我有個朋友 叫黛博拉 是名心理學家 I have a friend, Deborah, a psychologist...
費城當局曾邀請她 who was asked by the city of Philadelphia...
給柬埔寨難民 if she could offer psychological...
提供義工心理輔導 counseling to Cambodian refugees...
他們都是海上難民 剛抵城不久 boat people, who had recently arrived in the city.
黛博拉對此感到畏懼 因為這些柬埔寨人 Deborah was daunted by the task. These Cambodians...
遭受過最慘的際遇 大屠殺 饑荒 had suffered genocide, starvation,
眼睜睜看著親人遭殺害 relatives murdered before their eyes...
常年住在難民營 甘冒危險乘船前往西方 years in refugee camps, harrowing boat trips to the west.
她怎么能理解他們的感受 How could she relate to their suffering?
她做么做才能幫到他們 How could she help these people?
大家猜猜 這些難民和黛博拉 So guess what all these people wanted to talk about...
我這位心理學家朋友 談得最多的是什么 with my friend Deborah, the psychologist.
幾乎都是 我在難民營遇見了這個男人 It was all, "I met this guy in the refugee camp.
本以為他真愛我 I thought he really loved me,
但分手后 but when we got separated...
他卻和我表妹好上了 he took up with my cousin.
而現在又說愛的是我 Now he says he loves me...
還一直給我打電話 and keeps calling me.
他們現在結婚了 我該怎么辦 They're married now. What should I do?"
我還愛著他 I still love him.
這就是我們的真相 This is how we are.
有什么事嗎 May I help you?
我叫莉茲·吉爾伯特 在寫一篇有關巴厘島的文章 I'm Liz Gilbert. I'm writing a magazine article on Bali.
我想見一名巫醫 I wanted to meet a medicine man.
大家都建議我來見老四賴爺 Everyone said I should meet Ketut Liyer.
他是住在這里嗎 Am I in the right place?
等一下 Wait.
很快 我就會見到這位傳承到第九代的巫醫 I mean, here I am with a ninth-generation medicine man...
我該問他什么呢 and what do I wanna ask him about?
如何離上帝更近 Getting closer to God?
如何拯救全世界的饑餓兒童 Saving the world's starving children?
很高興見到你 我是老四賴爺 Happy to see you. I am Ketut Liyer.
不 我只想和他談論我的婚姻 Nope. I wanna discuss my relationship.
你是個世界的旅人 You are a world traveler.
你會活很久 You will live a long time...
有許多朋友 經歷豐富 have many friends, many experiences.
你這輩子會有兩次婚姻 一長一短 You will have two marriages. One long, one short.
我現在的婚姻是長是短 Am I in the long one or the short one?
天機不可泄露 Can't tell.
還有你會失去所有金錢 Also you will lose all your money.
我想就在接下來的六到十個月 I think in next six to ten months.
別擔心 你會再拿回來的 Don't worry. You will get it all back again.
還有 你會重回巴厘 And you will come back to Bali...
并在這里待上三四個月 and live here for three or four months
教我英語 and teach me English.
從沒有人能跟我練習英語 I never had anybody to practice my English with.
然后 And then...
我就會把我知道的一切教給你 I will teach you everything I know.
等等 Wait.
給你這個 I have this for you.
堅定地踩在地上 就像你有四條腿 Keep grounded so it's like you have four legs.
這樣 你才能待在這個世上 That way, you can stay in this world.
還有 不要用腦袋看世界 Also, no looking at world through your head.
而是用你的心 Look through your heart instead.
如此才可能了解神 That way, you will know God,
這就是你來此的原因 不是嗎 which is why you came here, no?
回頭見 鈍吻鱷 See you later, alligator.
六個月后
我幫她校對所有手稿 I proofread all of her manuscripts.
我妻子真的很不錯 My wife is very, very beautiful,
但她的拼寫實在不敢恭維 but she can't spell for anything.
史蒂芬叔叔 Look at Uncle Stephen.
莉茲嬸嬸 And Auntie Liz.
我虔誠祈禱派對能快點結束 I'm counting the minutes for this party to be
這樣我就能鉆進寬松的大號睡褲里 over so I can get in my big girl pants.
你看上去棒極了 你剛生了小孩啊 You look fantastic. You just had a baby.
你說謊 我胖了 而且筋疲力盡 You're lying. I'm fat. I'm exhausted.
我只想著一個字 胖 我覺得我就是麗莎·明妮莉 I can't keep two thoughts. I feel like Liza Minnelli.
史蒂芬 能抱會杰克嗎 Stephen, can you hold Jack?
-介紹你認識沃爾特 -好的 - I'm gonna introduce you to Walter. - Yeah.
老兄 想來杯啤酒什么的嗎 Dude, you wanna grab a beer or something?
我的新書會在四月出版 謝謝關心 My new book comes out in April. Thank you for asking.
-很好 -是五月 - Great. - May.
對 是五月 五月 May. May.
這是安德烈 你們倆是《時代》雜志的 This is Andre. You two are times'
最佳名人候選人 most notable nominees.
很高興終于見到你了 So glad to finally meet you.
很高興終于見到你了 Nice to finally meet you.
我喂過他玉米脆餅了 沒問題吧 I fed him nachos. Is that bad?
你看起來很舒服 You look comfortable.
你喂他吃什么 三氯甲烷嗎[麻醉劑] What'd you feed him, chloroform?
-來讓你爸爸抱吧 -我說了 玉米脆餅 - Give him to his dad. - I told you, nachos.
如果我那樣拉一通的話 我也會睡那么香 Know what? I'd be asleep too if I had a dump like that.
-到媽媽那里去吧 -來吧 - We'll give him to his mom. - Come here then.
-想幫我換尿布嗎 -好的 - Wanna help me change his diaper? - Yes, I do.
古董車銷售怎么樣 How's the vintage car thing going?
不 不 不 我換工作了 現在是糕點師 No, no, no. I changed jobs. I'm a pastry chef now.
-你是面包師傅了 -對 - You mean you're a baker. - Yeah.
想去猛抽幾只嗎 You wanna get baked?
媽咪知道的 I know, I know.
很不舒服 是不是 It's hard, isn't it?
不 這很有趣的 No. This is so much fun.
還記得你想生孩子的那一瞬間嗎 Did you know the exact moment you wanted to have a baby?
不記得了 但是在我結婚之前 I can't remember, but I've had the
就有一個箱子 box since before I got married.
什么箱子 What box?
太幼稚了 很難以啟齒 It's girly and embarrassing, and
如果告訴你 你會笑話我的 you'll laugh at me if I tell you.
我會笑你 不過你還是得告訴我 I will laugh at you, but you still have to tell me.
好吧 Come on.
床下面 Under the bed.
我不停地買寶寶的東西塞進箱子 I've been filling it with baby things...
一直等到安迪準備好做父親 waiting until Andy was ready to be a father.
太溫馨了 So sweet.
這條我都能穿得下吧 Does this come in my size?
我也有個這樣的箱子 不過里面 I have a box just like this, except it's
裝滿了《國家地理》 filled with National Geographics...
和《時代》的旅游版面 and the Times travel section.
都是我死之前想去的地方 All the places I wanna see before I die.
莉茲 生孩子就像在臉上刺青 Liz, having a baby is like getting a tattoo on your face.
做之前一定得確定你想這么做 You kind of wanna be fully committed.
我下周去阿魯巴島 So my trip to Aruba next week,
只是寫最基本的游記 比如 which is just a basic, you know...
"去哪睡覺 游泳 品嘗美食"之類的 "where to sleep, swim and stuff your face" piece....
我買了新的比基尼 I got a new bikini.
不過我剛知道 可以無限制享受酒店小冰箱里的食物 And it turns out, I have unlimited minibar access.
-知道說明什么嗎 -身體不能適應 - You know what that means? - Jet lag?
你和我 You, me...
盡情享用澳洲堅果 macadamia nuts.
真可愛 That was cute.
你知道我在聚會上跟誰聊天 You know who I was talking to at the
他真的讓我挺佩服的 party who was really inspiring...
-塔拉的朋友 -布萊恩 - ...was Tara's friend. - Brian.
布萊恩 不可思議 他是個老師 你知道嗎 Brian. Unbelievable. He's a teacher, you know that?
是代課老師 不是嗎 He's a substitute teacher, isn't he?
對 他談到了 Yeah. He was talking about the
教育費用預算的縮減 budget cuts that are happening right now.
學校幾乎一分錢也沒有了 There's no money for anything.
學校取消了音樂課 藝術課 There's no music classes, there's no arts classes.
他們放學后志愿給孩子們補習 They're volunteering their time to do all of this after school.
教孩子們音樂和藝術 They're educating our kids, you know?
我想你會是個了不起的老師 親愛的 I think you'd make a great teacher, honey.
謝謝 不過我考慮得更長遠 Thank you, but I was thinking more of like...
我想考個教育碩士學位 education. Getting my masters,
繼續深造 我不知道 going back to school. I don't know.
知道嗎 You know?
我 你知道 I-- you know....
-繼續深造 -你當我在自言自語吧 - Going back to school. - I'm just thinking out loud.
我有個不祥的預感 I was getting the sinking feeling that
賴爺的預言就要成真了 Ketut's prophecy was coming true.
現在的婚姻是短的那個嗎 Was I in the shorter marriage?
我們一年前才買的這套房子 We'd only bought this house a year ago.
這不是我想要的生活嗎 Hadn't I wanted this?
我主動參與創造這種生活的 I had actively participated in every moment of the creation...
每時每刻 of this life.
那為什么我覺得這一切根本就不像我 So why didn't I see myself in any of it?
還有什么比待在這段婚姻中更不現實的 The only thing more impossible than staying...
只有離開 was leaving.
我不想傷害任何人 我想 I didn't wanna hurt anybody. I wanted
悄悄地從后門溜走 to slip quietly out the back door...
直到跑到格陵蘭島才停下來 and not stop running until I reached Greenland.
不過我并未這樣做 我只是開始 Instead, I made a decision.
祈禱 To pray.
你知道 就是向神禱告那樣 You know, like, to God.
這對我來說確是很新鮮的一件事 And it was such a flaring concept to me
我盡量克制自己不說 that I swear I almost began with
我一直很迷您的作品 "I'm a big fan of your work."
你好啊 上帝 Hello, god?
很高興終于見到了你 我 Nice to finally meet you. I....
對不起 我從前沒直接跟您說過話 I am sorry I've never spoken directly to you before...
但 but...
我希望我對您 I hope I've expressed my...
賜予我的一切可以一直表達萬分 ample gratitude for all the blessings you've given...
感激之意 to me in my life.
我面臨嚴重的麻煩 I'm in serious trouble.
不知如何是好 I don't know what to do.
我需要您的幫助 I need an answer.
拜托 指點我該怎么辦 Please, tell me what to do.
上帝 請幫我 God, help me, please.
告訴我該怎么辦 我會謹遵教誨 Tell me what to do and I'll do it.
回去睡覺 莉茲 Go back to bed, Liz.
我不想去阿魯巴島 I don't wanna go to Aruba.
我不想結婚 I don't wanna be married.
《誰動了我的奶酪》
《不幸到幸福》
樓下有離婚書籍的專區 You know, there's a whole divorce section downstairs.
-胡椒研磨機 -她這是 - "Pepper grinder." - She's having...
-精神崩潰 -女生就是這樣 - a nervous breakdown. - This is what girls do.
她正在想辦法 She's processing.
她為什么不大醉一場或出去鬼混一下 Why doesn't she get drunk or get laid?
如果你拋棄我 我就這么做 That's what I would do if you left me.
不 你不會的 No, you wouldn't.
-對 我不會 -她搬出來 連離婚協議也寫好了 - No, I wouldn't. - She moved out, she filed for divorce.
他們在一起八年 而她現在無家可歸了 They were together eight years. She's got no home.
遺留 "Legacy."
意大利語的每個詞都像是塊松露 Every word in Italian is like a truffle.
魔術 A magic trick.
親愛的 我懂 現在它是你的救生筏 Honey, I get it. It's your life raft right now.
安迪和我分手兩個星期后 我買了個織布機 When Andy and I broke up for two weeks, I bought a loom.
一個要命的織布機 而他準備學著釀酒 A frigging loom. And he tried to start a microbrewery.
搞不明白你們這些家伙怎么不嫌棄我 I don't know how you guys aren't sick of me now.
我都討厭自己了 I'm sick of me.
開玩笑吧 我們很愛你 Are you kidding me? We love having you.
就像是有個作家和我們一起生活 It's kind of like having a writer in residence.
而你的確是個作家 你該寫點東西 But you are a writer. You should be writing something.
也許可以寫一個女人 Maybe I could write about a woman
去意大利學意大利語 who goes to Italy to learn Italian.
就叫《碳水化合物和變位動詞》 Call it Carbohydrates and Conjugations.
我得先找個住的地方 I'll start looking for a place.
-我愛上你了 -我不是你想的那樣 - I'm falling in love with you. - I'm not who you think I am.
我只是你的幻想 I'm just your fantasy.
不 瞎說 你是真實的 No, that's bullshit. You're real.
你的傷痕 你的天賦 Your scars, your talent.
事實上 我不過只有一個爛酒吧 The fact that I own a piece-of-crap bar...
而你卻毫不嫌棄 and you accept that that's all I'm gonna do.
好吧 真夠爛 Okay, this sucks.
-我同意 -禮貌點 - I second that. - Don't be rude.
我愛你的痛楚 I love your pain.
我喜歡我們在一起 我能消除你的痛苦 And I love that when we're together, I can make it go away.
-他真棒 -你給我的愛 - He's good. - Your love...
-他很性感 但不代表他演技好 -就像是一塊熱面包 - He's hot, there's a difference. - ...is like a hot panini.
