I have a friend, Deborah，a psychologist 我有个朋友黛博拉,一位心理学家
who was asked by the city of Philadelphia 她受到费城市的委托
if she could offer psychological counseling to Cambodian refugees 请求她提供心理辅导给一群柬埔寨难民，即船民
boat people，who had recently arrived in the city. 最近抵达该城市
Deborah was daunted by the task These Cambodians 黛博拉对这个任务感到畏怯
had suffered genocide, starvation, relatives murdered before their eyes 这些柬埔寨人历经种族屠杀、饥饿、亲眼目睹亲人被杀
years in refugee camps，harrowing boat trips to the West 待在难民营多年，受尽折磨地搭船至西方
How could she relate to their suffering? 她如何能感同身受其痛苦？
How could she help these people? 她如何能帮助她们？
So guess what all these people wanted to talk about 猜这些人竟想跟
with my friend Deborah，the psychologist. 我心理学家朋友黛博拉谈什么？
It was all，"I met this guy in the refugee camp. 全是“我在难民营遇到一男子”
I thought he really loved me，but when we got separated “我想他爱我，但我们分开时”
he took up with my cousin，Now he says he loves me 他就转向我的表妹，现在他说他爱我
and keeps calling me. They're married now. What should I do?" “并一直打给我，他们结婚了，我该怎么做？”
This is how we are. 人就是这回事
May I help you? 有什么事吗？
I'm Liz Gilbert. I'm writing a magazine article on Bali. 我是莉兹吉·尔伯特我在写一篇巴厘岛的杂志文章
I wanted to meet a medicine man. 我想见一名巫医
Everyone said I should meet Ketut Liyer. Am I in the right place? 大家建议我见科图特，是这里吗？
Wait. 等等
I mean, here I am with a ninth-generation medicine man 我来这里拜访一位第九代巫医
and what do I wanna ask him about? 我想要请教他什么？
Getting closer to God? 更接近神？
Saving the world's starving children? 拯救全世界的饥荒儿童？
Happy to see you. I am Ketut Liyer. 很高兴见到你，我是科图特
Nope. I wanna discuss my relationship. 不，我要讨论一下我的爱情
You are a world traveler. 你是世界的旅人
You will live a long time 你会活很久
have many friends，many experiences. 有很多朋友、很多经验
You will have two marriages，One long, one short. 你会有两段婚姻，一段长一段短
Am I in the long one or the short one? 我正处于长的或短的？
Can't tell. 没办法告知
Also you will lose all your money. 你还会失去所有的财富
I think in next six to 10 months. 我想就在六到十个月内
Don't worry，You will get it all back again. 别担心，你会全部失而复得
And you will come back to Bali 然后你会回到巴里岛来
and live here for three or four months and teach me English. 住在这里三到四个月，并教我英语
I never had anybody to practice my English with. 从没有人跟我练习英语
And then 然后
I will teach you everything I know. 我会传授给你我的智慧
Wait. 等等
I have this for you. 我有东西给你
Keep grounded so it's like you have four legs. 脚踏实地，宛如你有四条腿
That way, you can stay in this world. 那样你就能立身于这个世界
Also, no looking at world through your head. 还有，不要通过头脑观看世界
Look through your heart instead. 要通过你的心观看
That way, you will know God. 那样你就会认识神
Which is why you came here, no? 这不正是你来这里的目的？
See you later, alligator. 后会有期，姑娘
I proofread all of her manuscripts. 我校对她的所有手稿
My wife is very, very beautiful，but she can't spell for anything. 我的妻子非常的美丽，但是她无法拼字
Look at Uncle Stephen. 看看史蒂芬叔叔
And Auntie Liz. 和莉兹阿姨
I'm counting the minutes for this to be over so I can get in my big girl pants. 我等不及这派对结束，好让我换穿宽松便裤
You look fantastic，You just had a baby. 你看起来好美，你刚生个宝宝
Oh, you're lying，I'm fat, I'm exhausted 哦, 你说谎，我又胖又累
I can't keep two thoughts：I feel like Liza Minnelli. 心思无法集中，感觉像丽莎明妮莉
Stephen, can you hold Jack？ 史蒂芬，能抱着杰克吗？
I'm gonna introduce you to Walter. - Yeah. 我想介绍你给华特. - 好.
Hey, dude, you wanna grab a beer or something? 嘿, 老弟, 想喝杯啤酒吗？
My new book comes out in April，Thank you for asking. 我的新书四月出版，谢谢问起
Great. - May. 五月 - 好
May. May. 五月 五月
This is Andre. You two are Times' Most Notable nominees. 你和安德鲁都是…纽约时报的“最卓越”人选
So glad to finally meet you. - Nice to finally meet you. 很高兴终于认识你 - 幸会
I fed him nachos. Is that bad? 我喂他吃墨西哥脆片，不妥吗？
You look comfortable，What'd you feed him, chloroform? 他睡得很舒服，你喂他麻醉剂吗？
Give him to his dad. - I told you，nachos. 给他爸爸抱抱. - 我说过是墨西哥脆片.
Know what? I'd be asleep too if I had a dump like that. 换作我有这么多便便也会昏睡
We'll give him to his mom. - Come here then. 把他交给他妈吧 - 过来
Wanna help me change his diaper？ - Yes, I do. 要帮我替他换尿布吗？ - 好
Hey, how's the vintage car thing going? 古董车事业如何？
Oh, no, no, no. I changed jobs，I'm a pastry chef now. 哦！不，我换工作了，现在是糕饼主厨
You mean you're a baker， - Yeah. 你指的是烘培师. - 对
You wanna get baked? 想喝个痛快吗？
I know, I know. 我懂，我懂
It's hard, isn't it? 不舒服，对吧？
Oh, no. This is so much fun. 哦！当母亲真好玩！
Did you know the exact moment you wanted to have a baby? 你知道你在哪一刻想要宝宝吗？
I can't remember, but I've had the box since before I got married. 我不记得了. 但我在婚前就有个盒子
What box? 什么盒子?
It's girly and embarrassing，and you'll laugh at me if I tell you. 这很像小女生也很丢人，说了会被你笑
I will laugh at you，but you still have to tell me. 我是会笑你，但是你还是要跟我说
Come on. 快点
Under the bed. 在床下
I've been filling it with baby things 我一直收集宝宝的东西
waiting until Andy was ready to be a father. 等待安迪准备好当父亲
So sweet. 好可爱
Does this come in my size? 这是我的尺寸吗?
I have a box just like this, except it's filled with National Geographics 我有个类似的盒子，不过我是收集国家地理杂志
and The Times travel section. 和时代旅游的剪辑专栏
All the places I wanna see before I die. 在我死前想去游历的所有地方
Liz, having a baby is like getting a tattoo on your face. 莉兹, 生宝宝就像在脸上刺青
You kind of wanna be fully committed. 你会想要全心付出
So my trip to Aruba next week，which is just a basic, you know 我下周的阿鲁巴之行，基本上是
“where to sleep, swim and stuff your face”piece 写睡觉、游泳、美食的文章
I got a new bikini. 我买了新的比基尼
And it turns out，I have unlimited minibar access. 我能无限享用客房迷你吧
You know what that means? - Jet lag? 你知道这示表什么吗？ - 时差?
You, me 你, 我
macadamia nuts. 一起吃夏威夷豆
That was cute. 那很有趣
You know who I was talking to at the party who was really inspiring 知道我在派对上，跟谁对谈受益良多
was Tara's friend. - Brian. 塔拉的朋友. - 布莱恩.
Brian. Unbelievable，He's a teacher, you know that? 布莱恩！不可思议，他是老师?
