse me. 麻煩
Come here. 過來這裡
For the table... 我們要…
...a big platter of artichoke alla giudia... 大份的洋薊
...prosciutto with melon... 甜瓜火腿
...and eggplant with ricotta affumicata. 茄子熏乾酪
Then spaghetti alla carbonara... 還有烤義大利麵條加乾酪沙司
...pappardelle with ragu of rabbit... 兔肉義大利寬麵條
...and llnguini with clams. 蚌肉扁麵條
Then tripe alla romana... 還有牛肚阿拉
...and saltimbocca. 和義大利小牛肉
And two more llters of the vino sfuso from Genzano. 外加兩瓶Genzano鎮的散裝葡萄酒
Thank you. 謝謝
You did it. Yes. 你成功了
llz Gilbert, you are a Roman woman now. 莉斯·吉伯特，你現在是羅馬女人了
No, only honorary. 不，只是名義上的
That is a reaI Roman woman. 那才是真正的羅馬女人
Yeah, with a lot of internationaI friends. 是的，有很多國際友人
That one, I'd bite. 如果是我我會咬過去
Maybe you and Rome just have different words. 或許你的單詞與羅馬不一樣
-Different words? -Yeah. - 不一樣的單詞？ - 是的
Yeah. lt's llke each city has a word, if you really think about it. 對，你認真想想的話 就如每個城市都有一個詞
llke, what is the word for London? 比如，倫敦的詞是？
-I would say "stuffy." -I would agree with that. - 我會用“古板”這個詞 - 我同意
-What's the word for Stockholm? -Are you kidding? "Conform." - 斯德哥爾摩呢？ - 開什麼玩笑，“順從”
And New York? 紐約呢
"Ambition" or "soot." “野心”或“煙灰”
What's the word for Rome? 羅馬呢？
It's kind of difficult to think about. 這就有點難以形容了
It's classic. 古典
"Sex." 性感
Of course. 當然
So, what's your word, llz? I'm curious. I can't figure it out. 那麼，你呢，莉斯？我很好奇，我想不出來
Well.... 嗯…
It might be.... 應該是…
It started as "daughter." I was good at that. And then... 開始是“女兒”，我做得很好
..."wife." Not so good. 然後是“妻子”，並不是很好
"Girlfriend." “女友”
Not so good. 並不令人滿意
My word's "writer." 我的詞是“作家”
Yeah, but that's what you do. That isn't who you are, no? 嗯，但那是你的工作，不是你這個人
Maybe you're a woman in search of her word. 也許你是一個尋找自己的女人
Hey, Sofi, it's llz. Let's go to Naples. Maybe my word is "pizza." 嘿，索菲，我是莉斯，我們去那不勒斯吧 我的詞也許是“批薩”
llsten, lady, I am only 7, but I can tell you're a complete moron... 女士，聽著，我只有7歲，但我能看出來 你簡直就是個傻B
...because I am from Naples. 因為我來自那不勒斯
I love this place, but Giovanni said to watch out. 我愛這個地方，但喬瓦尼說要當心
His cousin got mugged here in a museum. 他表哥在這的某個博物館被打劫了
-Are you serious? -Watch out for the scooter. Yeah. - 真的嗎？ - 小心摩托車，是的
I'm in love. l'm having a relationship with my pizza. 我陷入愛河了，我與批薩不可分離了
You look llke you're breaking up with the pizza. What's the matter? 看起來你和批薩分手了，怎麼回事？
I can't. 不能再吃了
What do you mean, you can't? This is pizza in Napoll. 什麼意思，不能再吃了？ 這可是那不勒斯的批薩
It is your moraI imperative to eat that pizza. 吃那批薩可是你義不容辭的義務
I want to, but I've gained, llke, 1 0 pounds. 我也想，但我已經長了將近10磅了
I mean, l've got this.... 我的意思是，我…
Right here. What's it called? What's the word? 就在這，應該怎麼形容？用什麼詞好？
A muffin top. 松餅皮
I have one too. 我也有
I unbuttoned my jeans five minutes ago just looking at this. 5分鐘前我就把牛仔褲解開了，看看
Let me ask you a question. 讓我問個問題
In all the years you've ever undressed in front of a gentleman.... 過去所有的日子裡 你有沒有裸露在男人面前
-Hasn't been that many. -All right, well... - 不是很多 - 好了，那麼
...has he ever asked you to leave? 他有沒有叫你走開？
-Has he ever walked out? Left? -No. - 或者他們有沒有走開？ - 沒有
Because he doesn't care. 那是因為他根本不在乎
He's in a room with a naked girl. He's won the lottery. 能與女孩赤身裸體共于一室，他就中頭彩了
I'm so tired of saying no and then waking up in the morning... 我已經厭倦了說不，然後每天早上醒來
...and recalllng every single thing I ate the day before. 回想昨天都吃了些啥
Counting every calorie so I know exactly... 計算出有多少卡路里，換算成多少罪惡感
...how much self-loathing to take into the shower. 帶著這些罪惡感去洗澡
I'm going for it. 我不在乎了
I have no interest in being obese. I'm just through with the guilt. 我對於是否肥胖不再有任何興趣 我已經拋棄負罪感了
This is what l'm gonna do. I'm gonna finish this pizza... 現在我要做的就是吃完這些批薩
...and then we're gonna go watch the soccer game. 然後我們去看足球賽
And tomorrow we're gonna go on a llttle date... 明天我們繼續去逛
...and buy ourselves some bigger jeans. 去買大號的牛仔褲
Giovanni llkes a muffin. 喬瓦尼喜歡松餅
Attagirl. 好樣的
He's saying, "For whom are you playing?" 他說的是“你究竟在為誰踢”
Per chi, for whom. Per chi，為了誰
Pull, pull. l'm sucking it in. 拉，拉，我憋著氣
Put some Swedish muscle into this. 把瑞典人的肌肉塞進去
You think this happened to Sophia Loren? 這種事會在索菲亞·羅蘭身上發生嗎？
There it goes. Almost got it. 可以，快了
Go, go, go. You're not trying. 繼續、繼續、繼續，你都沒用力
I've almost got it. l've almost got it. I did it. 馬上就行了，馬上就行了，搞定了
Oh, that's beautiful. You should get it. 哦，那件相當漂亮，你應該買
For whom? 為誰？
For you, llz. Just for you. 你，莉斯，就為你自己
No, I'm happy just with my big lady pants. 不，我喜歡穿我的大牛仔褲
Thanks for the day. And the leg room. 謝謝你們，還有那“寬敞”的座位（車後座）
It was fun. 很開心
We're gonna go for food. Wanna come? 我們要去吃點東西，你來嗎？
No. No, l'm good. 不，不用了，我不去了
The sweetness of doing nothing. 閒人之樂
Please. Please get off the floor. 請，請別趴在地板上
Will you please just...? Will you come up here? 你能，你能上來嗎？
What if we just acknowledge that we have a screwed-up relationship... 假若我們承認我們把關係搞砸了
...and we stick it out anyway? 而我們仍然堅持到底怎樣？
We accept that we fight a lot... 我們接受這點，我們努力了
...and we hardly have sex anymore... 但我們之間不再有激情了
...but that we don't wanna llve without each other. 但我們仍不想離開彼此
And that way we can spend our llves together... 我們還是這樣相處下去
...miserable... 痛苦的…
...but happy not to be apart. 但很高興沒有分開
Dear David: 親愛的大衛
We haven't had any communication in a while... 已有一段時間未聯繫
...and it's given me time I needed to think. 這讓我有了思考的時間
Remember when you said we should llve with each other and be unhappy... 記得你說就算不快樂，我們也應該過下去
...so we could be happy? 這樣我們就會快樂
Consider it a testimony to how much I love you... 為了證明自己有多愛你
...that I spent so long pouring myself into that offer... 我花了大量的努力
...trying to make it work. 想令它奏效
But a friend took me to the most amazing place the other day. 前幾天，一位朋友帶我去了一個很神奇的地方
It's called the Augusteum. 那個地方叫Augustine
Octavian Augustus built it to house his remains. 是屋大維建造來用作陵寢的
When the barbarians came, they trashed it along with everything else. 但當異族入侵時，他們席捲走所有的東西
The great Augustus, Rome's first true great emperor... 偉大的屋大維，羅馬第一位偉大的君主
...how could he have imagined that Rome... 他如何能夠想像羅馬
...the whole world, as far as he was concerned, would be in ruins? 還有他所惦記的整個世界會變成廢墟？
During the Dark Ages, someone came in here and stole the emperor's ashes. 在黑暗世紀時，有人到這盜走了帝王的骨灰
In the 12th century, it became a fortress... 12世紀，這裡成了軍事堡壘
...then a bullring. 隨後則變成鬥牛場
They stored fireworks in here after that. 再後來人們用來存儲煙花
Nowadays, it's a bathroom for the homeless... 現在，這裡則是無家可歸之人的浴室
...so you better watch your step going down. 所以你最好小心你的腳下
It's one of the quietest and lonellest places in Rome. 這是羅馬最安靜、最寂寞之所
The city has grown up around it over centuries. 包圍著它的這個城市幾個世紀來不斷發展
It feels llke a precious wound... 這裡看起來就如一處寶貴的傷痕
...llke a heartbreak you won't let go of because it hurts too good. 就如同你不願失去的心痛，因為它痛得快樂
I llke it messy. 我就喜歡它雜亂
We all want things to stay the same, David. 大衛，我們都想事物能永恆
I guess the guy before me must've been some angel, huh? 我猜我之前那傢伙一定是位天使？
Settle for llving in misery... 我們安於在痛苦中生活
...because we're afraid of change, of things crumbllng to ruins. 因為我們害怕改變會導致毀滅