當注視你的雙眸 And when I look into your eyes,
我聽見海豚拍打波浪的聲音 I hear dolphins clapping.
我沒寫這句話 I did not write that line.
這是他還不知道的 Here's what he doesn't know yet.
我消失在所愛的人心中 I disappear into the person I love.
我是可滲透的薄膜 I am the permeable membrane.
如果我愛你 你就擁有我的一切 If I love you, you can have it all.
我的金錢 時間 身體 My money, my time, my body...
我的狗 還有狗狗的錢 my dog, my dog's money.
我會承擔你的債務 協助你 I will assume your debts and project upon you...
幫你完善自己本不具有的 all sorts of nifty qualities you've
各種優秀品質 never actually cultivated in yourself.
我會給你一切 或許更多 I will give you all this and more...
直到我筋疲力竭 until I am so exhausted and depleted.
我恢復的唯一方法 The only way l can recover...
就是頭腦發熱和某人膩在一起 is by becoming infatuated with someone else.
-伊莉莎白 你好 -你好 - Elizabeth, hi. - Hi.
干杯 Cheers.
-謝謝 -我該向你道歉 - Thank you. - I owe you an apology.
-我剛剛走神了 -我并非人見人愛 - For the walkouts. - I'm not everyone's cup of tea.
我不信 I doubt that.
另外 我演得很臭 I, on the other hand, was shit.
-盡管我很努力了 -"臭"這個詞太過了 - Although I was trying very hard. - "Shit" is a strong word.
謝謝 Thank you.
你看上去比在舞臺上矮 You seem shorter in person than on the stage.
-是嗎 好多人都這么說 -不好意思 - Really? I hear that a lot. - Sorry.
沒關系 It's okay.
很讓人不安 當 It's unnerving when...
一個陌生人比你自己更清楚自己的時候 a total stranger sees you more clearly than you see yourself.
就好比我告訴你 你個子不高 That's what I mean by saying you're short.
你現在聽到海豚拍打浪花的聲音了嗎 Are you hearing dolphins clapping right now?
我自由發揮了你的劇本 I took a few liberties with your material.
我完全允許你 I give you full permission to make
嘲笑我 我知道你很樂于取笑我 fun of me. I know you're dying to.
其實你毫無缺點讓我取笑 You're far too charming to make fun of.
我還能聽到它們拍打浪花的聲音 I'm still hearing them.
那是你的古魯嗎 Is that your guru?
你開玩笑吧 不過 對 就是她 You're joking, but, yes, it is.
她很漂亮 She's beautiful.
對 我朋友告訴我的 Yeah. A friend told me about her.
那次我失業了 特別想做一件事 I was out of work and feeling pretty desperate for something.
不是上次失業 是上上次 Not the last time I was out of work, the time before that.
我的這種感覺就像是 And I just had this feeling like I
我尋找的地方都不對 was looking in all the wrong places.
找什么 Looking for what?
上帝 God.
她在印度有個靜修處 我特別想去 不過 She has an ashram in India. I'm dying to go, but...
只有生病才能去 比如 you know, you have to get, like,
重型肝炎患者 three stages of hepatitis shots...
我的保險經常失效 and my insurance always runs out.
所以等時機成熟我就去 I'll go when the time's right.
每天早上她的學生就會聚在一起 There's a gathering of her students every morning.
如果你也想 有時間我可以帶你去 If you want, I could take you sometime.
倘若跟幾百人在房間里用梵語 If you're not unnerved by 100
吟誦神的名字 不會嚇著你的話 crunchy people chanting in Sanskrit...
我需要一些刺激 I need to be unnerved.
大衛 來自紐約郊區的瑜伽信徒 David. A yogi from Yonkers.
我并不是真的愛上了他 I didn't exactly fall in love with the guy.
我只是鉆出了我的婚姻 What happened was I dove out of my marriage...
一頭鉆入大衛的懷抱 and into David's arms...
就像卡通里的馬戲團演員 exactly the same way a cartoon circus performer...
從高臺跳下 鉆入一小杯水里 dives off a high platform and into a small cup of water...
消失得無影無蹤 vanishing completely.
你的內衣 女王陛下 Your underwear, my queen.
他竟然幫我疊好內衣 He just folded my delicates.
天啊 寶貝 你麻煩大了 My god, baby, you are in so much trouble.
三十六樓嗎 Thirty-six?
我的當事人對離婚不感興趣 My client is simply not interested in a divorce.
他認真的嗎 Is he serious?
他真的要自己辯護嗎 Is he really representing himself?
在你面前的人可是在法學院待過一學期的 寶貝兒 One semester of law school right here, baby.
很好 那么 你的當事人對什么感興趣 Great. Well, what would it take to interest your client?
好 這樣吧 你搞砸了我的生活 Okay, so here's the deal. You have screwed up my life...
但是我真的想知道 為什么你不能找到你在 but what I wanna know is why couldn't you find yourself...
婚姻中的角色 in our marriage?
為什么不說出你的想法和感受 Why didn't you say what you were thinking or feeling?
我說過 但是你從來不聽 I did. But you never listen to me.
不 不 沒有 沒有 你從來沒說 No, no, no, no. You never said...
"嘿 你知道嗎 你真混球 我很不開心" "Hey, you know what? You suck. I'm deeply unhappy."
你只是腳一抬走掉了 從不給我 You just took off. You never gave me
機會解決這些問題 a chance to address those problems.
這不公平 只是走掉 我發過誓 That's not fair. That's just quitting. I took vows.
直到死亡將我們分開 我是認真的 Till death. And I take them seriously.
我相信這只是一個低潮 我愿意等 I believe this is just a phase and I'm willing to wait it out.
你總是等 史蒂芬 You are always waiting, Stephen.
等我回家 等著生小孩 Waiting for me to come home, to wanna have kids...
等著給你做飯 我不懂為什么不承認 to make you dinner. I don't know why we can't accept...
我們其實都不想再生活在不幸中 we don't wanna live in unhappiness any more.
我承認 我偶爾不可依靠 I accept the fact that I am occasionally unreliable...
我經常轉移話題 and I often get sidetracked,
但是我以為你喜歡我這樣 but I thought you liked that about me.
我覺得我有希望有夢想是件好事 I thought it was okay that I had hopes and dreams.
有夢想 史蒂芬 好 Have a dream. Stephen, great,
繼續你的夢想 你倒是選一個啊 fine. Do that. Just pick one.
好 我選 選你 Okay, I pick one. I pick you.
我知道這很糟糕 I know this is awful.
但是我身體的每個細胞都相信 But I believe with every molecule of my
你會找到一個人 body that you will find the person...
和你的想法相同 that wants just what you want.
這樣你就得到你想要的 That will give you what you want
還有你應得的 但我不是 and what you deserve. I'm not her.
很明顯 你不知道我想要什么 Well, you obviously know nothing about what I want.
我的當事人會提交他寫的一首歌 My client would like to submit a song he wrote...
他相信這歌和訴訟有密切的相關性 that he believes it's relevant with this procedings.
這首歌是這樣的 It goes something like this...
你開什么玩笑呢 Are you kidding?
懦夫 懦夫 懦夫 Quitter, quitter, quitter!
夠了 都是我錯行了吧 Alright. How about I take the blame?
是我無法再忍受 I am the one who couldn't deal...
周末漫步于大型超市過道 with another weekend roaming some box-shaped superstore...
刷卡購買更多的家用品 裝的像別的夫妻一樣 buying appliances on credit and pretending to be a couple that
其實我們都不知道什么是婚姻 neither one of us ever knew how to be.
是你要買那個烤面包機的 You wanted that toaster.
"你要演戲就演吧 你是最佳主角 "You like faking it, fine. You're stellar.
我不會演戲 我不會假裝" I'm the failure. I suck at faking it."
那種日子真不好過 It was not my finest hour.
那現在事情進展到什么地步了 So where do things stand now?
我們同意給你一半的財產 We're prepared to offer half of everything,
包括住房以及我當事人的退休金 including the house, and my client's retirement accounts.
全拿去吧 所有東西 Take it all then. Everything.
他還是不同意 He still said no.
-他現在恨我 -他不是恨你 - He hates me now. - He doesn't hate you.
他只是心碎了 His heart is broken.
我覺得他恨你 I think he hates you.
小心我把你鎖進地下室永遠出不來 Ok. I'm never letting you out of the basement.
我們何不下星期再談 看事情有什么進展呢 Why don't we talk next week and we'll see where things stand?
-好 -這種事情總有解決之道的 - Okay. - These things have a way of working themselves out.
那你怎么成為素食主義者的呢 So why'd you become a vegetarian?
我曾經見過屠殺牛 I saw some cows slaughtered one time.
你都沒怎么吃東西 Barely touched your dinner.
他才二十八歲 He's 28.
這對他來說很難吧 那你呢 This is hard for him, isn't it? And you?
做做冥想能好很多 The meditations help.
莉茲 Liz.
你還記得幾年以前 You remember a couple of years ago,
你把自己置身于家里廚房的整修 when you threw yourself into the renovation of your kitchen?
你當時看著多像個完美的妻子和家庭煮婦啊 You were completely consumed with being the perfect wife and cook.
我試著讓婚姻延續來著 I was trying to make it work.
我覺得誦經和冥想是一回事兒 Well, I think chanting and meditation is the same thing...
只是形式的區別罷了 in a different costume.
一定給我那個資料 Definitely give me that documentary.
我一直琢磨要試試當素食主義者呢 I've been thinking about trying out of vegetarianism.
你知道 我的甘油三脂已經高得不行了 You know, my triglycerides are through the roof.
沒問題 謝謝今晚的招待 Yeah. Thanks for everything.
很高興遇見你 Great to meet you.
-怎么啦 -沒什么 就是... - What? - Nothing. It's just...
你知道 你過去看著像史蒂芬 you know, you used to look like Stephen.
現在你看著有些像大衛 Now you kind of look like David.
我意思是說 What l meant was,
你知道主人和他的狗越來越像 you know how people start resembling their dogs?
他為什么那么說啊 我們看著像同一只狗 Why would he say that, we look like the same dog?
-他那是開玩笑的 -一點兒也不好笑 - He was joking. - Not funny.
他喝了五瓶啤酒 他喝醉了 Well, he had five Heinekens. He was bombed.
不好笑 Well, not funny.
我們看著才不像同一只狗呢 We don't look like the same dog.
就算是 也是你是柯利牧羊犬而我是藏獒 If anything, you're a collie and I'm a tibetan mastiff.
別讓我做只能想念你的人 Don't wanna give me a chance to miss you.
你要離開一年嗎 You wanna go away for a year?
你知道今天早上我醒來時什么感覺嗎 迪莉亞 Do you know what I felt when I woke up this morning, Delia?
一無所有 沒激情 沒火花 Nothing. No passion, no spark,
沒信仰 沒感情 什么也沒有 no faith, no heat. Absolutely nothing.
我覺得我必須要想辦法 I think I really got to past the point
熬過這個糟糕的階段 where I can be calling this a bad moment.
這太可怕了 天哪 And it just terrifies me. Jesus,
對我來說這比死都可怕 this is like worse than death to me...
一想到這將是我的人生 我就覺得太可怕了 the idea that this is the person I'm gonna be from now on.
知道嗎 這是正常的 You know what, this happens to people.
人們在二十幾歲戀愛 結婚 They fall in love in their 20s, get married...
三十幾歲照顧家庭 do the granite countertop, white-picket fence in their 30s...
某天他們意識到 "我再也不要這樣的生活了" and somewhere they realize, "this is not for me anymore."
所以他們失敗 跌倒 So they fail and they fall down,
他們受傷 他們振作 they hurt like hell, they straighten up...
他們找心理咨詢 and march their asses to the shrink's office.
-人不能一走了事 -我沒有一走了事 - They can't just check out. - I am not checking out.
我需要改變 I need to change.
這里有人關心支持你 莉茲 You have a support system here, Liz.
你有愛你的朋友和親人 You have friends and family who love you.
你感覺到我對你的愛和支持了嗎 沒有 And do you feel my love for you? My support for you? No.
我就像是行尸走肉 There's, like, nothing. I have no pulse.
-我要去意大利 -為什么去意大利呢 - I am going to Italy. - Italy. Why Italy?
-你午飯吃的什么 -沙拉什么的吧 - What did you have for lunch? - I don't know. A salad.
沒錯 我過去對食物有激情 Exactly. I used to have this appetite for food,
對生活有激情 可現在什么都沒了 for my life and it is just gone.
我想去一個能讓我感到驚奇的地方 I wanna go someplace where I can marvel at something.
語言 冰激凌 意大利面 等等 Language, gelatoes, spaghetti, something.
你說這話就跟高中生似的 You're talking like a college kid.
知道嗎 我一直活得像個高中生 You know, I've been acting like one.
從十五歲開始 我要么是和一個男生在一起 Since I was 15, I've either been with a guy
要么是和一個男生分手 or breaking up with a guy.
我連兩個星期的短暫休息都沒給過自己 I have not given myself two weeks of a breather...
來處理我自己的事情 ...to just deal with, you know, myself.
你和大衛之間發生什么了 What's going on with you and David?
怎么 你掉下床啦 What, did you fall out?
我不知道如何適應這里 I don't know how to be here.
你想知道怎么適應這里嗎 You wanna know how to be here?
別在一直期待什么了 Stop constantly waiting for something.
我要去意大利 然后我要去 I'm going to Italy and then I'm going
大衛精神導師在印度的靜修處 to David's guru's ashram in India...
最后我在巴厘島結束這一年 ...and I'm going to end the year in Bali.
這就是我的計劃 That's what I'm gonna do.