He's a substitute teacher, isn't he? 代课老师，对吧？
Yeah. He was talking about the budget cuts that are happening now. 对. 他谈到进行中的预算削减
There's no money for anything. 没有收取任何费用
There's no music classes，there's no arts classes. 没有音乐课程，没有美术课程
They're volunteering their time to do all of this after school. 他们自愿在放学后利用时间做这些事
They're educating our kids，you know? 他们在教育我们的孩子呢
I think you'd make a great teacher, honey. 亲爱的，我想你会成为一名好老师
Thank you，but I was thinking more of like 谢谢，不过我考虑的是
education. Getting my masters, going back to school. I don't know. 教育，取得硕士学位，回到学校，我不确定
You know? 你知道我想
I- You know 你知道我想
Going back to school. - I'm just thinking out loud. 回到校园里 - 我只是抒发想法
I was getting the sinking feeling that Ketut's prophecy was coming true. 我有种虚脱感，科图特的预言快成真了
Was I in the shorter marriage? 我处于较短的婚姻？
We'd only bought this house a year ago. 我们一年前才买下这房子
Hadn't I wanted this? 我不想要这些吗？
I had actively participated in every moment of the creation 我积极参与，打造这种生活
of this life. 每一刻
So why didn't I see myself in any of it? 但为何我在这当中看不到自己？
The only thing more impossible than staying 唯一比留下更不可能的事
was leaving. 就是离开
I didn't wanna hurt anybody. I wanted to slip quietly out the back door 我不想伤害任何人，我想要悄悄的从后门溜走
and not stop running until I reached Greenland. 不停地跑，直到抵达格陵兰
Instead，I made a decision. 反而，我下了一个决定
To pray. 祈祷
You know, like, to God. 就是, 向神祈祷
And it was such a foreign concept to me, that I swear I almost began with: 这对我来说是个陌生概念，我发誓我几乎这样开头：
“I'm a big fan of your work.” “我一直很迷您的作品”
Hello, God? 您好，上帝？
Nice to finally meet you. I... 很高兴终于认识您
I am sorry I've never spoken directly to you before 很抱歉我之前从没直接对您说话
but 不过
I hope I've expressed my 我希望我已表达我的
ample gratitude for all the blessings you've given 万分感激对于您所赐予的一切恩典
to me in my life. 在我的人生中
I'm in serious trouble. 我面临严重问题
I don't know what to do. 我不知道如何是好
I need an answer. 我需要答案
Please, tell me what to do. 拜托，告诉我如何是好
Oh, God, help me, please. 上帝, 请帮助我
Tell me what to do and I'll do it. 告诉我如何是好，我会照做
Go back to bed, Liz. 回去床上, 莉兹
I don't wanna go to Aruba. 我不想要去阿鲁巴
I don't wanna be married. 我不想要婚姻
You know, there's a whole divorce section downstairs. 楼下有整区的离婚书籍
“Pepper grinder” - She's having “胡椒研磨器” - 她正在经历
a nervous breakdown. - This is what girls do. 女人的精神崩溃. - 这是女孩子
She's processing. Why doesn't she get drunk or laid? 常见的过程. - 她干嘛不喝醉或找人上床？
That's what I would do if you left me. 你离开我，我就会这样做
No, you wouldn't. 不, 你不会
No, I wouldn't. - She moved out, she filed for divorce. 不, 我不会 - 她提出离婚诉讼
They were together eight years，She's got no home. 他们在一起八年，她没有房子
“Legacy” “遗产”
Every word in Italian is like a truffle，A magic trick. 意大利文的每个字都像块菌，神奇的技巧
Honey, I get it，It's your life raft right now. 亲爱的, 我懂，这是你此刻的救生艇
When Andy and I broke up for two weeks, I bought a loom. 当安迪和我分手两个礼拜后，我买了一台织布机
A frigging loom，And he tried to start a microbrewery. 鬼织布机，他试图开一间酿造厂
I don't know how you guys aren't sick of me now. I'm sick of me. 我不知道你们怎么受得了我，我都受不了自己
Are you kidding me？We love having you. 别傻了，我们很高兴你作伴
It's kind of like having a writer in residence. 就像是在家里有一位作家
But you are a writer，You should be writing something. 不过你是作家，你该写作
Maybe I could write about a woman who goes to Italy to learn Italian. 我能写一个女人，去意大利学意大利文
Call it Carbohydrates and Conjugations. 称这为“美食结合语文之旅”
I'll start looking for a place. 我会开始找新住处
I'm falling in love with you. I'm not who you think I am. 我爱上你了 - 我跟你的想像不同
I'm just your fantasy. 我只是你的幻想
No, that's bullshit. You're real. 不, 都是胡说. 你是真实的
Your scars, your talent. 你的疤痕, 你有才华
The fact that I own a piece-of-crap bar 事实上，我拥有一间破烂酒吧
and you accept that that's all I'm gonna do. 你也接受我要以此维生
Okay, this sucks. 哦！烂透了
I second that. - Don't be rude. 我附议 - 不要无礼
I love your pain. 我喜欢你的痛苦
And I love that when we're together，I can make it go away. 我也爱我们在一起时，我能赶走痛苦
Oh, he's good. - You're love 哦, 他演得真好 - 你很可
He's hot, there's a difference. - is like a hot panini. 你很性感，两者不同 - 你的爱犹如意式热三明治
And when I look into your eyes，I hear dolphins clapping. 当我望着你的眼睛，我听到海豚拍水声
I did not write that line. 我没写这句台词
Here's what he doesn't know yet. 他对此仍一无所知
I disappear into the person I love. 我消失在我所爱的人怀里
I am the permeable membrane，If I love you, you can have it all. 我是可渗透的簿膜，如果我爱你，你能拥有一切
My money, my time, my body 我的金钱, 我的时间, 我的身体
my dog, my dog's money. 我的狗, 我的狗的钱
I will assume your debts and project upon you... 我会承担你的债务，突显你的个人
all sorts of nifty qualities you've never actually cultivated in yourself 并把各种正面特质投射于你，那些你从未真正培养的特质
I will give you all this and more 我会给你这一切或更多
until I am so exhausted and depleted 直到我是如此耗尽和枯竭
the only way I can recover 我能恢复的唯一方法
is by becoming infatuated with someone else. 就是对别人着迷
Elizabeth, hi. - Hi. 伊莉莎白, 嗨 - 嗨
Oh, really? 哦, 真的吗?
How you doing? 过的如何?
Cheers. 干杯
Thank you. - I owe you an apology. 谢谢 - 我得向你道歉
For the walkouts. - Well, I'm not everyone's cup of tea. 有人离席 - 我的创作并非人人都爱
I doubt that. 我不认为
I, on the other hand, was shit. 相对地，我的表演很瞥脚"
Although I was trying very hard. “Shit”is a strong word. 虽然我很努力了 - 彆脚是很强烈的字眼
Thank you. 谢谢你
You seem shorter in person than on the stage. 你本人比在台上娇小
Really? I hear that a lot. - Sorry. 真的吗? 我常听别人这么说 - 抱歉
It's okay. 没关系
It's unnerving when 通常都会让人紧张不安
a total stranger sees you more clearly than you see yourself. 当一个素不相识的人，比你更能看清自己
That's what I mean by saying you're short. 我说你娇小是指这方面
Are you hearing dolphins clapping right now? 你正在听海豚的拍水声吗？
I took a few liberties with your material. 我擅自更动你的一些题材
I give you full permission to make fun of me. I know you're dying to. 我给你完全的权限取笑我，你一定巴不得
You're far too charming to make fun of. 你太有魅力令人难以取笑
I'm still hearing them. 我仍听到海豚声
Is that your guru? 那是你的精神导师？
You're joking, but, yes, it is. 你在逗我，不过确实是
She's beautiful. 她很美
Yeah. A friend told me about her. 有个朋友告诉我她的事
I was out of work and feeling pretty desperate for something. 我失业，感觉渴望某样东西
Not the last time I was out of work，the time before that. 不是上次失业，是再上次
And I just had this feeling like I was looking in all the wrong places. 我有种感觉，我一直找错地方
Looking for what? 寻找什么?
God. 上帝
She has an ashram in India，I'm dying to go, but 她在印度有个道场，我超想去
you know, you have to get, like，three stages of hepatitis shots 但得接种三阶段的肝炎疫苗
and my insurance always runs out. 而我的保险总是过期
I'll go when the time's right. 时机成熟我就会去
There's a gathering of her students every morning. 每天早上有学员集会
If you want，I could take you sometime 你想的话，我改天能带你去
If you're not unnerved by 100 crunchy people chanting in Sanskrit. 只要你不会因…上百人大声吟诵梵文而不安
I need to be unnerved. 我需要不安
David. A yogi from Yonkers. 大卫，扬克斯市的瑜咖信徒
I didn't exactly fall in love with the guy. 我不是真正爱上这男人
What happened was I dove out of my marriage 实际上，我逃出婚姻
and into David's arms 然后扑大卫的怀抱
exactly the same way a cartoon circus performer 形同卡通中马戏团表演者
dives off a high platform and into a small cup of water 从高台跳入一小盆水
vanishing completely 完全消失
Your underwear, my queen. 你的内裤, 我的皇后
He just folded my delicates. 他帮我折了内衣
Oh, my God, baby，you are in so much trouble. 哦，天啊！宝贝，你麻烦大了
Thirty-six? 36楼？
My client is simply not interested in a divorce. 我的客户没有离婚意愿
Is he serious? 他是认真的吗?