Then I looked around in this place, at the chaos it's endured... 然後我環望四周，這裡所承受的混亂
...the way it's been adapted, burned, pillaged... 燒毀、掠奪，它已經習慣了
...then found a way to build itself back up again, and I was reassured. 最後它找到了重建自己的辦法 我也有所啟發
Maybe my llfe hasn't been so chaotic. It's just the world that is... 也許並非我的生活混亂不堪 而是世間本就如此
...and the only reaI trap is getting attached to any of it. 而最大的陷阱則是對事物的迷戀
Ruin is a gift. 消亡是饋贈
Ruin is the road to transformation. 消亡是轉變之路
Hey. 嘿
You ready? 好了嗎？
Yeah. 好了
Even in this eternaI city, the Augusteum showed me... 即使在這永恆之城 Augustine向我展現的是
...that we must always be prepared for endless waves of transformation. 我們必須時刻做好迎接轉變的準備
Both of us deserve better than staying together... 比起在一起，我們值得有更好的生活
...because we're afraid we'll be destroyed if we don't. 因為我們害怕，如果不這樣做，就會毀了它
My mother's stuffing. Stale bread, walnuts, got those. 我媽媽正在做餡，去拿幹麵包和核桃
Will you get me some more potatoes? 能給我拿多點土豆嗎？
Oh, l'm always getting you more potatoes. 哦，我總是在給你更多的土豆
It's my dream, a reaI American Thanksgiving. 我的夢想就是過一個真正美式的感恩節
The perfect way to say goodbye to our llz. 這是為莉斯踐行的最好方法
So... 那麼…
-...you leave this week, huh? -Yes. - 你這周走嗎？ - 是的
And where are you going? lran? 那麼你要去哪？伊朗？
India. 印度
llz is making us an American meaI tonight. 莉斯今晚將為我們帶來美國式晚餐
-You are not married, yeah? -No. - 你還沒結婚？ - 沒有
What's wrong with your friend, is she a lesbian? 你朋友怎麼回事，同性戀？
No, Mama, she's not a lesbian. And she understands ltallan. 不，媽媽，她不是同性戀 而且她懂義大利語
How's she going to find another husband and start a family... 如果她在世界的另一頭
...when she's on the other side of the world? 她又怎麼能再婚成家呢？
If a man said, "l'm going to traveI for a year and meet wonderfuI people...." 如果男人說：“我要出去旅行一年 去認識些很棒的人”
But she's not a man. 但她不是男人
It's more difficult for a woman to feeI that she has the right to make choices. 讓女人瞭解她有權去選擇是很難的
-lt takes a lot of courage. -Exactly. - 這需要勇氣 - 確實
You call it courage, I call it stupidity. 你稱之為勇氣，我稱之為愚蠢
Mama, enough. 媽媽，別說了
I know a number of people who would agree with you. 我知道有一大幫人都認同你的看法
Luca? 盧卡？
What time will the turkey be ready? 火雞肉什麼時候好？
The turkey.... 火雞肉…
I haven't defrosted it yet. 我還沒給它解凍
Oh, shit. 哦，暈
You only had one thing to do and you screwed it up. 就讓你做一件事，你都做不好
I was distracted! It can happen! 我分心了！人有失手嘛！
Too much good food! 豐盛的食物！
Too many women! 許多的女人！
And I forgot! 所以我忘記了！
Now, before we eat, everyone... 現在，在我們吃飯之前，每人
...it is Thanksgiving, so let us give thanks. 這是感恩節，所以讓我們先做感恩禱告
-Yeah. Come on, join hands. -Okay. - 嗯，來吧，手把手 - 好的
So we just say what we.... 那麼我們就說…
What we thank God for tonight. Sofi, why don't you start? 我們想感激上帝的話，索菲，從你那開始吧？
I am gratefuI for you, llz... 我感謝你，莉斯
...for helping me appreciate llfe... 讓我懂得體驗生活
...with all that comes with it... 感受生活中的一切
...muffin tops and bad times. 比如松餅皮和尷尬的時刻
And for Giovanni... 還有喬瓦尼
...for making me feel... 讓我感受到
...loved and secure. 愛與安全
And Giullo. 到朱利奧
Me, l'm gratefuI for my beautifuI family. 我，為我完美的家庭而感恩
My two llttle daughters and my wife. 為我兩個小女兒和我的妻子
I thank God and the Holy Virgin... 我感謝上帝和神聖的聖母
...for this very, very speciaI day. 所賜予的這個非常、非常特別的日子
And for this beautifuI family... 還有這個美滿的家庭
...that today is so much bigger. 今天是如此之大
Very much bigger. 非常之大
I thank you all for this new custom of celebration. 感謝在場所有人帶來的 這種全新的慶祝儀式
And llz's stuffing... 還有莉斯的種種…
...and God... 還有上帝
...for my sexiness. 賦予我的性感
And you, Ruffina? 到你了， Ruffina？
I thank God for... 我感謝上帝
賦予我的性感
Go ahead. Giovanni. 你了，喬瓦尼
I thank God for... 感謝上帝賜予我的
...fear... 擔憂
...because for the first time... 因為這是第一次
...l'm afraid the person next to me... 我擔憂身邊的人
...will be the one who wants to leave. 會離開我
llz? 莉斯？
Well, this all makes me so grateful. 這一切都讓我充滿感激
Seeing all you happy people... 看到你們這群快樂的人
...who know how to love each other and take care of each other. 知道如何去愛對方、照顧對方
I look at the amazing women l've met who I admire so much... 我看到了令我我豔羨不已的偉大女性
...and the great men, taking care of their women... 和照顧他們女人的偉大男性
...and putting their children to bed. 哄他們的小孩上床入睡
I just feeI happy... 我感到幸福
...to see it and to be part of it. 可以見證並參與其中
I'm the luckiest girI in the world. 我是世界上最幸運的女孩
It's a good breakfast, huh? 不錯的早餐吧？
I will take this to your room. 我把這個拿到你房間
It has already started. 已經開始了
-I fell asleep. -Yeah. Pity. - 我睡著了 - 是呀，可惜
Probably the only person in the world who ever fell asleep during meditation. 可能是世上唯一一個在冥想時睡著的人
-This leads to the meditation garden. -ls the guru here? - 這裡通向冥想花園 - 古魯在這裡嗎？
-She's always here. -I know, but is she "here" here? - 她無處不在 - 我明白，我的意思是她在這裡嗎？
She's at her ashram in New York. 她在紐約的靜修所
But I came from New York to see her here. 但我是從紐約過來看她的
Sounds llke one of her llttle tricks. 聽起來就像是她的小戲法
The meditation cave. 靜修室
It's open 24/7 and it's air-conditioned. 每天24小時開放，有風扇
Corella? 科蕾拉？
-This is llz Gilbert. -Hi. Nice to meet you. - 這位是莉斯·吉伯特 - 嗨，很高興見到你
-Where did you get that button? -They sell them in the bookstore. - 那個扣扣是哪裡拿到的？ - 書店裡有賣
That is exactly what I need. I need something llke that. I don't llsten. 那正是我想要的，我想要那樣的東西 因為我從不聆聽他人
I never have. My mom used to call me llttle Miss Chatty Cathy... 我從沒有過 我媽媽過去說我是個愛嘮叨的小凱茜
...because I just ramble. I am a rambler. 因為我是個話癆，我是個話癆
I am rambllng now. l'm sorry. 我現在就話癆了，抱歉
Silence is a wonderfuI spirituaI practice... 沉默是絕好的精神訓練
...but if Corella could speak, she'd tell you it's more challenging than it looks. 但如果科蕾拉能說話，她會告訴你 這比看起來挑戰性要大多了
-Wait till you've been here for a while. -Okay. - 暫時先等會 - 好的
Thank you, Corella. I'll be sure to tell her. 謝謝，科蕾拉，我一定告訴她
-What did she say? -No idea. - 她說什麼了 - 不清楚
Change into your work clothes. I'll take you to your seva. 換上你的修行服，我會帶你去seva
It's a Hindu word for "selfless devotionaI work." 印度詞的意思是“無私的奉獻工作”
-lt's required of everyone who stays. -Okay. Thank you. - 這是對所有呆在這裡的人的要求 - 好的，謝謝
Is there anything in this world skinnier than an lndian teenage boy? 世上還有比印度小孩還瘦的人嗎？
-l'm Tulsi. -llz. - 我是圖爾西 - 莉斯
Where are you from? 你從哪來的？
The next town. My parents have been devotees of the guru for many years. 鄰近的城鎮，我父母信仰古魯好多年了
We spend a lot of time here. 我們很多時候都會在這
But... 但
...they are trying to marry me off. That's the custom. 他們想把我嫁出去，這是我們的習俗
-That's not what you want? -No way. lt sucks. - 那不是你想要的？ - 不是，沒勁
I want to study psychology, just as our guru did when she attended college. 我想學習心理學，就如同古魯在大學時那樣
I prefer to be with God than boys my age. 與其與同齡男子相處，我寧願與神相伴
No one in my family understands my coming all the way to India. 我的家人也不理解我來印度的想法
Do you ever look at them and wonder, "What am I doing in this family?" 你有試過看著你的家人，然後懷疑自己嗎？ “我在這個家裡做什麼呢？”
You have no idea. 你想不明白的
The Guru Gita is an ancient text 1 82 verses long. 古魯禱文是182字的古詩文
In it, the goddess Parvati is asking Shiva, or God... 裡面說的是，女神Parvati詢問Shiva，即上帝
...for the secrets of fulfillment. 幸福的秘密
It's said to have transforming quallties. 據稱有讓人脫胎換骨的功效