這無可厚非 那里沙灘很美 但為什么呢 That's harder to argue with. The beaches are nice. But why?
因為賴爺告訴我的. Because Ketut told me I would.
那個沒牙的老頭 Guy with no teeth.
當你絕望時有人 When you're desperate and some guy who,
沒錯看著有些像尤達大師 yes, looks a little like Yoda...
遞給你一封預言書 你必須有所回應 ...hands you a prophecy, you have to respond.
-你需要阿普唑侖[鎮靜劑]嗎 -當然 - Do you need a Xanax? - Always.
好 無論如何我要說 Okay, I'm just gonna say it.
說完就再也不提此事 I'm gonna say it and be done with it.
要是這樣也無濟于事呢 What if it doesn't work?
我的整個生活就裝在了一個十二英尺的箱子里 My whole life fits in a 12-foot-square box.
你知道這話我一天要聽多少次嗎 You know how many times I hear that in a day?
很多人永遠把生活留在這里了 Most of them never come back for their whole life.
-喂 -莉茲 - Hello? - Liz.
好消息 史蒂芬剛簽了離婚協議書 Good news. Stephen just signed the divorce papers.
我可能一個星期就回來 身無分文還患痢疾 I'll probably be back in a week, penniless with dysentery.
你是我的英雄 You're my hero.
如果你留下來 我們每天都出去吃印度飯 If you stay, we'll go out for Indian every night.
你從沒讓我留下來過 You never asked me to stay.
走 走 走 Go, go, go.
有個絕妙的意大利傳統笑話... There is a wonderful old Italian joke...
說一個窮人每天去教堂 ...about a poor man who goes to church every day
并在圣人雕像前面祈禱請求 and prays before the statue of the great saint begging
"偉大的圣人 "Dear saint, please, please,
求你讓我贏一次樂透獎吧" please let me win the lottery."
最終 惱怒的雕像活了 Finally, the exasperated statue comes to life
他低頭看著這個禱告的人說 and looks down to the begging man and said
"孩子啊 請你先買張樂透券吧" "My son, please, please, please buy a ticket."
現在我明白這個笑話了 So now l get the joke.
并且我買了三張 And l've got three tickets.
你在爐子上燒水 You heat the water on the stove.
那如果我想泡澡呢 So if I want to bathe...?
你把熱水倒進浴缸 You put the water in the tub.
好的 Okay.
這水看著不夠泡澡用啊 Yeah. It doesn't really seem like enough water to bathe in.
不夠 Not enough.
夠用了 Yes, it's enough.
倒個三次 四次 五次 Fill it up three, four, five times.
一切就都干凈了 Everything that's important gets cleaned.
這安全嗎 這... Is this safe? This...
這些腳手架... ...scaffolding? Scaffol--
它用來支撐屋頂 否則會倒下的 It holds up the ceiling. Otherwise it will fall apart.
所有東西都會倒的 孩子 Everything falls apart, my dear.
生命中唯一永恒的是家 The only thing permanent in life is family.
你沒結婚 You're not married.
不是 離婚了 No, divorziata.
為什么離啊 Why divorced?
我們不合 We broke it.
現在的你更高興嗎 You're more happy now?
我有個規則 I have one rule.
不許帶陌生男人過夜 No strange men spending the night.
你們美國姑娘來了意大利 You american girls when you come to Italy
就是想要意大利面和臘腸 all you want is pasta and sausage.
我記住了 I'll take it.
好 明智之選 Good. You chose well.
卡布其諾 Cappuccino.
-這就跟動物園似的 -我的意大利語很差 - It's a zoo in here. - And my Italian sucks.
-你來這兒多久了 -兩周 你呢 - How long have you been here? - Two weeks. You?
六周 你會適應的 Six weeks. You'll get better.
兩杯卡布其諾 謝謝 Two cappuccinos, please.
這次要溫牛奶 And warm the milk this time.
昨天牛奶太熱都燙到我舌頭了 Yesterday it was too hot and burned my tongue.
-你喜歡千層酥點心嗎 -當然 - You like napoleons? - Of course.
兩個千層酥點心 謝謝 And two napoleons, please.
你的意大利語真厲害 Your Italian is fantastic.
我有個很棒的個人老師 I have a wonderful tutor.
我可以給你他電話如果你需要 I'll give you his number if you like.
-他真的很不錯并且他在找工作 -好極了 - He's really good and he needs work. - Oh, great.
你是荷蘭人嗎還是德國人 Are you Dutch? German?
瑞典人 更靠北 如果你有那個概念 Swedish. Even colder people, if you can imagine.
-我是莉茲 -蘇菲 - I'm Liz, by the way. - Sofi.
是過去的意思 It's past.
太快了 但還跟得上 Too fast, but okay.
好 Yeah.
多優美的一個詞啊 What a beautiful word.
沒什么 它就是"我們過街吧" 很普通 Come on, it's "Let's cross over." it's so ordinary.
不 那是種意大利語音的完美組合 No, it's the perfect combination of Italian sounds.
有著惆悵的"ah" 起伏的顫音 It's the wistful "ah," the rolling trill,
舒緩的"ess" the soothing "ess."
-這倒是真的 -我喜歡 - That's true. - I love it.
那好 我來教你個詞 All right, let me teach you a word.
治療師 Therapist.
-得了吧 -你得學點兒幽默感 - Come on. - Good. You gotta learn humor.
-才不是呢 -來吧 干杯 - It's not. - Come on. Cheers.
-我們周二五點繼續嗎 -好的 - Shall we continue Tuesday at 5? - Yes.
-換另一瓶酒治療嗎 -當然 - With another bottle of the therapy? - Of course.
-你學的很好 莉茲 -謝謝 - You're doing very well, Liz. - Thank you.
你肯定覺得自己很有成就感 And you must be very polite with yourself...
當你學到什么新的東西時 ...when you learn something new.
沒錯 謝謝[意大利語] 我同意 Yes. Grazie, I agree.
但你的英語-- 你怎么做到的 But your English-- how are you even
想現在這樣和我說話 talking to me like this right now?
我想你要多教我一點了 要比我教你的多 I think you're gonna teach me more than I teach you.
你的意大利語很棒 非常好 You have good Italian. Very good.
好吧 All right.
我很孤獨 I am alone.
我很有負罪感 我在羅馬都待了三個星期了 I feel so guilty. I've been in Rome for three weeks...
我所做的就是學意大利語和吃東西 ...all I've done is learn a few Italian words and eat.
你有負罪感 因為你是美國人 You feel guilty because you're American.
你不懂如何讓自己享受生活 You don't know how to enjoy yourself.
-你說什么 -是真的 - I beg your pardon? - It's true.
美國人懂娛樂 但不懂享樂 Americans know entertainment, but don't know pleasure.
順便說一句 This is Luca Spaghetti,
他是盧卡·斯帕蓋蒂 by the way, you know.
你叫盧卡·斯帕蓋蒂嗎[意大利細面條同名] Your name is Luca Spaghetti?
沒錯 這就是我的家姓 Yes, that's what our family is called.
我們自己發明的 我是認真的 聽我說 We invented it. I'm serious. Listen to me.
想知道你的毛病嗎 美國人 You want to know your problem? Americans.
你們工作太辛苦了 都精疲力竭了 You work too hard. You get burned out.
然后你回到家 換上睡衣 Then you come home and spend the whole weekend
坐在電視機前度過整個周末 in your pajamas in front of the TV.
這說的倒是不假 That's not far off, actually.
但你們不懂享樂 But you don't know pleasure.
你們應該知道你們理應如此 You have to be told you've earned it.
你看廣告上說 You see a commercial that says,
"米樂時間到"[知名酸奶品牌] "It's Miller time"...
然后你說"沒錯 我要去買個六盒裝的" and you say, "that's right. Now I will go to buy a six-pack."
你喝了酸奶第二天醒來 And drink the whole thing and wake up the next morning
感覺還是一樣糟 and you feel terrible.
但意大利人不需要被告知 But an Italian doesn't need to be told.
他走著旁邊有標記顯示"你今天該休息了" He walks by a sign that says, "you deserve a break today"...
那他會說"是的 我知道 and he says, "yeah, l know.
因此我決定中午的時候休息一下 That's why I'm planning on taking a break at noon...
去你家睡你老婆" to go over to your house and sleep with your wife."
我們管這叫"閑散的快樂" We call it "dolce far niente."
它是說無所事事的那種愉悅 我們最擅長了 It means...the sweetness of doing nothing. We are masters of it.
他說的沒錯 他說... He's right. He says...
不能那樣學意大利語 you can't learn Italian like this.
說一種語音你不僅要用的嘴 You don't speak the language just with your mouth,
你還要用你的手 speak it with your hands.
像這樣嗎 Like this?
算了 那是叫喊呢 Okay. It's yelling.
"這頓飯棒極了" 'That meal was excellent'
"糟透了" 'Suck it'
所有這些讓我胃抽筋 All this gives me a stomachache.
"去你的" 'Screw you'
我想那是我鄰居洛倫索 l think that's my neighbor Lorenzo.
"另外一種說'去你的'的方法" 'Another way to say 'screw you''
無論如何 一開始我要說 So anyway, to start off l'd say....
打擾一下 Excuse me.
過來一下 Come here.
我們這桌要... 一大盤洋薊 For the table...a big platter of artichoke alla giudia...
意大利熏火腿配甜瓜 prosciutto with melon...
茄子配熏乳酪 and eggplant with ricotta affumicata.
還要白汁培根意粉 Then spaghetti alla carbonara...
兔肉寬面 pappardelle with ragu of rabbit...
還有蛤蜊扁面 and linguini with clams.
羅馬式牛肚 Then tripe alla romana...
和意式煎小牛肉火腿卷 and saltimbocca.
再要兩升岡扎諾散裝酒 And two more liters of the vino sfuso from Genzano.
謝謝 Thank you.
你成功了 真棒 You did it. Wow, yes.
莉茲·吉爾伯特 你已經成為羅馬女人了 Liz Gilbert, you are a Roman woman now.
沒有 有名無實而已 No, only honorary.
那才是真正的羅馬女人 That is a real Roman woman.
是啊 有一堆外國朋友的羅馬女人 Yeah, with a lot of international friends.
那塊肉 我肯定一口吃掉 That one, I'd bite.
可能你和羅馬詞匯不同 Maybe you and Rome just have different words.
-詞匯不同 -是啊 - Different words? - Yeah.
嗯 如果仔細想想的話 Yeah. It's like each city has a word,
似乎每個城市都有個專門的詞匯 if you really think about it.
比如說 倫敦的詞是什么 Like, what is the word for London?
-我覺得是乏味 -我同意 - l would say "stuffy." - l would agree with that.
斯德哥爾摩呢 What's the word for Stockholm?
開什么玩笑 肯定是適宜 Are you kidding? "Conform."
紐約呢 And New York?
野心勃勃 或者 臟兮兮 "Ambition" or "Soot."
羅馬的詞是什么 What's the word for Rome?
有點難說 It's kind of difficult to think about.
很經典的 It's classic.
色情 "sex."
沒錯 Of course.
那你的那個詞是什么 莉茲 So, what's your word, Liz?
我很好奇 想不出來 I'm curious. I can't figure it out.
也許是 It might be....
最開始是女兒 我是個不錯的女兒 It started as "daughter." I was good at that.
然后 And then...
妻子 這個我做得不怎么樣 "wife." Not so good.
女朋友 "Girlfriend."
不怎么樣 Not so good.
我的詞是 作家 My word's "writer."
是 但這是你的職業 Yeah, but that's what you do.
而不是你是誰 對吧 That isn't who you are, no?
也許你是個正在尋找自己那個詞的女人 Maybe you're a woman in search of her word.
嗨 蘇菲 我是莉茲 我們去那不勒斯吧 Hey, Sofi, it's Liz. Let's go to Naples.
也許我的那個詞是 披薩 Maybe my word is "pizza."
聽著 女士 我才七歲 但我敢說 Listen, lady, I am only 7, but I can
你是個徹頭徹尾的白癡 tell you're a complete moron...
因為我就是那不勒斯人 because I am from Naples.
我愛這里 不過喬凡尼說要小心 I love this place, but Giovanni told us to watch out.
他堂兄在一個博物館里被搶了 His cousin got mugged here in a museum.
-真的假的 -注意那些摩托車 - What, are you serious? - Watch out for the scooter. Yeah.
我戀愛了 我愛上了我的披薩 I'm in love. I'm having a relationship with my pizza.
你看起來和你的披薩 You look like you're breaking up
分手了 怎么了 with the pizza. What's the matter?
我不能吃 I can't.
什么意思 你不能吃 What do you mean, you can't?
這可是那不勒斯披薩 This is pizza in Napoli.
好好吃那個披薩是你的道德使命 It is your moral imperative to eat and enjoy that pizza.
我想吃 可我重了 大概十磅 I want to, but I've gained, like, 10 pounds.
我是說 我長了 I mean, l've got this....
在這 這叫什么來著 哪個詞來著 right here. What's it called? What's the word?
游泳圈 A muffin top.
我也有 I have one too.
我剛才把扣子解開 盯著它看來著 I unbuttoned my jeans like five minutes ago just looking at this.
問你個問題 Let me ask you a question.
這么多年來 每次你在男人面前 In all the years you've ever undressed
脫下衣服 in front of a gentleman....
-沒有很多男人 -好吧 那 - Hasn't been that many. - All right, well...
他有沒有讓你離開過 has he ever asked you to leave?
-他有沒有走出去過 走掉 -沒有 - Has he ever walked out? Left? - No.
因為他不在乎 Because he doesn't care.
他和一個裸女同處一室 已經夠幸運了 He's in a room with a naked girl. He's won the lottery.