Is he really representing himself? 他真的代表自己？
One semester of law school right here, baby. 上过一学期的法学院，律师小姐
Great. Well, what would it take to interest your client? 那怎样才能使你的客户有意愿？
Okay, so here's the deal，You have screwed up my life 好, 听好了，你毁了我的人生
but what I wanna know is why couldn't you find yourself 但我想知道，你为何不能在我们的婚姻中“找到自我”?
in our marriage? Why didn't you？say what you were thinking？ 为什么不说出你的想法或感觉？
I did. You never listened to me. - No. You never said: 我有，你从不听 - 不，不，你从没说:
“Hey，you know what？You suck. I'm deeply unhappy” “你烂透了！我深感不幸福！”
You just took off. You never gave me a chance to address those problems. 你甩头就走，不给我机会解决那些问题
That's not fair，That's just quitting，I took vows. 那样不公平！那样是逃避！我曾立誓
Till death，And I take them seriously. “至死不渝”我认真看待这句话
I believe this is just a phase and I'm willing to wait it out. 我相信这是低潮期，我愿意等
You are always waiting, Stephen. 你老是在等待, 史蒂芬
Waiting for me to come home，to wanna have kids 等我回家，想要小孩
to make you dinner，I don't know why we can't accept 替你做美味晚餐，何不干脆接受
we don't wanna live in unhappiness anymore. 我们不想再活得不快乐了
I accept the fact that，I am occasionally unreliable 我接受我偶尔不可靠
and I often get sidetracked, but I thought you liked that about me. 有经常分心，但我以为你喜欢我这样
I thought it was okay that I had hopes and dreams. 我以为我大可拥有梦想
Have a dream. Stephen, great，fine. Do that. Just pick one. 拥有梦想，斯蒂芬, 很好，去实现吧！选个梦想
Okay, I pick one. I pick you. 好，我选好了，我选你！
I know this is awful. 我知道离婚很糟
But I believe with every molecule of my body that you will find the person 但我身体的每一个分子都相信，你会找到跟你
that wants just what you want 期望一致的对像
That will give you what you want and what you deserve. I'm not her. 会使你获得想要和应得的，我不是她
Well, you obviously know nothing about what I want. 你显然完全不懂得我想要什么？
My client would like to submit a song he wrote 我的客户想献上一首他创作的歌
that he believes is relevant to these proceedings. Goes something like this: 以这些诉讼为主题，就是这样唱:
Are you kidding? 没搞错
Quitter, quitter, quitter! 叛徒！叛徒…！
How about I take the blame？I am the one who couldn't deal 好，我接受指责，我无法再忍爱一周
with another weekend roaming some box-shaped superstore 逛死板的大卖场
buying appliances on credit 刷信用卡买生活用品
and pretending to be a couple that neither one of us ever knew how to be. 假装成一对我们都演不像的夫妻
You wanted that toaster. 是你要那台烤面包机的
“You like faking it, fine. You're stellar， I'm the failure. I suck at faking it.” 你喜欢装傻，很好，我很差劲，我装得烂透了
It was not my finest hour. So where do things stand now? 我的表现失态了 - 离婚有何进展？
We're prepared to offer half of everything 我准备拿出一半财产
and my client's retirement accounts. 包括房子及我客户的退休帐户
Take it all then. Everything. 全拿去吧，全部
He still said no. 他仍然据绝
He hates me now. - He doesn't hate you. 他现恨我 - 他不恨你
His heart is broken. 他的心碎了
I think he hates you. 我想他恨你
I'm never letting you out of the basement.
Why don't we talk next week and we'll see where things stand? 我们何不下礼拜再谈？然后我们就知道事情要怎么处置了
Okay. - These things have a way 好. - 这些事情会有办法
of working themselves out. 通常会迎刃而解
So why'd you become a vegetarian? 你为什么吃素？
I saw some cows slaughtered one time. 我曾经有一次看到一些牛宰杀
Barely touched your dinner. 你几乎没吃东西
He's 28. 他 28 岁
This is hard for him, isn't it？And you？ 他很难受吧？你呢？
The meditations help. 冥想有帮助
Liz. 莉兹
You remember a couple of years ago，when you threw yourself into 你还记得几年前你专注在
the renovation of your kitchen？You were consumed 记得几年前，你全力投入整修厨房
with being the perfect wife and cook. 一心想成为完美妻子和厨娘
I was trying to make it work. 我想维系婚姻
Well, I think chanting and meditation is the same thing 我认为吟诵和冥想
in a different costume. 跟那些事是一体两面
Definitely give me that documentary. 一定要给我看那支纪录片
I've been thinking about vegetarianism. 我正考虑吃素
My triglycerides are through the roof. 我的三酸甘油醋快破表了
Yeah. Thanks for everything. 谢谢招待
Great to meet you. 幸会了
What？ - Nothing. It's just 怎样了？ - 没事. 只是
you know，you used to look like Stephen. 你以前很像斯蒂芬
Now you kind of look like David. 现在像大卫
You know? 懂吗？
What I meant was, you know how people start resembling their dogs? 我的意思是, 这好比人会开始像自己的狗
Why would he say that，we look like the same dog？ 他为什么说我们像同样的狗？
He was joking. - Not funny. 他在开玩笑. - 不好笑
Well, he had five Heinekens，He was bombed. 他喝了六瓶喜力啤酒，他醉了
Well, not funny. 不好笑
We don't look like the same dog. 我们不像同样的只狗
If anything, you're a collie and I'm a Tibetan mastiff. 就算是狗，你是可丽犬，我是藏獒
Don't you wanna give me a chance to miss you? 不给我机会想念你吗?
It begins when the object of your affection 起初，你爱慕的对象
bestows upon you a heady hallucinogenic dose 给你带来陶醉和晕眩的感觉
of something you've never even dared to admit you wanted 你从不敢承认自己希望
an emotional speedball of thunderous love and excitement. 这种强烈的爱情和兴奋能够迅速发展
Soon you start craving that attention with the hungry obsession 很快，你开始渴望被对方关注，这种渴望令你困扰
of any junkie. 就像上了瘾
When it's withheld, you turn sick，crazy，not to mention resentful 一旦无法得到，会难过、疯狂，心生不满
of the dealer who encouraged this addiction in the first place 怨恨一开始让你上瘾的人
but now refuses to pony up the good stuff. 现在又拒绝为你提供你想要的
Just frustrated，I'm concerned，I don't understand. 我很沮丧，我很担心，我不明白
What don't you get? 你不明白什么？
What's going on？You don't look me in the eye. 你到底怎么了？根本不愿看着我的眼睛
You don't finish your Nobody's asking you to make the bed! 你都没有收拾 - 谁让你整理床铺了？
You don't have sex with me! Sometimes I'm not in the mood! 你不和我做爱了! - 我有时候没情趣!
Goddamn him, and he used to give it to you for free. 该死，以前他还免费为你提供服务
Next stage finds you skinny，shaking in a corner 下一步，你由于茶饭不思而变瘦，在角落颤抖
certain only that you'd sell your soul 只知道自己会出卖灵魂
just to have that one thing one more time. 就为了重新拥有曾经的美好
Well, then why don't we discuss it？Why don't we sort it? 那我们为什么不谈谈？为什么不说清楚？
Why don't we act like adults? Okay. Can I have a little space? 为什么我们不能像成年人? - 好吧. 我想有自己的空间?
How about that? - Meanwhile 怎么样? - 同时
the object of your adoration is now repulsed by you. 你爱慕的对象，现在已觉得你是个困扰
You don't always make me miserable. - There's a comfort. 你并不是一直都让我痛苦 - 这倒是一个安慰
I just- Sometimes I need to come home 我只是希望有时我回到家
and have a little David time 然后有一些自己的私人时间
He looks at you like someone he's never met before. 他看着你像是看着一个从未见过的人
Is that okay? - Yeah. No, it's fine. 这样可以吗? - 恩, 当然, 没关系
And not have to, like, you know，justify it. 然后不需要, 你知道的，为这些去辩护
The irony is you can hardly blame him. 讽刺的是，你几乎不能责怪他
I mean, check yourself out，You're a mess. 我意思是说，看看你自己，你现在一团糟
Unrecognizable even to your own eyes. 连你自己都没办法认出自己
You asked me to come here，Here I am. 你叫我过来这里，现在我在这里了
And it turned into something else. 然后关系变成另一种感觉了
Didn't it? - You are such a child. 不是吗? - 你就像个小孩一样
Right. I can't take this anymore. - Great. Perfect. 对. 我不能再忍受这些了 - 很好. 非常好
That's a great response to a conversation. 这的确是一段对话中最棒的回应了
Goddamn it. 他妈的
You have now reached infatuation's final destination. 你现在达到着迷的最终阶段了
The complete and merciless devaluation of self. 完全的否定自我价值
You wanna go away for a year? 你要离开一年?
Do you know what I felt when I woke up, Delia? 你知道当我醒来是什么感觉吗，迪莉娅?