I would just llke to take a risk here and say.... 我想在這冒昧地說一下
Me and Guru Gita, we just do not get along. 我和古魯的禱文，湊不到一塊去
-What is it you have trouble with? -Everything. - 你覺得哪裡有困難？ - 所有
It's long, it's tedious, I can't keep up... 禱文很長，乏味，我跟不上
...and I get these insane anxieties about everything in my llfe... 腦中盡是揮之不去的對生活的焦慮
...and l've lost my place. 也忘記到哪了
Sounds llke it has a positive effect... 聽起來確有正面的效應
...if you're having such strong emotions and physicaI reactions. 如果有如此強烈的情感和生理反應的話
You keep trying. 你堅持下去
It is most commendable that you ended your marriage. 結束你的婚姻是明智的
You seem llke such a happy, free person now. 你現在看來像一個快樂、自由的人
I think my ex-husband would describe me as selfish. 我想我前夫會說我自私
You mustn't be angry with yourself or disappointed. 別對自己生氣和失望
You don't have to make children or be married to have a family. 你沒必要為了生孩子或結婚來組建家庭
Oh, man. They got mosquitoes here big enough... 哦，這裡的蚊子大到
...to stand flat-footed and screw a chicken. 能把雞都吃掉
-I love you. -llz, have you met... - 太棒了 - 莉斯，你有沒有見過
-...Richard from Texas? -Hello, Richard from Texas. - 德克薩斯州的理查？ - 你好，德克薩斯的理查
-Nice to meet you, Groceries. -Groceries? - 很高興認識你，大食者 - 大食者？
Yeah. Yeah, I heard you eating before I saw you. 是的，是的，未見其人先聞其聲
I never seen anybody eat so much at one time. 我從沒見過一個人一次能吃這麼多
You sure do enjoy your groceries. 你一定很享受你的食物
You know, it's been a rough day, and if no one takes it personally... 嗯，今天不是個好日子 如果沒人會因此不快的話
...l'm going to take my large meaI someplace else to eat it in silence. 我想拿著我的東西到其它地方去安靜地吃
Oh, no, stay. I'm done. 哦，別，留下，我吃完了
Looked llke you were working through some... 看起來你早上經歷了
...pretty rough stuff this morning. 一段難捱的時光
Stuff with your ex-husband? 滿腦是前夫的身影？
I got an ex-wife. 我有個前妻
She thinks I changed my name to "Motherfucker." 她認為我改名叫“混帳”了
I-- 我
I just spent some time in Rome and I came here feellng so great. 我剛在羅馬呆過一陣，我帶著景仰之情而來
And now here I am, at the source... 現在在這裡了，在發源地
...and I feeI more disconnected than ever. 我反而感到比過去更加遠離了
Why'd you come here? 你為什麼來這？
I just want some peace. 我只想獲得安寧
Peace? 安寧
You wanna get to the castle, Groceries... 你想去城堡，大食者
...you got to swim the moat. 就得遊過壕溝
Here, you can finish that. I know you can. 這，你也吃了，我知道你行
Okay. 好了
Simply empty your mind. 掃除雜念
Breathe. 深呼吸
What am I going to do when this year is over? 來年我要做什麼？
Where am I going to llve? 我將在哪裡生活？
Well, maybe Chicago. 嗯，也許是芝加哥？
Oh, my God. I could build a meditation room-- 哦，上帝，我可以建個靜修室
No. Stop thinking. Why is this so hard? 不，別想了，為什麼那麼難？
Screw you, Corella. How the hell does she do this? 去你的，科蕾拉，她怎麼可以做到的？
She looks llke frigging Mother Teresa. 她看起來就像特蕾莎修女
Oh, my God, kill me. 哦，上帝，殺了我吧
-Who's in the moat today? -Shut up. - 今天，誰在壕溝裡？ - 閉嘴
Sounds llke you wrestled some big-ass crocs. 聽起來你就剛與大鱷魚打了一架
You know what? lf you're so goddamn smart, what are you doing here? 你知道啥？如果你夠聰明，你來這幹啥？
If you're here, it makes you smart already. 如果到這，就說明你夠聰明了
-Do you wanna talk about what--? -No, not to you. Thank you. - 你想不想談談… - 不，不是和你，謝謝
I'm the only one here. You're gonna talk about it sooner or later. 這裡就只有我，你遲早得說
I cannot focus in there. 在裡面我無法集中精神
All I think about is my meditation room and how to decorate. 我所想的全是如何裝飾我的靜修室
Are you shitting me? 你在耍我吧？
Are you kidding me? 什麼？
The meditation room is within, Groceries. Decorate that. 靜修室在裡面，大食者，裝飾它啊
Do you always talk in bumper sticker? 你向來都用這種口吻說話嗎？
I do, and here's another one. 是的，這裡還有一句
You have to learn to select your thoughts the way you select... 你得學習選擇你的想法
...your clothes every day. That's a power you can cultivate. 就如同選擇你每天的穿著一樣 這是你可以培養的能力
You wanna come here and controI your llfe so bad, work on the mind. 你來這裡想控制生活，就往思想上下點功夫
That's the only thing you should control. 這是你唯一應該控制的事情
If you can't master your thoughts, you're in trouble. 如果你無法控制你的念頭，你就麻煩了
I am trying. 我在試圖
Yeah, hello, that's the damn problem. Stop trying. Surrender. 是呀，那是個該死的難題，別試了，順從它
Go out into the garden and just sit there and still your mind... 去花園，坐在那平靜內心
...and you watch what happens. 然後看看會發生什麼
Why don't you just let it be? 為什麼就不能順其自然？
Has anyone ever told you you look llke James Taylor? 有沒有人跟你說過你像詹姆斯·泰勒（牧師）
Every day. 每天都有
God, he really does. 上帝，他真的很像
My prayers were always the same. 我的禱文總是不變
"Please, God, please. Open my heart, send me a sign... 上帝，請開啟我的心靈，給我明示
...because we both know I ain't the sharpest tooI in the shed." 因為你我都清楚我並不是庫房裡最好的工具
Look at you, floating through Calcutta. 看看你，飄蕩於加爾各答（印度城市）
Looks llke you had a great meditation. 看起來剛進行了一場偉大的冥想
I probably have malaria now. 我現在可能有瘧疾了
The bites will go away. 叮包會消失的
Eventually everything goes away. 最終所有都會離去
You ever done that, Groceries? Begged for a sign? 你有沒有那樣過，大食者？祈求明示？
That sounds vaguely famillar. 聽起來很熟悉
Be carefuI what you wish for. You just might get it. 小心你所想的，可能會心想事成的
What is your problem? 你有什麼問題？
Did you fall in love with the wrong woman or something? 你是不是錯愛了哪個女人還是怎麼了？
Excuse me, Miss Gilbert. 打擾，吉伯特小姐
You have a phone call. 你有電話
How's the Guru Gita treating you? 古魯如何招待你？
Fine. You'd llke her. 很好，你會喜歡她的
Did you get my e-mail? 收到我的郵件了嗎？
Yeah. l'm sorry I didn't call sooner. 嗯，抱歉沒及時回復
Why didn't you? 為什麼
Because if I didn't respond... 因為如果我沒回復
...we were still having a conversation. I was still in it. 我們的談話就不會結束，我仍然可以談
I'm sorry. We were just bad timing. 抱歉，我們時機不對
I just wanted things to be easy. We were good when things were easy. 我只想事情變得輕鬆 當事情輕鬆時，一切都會好
It's not that I need "easy" right now. I just can't have "so hard." 現在“輕鬆”不是我要的 我只是不能接受“幸苦”
Well, you sound good. 你聽起來很好
Stronger. 更強大了
So do you. 你也是
Yeah, well, l'm an actor, llz. 是的，畢竟我是演員，莉斯
I got a part. 我取得了一個角色
It's off-Broadway, but it's pretty cool. 雖然不是百老匯，但也很好
I'm happy for you. 真為你而開心
All right. 好的
Well, l'll see you around, kid. 回見
Check you out. 看看你
I have never seen you so focused. 從未見你如此專注
You need a Thums Up. 你得喝點飲料
No, no. No llps on the bottle. 別，別，別用直接用嘴喝
First rule in lndia is never touch anything but yourself. 印度的第一軍規是別碰身外的任何東西
Oh, good God. That's, llke, five times sweeter than Coke. 哦，這比可樂還要甜上5倍
I think it might have methamphetamines in it. 我想裡面可能有興奮劑
We can only hope. 我們只能猜想
I know you feeI awful. 我知道你感覺不好
But your llfe's changing. 但生活總在不斷變化
That's not a bad thing. 這並不是個壞事情
And you're in the perfect place for it. Surrounded by grace. 而且你正處在一個好地方 四處都有美麗裝點
I thought I was over him, but... 我以為我們已經結束了，但
...I love him. 我愛他
Big deal. 大事
-So you fell in love with someone. -I really miss him. - 你與某人相愛了 - 我真的很想他
So miss him. 那就想他
Send him some llght and love every time you think of him, then drop it. 每次想他時就給予他愛和陽光，然後放手
You know, if you could clear out all that space in your mind... 知道嗎，如果你能把你心裡面
...that you're using to obsess over this guy... 用來想那個男人和用來想你失敗婚姻的念頭
...and your failed marriage, you'd have a vacuum with a doorway. 都清理掉，你就能找到一扇門
And you know what the universe would do with that doorway? 你知道那門有什麼用嗎？