我已經受夠了控制食量 每天早上醒來 I'm so tired of saying no and then waking up in the morning...
仔細盤點昨天吃的每一樣東西 and recalling every single thing I ate the day before.
仔細數我消耗的每一個卡路里 然后 Counting every calorie I consume so I know exactly...
帶著同樣多的自我厭惡去洗澡 how much self-loathing to take into the shower.
我討厭這樣 I'm going for it.
我并不想長胖 I have no interest in being obese.
但我不再內疚了 I'm just through with the guilt.
我要這樣 我要吃完這個披薩 This is what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna finish this pizza...
然后我們去看足球比賽 and then we're gonna go watch the soccer game.
然后明天我們小約會一下 And tomorrow we're gonna go on a little date...
給自己買幾條大點的牛仔褲 and buy ourselves some bigger jeans.
喬凡尼喜歡游泳圈 Giovanni likes a muffin.
好姑娘 Attagirl.
他說 你為誰而戰 He's saying, "for whom are you playing?"
哈 為了誰 Per chi, for whom.
拉啊 拉啊 我在吸氣 Pull, pull. I'm sucking it in.
用用你的瑞典肌肉 Put some Swedish muscle into this.
你覺得索菲亞·羅蘭會遇到這種事嗎 You think this happened to Sophia Loren?
就這樣 差不多了 There it goes. Almost got it.
加油 加油 你都不使勁 Go, go, go. You're not trying.
快成功了 快成功了 我做到了 I've almost got it. I've almost got it. I did it.
很好看 你應該買下來 Oh, that's beautiful. You should get it.
為了誰 For whom?
為了你 莉茲 只為你自己 For you, Liz. Just for you.
不用 有大媽褲子我已經很開心了 No, I'm happy just with my big lady pants.
今天謝謝你 還有這超級迷你車 Thanks for the day. And the leg room.
很好玩 It was fun.
我們去吃東西 你來嗎 We're gonna go for food. You wanna come?
不 不用 我不想去 No. No, l'm good.
什么都不做的愜意 The sweetness of doing nothing.
求你 求你從地上起來 Please. Please get off the floor.
能不能請你 你能過來嗎 Will you please just...? Will you come up here?
如果我們知道 What if we just acknowledge that we
我們的關系毀了 have a screwed-up relationship...
然后不管怎樣還是堅持下來了 and we stick it out anyway?
如果我們接受經常吵架 We accept that we fight a lot...
幾乎不做愛了的事實 and we hardly have sex anymore...
但還是不愿意失去彼此 but that we don't wanna live without each other.
這樣我們就能一起過日子了 And that way we can spend our lives together...
悲慘 miserable...
但因為擁有彼此而幸福 but happy not to be apart.
親愛的大衛 Dear David,
我們好久沒聯系了 We haven't had any communication in a while...
這讓我有時間思考 and it's given me time I needed to think.
記不記得你說我們應該悲慘地 Remember when you said we should live
一起生活 with each other and be unhappy...
這樣就能幸福了 so we could be happy?
把它當作一種我愛你的誓言 Consider it a testimony to how much I love you...
我花了很長時間投入 that I spent so long pouring myself into that offer...
想讓誓言實現 trying to make it work.
有一天 一個朋友帶我 But a friend took me
去了世界上最神奇的地方 to the most amazing place the other day.
叫奧古斯頓 It's called the Augusteum.
奧古斯都大帝建了它來收藏遺跡 Octavian Augustus built it to house his remains.
野蠻人來了 他們摧毀了 When the barbarians came, they trashed
一切 包括奧古斯頓 it along with everything else.
偉大的奧古斯都 The great Augustus,
羅馬第一個真正的皇帝 Rome's first true great emperor...
他怎么能想象 羅馬 how could he have imagined that Rome...
和他所知道的全世界 the whole world, as far as he
有一天會成為斷壁殘垣 was concerned, would one day be in ruins?
黑暗時代 有人闖進來 During the dark ages, someone came in here
偷走了大帝的骨灰 and stole the emperor's ashes.
十二世紀時 In the 12th century,
這成為了卡洛林諾家族的一個要塞 it became a fortress of the Carolino family...
后來變成斗牛場 then a bullring.
再后來成了煙火倉庫 They stored fireworks in here after that.
現在則是流浪漢的廁所 Nowadays, it's used as a bathroom for the homeless...
你最好注意腳下 so you better watch your step going down.
這里是羅馬最安靜 最寂寥的地方之一 It's one of the quietest and loneliest places in Rome.
城市已經在它周圍成長了幾個世紀 The city has grown up around it over centuries.
它就像一個珍貴的傷口 It feels like a precious wound...
像你不會放棄的心碎 like a heartbreak you won't let go of...
因為它傷得太完美了 because it hurts too good.
我喜歡亂 I like it messy.
我們都希望事物能保持原樣 大衛 We all want things to stay the same, David.
我猜你的前任肯定是個天使 對吧 I guess the guy before me must've been some angel, huh?
安于活得悲慘 Settle for living in misery...
是因為我們害怕改變 because we're afraid of change,
害怕事物變成廢墟 of things crumbling to ruins.
我環顧這里 看它經受的這些混亂 Then I looked around in this place, at the chaos it's endured...
這些改造 焚燒 掠奪 the way it's been adapted, burned, pillaged...
然后又找到了重新塑造自己的 then found a way to build itself
方式 然后我就釋然了 back up again, and I was reassured.
也許我的生活還沒有那么糟糕 Maybe my life hasn't been so chaotic.
世界就是這個樣子而已 It's just the world that is...
需要小心的 只是逃脫這種生活的念頭 and the only real trap is getting attached to any of it.
毀滅是種禮物 Ruin is a gift.
毀滅是通向變化的路途 Ruin is the road to transformation.
嗨 Hey.
可以走了嗎 You ready?
可以 Yeah.
即使在這個永恒之城 Even in this eternal city,
奧古斯頓讓我明白 the Augusteum showed me...
我們必須為無盡的變化浪潮 that we must always be prepared
做好準備 for endless waves of transformation.
比起綁在一起 我們都應該過得更好 Both of us deserve better than staying together...
不要害怕分開帶來的傷害 because we're afraid we'll be destroyed if we don't.
我媽媽在填餡 陳面包 胡桃 給 My mother's stuffing. Stale bread, walnuts, got those.
給我點土豆好嗎 Will you get me some more potatoes?
我總是在給你土豆 Oh, I'm always getting you more potatoes.
這是我的夢想 真正的美式感恩節 It's my dream, a real American Thanksgiving.
和我們的莉茲告別的完美方式 The perfect way to say goodbye to our Liz.
那 So...
-你這周就走了 -是的 - You leave this week, huh? - Yes.
你去哪 伊朗嗎 And where are you going? Iran?
印度 India.
莉茲今晚給我們做一頓美式大餐 Liz is making us an American meal tonight.
-你沒結婚 對吧 -沒有 - You are not married, yeah? - No.
你朋友怎么回事 她是同性戀嗎 What's wrong with your friend, is she a lesbian?
不是 媽媽 她不是同性戀 No, mama, she's not a lesbian.
而且她能聽懂意大利語 And she understands Italian.
在地球的另一端 她怎么才能 How's she going to find another husband and start a family...
找到下一任丈夫 組建家庭 when she's on the other side of the world?
如果男人說 我要旅行 If a man said, "I'm going to travel for
一年 認識各種各樣的人 a year and meet wonderful people...."
可她不是男人 But she's not a man.
對女人來說 要覺得自己有選擇的權利 It's more difficult for a woman to feel
難上加難 that she has the right to make choices.
-需要很大的勇氣 -沒錯 - It takes a lot of courage. - Exactly.
你說是勇氣 我說是傻氣 You call it courage, I call it stupidity.
媽媽 別說了 Mama, enough.
我知道一堆人都同意你的觀點 I know a number of people who would agree with you.
盧卡 Luca?
火雞什么時候能準備好 What time will the turkey be ready?
火雞 The turkey....
我還沒解凍呢 I haven't defrosted it yet.
媽的 Oh, shit.
你只有一件事要做 還搞砸了 You only had one thing to do and you screwed it up.
我走神了 這太正常了 I was distracted! It can happen!
有這么多好吃的 Too much good food!
這么多女人 Too many women!
我就把火雞忘了 And I forgot!
我們吃之前 每個人 Now, before we eat, everyone...
這是感恩節 我們要感恩 it is Thanksgiving, so let us give thanks.
-好 來吧 拉起手來 -好 - Yeah. Come on, join hands. - Okay.
我們只要說 我們 So we just say what we....
我們為了什么感謝上帝 What we thank God for tonight.
蘇菲 從你開始怎么樣 Sofi, why don't you start?
我因為你而感激 莉茲 I am grateful for you, Liz...
你幫我熱愛生活 for helping me appreciate life...
以及這種熱愛帶來的一切 with all that comes with it...
游泳圈和不開心的日子 muffin tops and bad times.
還有感謝喬凡尼 and for Giovanni...
讓我感到 for making me feel...
被愛 充滿安全感 loved and secure.
我要謝謝主 I thank God for...
賜予我恐懼 fear...
因為人生第一次 because for the first time...
我害怕坐在我身旁這個人 I'm afraid the person next to me...
想要離去 will be the one who wants to leave.
莉茲呢 Liz?
這一切都讓我覺得感激 Well, this all makes me so grateful.
和你們這些快樂的人在一起 Seeing all you happy people...
你們懂得愛彼此 照顧彼此 who know how to love each other and take care of each other.
看著這個我欣賞的 了不起的女人 I look at the amazing women I've met who I admire so much...
還有這些了不起的男人 照顧他的女人 and the great men, taking care of their women...
哄孩子上床睡覺 and putting their children to bed.
我很開心 I just feel happy...
因為能目睹這一切 并成為它的一部分 to see it and to be part of it.
我是世界上最幸運的女孩 I'm the luckiest girl in the world.
不錯的早餐吧 It's a good breakfast, huh?
我把行李拿到你房間去 I will take this to your room.
已經開始了 It has already started.
-我睡著了 -是啊 真遺憾 - I fell asleep. - Yeah. Pity.
也許世界上唯一一個 Probably the only person in the world
在冥想中睡著的人就是你 who ever fell asleep during meditation.
-這通向冥想園 -古魯在嗎 - This leads to the meditation garden. - Is the Guru here?
她一直都在 She's always here.
我知道 但她是在這嗎 I know, but is she "here" here?
她在紐約的修行所呢 She's at her ashram in New York.
可是我是從紐約到這來見她的 But l came from New York to see her here.
聽起來像是她的小詭計 Sounds like one of her little tricks.
修行洞 The meditation cave.
一周七天全天開放 還帶空調 It's open 24/7 and it's air-conditioned.
科瑞拉 Corella?
這是莉茲·吉爾伯特 This is Liz Gilbert.
你好 很高興認識你 Hi. Nice to meet you.
我在沉默
你從哪搞到那牌子的 Where did you get that button?
書店有賣 They sell them in the bookstore.
這正是我要的 我需要 That is exactly what I need. I need...
這樣的東西 我不傾聽 something like that. Because I don't listen.
我從來不 I never have.
我媽以前叫我嘰嘰喳喳小姐 My mom used to call me little Miss chatty cathy...
因為我喜歡嘮叨 我是嘮叨鬼 because I just ramble. I am a rambler.
我現在就在嘮叨了 對不起 I am rambling now. I'm sorry.
沉默是一種美妙的精神訓練 Silence is a wonderful spiritual practice...
但如果科瑞拉能說話 她會 but if Corella could speak, she'd tell you
告訴你這比看起來困難 it's more challenging than it looks.
-你可能要過一段時間再試 -好 - You may wannt wait till you've been here for a while. - Okay.
謝謝 科瑞拉 我會轉達給她的 Thank you, Corella. I'll be sure to tell her.
-她說什么 -不知道 - What did she say? - No idea.
換上你的工作服 Why don't you change into your work clothes.
我帶你去歇瓦[無私服務] I'll take you to your Seva.
這是印度語 無私的奉獻工作 It's a hindu word for "selfless devotional work."
-這的每個人都要做 -好 謝謝 - It's required of everyone who stays here. - Okay. Thank you.
這世界上還有什么 Is there anything in this world
比印度小男孩更苗條嗎 skinnier than an Indian teenage boy?
-我是圖絲 -我是莉茲 - I'm Tulsi. - Liz.
你從哪來 Where are you from?
鄰鎮 我父母在這 The next town. My parents have been
為古魯工作好多年了 devotees of the Guru for many years.
我們在這過了很長時間 We spend a lot of time here.
但是 But...
他們想把我嫁掉 這是習俗 they are trying to marry me off. That's the custom.
-你不想這樣 -絕對不想 糟透了 - That's not what you want? - No way. It sucks.
我想學心理 就像我們的 I want to study psychology, just as our
古魯在大學學的那種 Guru did when she attended college.
比起同齡男孩 我更想和神在一起 I prefer to be with god than boys my age.
我家里沒人理解我為什么到印度來 No one in my family understands my coming all the way to India.
你有沒有過這種想法 Do you ever look at them and wonder,
我到底在這個家里干嘛 "What am I doing in this family?"
你絕對想象不到 You have no idea.
你選擇結束婚姻生活真是讓人敬佩 It is most commendable that you ended your marriage.
你現在是個自由快樂的女人了 You seem like such a happy, free person now.
我的前夫會說我是個自私的女人 I think my ex-husband would describe me as selfish.
你別這么垂頭喪氣的 You mustn't be angry with yourself or disappointed.
沒人強迫你建立家庭 結婚生子 You don't have to make children or be married to have a family.
天哪 這里的蚊子個兒真大 Oh, man. They got mosquitoes here big enough
都能站直啃雞肉了 to stand flat-footed and screw a chicken.