Nothing. No passion, no spark，no faith, no heat. Absolutely nothing. 没有，没有热情，没有火花，没有信仰，没有热度，什么都没有
I've gotten past the point where I can be calling this a bad moment. 我想我已经达到超越坏时刻的糟糕情况了
And it just terrifies me. Jesus, this is like worse than death to me 然后这想法吓坏我了，天啊！这对我来说比死还不如
the idea that this is the person I'm gonna be from now on. 意识到这人就是从现在开始要跟我生活的人
This happens to people. 人都会发生这样的事
They fall in love in their 20s, get married 他们再20几岁的时候陷入热恋然后结婚
do the granite countertop，white-picket fence in their 30s 在他们30好几的时候修筑白色栅栏，建他们的花岗石工作台
and somewhere they realize,“This is not for me.” 然后在某一处他们突然发现，“这都已经不是我想要的了”
So they fail and they fall down, they hurt like hell, they straighten up 所以他们挫败然后倒下，他们历经伤痛, 他们坚强起来
and march their asses to the shrink's office. 然后带着伤痕前进到精神科医师的办公室
They can't just check out. - I am not checking out. 他们不能就这样离开 - 我没有打算要离开
I need to change. 我需要改变
You have a support system here, Liz. 你在这边有一整个支持你群体, 莉兹
You have friends and family who love you. 你有爱你的朋友和家人
And do you feel my love for you？My support for you？No. 你有感觉到我对你的爱吗？我给予你的支持？没有
There's，like, nothing，I have no pulse. 就好像，什么都没有，我好像没有生命
I am going to Italy. - Italy，Why Italy？ 我要去意大利 - 意大利，为什么是意大利？
What did you have for lunch? - I don't know. A salad. 你今天午餐吃什么? - 我不确定. 色拉吧
Exactly. I used to have this appetite for food, for my life 就是这样，我以前对我的食物，的生活感到热情
and it is just gone. 然后这些感觉都消失了
I wanna go someplace where I can marvel at something. 我想要去一些可以让我惊叹事物的地方
Language, gelato，spaghetti, something. 语言，义式手工冰淇淋，意大利面，任何东西
You're talking like a college kid. I've been acting like one. 你说的好像你是个大学生一样 - 我一直都好像是一个大学生那样
Since I was 15, I've either been with a guy or breaking up with a guy. 从我15岁开始, 我要嘛就是跟男生在一起，不然就是跟男生分手
I have not given myself two weeks of a breather 我都没给自己两个礼拜的喘息时间
to just deal with, you know, myself 让我自己可以认识自己
What's going on with you and David? 你跟大卫之间怎么了?
What, did you fall out? 怎么了, 你跌下去了吗?
I don't know how to be here. 我不晓得该怎么待在这边了
You wanna know how to be here? Stop constantly waiting for something. 你想要知道怎么待在这边？那就停止不断的等待一些事.
I'm going to Italy and then I'm going to David's guru's ashram in India 我要去意大利然后我要去印度，去大卫精神领袖的聚会
and I'm going to end the year in Bali. 然后我要在巴里岛渡过年末
That's what I'm gonna do. 我就是要那样做
That's harder to argue with，The beaches are nice. But why? 那的确是感觉很不错，那边的海滩很美，但是到底为什么?
Ketut told me I would. - Guy with no teeth. Ketut 说我会这样做 一个没有牙齿的家伙
When you're desperate 当你已经绝望的时候
and some guy who，yes, looks a little like Yoda 有人看起来就像尤达大师
hands you a prophecy，you have to respond. 给你一些预言，你必须要响应他
Do you need a Xanax? - Always. 你有服抗焦虑药吗? 一直都需要
Okay, I'm just gonna say it，I'm gonna say it and be done with it. 好, 我要说了，我要直接说然后把这事结束
What if it doesn't work? 如果事情进展不顺利呢 ?
My whole life fits in a 12-foot-square box. 我整个人生都局限在12英尺的方框里
You know how many times I hear that in a day? 你知道我一天要听这种话几次吗?
Most of them never come back for their whole life. 大部分的人一生中都没有回来
Hello? - Liz. 哈啰 ? - 莉兹
Good news. Stephen just signed the divorce papers. 好消息. 史蒂芬刚刚签了离婚协议了
I'll probably be back in a week，penniless with dysentery. 我可能一周后就回来，身无分文，染上痢疾
You're my hero. 你是我的英雄
Hey. 嘿
If you stay，we'll go out for Indian every night. 如果你留下来，我们每天晚上都去吃印度菜
You never asked me to stay. 你从来没要求我留下来
Go, go, go. 快走, 快走, 快走
You know what's funny? 你知道什么很好笑吗?
This is the first time in my life there's no one waiting at home for me. 这是我生命中第一次没有人在家等我回来
I don't even have a home to come back to. 我什至没有家可以回去
Oh, God. You'll make friends. 哦, 天阿. 你会交到朋友的
You'll make friends with a backpack，of course. 你一定会认识一些背包客群
It'd be great to get away. 这样短暂逃离也是挺好的
Andy and I were talking about getting a little villa in Florence for a month. 安迪和我一直在讨论去佛罗伦萨的小渡假村旅游一个月
You know, and in 10 years, when Jack is older 然后大概10年以后，当杰克比较大的时候
What? 怎么了?
You know why I was giving you such a hard time? 你知道为什么我一直对你要离开的事为难你吗?
I love my job, my guy and my kid，but 我爱我的工作,我的男人和我的小孩，但是
I wish I could go. 我希望我也能去
I love you and I'm proud of you. 我爱你也为你感到骄傲
Now go. 去吧
There is a wonderful old Italian joke 有一个很棒的老旧意大利笑话
about a poor man who goes to church every day 有关于一个老人每天去教堂
and prays before the statue of a great saint, begging: 然后在圣人雕像面前祈祷, 祈求:
“Dear saint, please, please, please let me win the lottery.” “亲爱的圣贤, 拜托 , 拜托, 拜托，让我赢乐透彩吧”
Finally, the exasperated statue comes to life 终于, 恼火的雕像复苏
and looks down at the begging man and says: 往下看正在祈求的男人然后说道:
“My son, please, please, please buy a ticket.” “我的子民, 拜托 , 拜托, 拜托，去买一张彩券吧”
So now I get the joke. 现在我了解了这段笑话
And I've got three tickets. 而且我还有三张飞机票(彩票)在手
You heat the water on the stove. 你在炉子上煮水
So if I want to bathe? 那如果我需要洗澡呢?
You put the water in the tub. 你把水放进浴缸里
Okay. 好
Yeah. It doesn't really seem like enough water to bathe in. 好的. 但是看起来好像不够水可以洗澡
Not enough. 不够
Yes, it's enough. 不会的, 已经足够
Fill it up three, four, five times. 多补上三次, 四次, 五次
Everything that's important gets cleaned. 所有比较重要的部位就可以清洁到了
Is this safe? This 这安全吗 ? 这个
scaffolding? Scaffol 搭建架子? 架子
It holds up the ceiling. 它把天花板撑起来
Otherwise it will fall apart. 不然天花板就会崩塌
Everything falls apart, my dear. 所有的东西都会崩塌, 亲爱的
The only thing permanent in life is family. 生命中存在永久的只有家人
You're not married. 你没有结婚
No, divorziata. 没有, 离婚了
Why divorced? 为什么离婚 ?
We broke it. 我们搞砸了
You're more happy now? 那你现在比较快乐吗?
I have one rule. 我有一个原则
No strange men spending the night. 不能有陌生男子在这里过夜
You American girls when you come to Italy 当你们美国女孩来意大利
all you want is pasta 你们就只想要意大利面
and sausage. 和香肠(男人)
I'll take it 我租了
Good. You chose well 很好. 选择对了
Cappuccino. 卡布奇诺
It's a zoo in here. - And my Italian sucks. 这里就像个动物园 - 而且我的意大利文烂透了
How long have you been here? - Two weeks. You? 你在这边待多久了? - 两个礼拜了. 你呢?
Six weeks，You'll get better. 六个礼拜了，你会越来越上手的
Two cappuccinos, please. 请给我两杯卡布奇诺
And warm the milk this time. 记得这次要把牛奶用成温的
Yesterday it was too hot and burned my tongue. 昨天弄太烫了, 烫伤了我的舌头
You like Napoleons? - Of course. 你喜欢拿破仑饼吗? - 当然.
And two Napoleons, please 再给我两个拿破仑饼
Your Italian is fantastic. 你的意大利文说的很棒
I have a wonderful tutor，I'll give you his number if you like. 我有一位很棒的导师，如果你有需要我可以给你他的电话
He's really good and he needs work. - Oh, great. 他真的很棒而且他也需要工作 - 哦, 很好
Are you Dutch? German? 你是荷兰人? 还是德国人?