Rush in. God would rush in. 進來了，上帝會推門而入
Fill you with more love than you ever dreamed of. Man. 用超乎你所想像的愛灌滿你心靈
Groceries. 大食者
I think you have the capacity someday to love the whole world. 我認為你擁有愛整個世界的潛質
What do they sell over there? 那邊在賣什麼？
Ganesh. Remover of obstacles. 象頭神，能掃除障礙
I'm gonna need a lot of these. 我需要很多這個
Speaking of elephants, there's a rogue elephant on the loose in the area. 說到象神，這附近遊蕩著一頭兇猛的大象
He was with carnival. 以前是馬戲團的
They say he is very, very unpredictable and volatile. 他們說它非常不可捉摸又反覆無常
That just makes him more attractive to her. 這樣說只會更吸引她
How'd you get to be so smart? I'll bet it was the hard way. 是什麼讓你變得如此智慧？肯定很不容易
Don't change the subject. 別岔開話題
Well, when is this grieving phase going to pass? 那麼，這個悲痛的階段什麼時候結束？
You want a day on a calendar you can circle? 你想要一個能在上畫叉的月曆嗎？
-Can you give me one? -No. You got to do the work. - 能給我一個嗎？ - 不能，你有事情要做
Meditate and go to seva... 去冥想，去義務奉獻…
...and most important, get your butt down to the Geet every morning... 而更重要的每天早上大屁股坐下來誦經
...and something'll change. 事情就會改變了
I just cannot get through the Guru Gita. I can't find that feellng of devotion. 我聽不進去古魯梵文，我找不到奉獻的感覺
Okay. Devotion's love. Pick somebody or something you wanna devote it to. 好吧，奉獻就是愛，選你想獻於的人或事
It doesn't have to be the guru. It's all the same to her. 不一定非得是古魯 還可以是其他類似的東西
This is about you. 這全在於你
Can I tell you something, Groceries? You got some serious controI issues. 恕我直言，大食者？ 你有嚴重的自我控制問題
Is it obvious? 很明顯嗎？
All right, Richard, get out from inside my head now. 好吧，理查，現在從我腦中消失
Shut the door. 那就關上們
-That's him? -That's him. - 就他？ - 是的
-He's hideous. -No, he's not. He's cute. - 他難看極了 - 不，他很可愛
He's a Sagittarius. 他是射手座的
He studies computer programming in Delhi. 他在德里學電腦程式設計
He has very good grades. 成績很好
And his family is very, very wealthy. 他的家庭也非常富有
He will be very conceited and dictatorial. 他會是個非常自負和專斷的人
My llfe is over at 1 7. 我的生活就此終結在17歲了
Tulsi. 圖爾西
Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the dance floor... 女士們先生們，歡迎來到舞池
...for their very first couples dance, llz and Stephen. 有情麗茲和史蒂芬這對新人，跳第一支舞
My people. 我的家人
-Are you ready? -l'm ready. - 準備好了麼？ - 是的
-You look beautiful. -Thank you. - 你看起來真美 - 謝謝
I married a hottie. 我娶了一個可人兒
-What is that? That's not our song. -No, it is not. - 這是什麼？這不是我們的歌 - 是的，這不是
Baby, that's not our song. 寶貝，這不是我們原來的歌
-Definitely not. -Everybody's looking at us. - 確實不是 - 大家都在看著我們呢
It's okay. I'm gonna go talk to the guy. It's gonna be fine. 好吧，我去讓他換回來，沒事的
-I told you l'd get it. -This is taking care of it? - 給你準備的，喜歡麼？ - 這就是換回來？
I owe you a wedding gift. I didn't know what was appropriate. 我欠你一個結婚禮物，我不知道送什麼合適
I wanted to tell you l've been... 我想告訴你
...dedicating my Guru Gita to you. 我已經把我聖歌的祝福獻給你
Imagining you happy is what got me through it. 我能想像你幸福的樣子
What did it look llke... 是什麼樣的呢？
...when I was happy? 我幸福的時候？
I imagine you and Rijul... 我想到你和你的新郎
...smillng and looking at each other... 微笑著，互相看著對方
...with love and kindness. 帶著愛意和溫柔
It seemed very real. 看起來十分真實
Thank you so much, llz. 謝謝你，麗茲
That helps me to belleve it as well. 這讓我也相信它是真的
Thinking about your own wedding? 在想你自己的婚禮？
Yeah, me too. 是的，我也在想我的
The funny thing about weddings, you end up thinking about yourself. 好笑的是，想到婚禮，就會想到自己
Did you throw yourself a big shindig? Big, white, floppy dress? 你的婚禮有狂歡舞會麼？ 穿著巨大雪白的婚紗？
Yep. I arranged it all. Nobody forced me into anything. 啊，是的，我都自己安排了 沒人逼著我做這些事
Yeah. And now you can't forgive yourself. 噢，你現在還是不能原諒你自己
Honestly, I'm waiting for him to forgive me. 坦白說，我在等他來原諒我
To release me. 為我解脫
Waiting for him to forgive you is a damn waste of time, Groceries. 等他來原諒你，簡直是在浪費時間，大食者
Forgive yourself. 自己來原諒你自己
It's not that easy. 這不是那麼容易
Yeah. 也是
Good night, Richard. 晚安，理查
-Follow me. -l'm tired. - 跟我來 - 我已經累了
Get your butt up here. 跟過來就是了
It's not a pretty story... 這不是個可愛的故事
...but it's pretty classic. 不過很經典
Too much alcohol, too many drugs, too much mindless cheating. 太多的酒精，太多的毒品 太多的毫無顧慮的欺騙
Just regret. 只剩下悔恨
Ocean of regret. 無盡的悔恨
I lost everything. 我失去了所有
My pride, my job. 我的驕傲，我的工作
My family. 我的家人
I lost my family. 我失去了我的家人
One day after work, I stopped off at a bar and I got shitfaced. 那天工作結束後 我呆在一家酒吧，酩酊大醉
I was a lot llke you, you know. 我和你很像
I was just-- I don't know. I thought too much, I felt too.... 我只是…我不知道 我那時想得太多了，我覺得很…
I wanted to feeI nothing. 我什麼都不想去想
I should've called a cab, but I didn't. 我應該叫輛計程車，但是我沒有
I just got in my car and I drove home. 我坐進我的車裡，然後開車回家
My llttle boy.... 我的小兒子…
He was 8 years old at the time. He was pl-- 他那時才8歲大，他那麼…
He was sitting in the driveway with his llttle Hot Wheels, waiting for his lost... 他帶著他的玩具小車坐在車道上 等著他那失敗的…
...drunk, miserable dad... …醉醺醺的，痛苦的父親…
...to come home and play with him. …回家陪他玩
I didn't see him. 我沒有看見他
I didn't. I just roared into that driveway and I didn't see my llttle boy. 我沒有，我沖進了車道 我沒有看見我的小兒子
But he-- No, he.... 但是他…不，他…
He got out of the way. 他飛出了路面
He was used to getting out of the way when I was around. 以前我在的時候，他總是呆在路邊的
And l-- You know, I don't-- 我…你知道，我不…
I don't know. I don't remember a thing. 我不知道，我什麼都記不起來了
Next day, I woke up and they were gone. 第二天我醒來，他們都走了
My wife had been watching what happened out the window. 我的妻子在窗邊看到了發生的一切
She just wasn't gonna.... 她只是不想…
She just wasn't gonna do it anymore. 她只是不想讓這一切再次發生
So.... 所以…
He's 1 8 now. 他現在應該18歲了
He's in schooI and, oh, God, he's so smart. 在學校念書，噢，天啊，看他多帥
God, he's so funny and he's.... 那麼有趣，那麼…
He's so sweet. 那麼貼心
I missed it all. 我錯過了這一切
I missed... 我錯過了…
...my son's growing up. Just missed it. …我兒子的成長，我只是錯過了
Okay? 你還好吧？
Come here. 到這裡來
Here's the deal. 這是個協議
You're gonna stay here till you forgive yourself. 你將繼續留在這裡，直到你原諒你自己
You hear me? 聽到了麼？
Everything else will take care of itself. 其他所有事情都會好好的
Is this where you forgave yourself? 這是你原諒自己的地方麼？
I'm trying, Ellzabeth. 我在努力，麗茲
I am trying. 我一直在努力
Hey. 嘿
I belleve this is the song they were supposed to play at our wedding. 我想這是他們準備在我們婚禮上放的歌
I did love you, Stephen. 我愛你，史蒂芬
I know. 我知道
But I still love you. 我也依然愛著你
So love me. 那就愛著我
But I miss you. 我很想念你
So miss me. 那就想著我
Send me love and llght every time you think of me... 每當你想起我，就給予我愛和陽光
...then drop it. 然後放手
It won't last forever. 這不會天長地久
Nothing does. 沒有什麼會
-Bye-bye. -Goodbye, Mr. Richard. - 再見 - 再見，理查
I'll see you. 我會回來看你的
Now that you're going, who is gonna kick my ass every day? 現在你要走了，誰每天跟在我屁股後面啊？
Oh, l'd stay till a monsoon swept me away if I could. Bye-bye. 噢，那我就繼續呆著，直到季風把我趕走
But you've got bills to pay and houses to build. 但是你還得賺錢買房
You just keep doing the work and move on with your llfe, will you? 你要繼續好好工作，享受生活，知道了嗎？
The man is getting on a plane and you're still bossing me. 你就要上飛機了，還在對我發號命令
I've got your whole llst: move on, use mosquito repellent and.... 我給你列了個單子： 繼續生活，用驅蚊水，還有…
I don't know. There were some other things. I wrote them down. 我不知道，還有些其他事，我都寫下來了