我好崇拜你 I love you.
莉茲 你認識德州理查嗎 Liz, have you met Richard from Texas?
你好 德州理查 Hello, Richard from Texas.
很高興認識你 大胃王 Nice to meet you, groceries.
大胃王 Groceries?
沒錯 還沒看見你 就先聽見你吃東西了 Yeah. yeah, I heard you eating before I saw you.
我沒見過誰一頓飯吃這么多的 I never seen anybody eat so much at one time.
看樣子你很享受做大胃王啊 You sure do enjoy your groceries.
今天真的很累了 You know, it's been a rough day,
你們繼續 and if no one takes it personally
我去別處安安靜靜地 I'm going to take my large meal some place else
吃完這頓飯 to eat it in silence.
別走 你在這吃吧 我吃完了 Oh, no, stay. I'm done.
看來這個上午 Looked like you were working through
你過得很不爽啊 some pretty rough stuff this morning.
和前夫有關嗎 Stuff with your ex-husband?
我也離過婚 I got an ex-wife.
我的前妻希望我改名叫死混球 She thinks I changed my name to "motherfucker."
我 I...
來這之前我在羅馬住了一段時間 I just spent some time in Rome
然后來到這里感覺很舒服 and I came here feeling so great.
在古魯之地 And now here I am, at the source
我感覺自己與世隔絕了 and l feel more disconnected than ever.
你為什么要來 Why'd you come here?
我只想得到內心的寧靜 I just want some peace.
寧靜 Peace?
那你應該去城堡里 大胃王 You wanna get to the castle, groceries,
從河里游過去 you got to swim the moat.
這些你都吃了吧 你可以的 Here, you can finish that. I know you can.
好了 Okay.
清空思緒 Simply empty your mind.
呼吸 Breathe.
明年我要做什么呢 What am l going to do when this year is over?
我要住哪里 Where am I going to live?
可能會去芝加哥 Well, maybe Chicago.
對了 我可以蓋一間禪房 Oh, my god. I could build a meditation room...
不要胡思亂想 No. stop thinking.
怎么這么難 Why is this so hard?
該死的科瑞拉 她是怎么做到的 Screw you, Corella. how the hell does she do this?
她長得可真像特蕾莎修女 She looks like frigging Mother Teresa.
神啊 殺了我吧 Oh, my god, kill me.
-游過去了嗎 -閉嘴 - Who's in the moat today? - Shut up.
和大個鱷魚搏斗了 Sounds like you wrestled some big-ass crocs.
你聽好 既然你智慧過人 You know what? if you're so goddamn smart,
你還來這干嘛 what are you doing here?
你在這個地方自然就充滿智慧 If you're here, it makes you smart already.
你想聊聊關于... Do you wanna talk about what...?
不 不必了 謝謝 No, not to you. thank you. I actually do not, thank you.
這里只有我一個人 I'm the only one here.
咱們早晚得聊 you're gonna talk about it sooner or later.
在這我沒法專心 I cannot focus in there.
我現在想的都是蓋禪房 怎么裝飾 All I think about is my meditation room and how to decorate.
你胡言亂語什么呢 Are you shitting me?
你沒病吧 Are you kidding me?
心即是禪房 大胃王 如何裝飾 The meditation room is within, groceries. decorate that.
你一直這樣自欺欺人嗎 Do you always talk in bumper sticker?
是的 還有件事 I do, and here's another one.
凡事要仔細考慮 You have to learn to select your thoughts
就跟你每天選擇要穿什么衣服一樣 the way you select your clothes every day.
這種能力可以培養的 That's a power you can cultivate.
你來這是為了控制自己的生活 You wanna come here and control your life so bad,
用心想想 work on the mind.
那才是你要做的事 That's the only thing you should control.
如果你還是毫無頭緒 一切都是白費 If you can't master your thoughts, you're in trouble.
我在努力 I am trying.
沒錯 這就是你的癥結所在 Yeah, hello, that's the damn problem.
別費勁了 認輸吧 Stop trying. surrender.
到公園去 坐在那邊好好想想 Go out into the garden and just sit there and still your mind
想想到底是怎么了 and you watch what happens.
你為什么就不看開一點呢 Why don't you just let it be?
有沒有人說你長的像詹姆斯·泰勒 Has anyone ever told you you look like James Taylor?
習慣了 Every day.
確實很像 God, he really does.
每天我都做同樣的祈禱 My prayers were always the same.
上帝啊 求求你 "Please, god, please.
打開我的心 指引我 Open my heart, send me a sign
因你我都了解 我并非完美 because we both know I ain't the sharpest tool in the shed."
瞧瞧 游移在加爾各答市的女人 Look at you, floating through Calcutta.
看來你用心沉思了 Looks like you had a great meditation.
我可能感染上瘧疾了 I probably have malaria now.
那些紅腫會消失的 The bites will go away.
最終萬物都會消失的 Eventually everything goes away.
祈禱了嗎 大胃王 祈求指引了沒 You ever done that, groceries? Begged for a sign?
很耳熟 That sounds vaguely familiar.
許愿時要小心 有可能會實現 Be careful what you wish for. you just might get it.
你這人是怎么回事 What is your problem?
情路不順嗎 Did you fall in love with the wrong woman or something?
等一下 吉爾伯特小姐 Excuse me, Miss Gilbert.
有電話找你 You have a phone call.
古魯梵歌修行得如何了 How's the Gurugita treating you?
還好 你也會喜歡的 Fine. you'd like her.
你收到我的郵件了嗎 Did you get my e-mail?
收到了 很抱歉沒及時給你回復 Yeah. I'm sorry I didn't call sooner.
為什么 Why didn't you?
只有這樣才能和你保持聯系 Because if I didn't respond we were still having a conversation.
還能找到你 I was still in it.
抱歉 我們鬧得很不愉快 I'm sorry. we were just bad timing.
我只是想過得輕松些 I just wanted things to be easy.
生活輕松大家都相安無事 We were good when things were easy.
如今都無所謂了 It's not that I need "easy" right now.
我只是不知道遇到困難該怎么辦 I just can't have "so hard."
聽上去你過得不錯 Well, you sound good.
更堅強了 Stronger.
你也是 So do you.
是啊 我是個演員 莉茲 Yeah, well, I'm an actor, Liz.
我爭取到一個角色 I got a part.
雖然不是百老匯的劇 不過很棒 It's off-broadway, but it's pretty cool.
我也為你開心 I'm happy for you.
好了 All right.
后會有期 Well, I'll see you around, kid.
你在這兒啊 Check you out.
從未見你如此專心啊 I have never seen you so focused.
去喝一杯大拇指吧 You need a Thums Up.
不行 別用嘴碰瓶子 No, no. No lips on the bottle.
在印度 First rule in India
首要原則就是別碰任何東西 除了你自己 is never touch anything but yourself.
哇哦 這個可比可樂甜多了 Oh, good god. that's, like, five times sweeter than coke.
里面可能放了甲基安非他命 I think it might have methamphetamines in it.
希望如此 We can only hope.
我知道你心情很差 I know you feel awful.
你的生活在改變 But your life's changing.
這不是件壞事 That's not a bad thing.
你現在最適合呆在這兒 And you're in the perfect place for it.
充滿慈悲的地方 Surrounded by grace.
我以為我已經放下他了 可是 I thought I was over him, but
我依然愛著他 I love him.
不得了 Big deal.
你愛上某人了 So you fell in love with someone.
我很想他 I really miss him.
那就想啊 So miss him.
想他的時候就把愛送給他 Send him some light and love every time you think of him,
然后作罷 then drop it.
假如你清除內心那塊現在用來癡戀那家伙 You know, if you could clear out all that space in your mind
和你失敗婚姻的空間 that you're using to obsess over this guy
你心里講留下一個空白 一個開放的地方 一個門洞 and your failed marriage, you'd have a vacuum with a doorway.
你猜宇宙會怎么處理這個門洞 And you know what the universe would do with that doorway?
迅速出動 神會迅速出動 Rush in. God would rush in.
讓你的心裝滿超越想象的愛 Fill you with more love than you ever dreamed of. man.
大胃王 Groceries.
我想有一天你會愛上整個世界 I think you have the capacity someday to love the whole world.
那邊賣的是什么 What do they sell over there?
象頭神甘內什 辟邪的 Ganesh. remover of obstacles.
我要買很多個 I'm gonna need a lot of these.
說到象 這個地方有一頭離群象 Speaking of elephants, there's a rogue
四處游蕩 elephant on the loose in the area.
臉上有狂歡節標記 He was with carnival.
據說它行蹤不定 性格詭異 They say he is very, very unpredictable and volatile.
你這么說她反而更感興趣 That just makes him more attractive to her.
你怎么什么都知道 How'd you get to be so smart?
修煉到你這樣很難吧 I'll bet it was the hard way.
別轉移話題 Don't change the subject.
讓整個悲痛過去 還得花多少時間 Well, when is this grieving phase going to pass?
難道你想要一個能在月歷上圈起來的確切日期 You want a day on a calendar you can circle?
你能幫我嗎 Can you give me one?
不能 你得去干活 No. You got to do the work.
禪坐 還有歇瓦 Meditate and go to Seva
最重要的是每天去聽聽聲樂 and most important, get your butt down to the geet every morning
慢慢地就好了 and something'll change.
我就是領悟不透古魯梵語 I just cannot get through the Guru Gita.
我無法全心投入 I can't find that feeling of devotion.
好吧 有愛才會投入 Okay. Devotion's love.
想想你愿為之奉獻的人或事 Pick somebody or something you wanna devote it to.
不一定要選古魯 對她來說都一樣 It doesn't have to be the Guru. It's all the same to her.
這是你自己的事 This is about you.
能跟你說件事嗎 Can l tell you something, groceries?
你有相當嚴重的控制問題 You got some serious control issues.
這么明顯 Is it obvious?
好了 理查德 我不要你繼續在我腦子里溜達 All right, Richard, get out from inside my head now.
記得把門關上 Shut the door.
-就是他嗎 -是他 - That's him? - That's him.
-面目可憎的男人 -不是啊 很可愛 - He's hideous. - No, he's not. he's cute.
他是射手座的 He's a sagittarius.
他現在在德里學計算機編程 He studies computer programming in Delhi.
成績不錯 He has very good grades.
他家很有錢 And his family is very, very wealthy.
他肯定是個自負且大男子主義的男人 He will be very conceited and dictatorial.
17歲之后我的人生就不是自己的了 My life is over at 17.
圖絲 Tulsi.
女士們 先生們 歡迎莉茲還有史蒂芬 Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the dance floor
這對新婚夫妻來跳第一支舞 for their very first couples dance, Liz and Stephen.
各位 My people.
-準備好了嗎 -準備好了 - Are you ready? - I'm ready.
-你真美 -謝謝 - You look beautiful. - Thank you.
我娶了一位可人兒 I married a hottie.
這是什么音樂 這不是我們的曲子 What is that? that's not our song.
是的 不是 No, it is not.
親愛的 這曲子不是我們選的那個 Baby, that's not our song.
-肯定不是 -大家都在看我們呢 - Definitely not. - Everybody's looking at us.
沒事 我去跟那個人說 我來搞定 It's okay. I'm gonna go talk to the guy. It's gonna be fine.
-我跟你說過我會跳 -就這么搞定嗎 - I told you I'd get it. - This is taking care of it?
我還沒送你結婚禮物 I owe you a wedding gift.
我不知道送什么合適 I didn't know what was appropriate.
我想告訴你我... I wanted to tell you l've been...
要把我的古魯梵歌送給你 dedicating my Gurugita to you.
想象你幸福讓我領悟到梵歌的意義 Imagining you happy is what got me through it.
是什么樣子的 What did it look like
我開心嗎 when I was happy?
我想象你和瑞修 I imagine you and Rijul
微笑著看著彼此 smiling and looking at each other with
眼神充滿愛 love and kindness.
感覺很真實 It seemed very real.
謝謝你 莉茲 Thank you so much, Liz.
我也希望是這樣 That helps me to believe it as well.
在回憶自己的婚禮嗎 Thinking about your own wedding?
我也是 Yeah, me too
婚禮上快樂的事 The funny thing about weddings,
最后想到自己 you end up thinking about yourself.
你們的婚禮很熱鬧 Did you throw yourself a big shindig?
你穿著白色的大寬松裙 Big, white, floppy dress?
婚禮的一切都是我的操辦的 Yep. I arranged it all.
一切由我做主 Nobody forced me into anything.
如今你無法原諒自己 Yeah. and now you can't forgive yourself.
說實話 我一直在等他原諒我 Honestly, I'm waiting for him to forgive me.
釋懷我的所作所為 To release me.
等他的原諒簡直是在浪費時間 Waiting for him to forgive you is a damn waste of time, groceries.
自己原諒自己吧 Forgive yourself.
說得容易 It's not that easy.
晚安 理查 Good night, Richard.
-跟我來 -我累了 - Follow me. - I'm tired.
馬上過來 Get your butt up here.
這是個悲傷的故事 It's not a pretty story
卻很經典 but it's pretty classic.
夾雜著酒精 毒品 不負責任地背叛 Too much alcohol, too many drugs, too much mindless cheating.
遺憾 Just regret.
許多遺憾 Ocean of regret.
我失去了一切 I lost everything.
我的自尊 我的工作 My pride, my job.
還有我的家庭 My family.
我失去了家庭 I lost my family.
有一天下班之后 One day after work,
我去了酒吧 喝得爛醉 I stopped off at a bar and I got shitfaced.
那時的我和你很像 I was a lot like you, you know.
我...想了很多 我覺得 I was just...I don't know. I thought too much, I felt too....