Swedish. Even colder people，if you can imagine. 瑞典人. 比你说的地方都还要寒冷，如果你懂的话
I'm Liz, by the way - Sofi. 对了，我叫莉兹 - 索菲
You can say: 你可以说:
It's past. lt's past.
Too fast, but okay. 太快了, 但是还可以
You can say: 你可以说:
Yeah. 没错
What a beautiful word. 真是很美的一个字
Come on, it's“let's cross over.”It's so ordinary. 少来了, 这意思只是“让我们跨越过去”这句很平常
No, it's the perfect combination of Italian sounds. 不, 它是意大利语调的完美结合
It's the wistful "ah," the rolling trill，the soothing "ess. " 它结合了留恋的 ''ah'' 辗转的颤音，还有平顺的 ''ess''声
That's true. - I love it. 的确是 - 我喜欢
All right, let me teach you a word. 好, 我来教你一个字
Therapist. 治疗专家
Come on. - Good. You gotta learn humor. 少来了 - 很好. 你要学会幽默.
It's not. - Come on，Cheers. 那才不是 - 好了，干杯
Shall we continue Tuesday at 5? - Yes. 在星期二五点的时候继续吗? - 好
With another bottle of the therapy? - Of course. 和另一瓶的治疗专家吗? - 当然
You're doing very well, Liz. - Thank you. 你做得非常好, 莉兹. - 谢谢
And you must be very polite with yourself 你一定对自己很客气
when you learn something new. 当你学习新事物的时候
Yes. Grazie, I agree. 是的. Grazie, 我同意
But your English- How are you even talking to me like this right now? 但你的英文-- 你要怎么跟我像现在这样谈话?
I think you're gonna teach me more than I teach you. 我想你必须要教我多过我教你
You have good Italian，Very good. 你会很棒的意大利文，非常好
All right. 好
I am alone. 我是一个
I feel so guilty. I've been in Rome for three weeks 我觉得很有罪恶感，我已经待在罗马三个礼拜了
all I've done is learn a few Italian words and eat. 但我只是在这边学到一点意大利字和吃东西
You feel guilty because you're American. 你觉得有罪恶感是因为你是美国人
You don't know how to enjoy yourself. 你不晓得该怎么享受
I beg your pardon? - It's true. 你说什么? - 是真的
Americans know entertainment，but don't know pleasure. 美国人知道娱乐，但不晓得尽兴.
This is Luca Spaghetti, by the way，you know. 对了, 这是卢卡意面，你知道的
Your name is Luca Spaghetti? 你的名子叫卢卡意面
Yes, that's what our family is called. 没错, 那是我的家族姓氏
We invented it，I'm serious，Listen to me. 我们发明的，我是认真的，仔细听我说
You want to know your problem? Americans. 你想知道你的问题吗? 美国人
You work too hard，You get burned out. 你工作太勤奋了，会燃烧殆尽
Then you come home and spend the whole weekend 然后你回家把整个周末
in your pajamas in front of the TV. 都花在穿着睡衣窝在家里看电视
That's not far off, actually. 其实情况真的相差不远
But you don't know pleasure，You have to be told you've earned it. 但你不懂得享乐，你必须要被告知你值得去做
You see a commercial that says,“It's Miller time” 你看到商业广告告诉你，“现在是米勒(啤酒)时刻”
and you say,“That's right，Now I will go to buy a six-pack” “然后你告诉自己：没错，现在我要去买半打”
And drink the whole thing and wake up the next morning and you feel terrible. 然后你把它们全部都喝光后隔天一早醒来，觉得非常不舒服
But an Italian doesn't need to be told. 但是意大利人不需要被告知
He walks by a sign that says,“you deserve a break today” 他醒来就会知道一种感觉,“你值得今天放松一下”
and he says,“Yeah, I know. 然后他就会说,“ 没错, 我知道,
That's why I'm planning on taking a break at noon 这就是为什么我打算今天下午让自己放假一下
to go over to your house and sleep with your wife.” 然后去你家跟你老婆一起睡”
We call it “dolce far niente.” 我们叫这做 “东起法涅特”
It means 意思是说
the sweetness of doing nothing，We are masters of it. 享受不做任何事的优闲，我们是个中翘楚
He's right. He says 他说的对. 他说
you can't learn Italian like this. 你不能这样学意大利文
You don't speak the language just with your mouth, speak it with your hands. 你不能只用嘴巴去说意大利文，你要用手去表达
Like this? 像这样?
Okay. Is yelling. 好. 你们在叫喊了
‘THAT MEAL WAS EXCELLENT’ ‘那餐点真是美味极了’
‘SUCK IT’ ‘吃屎吧’
All this gives me a stomachache. 这些都让我胃痛
‘SCREW YOU’ ‘去你的’
I think that's my neighbor Lorenzo. - Charming. 我想那应该是我的邻居罗伦佐. - 非常迷人
ANOTHER WAY TO SAY 'SCREW YOU' 另一种说 '去你的'的方式
So anyway, to start off I'd say 所以, 要开始的话我歹说
Excuse me. 不好意思
Come here. 过来这边
For the table 这整桌的餐点
a big platter of artichoke alla giudia 一大盘炸洋蓟(着名义式犹太菜)
prosciutto with melon 烟熏五香火腿佐香瓜
and eggplant with ricotta affumicata. 和烟熏乡村干酪烘烤茄子
Then spaghetti alla carbonara 然后奶油培根意大利面
pappardelle with ragu of rabbit 佐以义式兔肉酱的手工宽蛋面
and linguini with clams. 和蛤蜊细条扁面
Then tripe alla romana 然后是罗马纳酒烩牛肚
and saltimbocca. 和义式小牛肉卷裹鼠尾草
And two more liters of the vino sfuso from Genzano. 和两升的真札诺镇产的气泡酒
Thank you. 谢谢
You did it. Yes. 你办到了. 太好了
Liz Gilbert, you are a Roman woman now. 莉兹吉尔伯特, 你正式成为罗马女人了
No, only honorary. 不, 只是名誉上的
That is a real Roman woman. 那才是真的罗马女人
Yeah, with a lot of international friends. 是阿, 还有许多国际朋友
That one, I'd bite. 那一位, 我会咬她
Maybe you and Rome just have different words. 说不定你跟罗马是不同的词汇
Different words? - Yeah. 不同的词汇? - 没错
Yeah. It's like each city has a word, if you really think about it. 对. 就像是每个城市都有自己的词，如果你仔细去想的话
Like, what is the word for London? 就好像, 伦敦的代表词是什么?
I would say “stuffy.” - I would agree with that. 我觉得是 “自负的” - 我同意
What's the word for Stockholm? Are you kidding?“Conform.” 那斯德哥尔摩呢? - 这还用问吗?“一致性”
And New York? 纽约呢?
“Ambition”or“soot” “有抱负”或“煤灰”
What's the word for Rome? 那罗马是哪一个字?
It's kind of difficult to think about. 这很难说
It's classic. 她很经典
“Sex.” “性欲”
Of course. 当然了
So, what's your word, Liz? I'm curious. I can't figure it out. 那代表你的字呢, 莉兹? 我很好奇. 猜测不出来
Well 这个嘛
It might be 可能是
It started as “daughter.”I was good at that. And then 一开始是“女儿”我对那个很在行. 然后
“wife”Not so good. “妻子”当的不是很好
“Girlfriend” 女朋友
Not so good. 不是很好
My word's “writer.” 我的代表词是“作家”
Yeah, but that's what you do. That isn't who you are, no? 我知道, 但那是你的职业，那却不是代表你这个人不是吗?
Maybe you're a woman in search of her word. 说不定你是一个正在找寻自己词汇的女人
Hey, Sofi, it's Liz. Let's go to Naples. Maybe my word is “pizza.” 嘿, 索菲, 我是莉兹. 一起去那不勒斯，说不定我的词汇是 “披萨”
Listen, lady, I am only 7, but I can tell you're a complete moron 听着, 女士, 虽然我只有七岁, 但我知道你是一个笨蛋
because I am from Naples 就因为我是从那不勒斯来的
I love this place，but Giovanni said to watch out. 我爱这地方，但是乔维尼说要有所警觉
His cousin got mugged here in a museum. 他的表弟在这边的博物馆被抢
Are you serious? - Watch out for the scooter. Yeah. 真的假的? - 小心那些骑踏板车的人. 真的
I'm in love. I'm having a relationship with my pizza. 我恋爱了. 我正在跟我的披萨谈恋爱
You look like you're breaking up with the pizza. What's the matter? 你看起来好像刚刚跟披萨分手，怎么了?