Go back to Texas, Richard. 回去德州，理查
Well, I ain't getting any prettier standing here. 好的，繼續站在這裡也沒什麼好處了
So l'm off. 我走了
Hey, Groceries. 嘿，大食者
Belleve in love again. 要繼續相信愛
llz. llz, l've just taken my badge off today. 麗茲，麗茲，我今天剛剛把我的徽章拿掉
I've done so well. Four weeks of silence. lt was so dull. 我太厲害了，四個禮拜不能說話，好無聊啊
But it's llke a facellft because your face... 但那就像做了臉部拉皮手術一樣 因為你的臉…
...you know, just relaxes and your throat just drops down. It's a bargain. 你知道，保持放鬆 你的頸部就往下拉，真划算
We've got so much to catch up on. 我們有一大堆要聊的
Oh, golly. Good for you. You will get so much out of that. 噢，天哪，恭喜你，你會收穫良多
And your throat will look amazing as well. 而且你的脖子也會變好看
Excuse me, Ellzabeth. 打擾一下，伊莉莎白
They're asking you to report to the seva office after dinner... 導師讓你晚飯後去報告一下服務工作
...if you don't mind. 如果你不介意的話
We're taking you off the floor-scrubbing team. 我們將把你從擦地的部門調離
There are about 50 devotees arriving tomorrow from all over the world... 明天大概會有 50名來自世界各地的信徒到這裡
...for a 1 0-day retreat and we'd llke you to be the key hostess. 來做一個十天的靜修 我們希望由你來招待他們
We ask that you don't take part during the meditations. 你不用參加冥想
We need you to watch over the flock, make sure everyone is all right. 我們需要你照顧好這群人 確保每個人都平安無恙
We call the person who does this job llttle Suzy Cream Cheese. 我們把做這種工作的人叫做小小乳松乳酪
You need to be sociaI and bubbly and smillng all the time. 你得表現得樂於交往，活潑 並且時時保持微笑
Madam... 女士…
...l'm your girl. 一切聽您的
So just find your suitcase, it should be here somewhere... 去找你的工作服，應該就在這兒什麼地方
...and then head down the path to your room. 然後順著那條小路去你的房間
So the holy truth of the whole adventure here in India is in one llne: 所以在印度真理就是一句話：
God dwells within you as you. 上帝就住在你心裡，和你一樣
God's not interested in watching a performance... 上帝對沒有興趣去觀看表演
...of how a spirituaI person looks and behaves. 去看一個虔誠的人如何表現
The quiet girI who glldes silently through the place... 安靜的女孩悄悄滑過一片寂靜之地
...with a gentle, ethereaI smile, who is that person? 帶著輕柔優雅的微笑，那是誰？
That's lngrid Bergman in The Bells of St. Mary's, not me. 那是英格麗·褒曼（著名女演員），那不是我
God dwells within me as me. 上帝在我心，和我一樣
Child tormented by demon. 孩童受到惡魔的折磨
It looks llke teething. 看起來像是長牙
Same thing. 那是一回事
Your turn. 輪到你了
Hello, Ketut. 你好，柯圖泰
I'm very happy to meet you. 很高興見到你
You are a world traveler. 你是一個環球旅行者
No, I came to see you about a year ago. 不，我一年以前來見過你
-You girI from Callfornia? -No, I girI from New York. - 你來自加利福尼亞？ - 不，紐約
Don't remember. 不記得了
Well, you told me I should come back here to Ball. 你告訴我我應該再回來見你
You said I could help you with your Engllsh... 你說我可以幫你學英語
...and you would teach me the things that you know. 而你會教我些你懂的東西
You gave me this. 你給了我這個
Okay. 好的
You. You. I remember you. 是你，你，我記起你來了
-Oh, good. -You sad girI from New York. - 很好 - 紐約來的傷心的姑娘
-Yes. -You llss. You came back. - 是的 - 你回來了
-I came back. -You, you, you. - 我回來了 - 你，你，你
Me, me, me. 我，我，我
So long ago we meet. 我們上次見面是很久以前的事了
Last time, you have too much worry, too much sorrow. 最後一次見面，你有很多憂慮，很多困苦
Last time, you look llke sad old woman. 那次，你看起來像個悲傷的老女人
Now you pretty. 現在你很漂亮
-Why so different? -Well... - 為什麼不一樣了呢？ - 這個…
...a lot of things, really. …發生了很多事情
But I was in Rome for four months, just feeding myself... 我在羅馬呆了四個月，一個勁地吃
...and then I went to llve at an ashram in lndia. 之後我住在印度的靜修處
Now, we put together. 現在，我們又見面了
Exactly. That's why l'm here. 是的，我在你這兒了
-Ketut good for that. -What'd you give him? - 太好了 - 你要給他什麼？
Do you still want me to help you with your Engllsh? 你還要我幫你學英語麼？
Engllsh later, llss. 先不說英語的事，麗茲
First, better idea. 首先，有更好的主意
How old are these? 這些有多老了？
From grandfather. Very important spells. 從祖輩傳下來，非常重要的咒語
Also mantras, cures. 也是頌歌，藥方
Thousand years' worth. 幾千年的積累
All I have, all I know, right here. 我所有的，我所知道的，都在這裡
You copy for me? 你能為我複製這些書麼？
Absolutely. I can go to town and take these-- 當然，我可以拿著這些去鎮上…
No. You don't take. 不，你不能拿走它們
You copy here, better, llss. 你最好在這裡複製，更好，麗茲
I take a nap now. I very old. 我現在得打個盹，我老了
How old are you, Ketut? 你多大年紀了，柯圖泰？
One hundred and one... 101歲…
...or maybe 64. …或許64歲
Don't remember. 不記得了
This is gonna take me the rest of my llfe. 我的下半生都要花在它上面了
He make you pretty, find you husband, you work hard for him. 他讓你變美麗，幫你找到丈夫 你得努力為他工作
That's exactly opposite of why l'm here. 這和我來這裡的原因剛好相反
Everybody need husband. 每個女人都需要丈夫
Would you mind getting me water? 你能幫我拿杯水麼？
No. 不能
Fine. Keep making copies. I get water. 好吧，繼續抄，我去拿水
So, llz, the Ballnese belleve that Ball's the center of the universe. 麗茲，巴厘島的人認為巴厘是宇宙的中心
And here we are in the center of Ball. 我們剛好在這裡，在巴厘島的中心
You got the one bedroom, got your fish pond. 你有一個浴室，一個魚塘
You got your own meditation temple. 你還有你自己的冥想室
I tell you, since the bombing, tourism's been way down... 我要告訴你的是，因為旅遊高峰期過去了
...so I can give you this place at a very, very good price right now. 所以這塊地方 我能給你個非常非常合理的價錢
Paradise. 就像天堂
-l'll take it. -People in Ball understand... - 我要了 - 巴厘人認為…
...in order to stay happy, must always know where you are... …為了活得幸福，必須時刻清楚自己在哪裡
...every moment. 每時每刻都要
Right here is perfect balance. Right at meeting of heaven and earth. 這個點是個平衡點，天堂與人間的交合點
Not too much God, not too much selfish. 不要那麼多的上帝，那麼多的自私
Otherwise, llfe too crazy. 否則，生活就過於瘋狂
You lose balance, you lose power. 你失去了平衡，就失去了能量
In morning, you do meditation from India. 早晨，你要做印度冥想
Serious. Very serious. 嚴肅，非常嚴肅地
In day, you enjoy Ball. 白天，你就可以享受巴厘
Then in afternoon, come see me. 記得下午的時候來看我
End of day, you do new meditation. 一天結束的時候，做新的冥想
Very simple. 非常簡單
Sit in silence and smile. 微笑著靜坐
I feeI balanced already. 我覺得我已經達到平衡了
Not so easy, llss. 沒那麼簡單，麗茲
Smile with face. Smile with mind. 用臉去微笑，用心去微笑
Even smile in llver. 用生命去微笑
See you later, alllgator. 那再見了
Oh, God. 噢，老天
-Are you all right? -Are you bllnd? - 你還好吧？ - 你瞎了麼？
-Please, let me take you to a doctor. -l'm fine. I just-- - 請讓我帶你去看醫生… - 我很好，我只是…
It looks bad. 看起來很糟糕
Very bad, llss. 很糟糕，麗茲
-What happen? -This idiot ran me off the road. - 發生什麼事了？ - 一個傻瓜把我從路上擠下去了
A man? He rich? 一個男人？有錢麼？
This very hot. 這裡很痛吧
-You need healer. -I have you. You're a medicine man. - 你需要看醫生 - 我有你啊，你就能治
-No. You need Wayan. -Yeah. - 不，你需要個醫生 - 對
Jamu. Drink this. Better than antibiotic. 查姆（印度的一種草藥），把這個喝了 比抗生素好多了
She make you drink this? 她讓你喝這個麼？
-My name's llz. What's yours? -Tutti. - 我的名字叫麗茲，你呢？ - 圖奇
Nice to meet you, Tutti. 很高興見到你，圖奇
-Are you married? -No. - 你結婚了沒？ - 沒有
You sure? Not even once? 真的？一次都沒有麼？
Okay, well, there was this one time... 好吧，曾經有一次…
...but I find when I tell people in Ball that I'm divorced, it upsets them. 但是我發現，如果告訴巴厘人我離過婚 他們會顯得很失望
Me too, divorce. 我也一樣，離過婚
Divorce make you sad and make you an outcast. 離婚讓你覺得悲傷，感覺像被遺棄了
You have no sex for a long time, baby. 寶貝，你很久沒有性生活了吧？
I can tell by your knee. 我可以從你的膝蓋知道這些
The cartilage very dry. Hormones from sex lubricate joint. 軟骨非常幹，性激素可以潤滑關節
-Okay. -I pray for you. - 好吧 - 我會為你祈禱的
We sisters. 我的姐妹
Armenia! 艾米利亞！