我希望自己是麻木的 I wanted to feel nothing.
我應該叫出租車的 可我沒有 I should've called a cab, but I didn't.
我開車回家 I just got in my car and l drove home.
我的小兒子... My little boy....
那時他才8歲 He was 8 years old at the time.
他拿著玩具車坐在車庫前 He was sitting in the driveway with his little hot wheels,
等著他那失敗 窮困的酒鬼爸爸 waiting for his lost...drunk, miserable dad
回家和他玩 to come home and play with him.
我沒看見他 I didn't see him.
我沒有 我開車沖進車庫 I didn't. I just roared into that
沒有看到我的小兒子 driveway and I didn't see my little boy.
可是他 But he...no, he....
他躲開了 He got out of the way.
每次我開車回家他都知道要躲遠點 He was used to getting out of the way when I was around.
而我 我... And I...you know, I don't...
我什么都記不得了 I don't know. I don't remember a thing.
轉天我醒來 他們都走了 Next day, I woke up and they were gone.
我的妻子在屋里看見這一切發生 My wife had been watching what happened out the window.
她不想... She just wasn't gonna....
她不想再過這樣的生活 She just wasn't gonna do it anymore.
所以 So....
他現在已經18歲了 He's 18 now.
考上了大學 他很聰明 He's in school and, oh, god, he's so smart.
他很逗人喜歡 God, he's so funny and he's....
很乖 He's so sweet.
我錯過了一切 I missed it all.
我沒有盡到父親的責任 I missed my son's growing up. just missed it.
你了解嗎 Okay?
來 Come here.
做個約定 Here's the deal.
原諒了自己才能離開這里 You're gonna stay here till you forgive yourself.
明白嗎 You hear me?
一切都會好起來的 Everything else will take care of itself.
這里是你懺悔的地方嗎 Is this where you forgave yourself?
我一直在努力 伊莉莎白 I'm trying, Elizabeth.
我在努力 I am trying.
我覺得咱們婚禮上樂隊應該放的是這首歌 I believe this is the song they were supposed to play at our wedding.
我愛過你 史蒂芬 I did love you, Stephen.
我知道 I know.
可我還愛著你 But I still love you.
那就愛吧 So love me.
我想你 But I miss you.
那就想吧 So miss me.
想我時就把愛送給我 Send me love and light every time you think of me
然后釋放掉 then drop it.
愛不會一直存在的 It won't last forever.
世上無永恒 Nothing does.
-再見 -再見 理查 - Bye-bye. - Goodbye, Mr. Richard.
我會想你的 I'll see you.
你走了 以后誰教訓我呢 Now that you're going, who is gonna kick my ass every day?
我也希望我能呆到暴風把我卷走 Oh, I'd stay till a monsoon swept me away if I could. Bye-bye.
你還得出錢修房子 But you've got bills to pay and houses to build.
你會努力工作 You just keep doing the work and
好好生活吧 move on with your life, will you?
你都要上飛機了還不忘囑咐我 The man is getting on a plane and you're still bossing me.
好好生活 用驅蚊水 Move on, use mosquito repellent and
記不住了 你說的事我都寫下來了 I don't know. there were some other things. i wrote them down.
回德克薩斯吧 理查 Go back to Texas, Richard.
因為站在這里也不會讓我漂亮些 Well, I ain't getting any prettier standing here.
我走了 So I'm off.
嘿 大胃王 Hey, groceries.
重新相信愛情吧 Believe in love again.
莉茲 莉茲 我今天取下徽章了 Liz. Liz, I've just taken my badge off today.
我做得很好 四周沉默不語 超級無聊 I've done so well. Four weeks of silence. It was so dull.
但是你知道嗎 這可就跟整容似的 But you know, it's like a facelift because your face...
覺得自己的臉放松了 you know, just relaxes and your
咽喉也舒服了 簡直是大收獲 throat just drops down. It's a bargain.
我們有好多話要說 We've got so much to catch up on.
我在沉默 I am in SILENCE
天哪 這可是好事 你會收獲很多的 Oh, golly. Good for you. You will get so much out of that.
你的咽喉也會感覺神清氣爽的 And your throat will look amazing as well.
不好意思 伊莉莎白 Excuse me, Elizabeth.
想請你飯后去志愿者辦公室報到 They're asking you to report to the seva office after dinner...
如果你不介意的話 if you don't mind.
我們要把你從地面清潔組里選出來 We're taking you off the floor-scrubbing team.
明天有來自世界各地的50位志愿者 There are about 50 devotees arriving
來這里做為期10天的道場學習 tomorrow from all over the world...
希望屆時由你擔當主招待 for a 10-day retreat and we'd like you to be the key hostess.
這段時間你不用參與沉默冥想的活動 We ask that you don't take part during the meditations.
需要由你照看大家 We need you to watch over the flock,
確保每一個人都安好 make sure everyone is all right.
做這種工作的人總被稱為好看不中用 We call the person who does this job little suzy creamcheese.
你的主要任務就是溫和有禮地保持微笑 You need to be social and bubbly and smiling all the time.
夫人 Madam...
聽您差遣 I'm your girl.
大家好 我叫伊莉莎白 Hello my name is Elizabeth
請在這附近找到您的行李箱 So just find your suitcase, it should be around here somewhere...
然后從那條路去您的房間 and then head down the path to your room.
印度之旅的神圣意義歸根結底就是一句話 So the holy truth of the whole aventure here in India, is in one line,
上帝與你同在 God dwells within you as you.
上帝并沒有興趣去觀覽 God's not interested in watching a performance...
信教的人長什么樣 做什么事 of how a spiritual person looks and behaves.
或者那個漸漸浮現在鏡頭之中 The quiet girl who glides silently through the place...
帶著溫柔美好笑容的安靜姑娘 她是誰 with a gentle, ethereal smile, who is that person?
是圣瑪麗等待應門的英格麗·褒曼 不是我 That's Ingrid Bergman in the bells of St. Mary's, not me.
但是上帝與我同在 God dwells within me as me.
老四賴爺 主營繪畫與雕木業務 Ketut Liyer Painter and wood carvings.
這孩子被惡魔折磨 Child tormented by demon.
看上去是因為到了出牙期 It looks like teething.
還不是一回事 Same thing.
該你了 Your turn.
你好 賴爺 Hello, Ketut.
很高興見到了 I'm very happy to meet you.
你是個世界的旅人 You are a world traveler.
不 大約一年前我就來找過你 No, I came to see you about a year ago.
-是加利福尼亞那個姑娘嗎 -不 是紐約那個 - You girl from California? - No, I girl from New York.
不記得了 Don't remember.
當時你說我應該回到巴厘島 Well, you told me I should come back here to Bali.
你說我可以來幫你練習英語 You said I could help you with your English...
然后你會教我一些你所知的事 and you would teach me the things that you know.
你給了我這個 You gave me this.
你看 Okay.
是你 是你 我記得你 You. You. I remember you.
-太好了 -你是紐約那個愁眉苦臉的姑娘 - Oh, good. - You sad girl from New York.
-沒錯 -你是小莉 你回來了 - Yes. - You Liss. You came back.
-我回來了 -沒錯 是你 - I came back. - You, you, you.
是我 是我 Me, me, me.
好久沒見了 So long ago we meet.
上次你來的時候 滿臉愁容 滿心憂慮 Last time, you have too much worry, too much sorrow.
上次你來的時候 看上去就像個老年怨婦 Last time, you look like sad old woman.
現在你美多了 Now you pretty.
-為什么變化這么大 -這個... - Why so different? - Well...
發生了太多事 真的 A lot of things, really.
我在羅馬待了四個月 享盡美食 But I was in Rome for four months, just feeding myself...
后來我又去了印度的道場 and then I went to live at an ashram in India.
現在我們又見面了 Now, we put together.
沒錯 所以我才回到這里 Exactly. That's why I'm here.
賴爺很高興你回來 Ketut good for that.
你給他吃啥靈丹妙藥了 What'd you give him?
你還想讓我幫你訓練英語嗎 Do you still want me to help you with your English?
英語的事等會兒再說 小莉 English later, Liss.
首先談更重要的事 First, better idea.
這些東西很有年頭了吧 How old are these?
我祖父留下的 是很重要的符咒 From grandfather. Very important spells.
還有頌歌 療法等 Also mantras, cures.
幾千年積累下來的財富 Thousand years' worth.
我所知所能的一切 都在這里 All I have, all l know, right here.
你為我復制一份吧 You copy for me?
當然可以 我可以把這些拿去城里 Absolutely. I can go to town and take these--
不 你不能帶走 No. You don't take.
你用這個謄寫更好些 小莉 You copy here, better, Liss.
我得打個盹休息下 我畢竟老了 I take a nap now. I very old.
你有多大年紀了 賴爺 How old are you, Ketut?
101歲 One hundred and one...
也許是64歲吧 ...or maybe 64.
不記得了 Don't remember.
估計我這輩子都抄不完吧 This is gonna take me the rest of my life.
他可以讓你變得美麗 找到愛人 He make you pretty, find you husband,
你要為他繼續抄下去 you work hard for him.
我來這兒的原因剛好相反 That's exactly opposite of why I'm here.
每個人都需要愛人 Everybody need husband.
你愿意給我那杯水嗎 Would you mind getting me a glass of water, please?
不 No.
好吧 你接著抄 我去給你拿 Fine. Keep making copies. I get water.
莉茲 巴厘島人崇信 So, Liz, the Balinese believe that
巴厘島是宇宙的中心 Bali's the center of the universe.
而我們正處于巴厘島的中心 And here we are in the center of bali.
你有一件臥室 一處魚塘 You got the one bedroom, got your fish pond.
還有自己的冥想殿 You got your own meditation temple.
自從巴厘島爆炸案后 旅游業不景氣 I tell you, since the bombing, tourism's been way down...
所以我能夠以很便宜的價格 ...so I can give you this place at a very,
把這地方給你 very good price right now.
真是天上人間 Paradise.
-我就要它了 -巴厘島的人們明白 - I'll take it. - People in Bali understand...
要得到長久幸福 必須隨時隨地 ...in order to stay happy, must always know where you are...
了解自己的所在 ...every moment.
這個地方出于絕妙的平衡之中 Right here is perfect balance.
正是天地交匯之處 Right at meeting of heaven and earth.
沒有太多神學因素 也沒有太多人性私欲 Not too much god, not too much selfish.
否則生命就會過于瘋狂 Otherwise, life too crazy.
你若失去這種平衡 就會失去力量 You lose balance, you lose power.
早晨你可以做在印度學到的冥想 In morning, you do meditation from India.
投入嚴肅的精神 Serious. Very serious.
白天你可以盡情享受巴厘風光 In day, you enjoy Bali.
到了下午 你就來見我 Then in afternoon, come see me.
一日將盡的時候 你做一種新的冥想 End of day, you do new meditation.
很簡單的 Very simple.
只需要靜坐著微笑 Sit in silence and smile.
我已經感覺到平衡了 I feel balanced already.
沒有這么簡單 小莉 Not so easy, Liss.
臉上掛著笑 心里帶著笑 Smile with face. Smile with mind.
甚至五臟六腑也帶著笑意 Even smile in liver.
回頭見 小鈍吻鱷 See you later, alligator.
天哪 Oh, god.
-你還好嗎 -你瞎了嗎 - Are you all right? - Are you blind?
-對不起 讓我帶你去看醫生 -我沒事 我只是... - Please, let me take you to a doctor. - I'm fine. I just--
看上去很糟糕 It looks bad.
很糟糕 小莉 Very bad, Liss.
-怎么回事 -有個瘋子把我從路上撞出去了 - What happen? - This idiot ran me off the road.
一個男人嗎 很富有嗎 A man? He rich?
這傷口有些棘手 This very hot.
-你需要治療 -你在這兒 你是巫醫 - You need healer. - I have you. You're a medicine man.
-不 你需要大姐 -沒錯 - No. You need Wayan. - Yeah.
佳木湯藥 喝這個比吃抗生素還有效 Jamu. Drink this. Better than antibiotic.
她也讓你喝這個嗎 She make you drink this?
-我叫莉茲 你呢 -圖蒂 - My name's liz. What's yours? - Tutti.
很高興見到你 圖蒂 Nice to meet you, Tutti.
-你結婚了嗎 -沒有 - Are you married? - No.
你確定嗎 一次都沒有結過 You sure? Not even once?
好吧 有過那么一次 Okay, well, there was this one time...
但是每次我告訴巴厘的人我離過婚 ...but I find when I tell people in
他們很不能接受 Bali that I'm divorced, it upsets them.
我也離過婚 Me too, divorce.
離婚使人悲傷 被人鄙棄 Divorce make you sad and make you an outcast.
你很久沒有性生活了 親愛的 You have no sex for a long time, baby.
我從你膝蓋都能看出來 I can tell by your knee.
關節部分很干燥 The cartilage very dry.
只有性愛刺激的荷爾蒙能潤滑這里 Hormones from sex lubricate joint.
-好吧 -我為你祈禱 - Okay. - I pray for you.
苦難的姐妹 We sisters.
亞美尼亞 Armenia!
亞美尼亞來自巴西 Armenia from Brazil.
亞美尼亞 這是來自紐約的莉茲 Armenia, this is Liz from New York.
-你好 -很高興見到你 莉茲 - Hi. - Lovely to meet you, Liz.
這次有時間用香蕉根做頭發護理嗎 Do you have time for a banana root hair treatment?
-當然 -這會讓頭發秀長有光澤 - Yes, of course. - It makes the hair long and lustrous.
就像1975的雪兒·希卡一樣 Like cher circa 1975.
你有合適的漂亮裙子嗎 Do you have a nice dress?
就一套 One.