I can't. 我不能再吃了
What do you mean, you can't? This is pizza in Napoli. 你说你不能吃是什么意思? 这是在拿坡里的披萨耶
It is your moral imperative to eat that pizza. 这是你的道德告诉你一定要做的事
I want to，but I've gained, like, 10 pounds. 我是想吃，但是我已经胖了大概有5公斤了
I mean, I've got this 而且, 我还开始有这个
Right here. What's it called? What's the word? 这边. 这叫做什么? 那个词是?
A muffin top. 玛芬圈(游泳圈)
I have one too. 我也有一个
I unbuttoned my jeans five minutes ago just looking at this. 我在五分钟前就解开我的牛仔裤然后看到这个
Let me ask you a question. 让我问你个问题
In all the years you've ever undressed in front of a gentleman 在这几年间你在男士面前脱衣服的次数中....
Hasn't been that many. - All right, well 也没有那么多次 - 好吧, 那
has he ever asked you to leave? 有人曾经请你离开的吗?
Has he ever walked out? Left? - No. 有人曾经直接走掉? 离开? - 没有
Because he doesn't care. 因为他们根本不在意
He's in a room with a naked girl. He's won the lottery. 他跟一个裸体女人处在同一个房间，表示他中彩票了
I'm so tired of saying no and then waking up in the morning 我已经厌倦拒绝然后每天早晨醒来
and recalling every single thing I ate the day before. 然后一直回想前一天我到底吃了什么
Counting every calorie so I know exactly 细数每一个卡路里然后才能确信
how much self-loathing to take into the shower. 有多少自我厌恶的成分跟我一起进浴室里
I'm going for it. 我完全不管了
I have no interest in being obese. I'm just through with the guilt. 我对过胖也没有什么兴趣，我只是受够了那些罪恶感
This is what I'm gonna do，I'm gonna finish this pizza 这是我现在要做的事，我要把这披萨吃完
and then we're gonna go watch the soccer game. 然后我们要去看足球比赛
And tomorrow we're gonna go on a little date 接着明天我们来个小约会
and buy ourselves some bigger jeans. 然后我们给自己买一件大尺寸的牛仔裤
Giovanni likes a muffin. 乔凡尼喜欢“游泳圈”
Attagirl. (美俚：好啊)
He's saying,“For whom are you playing?” 他是在说：“你到底是为谁在踢球?”
Per chi, for whom. Per chi, 为谁.
Pull, pull. I'm sucking it in. 用力拉 , 用力拉 . 我要奋力塞进去
Put some Swedish muscle into this. 放一些瑞典肌肉进去
You think this happened to Sophia Loren? 你想这种是会发生在索菲亚·罗兰身上吗?
There it goes. Almost got it. 好了. 几乎快完成了
Go, go, go. You're not trying. 快, 快, 快. 你根本没在试
I've almost got it，I've almost got it，I did it. 我快完成了，我快完成了，我办到了
Oh, that's beautiful，You should get it. 哦, 那件很美，你应该买下来
For whom? 为了谁?
For you, Liz. Just for you. 为了你自己莉兹. 只为你自己
No, I'm happy just with my big lady pants. 不, 我有自己的大尺寸淑女裤就很高兴了
Thanks for the day. And the leg room. 今天一整天谢了，还有车子里放脚的空间
It was fun. 今天很有趣
We're gonna go for food，Wanna come? 我们要去吃点东西，要一起来吗?
No. No, I'm good. 不. 不用了, 我可以
The sweetness of doing nothing. 享受不做任何事的优闲
Please，Please get off the floor. 拜托你，拜托你从地板上起来
Will you please just...? Will you come up here? 你能不能就...? 你能上来床上吗?
What if we just acknowledge that we have a screwed-up relationship 我们何不就承认我们之间有搞砸的感情关系
and we stick it out anyway? 但我们还是坚持着?
We accept that we fight a lot 我们接受常常吵架
and we hardly have sex anymore 然后也很少做爱
but that we don't wanna live without each other. 但我们却不想要没有彼此的过生活
And that way we can spend our lives together 然后我们就可以这样一起生活
miserable 很悲惨的
but happy not to be apart. 但却高兴没有分开
Dear David: 亲爱的大卫:
We haven't had any communication in a while 我们已经有好一阵子没有谈过话了
and it's given me time I needed to think. 这给了我所需要的充足的时间去想
Remember when you said we should live with each other and be unhappy 还记得你说过我们可以一起不开心的生活
so we could be happy? 就为了能开心吗?
Consider it a testimony to how much I love you 你要知道我有多爱你到依据
that I spent so long pouring myself into that offer 这样的方法尽量让自己投入到这样的关系中
trying to make it work. 试着让这样的关系成功
But a friend took me to the most amazing place the other day. 但我的一位朋友在一天带我去一个最令人惊叹的地方
It's called the Augusteum. 那地方叫做奥古斯都堡
Octavian Augustus built it to house his remains. 屋大维，凯萨，奥古斯都为了存放自己的遗体而建造的
When the barbarians came, they trashed it along with everything else. 当异族人入侵时, 把这堡和所有东西摧毁
The great Augustus，Rome's first true great emperor 伟大的奥古斯都，罗马帝一位真正伟大的帝王
how could he have imagined that Rome 他如何能想象的到罗马
the whole world, as far as he was concerned, would be in ruins? 对他来说就是全世界的地方, 会被毁坏?
During the Dark Ages, someone came in here and stole the emperor's ashes. 在欧洲黑暗时代期间, 有人来这里偷走了皇帝的骨灰
In the 12th century，it became a fortress 在12世纪的时候，这边变成一个要塞
then a bullring. 然后变成斗牛场
They stored fireworks in here after that. 然后在这边存烟火
Nowadays, it's a bathroom for the homeless 现今, 这里是游民的厕所
so you better watch your step going down. 所以你在下台阶的时候要小心
It's one of the quietest and loneliest places in Rome. 这是罗马里其中一个最安静最寂寞的地方
The city has grown up around it over centuries. 在几世纪里, 这城市在它的周边发展起来
It feels like a precious wound 它就好像是个珍贵的伤疤
like a heartbreak you won't let go of because it hurts too good. 像一个你舍不能放手的心碎因为那痛苦是多么的美好
I like it messy. 我喜欢屋子里很乱
We all want things to stay the same, David. 我们都希望事情可以一直不变, 大卫.
I guess the guy before me must've been some angel, huh? 我想在我之前的那男人一定是个天使了是吗?
Settle for living in misery 为了稳定而活在痛苦中
because we're afraid of change，of things crumbling to ruins. 就因为我们害怕改变，害怕事情会毁掉
Then I looked around in this place，at the chaos it's endured 然后我看着这地方，这地方负载的混乱
the way it's been adapted，burned, pillaged 它适应一切的方法，烧毁, 掠夺
then found a way to build itself back up again, and I was reassured. 然后找到方法让自己再建立起来，然后我就豁然开朗了
Maybe my life hasn't been so chaotic，It's just the world that is 说不定我的生活并不是非常的混乱，那就只是这世界的常态
and the only real trap is getting attached to any of it. 为一的陷阱就是让自己跟这样的任何一部份做连结
Ruin is a gift. 毁坏是一个礼物
Ruin is the road to transformation. 毁坏是迈向转变的路途
Hey. 嘿
You ready? 你准备好了吗?
Yeah. 恩
Even in this eternal city，the Augusteum showed me 甚至是在这永恒的城市里，奥古斯都堡都让我知道
that we must always be prepared for endless waves of transformation. 我们必须随时为了无止尽的转变过程做好准备
Both of us deserve better than staying together 我们两个都值得比待再一起更好的事
because we're afraid we'll be destroyed if we don't. 因为我们担心如果没在一起会毁了我们
My mother's stuffing，Stale bread, walnuts, got those. 我妈妈的填料食谱，硬面包, 胡桃, 还有这些
Will you get me some more potatoes? 你能帮我拿一些马铃薯来吗?
Oh, I'm always getting you more potatoes. 哦, 我好像老是在帮你拿马铃薯
It's my dream，a real American Thanksgiving. 这是我的梦想，过一个真正的美式感恩节
The perfect way to say goodbye to our Liz. 跟莉兹惜别的最好的完美句点
So 所以
you leave this week, huh? - Yes. 你这礼拜要离开吗? - 恩
And where are you going? Iran? 然后要去哪里? 伊朗?
India. 印度
Liz is making us an American meal tonight. 莉兹今晚替大家做美国餐点
You are not married, yeah? - No. 你没有结婚? - 没有
What's wrong with your friend，is she a lesbian? 你朋友有什么毛病，她是同性恋吗?
No, Mama, she's not a lesbian. And she understands Italian. 不, 妈, 她不是同性恋，而且她听得懂意大利文
How's she going to find another husband and start a family 那她要怎么再找一位丈夫然后组一个家庭
when she's on the other side of the world? 如果她跑去世界另一边的话?