Armenia from Brazil. 艾米利亞，來自巴西
Armenia, this is llz from New York. 艾米利亞，這是紐約來的麗茲
-Hi. -Lovely to meet you, llz. - 你好 - 很高興遇到你，麗茲
Time for a banana root hair treatment? 有時間給我做個香蕉發根護理麼？
-Yes, of course. -lt makes the hair long and lustrous. - 當然有 - 那個能讓頭髮又長又有光澤
llke Cher circa 1 975. 像雪兒·佘卡（流行歌手）那樣
Do you have a nice dress? 你有好裙子麼？
One. 有一條
Put it on tonight, come to the Beach Shack. 今晚穿上它，我們一起去沙灘
I'll introduce you to everyone. The expats, the locals. 我要把你介紹給每一個人 不管外來的還是當地人
You'll dance. You will love it. 你可以跳舞，你會愛死它的
Oh, no, I don't think I can dance with my leg llke this. 噢，不，我不覺得我的腿成了這樣 我還能跳舞
Of course you can. Leg no problem. 你當然可以，腿不是問題
You see. 你看看
Now you have to come. 現在你必須來了
Hi. Could I get a tequila on the rocks with a lot of llme, please? 嗨，能給我來一杯加甜橙汁的龍舌蘭麼？
Coming right up. 稍等
Can I buy you a drink? 我能請你喝杯酒麼？
No, thank you, I'm fine. 不用了，謝謝，我很好
I-- I almost killed you. 嗯…我當時差點要了你的命
I am sorry for that, really. 我很抱歉，真的
-Hello. -Hi. - 你好 - 嗨
I'm sorry, really. 我深感內疚，真的
Yeah. 好吧
I'm sorry I'm laughing, but it's amazing. 對不起，我不該笑，不過這真的很奇妙
I was actually llstening to this song in the car when the tape jumped. 當時我正在車裡專心地聽著歌 突然帶子卡了
And I leaned over to fix it and I ran you off the road. 我側過身弄它，然後就差點撞到你
-Did you tell them to play it? -No, no, no. I make them mixtapes. - 你告訴他們該演奏什麼？ - 不不不，我只是給他們做唱片
Mostly Brazillan music. 大多是巴西風格的音樂
But l'm also very much into PhiI Colllns and Air Supply. 但是我也很迷菲爾·柯林斯 和空中補給合唱團
You really shouldn't say things llke that out loud. 你真的不該把這些這麼大聲地說出來
llz! 麗茲！
-Hi. -Oh, I see you've already met Fellpe. - 嗨 - 噢，我想你已經認識費利佩了
Oh, of course. Two sad divorces. You have so much in common. 噢，當然，兩個離過婚的人 你們有很多共同話題
I have the perfect man for you. 我有個棒小夥要介紹給你
Just a llttle love affair. Everyone has a llttle love affair in Ball. 只是一場戀愛，任何人在巴厘島都應該戀愛
Isn't he charming? lan. 他是不是很迷人？
Doesn't he look llke Sting? 他看起來是不是很像斯廷？ （英國著名搖滾歌手）
Oh, yeah. I made a very good mixtape of Sting. 噢，是的，我給斯廷做過一張很棒的唱片
You should dance with him. 你應該去和他跳舞
Got you. Come on, I got you. 來吧，我扶著呢
That's gonna hurt tomorrow. 明天就會疼了
All right. You know what? 好吧，你猜怎麼著
-That is it. We are going swimming. -No, I don't even have my-- l-- - 就是這個，我們要去游泳 - 不，我沒有泳衣…我…
You don't have your-- You don't-- 你也沒有…你沒有穿…
You're so naked. 你什麼都沒穿
Yeah, l'm naked. 是啊，我什麼都沒有穿
Armenia says everyone should have a love affair. 艾米利亞說每個人都應該談戀愛
This is Ball. Everyone should have a love affair in Ball. 這是巴厘島，任何人在巴厘島都該談戀愛
Yeah, but-- 或許，但是…
Oh, God. No, no, no. 噢，上帝，不，不，不
-Love affairs are awesome, dude. -They are. I just-- - 戀愛棒極了，夥計 - 是的，我只是…
I dated you 1 5 years ago. 我十五年前約會過
And I dated you six months ago. 六個月前約會過
So l'm gonna go. 所以，我還是走吧
You're not-- You're really-- You're going. 不是吧…你真的…你真要走了
But you're cute. 但是你還是很可愛
I think I look good. 我覺得我看起來還好
Wait a minute. 等一下
Oh, sorry. Here. 對不起，這裡
-Thank you. -Do you need a ride? - 謝謝 - 需要我載你一程麼？
That way I won't run you over again. 這樣我不就會再撞到你了
Hello. 你好啊
-What time is it? -Five a.m. - 現在幾點了？ - 早上五點
Oh, you party hard. 派對很累人
You really do. 你看起來確實很累
Thank you for.... 謝謝你…
-The ride? -Yeah. - 送你回來？ - 對
You're very welcome. Need help with the bicycle? 別客氣，需要把自行車給你送回去麼？
You keep it. 你自己留著吧
Keep it? But it has a basket. 留著它？但它有個籃子，是女式的
It also has a bell. 它還有個車鈴呢
Good afternoon. How are you? 下午好，感覺怎麼樣？
What are you doing here? 你在這兒幹什麼？
Well, l've brought you Wayan's famous hangover cure... 我給你買了些當地著名的醒酒茶
...because you drank a llttle bit too much last night. 因為你昨晚喝的有點多
And here it is. Very dellcious, as you can see... 給你，非常好喝，你會發現
...and very tasty. 真的很好喝
Do you make it a habit of walking into people's houses? 你總是這麼隨便走進別人的房間麼？
Do you make it a habit of sleeping with your front door open? 你總是開著門睡覺麼？
It's a call. Moment. 接個電話，等一下
-Hello, darllng. How are you? -Can't get the coffee machine to work. - 嘿，親愛的，什麼事？ - 不會用咖啡機
Okay. l've told you 50 times. It's very easy. 好吧，我都教過你五十次了，很簡單的
You change the filter, you add the coffee... 換濾網，加咖啡
...you add water and that's it. How did you get into college? …加水，然後就行了 真不知道你是怎麼考上大學的
-How do I make it llke you? -llsten, l've been making coffee... - 我怎麼能煮的像你一樣？ - 聽著，親愛的，我已經煮了
...darllng, for 40 years, so you have to be patient with yourself. All right? 將近四十年的咖啡了，你得耐心點，好麼？
Okay. So, what's up with you? 好吧，那，你現在和誰在一起呢？
-Nothing. I just can't talk right now. -Holy shit. You're with a girl. - 沒什麼人，我現在不方便說 - 噢！你和一個女人在一起
-I have to go. -Who is she? ls she hot? - 我得掛了 - 她是誰？性感不？
-Jesus, she's hot. -Dad, if you hang up... - 恩…很性感… - 爸爸，如果你…
...l'll call back and embarrass you. 一會打回去收拾你
Dad, don't-- 爸爸，別…
That's a lot of "darllngs," darllng. 親愛的，看起來你有很多“親愛的”
Yeah. That darllng was my son. 是的，這個親愛的是我兒子
I've called all my children "darllng" since they were llttle. 我把孩子們還小的時候，就管他們叫親愛的
Then there was a moment that between the pets and the children... 有段時間在寵物和孩子之間
...I was confused, so I called everybody "darllng." 我都會搞混，所以我管每個都叫“親愛的”
Okay, you need to rest. 現在你需要休息
Here is my number and my address. 這是我的電話號碼和地址
I'm gonna leave it here on the table, in case you need a tour guide. 我把它放在桌上，萬一你需要一個導遊
A tour guide. 一個導遊
And please, drink that up, because it's gonna help you a big deal. 還有，請把那個喝完，它對你非常有好處
Because you really look.... 因為你看起來真的…
-Ravishing? -Astonishing. - 非常迷人？ - 很嚇人
-Go away. Please. -Okay. Drink it up. - 走吧 - 好吧，把它喝完
It's gonna be helpful. 很有幫助
Hey, Mr. Tour Guide. 喂，我的導遊先生
Can we start with a coffee? 來杯咖啡怎麼樣？
Okay. 好啊
What are these? 這些是什麼
These are rambutan. They're dellcious. 這些是紅毛丹果，非常好吃
It's llke an orange made love to a plum. Would you llke some? 像橘子和李子的結合，想來點麼？
When you put it that way, yes, thank you. 既然你這麼說，那就來點，謝謝
Excuse me. 借過
What is that? 這是什麼？
No, no, no. 不，不，不
They taste llke dirty feet. 它們嘗起來有腳臭味
-Really? -Dirty feet. - 真的？ - 腳臭味
They taste llke feet. 這個嘗起來像臭腳丫
Look out. Nice. How many places have you visited? 當心，很好，你去過多少個地方？
I have 46 stamps on my passport. 我的護照上蓋了46個章
I happen to have 49 stamps on my passport. 我的護照上剛好有49個
-Forty-nine? I knew it. -Yes. - 49個？我知道了 - 是的
-Knew what? -I knew it. - 知道什麼了？ - 我知道
We are both antevasins, my dear. 我們都是安特瓦信人
What is that? 安特瓦信是什麼？
Antevasin is.... 安特瓦信人，就是…
It's an in-between. 中間人
It is the one who llves by the border... 生活在邊境的人
...because they renounce to the comfort of family llfe... 因為他們放棄了舒適的家庭生活
...in order to seek "enllghtment." 為了尋找一種“醒悟”
I llke your word. 我喜歡你的描述
And I llke the way you say "enllghtment." 我也喜歡你說到的“醒悟”這個詞
"Enllghtment." I try. 我想說的是“醒悟”
You're missing a syllable, but I llke it. 你說的時候丟了一個音節 不過我還是很喜歡這個詞
It's beautiful, no? 很美，不是麼？
It's Pura Melanting, which means "Temple of Prosperity." 這是“普拉梅丁”，意思是繁榮的廟宇
-Beautiful. -Yup. - 噢，真美 - 是的
-So next attraction of the tour? -Yes. - 繼續下一段魅力之旅？ - 好哇
-Food from Ball. -Oh, good. l'm starving. - 巴厘島的美食 - 真棒，剛好我餓了
-Where should we go? -To the best restaurant in town. - 我們要去哪裡？ - 這個鎮子上最好的飯店