今晚穿上到海濱的棚屋來吧 Put it on tonight, come to the beach shack.
我把你介紹給大家 移民和本地人 I'll introduce you to everyone. The expats, the locals.
你得跳支舞 你會喜歡的 You'll dance. You will love it.
恐怕不行 我腿上有傷沒法跳舞 Oh, no, I don't think I can dance with my leg like this.
你肯定能跳 腿不會影響的 Of course you can. Leg no problem.
到時候你就知道了 You see.
那你一定得來了 Now you have to come.
你好 能給我來一杯 Hi. Could I get a tequila on the
龍舌蘭混合萊姆酒嗎 rocks with a lot of lime, please?
馬上拿來 Coming right up.
我能請你喝一杯嗎 Can l buy you a drink?
不 謝謝 我自己很好 No, thank you, I'm fine.
我...我差點害死你 I-- I almost killed you.
我對此感到很抱歉 真的 I am sorry for that, really.
-你好 -你好 - Hello. - Hi.
我很抱歉 真的 I'm sorry, really.
真的 Yeah.
我不該在這時候笑 但是我覺得很神奇 I'm sorry I'm laughing, but it's amazing.
我當時在車上聽的就是這首歌 I was actually listening to this song
然后磁帶突然出錯了 in the car when the tape jumped.
我伸手去調磁帶 然后就把你撞到路邊去了 And I leaned over to fix it and I ran you off the road.
是你叫他們放這首歌嗎 Did you tell them to play it?
不不不 我給他們做了混音帶 No, no, no. I make them mixtapes.
大部分是巴西音樂 Mostly brazilian music.
但是我也很喜歡菲爾·科林斯還有空氣補給樂隊 But I'm also very much into Phil Collins and Air Supply.
你實在不該這么大聲說這個 You really shouldn't say things like that out loud.
莉茲 Liz!
-嗨 -看來你已經跟菲利普認識了 - Hi. - Oh, I see you've already met Felipe.
當然該認識 兩個離異戶 共同點夠多的 Oh, of course. Two sad divorces. You have so much in common.
我給你物色了絕配的男人 I have the perfect man for you.
談個戀愛吧 Just a little love affair.
在巴厘島 人人都會墜入愛河 Everyone has a little love affair in Bali.
他很迷人吧 他叫伊恩 Isn't he charming? Lan.
跟斯汀長得挺像的吧 Doesn't he look like Sting?
對了 我也做了盤很贊的斯汀的混音帶 Oh, yeah. I made a very good mixtape of Sting.
你該去跟他跳支舞 You should dance with him.
我牽著你 小心 我牽著你 Got you. Come on, I got you.
明天一定會痛死的 That's gonna hurt tomorrow.
你知道嗎 All right. You know what?
現在正好 我們游泳吧 That is it. We are going swimming.
我沒有帶我的游泳衣...我... No, I don't even have my-- I--
你沒有穿...你沒... You don't have your-- you don't--
你這么赤條條的 You're so naked.
對 我就是赤條條的 Yeah, I'm naked.
亞美尼亞說每個人都該談場戀愛 Armenia says everyone should have a love affair.
這就是巴厘島 人人都該在巴厘島墜入愛河 This is Bali. Everyone should have a love affair in Bali.
沒錯 但是 Yeah, but--
天哪 不不不 Oh, god. No, no, no.
-戀愛是很美好的事 -我知道 我只是... - Love affairs are awesome, dude. - They are. I just--
15年前我會跟你約會 I dated you 15 years ago.
6個月前我也會跟你約會 And I dated you six months ago.
我要走了 So I'm gonna go.
不是吧 你說真的 你要走了嗎 You're not-- you're really-- you're going.
但你真得很帥 But you're cute.
我覺得我長得不賴 I think I look good.
等等 Wait a minute.
抱歉 這個 Oh, sorry. Here.
-謝謝 -需要載你一程嗎 - Thank you. - Do you need a ride?
這樣我不會再撞到你了 That way I won't run you over again.
早上好 Hello.
-幾點了 -早上5點 - What time is it? - Five a.m.
你在派對上玩瘋了 Oh, you party hard.
真的 You really do.
謝謝你把我... Thank you for....
-載回來 -對 - The ride? - Yeah.
不用謝 需要我幫你抬自行車嗎 You're very welcome. Need help with the bicycle?
你留著吧 You keep it.
我留著 但是它還有籃子 Keep it? But it has a basket.
也還有鈴鐺 It also has a bell.
下午好 過得怎樣 Good afternoon. How are you?
你在這兒干嘛 What are you doing here?
我給你帶了大姐最出名的解酒藥 Well, I've brought you Wayan's famous hangover cure...
因為你昨晚喝得有點多 because you drank a little bit too much last night.
給你 很可口 你能看出來 And here it is. Very delicious, as you can see...
也很好喝 and very tasty.
你養成直接闖入他人住宅的習慣了嗎 Do you make it a habit of walking into people's houses?
你養成睡覺不關大門的習慣了嗎 Do you make it a habit of sleeping with your front door open?
有電話 稍等 It's a call. Moment.
你好 親愛的 過得怎樣 Hello, darling. How are you?
咖啡機不能用了 Can't get the coffee machine to work.
好吧 給你說了無數遍了 很簡單的 Okay. I've told you 50 times. It's very easy.
你換上過濾器 加入咖啡豆 You change the filter, you add the coffee...
再加入水就可以了 你怎么考上大學的 you add water and that's it. How did you get into college?
怎么才能做得像你那么好 How do I make it like you?
聽著 親愛的 Listen, I've been making coffee...
我已經做了40年的咖啡了 darling, for 40 years, so you have
你要對自己有點耐心 好嗎 to be patient with yourself. All right?
好吧 那你現在過得如何 Okay. So, what's up with you?
沒什么大事 現在不方便聊天 Nothing. I just can't talk right now.
哎喲 身邊有女人 Holy shit. You're with a girl.
-我要掛了 -那女人是誰 火辣不 - I have to go. - Who is she? Is she hot?
-天哪 她很性感 -老爸 如果你掛我電話 - Jesus, she's hot. - Dad, if you hang up...
我待會兒就打電話來讓你在女人面前難堪 I'll call back and embarrass you in front of your girl.
老爸 別掛... Dad, don't--
親愛的 你說了不少個"親愛的" That's a lot of "darlings," darling.
沒錯 那個"親愛的"是我兒子 Yeah. That darling was my son.
我在所有孩子小的時候都叫他們"親愛的" I've called all my children "darling" since they were little.
后來有段時間這稱謂又在小孩和寵物之間混淆 Then there was a moment that between the pets and the children...
所以我叫每個人"親愛的" I was confused, so I called everybody "darling."
好吧 你需要休息 Okay, you need to rest.
這是我的電話和地址 Here is my number and my address.
我把它留在桌上 I'm gonna leave it here on the table,
如果你需要導游的話就找我 in case you need a tour guide.
我是導游 A tour guide.
還有 拜托你喝了藥 And please, drink that up,
這會對你很有幫助的 because it's gonna help you a big deal.
因為你看上去真的... Because you really look....
-很迷糊 -很迷人 - Ravishing? - Astonishing.
-快走吧 拜托 -好 記得喝藥 - Go away. Please. - Okay. Drink it up.
會很有效的 It's gonna be helpful.
嘿 導游先生 Hey, Mr. Tour guide.
我們能先喝杯咖啡嗎 Can we start with a coffee?
當然 Okay.
這些是什么 What are these?
紅毛丹果 很好吃的 These are rambutan. They're delicious.
像是橙子和李子雜交出來的 要試試嗎 It's like an orange made love to a plum. Would you like some?
你這么形容的話 我要試試 謝謝 When you put it that way, yes, thank you.
不好意思 Excuse me.
那個是什么 What is that?
不不不 No, no, no.
他們嘗起來一股臭腳丫子味 They taste like dirty feet.
-真的嗎 -臭腳丫味 - Really? - Dirty feet.
小心點 很好 你去過哪些地方 Look out. Nice. How many places have you visited?
我的護照上蓋了46個章 I have 46 stamps on my passport.
我的護照上剛好有49個 I happen to have 49 stamps on my passport.
-49個 我就知道 -沒錯 - Forty-nine? I knew it. - Yes.
-知道什么 -我就知道 - Knew what? - I knew it.
我們都是追求啟示者 親愛的 We are both antevasins, my dear.
什么意思 What is that?
追求啟示者 Antevasin is....
是一種于夾縫中生存的人 It's an in-between.
是生活在邊緣處的人 It is the one who lives by the border...
因為他們放棄了安逸的家庭生活 ...because they renounce to the comfort of family life...
以尋找生命的啟示 ...in order to seek "enlightment."
我喜歡你這個詞語 I like your word.
我喜歡你說"啟示"時的語氣 And l like the way you say "enlightment."
啟示 我再說一次 "Enlightment." I try.
你漏了一個音節 不過我很喜歡 You're missing a syllable, but I like it.
很漂亮 對吧 It's beautiful, no?
這里是普拉梅丁 意思是 繁榮之廟 It's Pura Melanting, which means "temple of prosperity."
-真美 -沒錯 - Beautiful. - Yup.
-下一個旅游目標是 -對 - So next attraction of the tour? - Yes.
-巴厘島的美食 -太好了 我餓死了 - Food from Bali. - Oh, good. I'm starving.
我們該去哪兒 Where should we go?
去鎮上最好的餐館 We should go to the best restaurant in town.
-很好 -我家 - Of course. - My place.
真狡猾 Subtle.
你來巴厘島之前一直住在巴西嗎 Did you always live in Brazil before you came to Bali?
沒有 只生活了二十年 No, no. Only for 20 years.
遇到我妻子之后 跟她一起去了澳大利亞 Then I met my wife and I moved with her to Australia.
因為工作原因她經常出差 She traveled a lot because of the job.
我和孩子們在家里 And I stayed home with the children.
真是個女權派好丈夫 A good feminist husband.
是啊 遺憾的是 這并非她想要的 Yeah. Yeah. Didn't turn out to be what she wanted, I'm afraid.
-然后呢 -然后? - What happened? - What happened?
孩子們漸漸長大 The children were grown.
我就開始做珠寶進出口的生意 And I run an import-export jewelry business,
這樣我就能在其它地方生活 so I could live anywhere.
巴厘島似乎是治療失敗婚姻者的絕佳之地 And Bali seemed like the perfect place to recover from a divorce.
所以我就在這兒了 這就是我 And here I am. Here I am.
-你呢 怎么回事 -沒你慘 - What's it, and you? - Far less tragic.
我們都不成熟 結婚尚早 就分手了 We were immature and really too young to get married. We grew apart.
傷心嗎 Hearts were broken.
傷心 Yes.
那跟我就是一樣的 Then it's the same.
這地方太美了 This is just perfect.
你也是 So are you.
你知道你是什么樣子嗎 你是"假瘦"型 You know what you are? You're a falsa magra.
-知道什么意思嗎 -什么意思 - You know what that is? - What?
遠看苗條優雅 You are slender and elegant in a distance...
近看豐滿圓潤 ...but up close, you are round and fleshy.
感謝上帝創造了巴西人 Thank God for Brazilians.
別過來 Stop that!
你是世界的旅人 You are a world traveler.
他跟每個人都那樣說 He says that to everyone.
已經賺到了錢 Already make your money.
你沒有年輕人的抱負 You don't have young-man ambition.
-說的沒錯 -你有三個孩子 - He's good. - You have three children.
兩個 那是個老繭 Two. That's a callous.
你離過婚 And you have divorce.
非常艱難 Very difficult.
你很愛她 You loved her very much.
你還沒有從中恢復 You haven't healed that wound.
現在你害怕敞開心扉 Now you are scared to open your heart.
你怕再次受傷 You are afraid hurt will happen to you again.
治愈的唯一辦法就是 Only way to heal...
信任 ...is to trust.
沒關系 傷心 This okay. To have broken heart
證明你曾經嘗試過 mean you have tried for something.
我還會再次受傷嗎 Is it going to be broken again?
他是個好人 莉茲 你需要一個好男人 He a good man, Liz. You need a good man.
謝謝 Thank you.
這是真的 賴爺知道 True. Ketut knows.
我十分厭倦人們跟我說我需要個男人 I am so sick of people telling me I need a man.
你不需要男人 莉茲 你需要個守護者 You don't need a man, Liz. You need a champion.
-休春假是吧 -快點 你們的速度好像烏龜 - Some spring break, huh? - Come on. You're moving like turtles.
他的旺盛精力真讓人吃不消 His enthusiasm is exhausting.
十歲時他送我去學校 Try being dropped off at school when you're 10...
吻別還要親嘴 ...and having your father kiss you on the mouth.
他現在還是這樣 He still does it.
在巴西這很正常 I'm sure it's all normal in Brazil,
但我并不是在那兒長大的 but I didn't grow up in Brazil.
朋友們總是拿這個取笑我 Friends would tease the crap out of me.
那你為什么不跟他說 Why didn't you ask him to stop?
一開始想說的 但后來我知道 No, I did at first, but then l realized...
親吻令他非常開心 就放棄了 ...how happy it made the old guy and l just gave in.
你們知道嗎 我祖母比你們走得都快 You know what? My grandmother hikes faster than you both...
但她已經去世了 ...but she's already dead.
趕上他 快點兒 Get him. Go get him.
你背會兒包行嗎 How about you carry the packs for a while, Ok?
來 看這景色 Come here. Look at this.
美嗎 Is it nice?
寶貝 Baby.
在后面抱我一下 Bringing up the rear.
-你跟她睡過了嗎 -什么 - So have you slept with her yet? - What was that?
你跟她睡過了嗎 Have you slept with her yet?
這不該你問 Crossing the line.