If a man said, "I'm going to travel for a year and meet wonderful people... " 如果是男人说,“我要去旅行一年然后认识一些美好的人”
But she's not a man. 但她不是男人
It's more difficult for a woman to feel that she has the right to make choices. 身为女人能意识到自己也能有更多选择已经是不简单了
It takes a lot of courage. - Exactly. 那需要很大的勇气. - 的确是
You call it courage, I call it stupidity. 你说那是勇气, 我觉得是愚蠢
Mama, enough. 妈, 好了啦
I know a number of people who would agree with you. 我认识一些人会同意你的看法
Luca? 卢卡?
What time will the turkey be ready? 火鸡什么时后会准备好?
The turkey 火鸡
I haven't defrosted it yet. 我还没让它解冻
Oh, shit. 哦, 天阿
You only had one thing to do and you screwed it up. 只要求你办那一件事然后你还搞砸了
I was distracted! It can happen! 我被分散注意力了! 是人都会发生的!
Too much good food! 有太多美食了!
Too many women! 太多女人!
And I forgot! 所以我就忘了!
Now, before we eat, everyone 在我们开始吃之前, 所有的人
it is Thanksgiving，so let us give thanks. 因为是感恩节, 所以让我们去感谢
Yeah. Come on, join hands. - Okay. 对. 来吧, 把手牵起来 - 好吧
So we just say what we 所以我们就说我们自己
What we thank God for tonight，Sofi, why don't you start? 我们今晚要感谢上帝什么，索菲, 何不从你开始?
I am grateful for you, Liz 我很感谢你, 莉兹
for helping me appreciate life 让我去热爱生活
with all that comes with it 和任何随之而来的结果
muffin tops and bad times. 玛芬圈和糟糕的时刻
And for Giovanni 至于对乔维尼
for making me feel 谢谢你让我感到
loved and secure. 被爱还有安全感
And Giulio. 那朱利欧了
Me, I'm grateful for my beautiful family. 我的话, 我很感激我亲爱的家庭
My two little daughters and my wife. 我两个小女孩还有我妻子
I thank God and the Holy Virgin 我感谢上帝还有圣母
for this very, very special day 在这非常特别的日子里
And for this beautiful family 还有这美丽的家族
that today is so much bigger. 在今天更坚实强大
Very much bigger. 非常的大
I thank you all for this new custom of celebration. 我感谢这新庆祝的节日
And Liz's stuffing 感谢莉兹做的美餐
and God 还有上帝
for my sexiness. 让我很性感
And you, Ruffina? 那你呢, 露菲娜？
I thank God for 我感谢上帝
my sexiness. 也让我很性感
Go ahead. Giovanni 换你了. 乔凡尼
I thank God for 我感谢上帝
fear 让我感到恐惧
because for the first time 因为这是第一次
I'm afraid the person next to me 我担心在我身旁的这位
will be the one who wants to leave. 会是那位想要离开的人
Liz? 莉兹
Well, this all makes me so grateful. 我感激这里发生的所有的一切
Seeing all you happy people 看到你们这些幸福的人
who know how to love each other and take care of each other. 知道如何的去爱并且照顾对方
I look at the amazing women I've met who I admire so much 我看着我遇见的这些很棒的女人们
and the great men，taking care of their women. 和很棒的男人，是如何照顾他们的另一半
and putting their children to bed. 如何安置自己的小孩睡觉
I just feel happy 我单纯的感到幸福
to see it and to be part of it 看到这些并且有幸参与
I'm the luckiest girl in the world. 我是世界上最幸运的女孩了
It's a good breakfast, huh? 这的确是很棒的早餐是吧?
I will take this to your room. 我会把这拿去你房间
It has already started. 已经开始了
I fell asleep. - Yeah. Pity. 我睡着了 - 是阿. 真可惜
Probably the only person in the world who ever fell asleep during meditation. 你或许是这世界上第一位在冥想的时候睡着的人
This leads to the meditation garden. - Is the guru here? 这条会通向冥想花园 - 精神领袖在这边吗?
She's always here. - I know, but is she "here" here? 她一直都在 - 我知道, 但是她是否是 " 在这里 "?
She's at her ashram in New York. 她在她纽约的聚会所
But I came from New York to see her here. 但是我从纽约来这里见她
Sounds like one of her little tricks. 听起来像是她的一个小诡计
The meditation cave. 冥想房
It's open 24/7 and it's air-conditioned. 全天开放而且还有冷气
Corella? 科瑞拉
This is Liz Gilbert. - Hi. Nice to meet you. 这是莉兹·吉尔伯特. - 嗨. 很高兴见到你
Where did you get that button? They sell them in the bookstore. 你从哪买到那徽章的? - 书店里面都有卖
That is exactly what I need. I need something like that. I don't listen. 那正是我需要的东西，我就需要那种东西，因为我不懂得聆听
I never have. My mom used to call me Little Miss Chatty Cathy 从来都不懂，我妈妈以前总叫我，聒噪卡西小姐
because I just ramble，I am a rambler. 因为我总是一直在说话，我是个聒噪者
I am rambling now，I'm sorry. 我现在就一直再说话，很抱歉
Silence is a wonderful spiritual practice... 寂静是一种很好的心灵练习
but if Corella could speak, she'd tell you it's more challenging than it looks. 但如果科瑞拉可以说话，她就会跟你说实际上做起来困难多了
Wait till you've been here for a while. - Okay. 等你在这边多待久一点就知道了 - 好
Thank you, Corella，I'll be sure to tell her. 谢谢你,科瑞拉，我一定会告诉她
What did she say? - No idea. 她说什么? - 完全没概念
Change into your work clothes，I'll take you to your seva. 换上你的工作服，我带你去“歇瓦”
It's a Hindu word for “selfless devotional work.” 那是印度教的词，代表“自发性贡献”
It's required of everyone who stays. - Okay. Thank you. 每个住在这边的人都需要做 - 好. 谢谢
Is there anything in this world skinnier than an Indian teenage boy? 世界上还有比印度青少年还要瘦弱的东西吗?
I'm Tulsi. - Liz. 我是图奇 - 莉兹
Where are you from? 你从哪里来?
The next town. My parents have been devotees of the guru for many years. 隔壁城镇. 我父母已经有好几年追随着精神领袖
We spend a lot of time here. 我们在这里待很多的时间
But 但是
they are trying to marry me off，That's the custom. 他们在策画把我嫁出去，这是这里的习俗
That's not what you want? - No way. It sucks. 那不是你想要的吗? - 才不是. 这样烂透了
I want to study psychology, just as our guru did when she attended college. 我想要学心理学，就像我们的精神领袖上大学念的一样
I prefer to be with God than boys my age. 我宁愿追随上帝也不要跟和我同年龄的男生在一起
No one in my family understands my coming all the way to India. 我的家人没一个谅解我远从家里到印度来
Do you ever look at them and wonder, “What am I doing in this family?” 你曾经有过看着他们然后觉得,“我到底在这家庭里做什么?”
You have no idea. 你完全想象不到
The Guru Gita is an ancient text 182 verses long. 这古老的精神诗文内容包含了182篇诗文
In it, the goddess Parvati is asking Shiva, or God 内容中, 智慧女神问湿婆神, 或者是上帝
for the secrets of fulfillment. 成就的秘密是什么
It's said to have transforming qualities. 据说是转变特质
I would just like to take a risk here and say 我必须要斗胆的在这里说
Me and Guru Gita，we just do not get along. 我和我的精神领袖，我们就是没办法相处愉快
What is it you have trouble with? - Everything. 发生了什么问题? - 一切的事
It's long, it's tedious，I can't keep up 这时间很长, 又很冗长乏味，我跟不上进度
and I get these insane anxieties about everything in my life 然后我对我生命中的一切感到异常的焦虑
and I've lost my place 然后我就失去焦点了
Sounds like it has a positive effect 听起来像是一个正向的影响
if you're having such strong emotions and physical reactions. 如果你正经历如此强烈的情绪波动与反应的话
You keep trying. 持续下去
It is most commendable that you ended your marriage. 你结束你的婚姻让人很钦佩
You seem like such a happy, free person now. 你现在看起来就好像一个很快乐很自由的人
I think my ex-husband would describe me as selfish. 我想我前夫会形容我是一个自私的人
You mustn't be angry with yourself or disappointed. 你不应该对自己感到生气或失望
You don't have to make children or be married to have a family. 你不一定非歹要生小孩还是结婚才能建立一个家庭
Oh, man. They got mosquitoes here big enough 哦, 天啊！ 这里的蚊子都大的吓人
to stand flat-footed and screw a chicken. 到可以站着然后搞一只鸡了
I love you. - Liz，have you met 我爱你 - 莉兹，你见过
Richard from Texas? - Hello, Richard from Texas. 德州来的理查德了吗? - 哈啰, 德州来的理查德
Nice to meet you, Groceries. - Groceries? 很高兴见到你, 食品杂货小姐 - 食品杂货?