-Of course. -My place. - 好啊 - 我家
Subtle. 真狡猾
Did you always llve in BraziI before you came to Ball? 你在來巴厘島以前一直住在巴西麼？
No, no. Only for 20 years. 不，不，在巴西只呆了20年
Then I met my wife and I moved with her to Australla. 然後我遇到我的妻子 和她一起去了澳大利亞
She traveled a lot because of the job. 她因為工作的原因經常出差
-And I stayed home with the children. -A good feminist husband. - 我留在家裡照顧孩子們 - 很棒的居家男人
Yeah. Yeah. Didn't turn out to be what she wanted, l'm afraid. 對，對，但恐怕這並不是她想要的
-What happened? -What happened? - 後來怎麼了？ - 怎麼了？
Well, the children were grown. 恩，孩子們長大了
And I run an import-export jewelry business, so I could llve anywhere. 我開了家珠寶進出口貿易公司 這樣我可以到處旅居
And Ball seemed llke the perfect place to recover from a divorce. 但是巴厘島似乎是治癒離婚傷痛最好的地方
And here I am. Here I am. 所以我就來這兒了，我就在這
-And you? -Well, far less tragic. - 你呢？ - 恩，沒你那麼慘
We were immature and really too young to get married. We grew apart. 我們結婚的時候還太年輕，不夠成熟 後來就分開了
Hearts were broken. 傷透了心
Yes. 是的
Then it's the same. 這一點上我們一樣
This is just perfect. 這太棒了
So are you. 你也是
You know what you are? You're a falsa magra. 你知道你是什麼嗎？你是假的默格拉
-You know what that is? -What? - 你知道是什麼意思麼？ - 什麼意思？
You are slender and elegant in a distance... 你遠遠看來苗條而優雅…
...but up close, you are round and fleshy. 但是近處一看，又圓又胖
Thank God for Brazillans. 謝天謝地
Stop that! 停下來！
You are a world traveler. 你是一個環球旅行者
He says that to everyone. 他對每個人都那樣說
Already make your money. 已經掙了很多錢
You don't have young-man ambition. 你沒有年輕人的野心
-He's good. -You have three children. - 他很不錯 - 你有三個孩子
Two. That's a callous. 兩個，那是塊老繭
And you have divorce. 你還離過婚
Very difficult. 非常艱難
You loved her very much. 你很愛她
You haven't healed that wound. 你還沒有從傷痛中恢復過來
Now you are scared to open your heart. 現在你很害怕敞開心扉
You are afraid hurt will happen to you again. 你害怕再一次受到傷害
Only way to heal... 想要恢復過來的辦法是
...is to trust. …學會相信
This okay. To have broken heart mean you have tried for something. 就是這樣，心碎過說明你嘗試過一些東西
Is it going to be broken again? 會不會再心碎一次呢？
He a good man, llz. You need a good man. 他是個好男人，麗茲，你需要個好男人
Thank you. 謝謝
True. Ketut knows. 確實如此，科圖特知道
I am so sick of people telllng me I need a man. 我很討厭別人跟我說我需要一個男人
You don't need a man, llz. You need a champion. 你不需要男人，麗茲，你需要一個獎盃
-Some spring break, huh? -Come on. You're moving llke turtles. - 春天來了 - 加油，你們慢的像蝸牛
His enthusiasm is exhausting. 他的熱情正在耗盡
Try being dropped off at schooI when you're 1 0... 試試十歲的時候被送到學校門口
...and having your father kiss you on the mouth. …爸爸還親你的嘴
He still does it. 他現在還這麼做
I'm sure it's all normaI in Brazil, but I didn't grow up in Brazil. 我知道這在巴西很普遍 但是我不是在巴西長大的
Friends would tease the crap out of me. 朋友們會取笑我的
Why didn't you ask him to stop? 你為什麼不制止他這麼做呢？
No, I did at first, but then I reallzed... 我一開始有制止他，但後來我意識到
...how happy it made the old guy and I just gave in. 親嘴能讓這個老男人有多開心，我就放棄了
You know what? My grandmother hikes faster than you both... 你們知道麼？我老祖母都比你們爬得快
...but she's already dead. …可惜她已經死了
Get him. Go get him. 跟上他，跟上他
How about you carry the packs for a while, eh? 你能背會包麼？
Come here. Look at this. 到這兒來，看這個
Is it nice? 是不是很美？
Baby. 寶貝
Bringing up the rear. 站上來
-So have you slept with her yet? -What was that? - 你和她睡過了麼？ - 什麼？
Have you slept with her yet? 你有沒有和她睡過？
Crossing the llne. 過份了啊
Dad, it's been 1 0 years. lt's time. 爸爸，已經十年了，該是時候了
Stay away from all the beautifuI girls. 遠離那些漂亮姑娘
They are dangerous. 她們都很危險
-A week is too short. -Yeah. - 一周時間很短的 - 好吧
-A week is too short. -Yup. - 一周真的很短 - 是的
llsten, l've made you a mixtape. 聽著，我給你做了一個帶子
And I give you a present. For you. 還有一個小禮物給你
Thank you. 謝謝
I'm missing you already. 我已經開始想你了
Bye, llz. 再見，麗茲
-Be safe. -Same to you. - 保重 - 你也一樣
So don't I get a kiss? 不和我吻別麼？
I don't know. 我不知道
-I love you, Dad. -I love you too. - 我愛你，爸爸 - 我也愛你
So stupid, I know. 很蠢，我知道
He's 1 9 years old and he's such a man. 他已經19歲了，已經是個男人了
It's sweet. 真幸福
You're sweet. 你真幸福
Darllng... 親愛的
...it's time. 時間到了
-llz. -What? - 麗茲 - 恩？
llz. Come here. I have to tell you something. 麗茲，過來，我得告訴你一些事情
No. I should really, really be meditating. 不，我真的真的該去冥想了
Go, go. Do it. 去吧，去吧
You know, I have not been to see Ketut in two weeks. 你知道，我已經兩個禮拜 沒有去看望柯圖泰了
-Really? -Yes. - 真的嗎？ - 是的
-Okay. Go, go. -Okay. - 好吧，去吧，去吧 - 好的
Oh, gosh. But you are just so much cuter than Ketut. 噢，天哪，可是你比柯圖泰可愛多了
No, I have to go. I have to go. 不，現在我必須走了，我必須走了
Why? 怎麼了？
You have bladder infection. 你得了膀胱感染
Common after no sex, then too much sexy time. 從不做愛到做得太多
We haven't even been apart for a minute in two weeks. 我們兩個星期以來都沒有分開過
You're afraid now, right? 你現在害怕了，不是麼？
I understand. 我理解你
You don't want to lose yourself. 你不想失去自我
Love is scary, dangerous. 愛情是可怕的，危險的
Happen to me. 我就是這樣
I pray every day, but husband bad for me. 我每天都祈禱，但是我丈夫依然對我很差
I have to get away from him. 我不得不離開他
This from where he hit me... 這是他打我留下的
...with motorcycle helmet. 用摩托車頭盔
And then my daughter... 接著是我女兒
...she begged me to leave him. 她求我離開他
Is that right, honey? 是這樣麼，寶貝？
I said, "I think you should get a divorce, Mommy." 我說過，“我覺得你應該離婚，媽媽”
She was 4 years old when she said it. 她說這句話的時候才4歲
Don't feeI bad about Fellpe. 不要對費列佩失望
Everybody needs affection, honey. 每個人都需要愛情，親愛的
Make people do funny things. 讓人們去做可笑的事情
Everyone gets llke that at beginning of relationship. 每個人在一段關係剛開始的時候都會這樣
Want too much happiness, too much pleasure... 想獲得更多的幸福，更多的快樂
...untiI make yourself sick. 直到讓你覺得難受
Even to Wayan, this happen at beginning of my love affair. 甚至是我自己戀愛之初也發生過這樣的事
I lose myself, llz. 我迷失了自我，麗茲
Dear friends and loved ones: 親愛的朋友們
My birthday's coming up soon. 我的生日很快就要到了
If I were home, l'd be planning a stupid, expensive... 如果我現在在家，我應該會籌畫 一個愚蠢的，奢侈的生日聚會
...birthday party and you'd all be buying me gifts and bottles of wine. 你們會給我買很多禮物和酒
A cheaper, more lovely way to celebrate would be to... 一個更便宜，更可愛的慶祝方法則是
...make a donation to help a healer named Wayan Nuriyasih... 捐款，給一個叫做韋恩·瑞雅西的醫療者
...buy a house in Indonesia. 讓她在印尼買一棟房子
She's a single mother. ln Ball, after a divorce... 她是巴厘島的一位單身母親
...a woman gets nothing, not even her children. 離婚後什麼都沒分到
To gain custody of her daughter, Tutti, Wayan had to sell everything... 為了獲得女兒的撫養權 韋恩賣了所有的家當
...even her bath mat, to pay for a lawyer. 甚至是她的浴室腳墊，籌錢來聘請律師
For years, they've moved from place to place. 多年來，她們居無定所
Each time, Wayan loses cllentele and Tutti has to change schools. 每一次搬家，韋恩就得失去她的顧客 圖奇則不得不轉學
This llttle group of people in Ball have become my family. 這些人已經變成了我在巴厘島這邊的家人
And we must take care of our familles, wherever we find them. 不管是在哪裡，我都得照顧好我的家人
Today I saw Tutti playing with a blue tile she'd found in the road... 今天我看到圖奇在玩一小片路上撿來的瓷磚
...near a hoteI construction site. She told me: 從一個旅館的建築工地撿來的，她跟我說
Maybe if we have a house someday... 或許哪天我們就會有一棟房子了
...it can have a pretty blue floor llke this. 它將會有這樣子的漂亮的藍色地板
When I was in Italy, I learned a word-- 我在義大利的時候，學到過一個詞
It's "tutti" with double T. “圖奇”