老爸 都十年了 是時候了 Dad, it's been 10 years. It's time.
離所有漂亮女孩遠點兒 Stay away from all the beautiful girls.
她們都很危險 They are dangerous.
一個星期真短 A week is too short.
一星期太短了 A week is too short.
聽聽看 我為你做的磁帶 Listen, I've made you a mixtape.
這是送你的禮物 And I give you a present. For you.
謝謝 Thank you.
我已經開始想你了 I'm missing you already.
再見 莉茲 Bye, Liz.
-注意身體 -你也是 - Be safe. - Same to you.
還親我嗎 So don't I get a kiss?
不知道 I don't know.
-我愛你 爸爸 -我也愛你 - I love you, dad. - I love you too.
我知道我多傻 So stupid, I know.
他都十九歲了 高大的男子漢 He's 19 years old and he's such a man.
真甜蜜 It's sweet.
你很棒 You're sweet.
親愛的 Darling...
是時候了 ...it's time.
-莉茲 -怎么了 - Liz. - What?
莉茲 來 我跟你說點兒事 Liz. Come here. I have to tell you something.
不行 我真的真的該去冥想了 No. I should really, really be meditating.
去吧去吧 Go, go. Do it.
我都兩個星期沒去看賴爺了 I have not been to see Ketut in two weeks.
-真的嗎 -是 - Really? - Yes.
-好吧 快去 -好 - Okay. Go, go. - Okay.
天呢 但是你比賴爺可愛 Oh, gosh. But you are just so much cuter than Ketut.
不行 我必須走了 必須走 No, I have to go. I have to go.
為什么 Why?
你有膀胱感染 You have bladder infection.
這很正常 長時間沒有性生活之后如此激烈 Common after no sex, then too much sexy time.
這兩個星期 我們時時刻刻都在一起 We haven't even been apart for a minute in two weeks.
你害怕了 是嗎 You're afraid now, right?
我了解 I understand.
你不想迷失自己 You don't want to lose yourself.
愛是可怕危險的 Love is scary, dangerous.
我經歷過 Happen to me.
我每天祈禱 但是我丈夫仍對我不好 I pray every day, but husband bad for me.
我必須離開他 I have to get away from him.
這是他打的 This from where he hit me...
用摩托車頭盔 ...with motorcycle helmet.
然后我的女兒 And then my daughter
求我離開他 she begged me to leave him.
對嗎 寶貝 Is that right, honey?
我說 我認為你應該跟他離婚 I said, "I think you should get a divorce, mommy."
說這話的時候她四歲 She was 4 years old when she said it.
別對菲利普有看法 Don't feel bad about Felipe.
每個人都需要愛 親愛的 Everybody needs affection, honey.
人們應該做些快樂的事情 Make people do funny things.
戀愛初始每個人都這樣 Everyone gets like that at beginning of relationship.
想要更多的歡樂 享受 Want too much happiness, too much pleasure...
直到厭倦 ...until make yourself sick.
我的愛情 一開始也是這樣的 Even to Wayan, this happen at beginning of my love affair.
我迷失了自己 莉茲 I lose myself, Liz.
親朋好友們 Dear friends and loved ones:
我的生日就要到了 My birthday's coming up soon.
如果我在家 會準備場愚蠢 昂貴的 If I were home, l'd be planning a stupid, expensive
生日派對 而你們會 birthday party and you'd all be
送我禮物或者買瓶紅酒 buying me gifts and bottles of wine.
不如來個更經濟 更好的方式來慶祝 A cheaper, more lovely way to celebrate would be to
那就是為治療師奴里亞西大姐捐款 make a donation to help a healer named Wayan Nuriyasih
幫助她在印尼買棟房子 buy a house in Indonesia.
她是個單身媽媽 在印尼 女人離婚后 She's a single mother. In Bali, after a divorce
便失去一切 甚至孩子 a woman gets nothing, not even her children.
為了留下她的女兒 圖蒂 To gain custody of her daughter, Tutti,
大姐變賣家產 Wayan had to sell everything
甚至浴巾 用來支付律師費用 even her bath mat, to pay for a lawyer.
幾年來 她們流離失所 For years, they've moved from place to place.
每當大姐失去客戶群 圖蒂就要換學校 Each time, Wayan loses clientele and Tutti has to change schools.
巴厘島的這一小群人已成為我的家人 This little group of people in Bali have become my family.
無論在哪里 我們都要善待自己的家人 And we must take care of our families, wherever we find them.
今天我看見圖蒂正在擺弄一片藍瓷磚 Today I saw Tutti playing with a blue tile
那是她在一個酒店工地撿的 she'd found in the road near a hotel construction site.
她對我說 也許有一天我們擁有一棟房子 She told me: Maybe if we have a house someday
鋪上這種美麗的藍色地板 it can have a pretty blue floor like this.
當我在意大利時學了一個詞 When I was in Italy, I learned a word--
-圖蒂中有一對t -圖蒂 - "Tutti" with double t. - Tutti.
這在意大利語中是"人人"的意思 --which in ltalian means "everybody."
這就是啟示 不是嗎 So that's the lesson, isn't it?
當你環游世界以自助時 When you set out in the world to help yourself
往往是以幫助圖蒂[人人]而收場的 sometimes you end up helping Tutti.
-再說一遍 -一萬八千美元 - Tell me again. - Eighteen thousand American dollars.
我帶來了電子郵件 你可以看看 I brought you the e-mails to look at.
上帝啊 Oh, my God.
我們有房子了 We get a house.
那是所有人的房子 It can be the house for everybody!
我能有個藥房 能有個圖書館 I can have a pharmacy! I can have a library!
-好了嗎 上帝 -還不行 閉上眼睛 - All right. Oh, God. - Close them again. Close your eyes.
小心 你不想摔的很慘吧 Careful. You don't wanna break a tooth or anything.
-別擔心 閉上眼睛 -要帶我去哪兒 - Don't worry, but close your eyes. - Where are you taking me?
等下就會看到了 You will see.
-你幫大姐買了個房子 -是的 - You helped Wayan to get a house... - I know.
那我們該慶祝一下了 ...and we're going to celebrate.
-到了到了到了 -好吧 - Here, here, here. - All right. Ok, Ok
好了好了好了 Turn, turn, turn.
我知道我們在沙灘上 但沒穿泳衣 I know we're at the beach and not have bathing suit.
這就是了 Here you go.
我們要坐船來個短期旅行 We're going to take a little boat trip.
去哪兒 Where?
去附近的一個小島 To a little island nearby.
那是我最喜歡的地方 我已經打好兩個包了 It's my favorite place in the world. I've packed for two.
我們可以在那里待到下星期二 We can stay there until next Tuesday.
我還有個非常好的露營地 And l have the perfect camping spot.
只有你和我 還有四百只鸚鵡 Just you and l and 400 parrots.
喜歡嗎 Do you like it?
我本打算今晚告訴你的 I was going to save it for tonight,
但想了想 現在就是最好的時刻 but I think this is the right moment.
我要在巴厘島 因為我在這兒做生意 I have to be in Bali because my business is here
你要在紐約 and you have to be in New York
因為你生活在那里 對吧 because that's where your life is, right?
如果我們努力創造一種生活 What if we tried to create a life that
在這兩地之間分配時間 怎么樣 is divided between the two places?
為什么要那么做呢 Why would you wanna do that?
因為我愛你 Because I'm in love with you.
-走吧 走 -不 我... - Let's go. Let's go. - Oh, no. I....
-怎么了 -我不能 對不起 - What? - I can't. I'm sorry.
-我只是... -你不去嗎 - I just... - You can't?
-對不起 我不能 -什么不能 - I'm sorry. I can't. - Can't what?
我不能現在去旅行 我... I can't go on a trip right now, okay? I....
我已經五天沒回家了 一個星期沒見賴爺了 I haven't been home in five days. I haven't seen Ketut in weeks.
-這太過火了 -不過火 - It's just too much. - It's not much.
我們自己去旅行 To go by ourselves
幾天里遠離一切 對你來說過火嗎 apart from everything else for a couple of days, is that much for you?
莉茲 告訴我 有什么問題 Liz, now tell me. What's the problem, Liz?
我是說 我有同樣的恐懼 I mean, l have the same fears,
和你一樣受過傷 I have the same scars that you have
并向你揭開傷疤 and I show them to you.
但我想你和我的區別只是 But I guess the only difference between you and I is that
你不敢再愛 you are afraid to love again.
親愛的 就是這樣 My darling, this is it.
你看著我的眼睛 告訴我真實的想法 You have to look me in the eye and let me know the truth.
說吧 愛不愛我 Please. Do you love me or do you love me not?
看著我的眼睛 告訴我 Look me in the eyes and tell me
愛不愛我 這很簡單 do you love me or don't you love me not? It's very easy.
我知道你也有同感 為什么不能說出來 I know you feel the same way. Why can't you say it back?
我不知道為什么 I don't know why.
我為什么不能 Why can't l?
因為你害怕 親愛的 Because you're terrified, my love.
但是沒關系 我也這樣 But listen, it's fine. Me too.
我仍想和你一起乘船旅行 But l still want to get into that boat with you.
-不 好吧 聽著 -什么 - No. Okay, look. Look. - What?
我不明白你為什么不能理解 I don't know why you can't understand this.
我找到了一些東西 不能就此放棄 I found something and I can't give it up.
我相信 如果我放棄了 你也不會如此愛我了 And trust me, if I did, you wouldn't be so all in love with me.
好吧 是關乎平衡 Okay, the balance thing.
你環游世界以求身心平衡 You traveled around the world to find your balance.
你以為你找到的平衡是什么 And the balance that you think you've found is what?
冥想二十分鐘還是去見一個老藥師 Meditating for 20 minutes and going to see an old medicine man?
聽著 平衡 親愛的 Listen, balance, my darling,
平衡不是讓每個人愛你 balance is not letting anybody love you
-至少你要自愛 -你懂什么 你不懂 - less than you love yourself. - You know what? You know what?
別跟我說過去一年我的得失 Do not tell me what lessons I have and haven't learned in the last year
也別說你有多平衡多明智 and don't tell me how balanced and wise you are
我就不能展現自我 and how I can't express myself.
別再對我說"親愛的" And do not say "darling" to me again
我馬上就不是了 because I am just gonna lose it.
聽著 我不需要用愛你來證明自愛 Listen to me! I do not need to love you to prove that I love myself.
要離開我了嗎 Run away from me?
你離開的是你一生中 You are running away from all
最有可能實現的夢想 the great possibilities of your own life.
我要走了 I'm getting into that boat.
送給你的 For you.
離別禮物 A goodbye gift.
賴爺
Ketut.
小莉 Liss
你拯救了我 you healed me.
你也拯救了我 賴爺 You healed me too, Ketut.
如果不是你 我不會回到巴厘島 If it wasn't for you, I wouldn't have come back to Bali
也不會重新找到自我 and I wouldn't have come back to myself.
要咖啡嗎 來點兒烤豬肉嗎 You want coffee? Roast pig?
要咖啡 Coffee.
我給你去拿 I get you coffee.
你馬上就回美國了嗎 You fly back to America soon?
兩小時之后 In two hours.
你坐過飛機嗎 賴爺 Have you ever been on an airplane, Ketut?
賴爺不能坐飛機 Ketut cannot fly on airoplane.
因為賴爺沒有牙齒 Ketut have no teeths.
你是我的好朋友 You are good friend to me.
像個女兒 You are like daughter.
當我死的時候 When I die
你會來巴厘島參加我的火葬嗎 you will come back to Bali? Come to my cremation?
巴厘島人的火葬儀式很有趣 Balinese cremation ceremony is very fun.
-你會喜歡的 -好吧 - You will like it. - Okay.
你還會如我告訴你那樣 發自肺腑的笑嗎 You still smile with your liver, like l tell you?
是的 Yes.
你還會如印度宗師所教導的那樣 去冥想嗎 You still meditate like your guru in India teach you?
-是的 -你現在對上帝滿意了嗎 - Yes. - You happy now with God?
-滿意 -你愛你的新男友嗎 - Yes. - You love your new boyfriend?
結束了 I ended it.
不明白你為什么要這么做 Don't understand. Why you do that?
因為我無法保持平衡 I couldn't keep my balance.
小莉 聽著 Liss, listen to Ketut.
有時 為愛失去平衡 Sometimes to lose balance for love
是平衡生活的一部分 is part of living balanced life.
終于 In the end
我開始篤信一些 I've come to believe in something
我稱之為"追求物理學"的規則 I call "The Physics of the Quest."
這是自然力的定律 A force in nature governed by laws
如同引力定律 as real as the laws of gravity.
"追求物理學"的規則是這樣的 The rule of Quest Physics goes someting like this:
如果你有足夠勇敢離開 If you're brave enough to leave behind
所有熟悉和令人欣慰的事物 everything familiar and comforting,
這些事物可以是任何事情 which can be anything
可以是房子或是久遠的痛苦的怨恨 from your house to bitter, old resentments
并準備開始一段 and set out on a truth-seeking journey
內外兼修的求真之旅 either externally or internally
如果你真的相信 and if you are truly willing to regard
途中發生的一切是揭開真相的線索 everything that happens to you on that journey as a clue
如果你接受途中所見之人的教誨 and if you accept everyone you meet along the way as a teacher
如果你準備好了 那么最重要的是 and if you are prepared, most of all
面對并寬恕自己難以應對的現實 to face and forgive some very difficult realities about yourself
然后 真理便會呈現眼前 then the truth will not be withheld from you.
菲利普 Felipe?
我只能相信 我的感受 I can't help but believe it, given my experience.
日落時分 碼頭見
我選擇了自己的詞語 I decided on my word.
意思是 It means:
我們過街吧 "Let's cross over."