--which in ltallan means "everybody." So that's the lesson, isn't it? 在義大利語裡面是“每個人”的意思 這就是意義所在，不是麼？
When you set out in the world to help yourself... 當你只關心自己的時候
...sometimes you end up helping Tutti. 你就不再關心“圖奇”了
-Tell me again. -Eighteen thousand American dollars. - 再跟我說一遍 - 一萬八千美元
I brought you the e-mails to look at. 我把這封信帶給你看
Oh, my God. 噢，上帝
We get a house. 我們有房子了！
It can be the house for everybody! 是大家的房子！
I can have a pharmacy! I can have a llbrary! 我能有個藥房了！我能有個圖書館了！
-All right. Oh, God. -Close them again. Close your eyes. - 好了吧，哦，天哪 - 閉上眼，閉上它們
Careful. You don't wanna break a tooth or anything. 小心，你可不想磕掉一顆牙什麼的
-Don't worry, but close your eyes. -Where are you taking me? - 別擔心，但是要閉著眼 - 你要把我帶到哪兒？
You will see. 你馬上就知道了
-You helped Wayan to get a house... -I know. - 你幫助韋恩有了房子 - 恩
...and we're going to celebrate. 我們要慶祝一下
-Here, here, here. -All right. - 這邊，這邊 - 好吧
-Turn, turn, turn. -I know we're at the beach. - 拐彎，拐彎 - 我知道我們現在在沙灘上
Here you go. 看吧
We're going to take a llttle boat trip. 我們將會乘坐小船出遊
Where? 去哪裡？
Where? To a llttle island nearby. 哪裡？附近的一個小島
It's my favorite place in the world. I've packed for two. 那是我在這世上最喜歡的地方了 我們可以過二人世界
We can stay there untiI next Tuesday. And I have the perfect camping spot. 一直待到下星期二，最棒的野營地
Just you and I and 400 parrots. 只有你和我，還有四百隻鸚鵡
Do you llke it? 喜歡麼？
I was going to save it for tonight, but I think this is the right moment. 我本來是想留在晚上說的 但我覺得現在就是該說的時候
I have to be in Ball because my business is here... 我不得不留在巴厘島，因為我的事業在這裡
...and you have to be in New York... 而你得回紐約
...because that's where your llfe is, right? 因為那裡才是你生活的地方，不是麼？
What if we tried to create a llfe that is divided between the two places? 我們試著開始一段兩地戀怎麼樣？
Why would you wanna do that? 為什麼你會那麼想？
Because I'm in love with you. 因為我愛你
-Let's go. Let's go. -Oh, no. I.... - 讓我們出發吧，出發吧 - 噢，不，不…
-What? -I can't. l'm sorry. - 怎麼了？ - 我不能，對不起
-I just.... -You can't? - 我只是… - 你不能？
-l'm sorry. I can't. -Can't what? - 對不起，我不能 - 不能什麼？
I can't go on a trip right now, okay? I.... 我不能現在出行，夠了麼？我…
I haven't been home in five days. I haven't seen Ketut in weeks. 我已經五天不著家了 我已經幾周沒有去看科圖泰了
-lt's just too much. -lt's not much. - 事情太多了 - 事情並不多
To go... 走吧
...by ourselves... 由著我們自己
...apart from everything else for a couple of days, is that much for you? 遠離其它所有的一切，只是幾天 幾天對於你來說太長了麼？
llz, n?o entendo. What's the problem, llz? 麗茲，到底怎麼了？麗茲
I mean, I have the same fears, I have the same scars that you have... 我的意思是，我有著和你一樣的恐懼
...and I show them to you. 我向你表達出來了
But I guess the only difference between you and I is that... 但是我猜我們之間唯一的不同是
...you are afraid to love again. 你不敢再一次去愛
My darllng, this is it. 親愛的，就是這樣
You have to look me in the eye and let me know the truth. 你必須看著我的眼睛，告訴我真相
Please. Do you love me or do you love me not? 你到底愛不愛我？
Look me in the eyes and tell me... 看著我的眼睛，告訴我…
...do you love me or don't you love me not? lt's very easy. …你到底愛不愛我？這很簡單
I know you feeI the same way. Why can't you say it back? 我知道你有一樣的感受 為什麼你不能說出來？
I don't know why. 我不知道為什麼
Why can't l? 為什麼我不能？
Because you're terrified, my love. But llsten, it's fine. Me too. 因為你很害怕，親愛的 但是聽著，這沒什麼，我也一樣
But I still want to get into that boat with you. 但是我仍然想和你一同踏上那條船
-No. Okay, look. Look. -What? - 不，好吧，聽著，聽著 - 什麼？
I don't know why you can't understand this. 我不知道為什麼你理解不了這個
I found something and I can't give it up. 我找到了一些我不願放棄的東西
And trust me, if I did, you wouldn't be so all in love with me. 並且相信我，一旦我放棄了 你也就不會這樣全心全意愛著我了
Okay, the balance thing. You traveled around the world to find your balance. 是的，平衡，你周遊世界，來尋找平衡
And the balance that you think you've found is what? 你認為你找到的平衡到底是什麼？
Meditating for 20 minutes and going to see an old medicine man? 冥想20分鐘接著去看一個老治療師？
llsten, balance, my darllng, balance is not letting anybody love you... 聽著，平衡，親愛的 平衡不是說讓別人對你的愛
-...less than you love yourself. -You know what? You know what? - 少於你對自己的愛 - 你懂什麼？你懂什麼？
Do not tell me what lessons I have and haven't learned in the last year... 用不著你來告訴我 這一年裡我學到了什麼沒有學到什麼
...and don't tell me how balanced and wise you are... 別跟我說你有多平衡多明智
...and how I can't express myself. 還有我多麼不會表達自己的感受
And do not say "darllng" to me again because I am just gonna lose it. 不要再說“親愛的”了 因為我馬上就不是你的親愛的了
llsten to me! I do not need to love you to prove that I love myself. 聽著！我不需要用愛你來證明愛自己
Run away from me? 離開我？
You are running away from all the great possibillties of your own llfe. 你正在離開你生命中一切幸福的可能
I'm getting into that boat. 我要上船了
For you. 給你
A goodbye gift. 一個告別禮物
Ketut. 科圖特
llss... 麗茲…
...you healed me. …你治癒了我
You healed me too, Ketut. 你也治癒了我，科圖特
If it wasn't for you, I wouldn't have come back to Ball... 要不是為了你，我可能不會回巴厘島
...and I wouldn't have come back to myself. …我也不會回歸我自己
You want coffee? Roast pig? 想要咖啡？還是烤豬肉？
Coffee. 咖啡
I get you coffee. 我去給你拿咖啡
You fly back to America soon? 你很快就要飛回美國了麼？
In two hours. 還有兩個小時
Have you ever been on an airplane, Ketut? 你坐過飛機麼，科圖特？
Ketut cannot fly on aeroplane. 科圖特不能坐飛機
Ketut have no teeths. 科圖特沒有牙齒
You are good friend to me. 你對我來說，是個好朋友
You are llke daughter. 像女兒一樣
When I die... 我死的時候
...you will come back to Ball? Come to my cremation? 你會回巴厘島麼？來參加我的火葬儀式？
Ballnese cremation ceremony is very fun. 巴厘島的火葬儀式非常有趣
-You will llke it. -Okay. - 你會喜歡的 - 好吧
You still smile with your llver, llke I tell you? 你還在微笑著對待生活麼 像我告訴你的那樣？
Yes. 是的
You still meditate llke your guru in India teach you? 你還堅持冥想麼 像你印度的導師教你的那樣？
-Yes. -You happy now with God? - 是的 - 你現在快樂地與上帝在一起麼？
-Yes. -You love your new boyfriend? - 是的 - 你愛你的新男友麼？
I ended it. 我們結束了
Don't understand. Why you do that? 我不懂，你為什麼這麼做？
I couldn't keep my balance. 我不能保持我的平衡
llss, llsten to Ketut. 麗茲，聽科圖特一句
Sometimes to lose balance for love... 有時候，為了愛而失去平衡
...is part of llving balanced llfe. 是平衡地活著的一部分
In the end... 最後
...I've come to belleve in something I call "The Physics of the Quest." 我開始相信一些東西 我管它們叫做“物理探求”
A force in nature governed by laws as reaI as the laws of gravity. 一種由定律掌控著的自然力量 就想重力的那樣真實
The rule of Quest Physics goes something llke this: 物理探求的規則是這樣子的：
If you're brave enough to leave behind everything famillar and comforting... 如果你足夠勇敢，拋開身邊舒適親切的一切
...which can be anything from your house to bitter, old resentments... 身邊的任何事物，甚至包括苦澀和舊恨
...and set out on a truth-seeking journey... 然後開始一段尋求真理的旅程
...either externally or internally... 既是外在的也是內在的
...and if you are truly willlng to regard everything... 如果你真心地去關注每一件事
...that happens to you on that journey as a clue... 旅途中發生的每一件事
...and if you accept everyone you meet along the way as a teacher... 如果你將旅途中遇到的每個人都當成老師
...and if you are prepared, most of all... 最重要的是，如果你已經準備好了
...to face and forgive some very difficult reallties about yourself... 去面對與釋懷那些艱難的現實
...then the truth will not be withheld from you. 那麼真理就不會對你有所保留
Fellpe? 費利佩？
I can't help but belleve it, given my experience. 我不由自主地相信了我的感受 （日落時分，碼頭相見）
I decided on my word. 我想說一句話
It means: 那就是
"Let's cross over." “讓我們穿過這條河”