Yeah. Yeah, I heard you eating before I saw you. 对阿. 我再遇见你前就听得见你吃东西的声音
I never seen anybody eat so much at one time. 我从没见过一个人可以一次吃那么多东西
You sure do enjoy your groceries. 你的确是挺享受的你食物
You know, it's been a rough day， and if no one takes it personally 你知道吗, 今天一整天都很不顺，而且如果没人介意的话
I'm going to take my large meal someplace else to eat it in silence. 我要带着我的大餐到其他地方安静的好好吃
Oh, no, stay. I'm done. 哦, 不用, 留下来. 我已经吃完了
Looked like you were working through some 看起来你好像历经了很痛苦的过程
pretty rough stuff this morning. 在今天早上的时候
Stuff with your ex-husband? 关于你前夫的事?
I got an ex-wife. 我的前妻
She thinks I changed my name to“Motherfucker.” 她认为我的名子叫做“妈的混蛋”
I 我
I just spent some time in Rome and I came here feeling so great. 我才刚花了段时间待在罗马，然后怀着很棒的心情来到这里
And now here I am, at the source 现在我处在这里了,在这心灵的发源地
and I feel more disconnected than ever. 然后我觉得比以前更感到疏离
Why'd you come here? 你为什么要来这里?
I just want some peace. 我只想要找到平静
Peace? 平静?
You wanna get to the castle, Groceries 你想要到达城堡, 食品杂货小姐
you got to swim the moat. 你就要花力气游护城河
Here, you can finish that. I know you can. 这里, 你可以吃完它的，我知道你可以
Okay. 好
Simply empty your mind. 就把你的思想净空
Breathe. 呼吸
What am I going to do when this year is over? 今年如果结束了我该做什么?
Where am I going to live? 我要住在哪里?
Well, maybe Chicago. 恩, 说不定去芝加哥
Oh, my God！I could build a meditation room 哦, 天啊！我可以建一间冥想室
No. Stop thinking，Why is this so hard? 不行. 不要再想了，这为什么那么困难?
Screw you, Corella，How the hell does she do this? 去你的,科瑞拉，她到底是怎么办到的?
She looks like frigging Mother Teresa. 她看起来像他X的德雷莎修女
Oh, my God！kill me. 哦, 我的天啊！杀了我吧
Who's in the moat today? - Shut up. 今天谁游在护城河里? - 闭嘴
Sounds like you wrestled some big-ass crocs. 听起来你好像刚跟一只大鳄鱼摔角过
You know what? If you're so goddamn smart, what are you doing here? 你知道吗? 如果你真的那么他X的聪明，那你在这边做什么?
If you're here，it makes you smart already. 如果你都在这边了，那代表你已经够聪明了
Do you wanna talk about what? - No, not to youThank you. 你想要谈谈这? - 不, 不想跟你，我不想. 谢谢
I'm the only one here，You're gonna talk about it sooner or later. 我是这里唯一的一个，你迟早到晚总会说的
I cannot focus in there. 我在这边没办法专心一致
All I think about is my meditation room and how to decorate. 我每次想的都只是要怎么盖我的冥想室和怎么装潢
Are you shitting me? 你是在开玩笑吗?
Are you kidding me? 你在开我玩笑吗?
The meditation room is within，Groceries. Decorate that. 冥想的地方是在心灵里的, 食品杂货小姐装潢那个.
Do you always talk in bumper sticker? 难道你每次都学保险杠贴纸上面的语句说话吗?
I do, and here's another one. 没错, 而且我还要说
You have to learn to select your thoughts the way you select 你要试着去筛选你的思想就像你筛选
your clothes every day，That's a power you can cultivate. 每天要穿什么衣服一样，那是你可以培养的一种能力
You wanna come here and control your life so bad, work on the mind. 你来这里这么想掌控好你的生活那就从心灵做起
That's the only thing you should control. 那是你该着重的唯一一件事
If you can't master your thoughts，you're in trouble. 如果你无法掌控你自己的思想，那你就有很大的麻烦了
I am trying. 我正在试
Yeah, hello, that's the damn problem，Stop trying. Surrender. 你看，哈啰，那就是问题所在，不要一直强迫去试，试着投降
Go out into the garden and just sit there and still your mind 去花园里然后坐在里面坚定你的心灵
and you watch what happens. 然后你再感觉看有什么事发生
Why don't you just let it be? 你何不就放手让它去?
Has anyone ever told you you look like James Taylor? 曾经有人说过你长得很像詹姆斯泰勒(歌手)吗?
Every day. 每天都有
God, he really does. 天啊, 他真的很像
My prayers were always the same. 我的祈祷文都一样
“Please, God, please. Open my heart, send me a sign “拜托, 上帝，拜托打开我的心灵，给我一个征兆
because we both know I ain't the sharpest tool in the shed” 因为我们都知道我不是这屋子里最睿智的人”
Look at you，floating through Calcutta. 看看你，漂浮过加尔各答市
Looks like you had a great meditation. 看起来你好像有很棒的冥想体验
I probably have malaria now. 我说不定还染到疟疾
The bites will go away. 那些咬痕会消失的
Eventually everything goes away. 最终事情都会消失的
You ever done that, Groceries? Begged for a sign? 你试过吗, 食品杂货? 祈求一个征兆?
That sounds vaguely familiar. 听起来有点熟悉
Be careful what you wish for，You just might get it. 小心你自己祈求的事，你可能就会得到
What is your problem? 你到底有什么问题?
Did you fall in love with the wrong woman or something? 你是不是跟错的女人谈恋爱了还怎样?
Excuse me, Miss Gilbert. 不好意思, 吉尔伯特小姐
You have a phone call. 你有电话
How's the Guru Gita treating you? 精神领袖待你如何?
Fine. You'd like her. 很不错. 你会喜欢她的
Did you get my e-mail? 你有收到我的邮件吗?
Yeah. I'm sorry I didn't call sooner. 有. 我很抱歉没有早点打
Why didn't you? 为什么没有早点打来?
Because if I didn't respond 因为如果我不回应的话
we were still having a conversation，I was still in it. 我们还会处在谈话中，我还会存在
I'm sorry，We were just bad timing. 我很抱歉，我们只是在不好的时机遇见了
I just wanted things to be easy， We were good when things were easy. 我只想要事情简简单单的过，当事情单纯时，我们相处得很好
It's not that I need“easy”right now， I just can't have“so hard” 并不是现在我不需要“单纯”，我只是无法承受“那么困难”
Well, you sound good. 你听起来很好
Stronger. 更坚强了
So do you. 你也是
Yeah, well, I'm an actor, Liz. 是阿, 我毕竟是个演员, 莉兹
I got a part. 我得要一个角色
It's off-Broadway，but it's pretty cool. 虽然不是百老汇，但是也挺棒的
I'm happy for you. 我替你感到高兴
All right. 好
Well, I'll see you around, kid. 那就, 有机会再见了, 小家伙
Check you out. 看看你
I have never seen you so focused. 我从来没看过你这么专心
You need a Thums Up. 你需要来瓶“大姆指”
No, no. No lips on the bottle. 不, 不行. 嘴唇不能碰到瓶子
First rule in India is never touch anything but yourself. 在印度首要注意的是不要直接碰触自己以外的任何东西
Oh，good God. That's, like，five times sweeter than Coke. 哦，天啊！这好像，比可乐还要甜上5倍
I think it might have methamphetamines in it. 我想里面应该含有脱氧麻黄碱
We can only hope. 就祈祷里面没有
I know you feel awful. 我知道你感到很糟糕
But your life's changing. 但是你的人生正在转变
That's not a bad thing. 那或许不是一件坏事
And you're in the perfect place for it，Surrounded by grace. 然后你处在最适合的地方渡过，被慈悲环绕着
I thought I was over him, but 我以为我已经忘记他了, 但是
I love him. 我爱他
Big deal. 又怎样
So you fell in love with someone. - I really miss him. 不就是你爱上一个人 - 我真的很想他
So miss him. 那就想他
Send him some light and love every time you think of him, then drop it. 每当你想到他的时候就捎给他一些爱与光芒，然后把他放下
You know, if you could clear out all that space in your mind 你知道吗, 如果你可以把那块思想从你的脑中净空
that you're using to obsess over this guy 那块你痴迷那男人的心灵
and your failed marriage，you'd have a vacuum with a doorway. 和你那失败的婚姻，你就会开启一条途径
And you know what the universe would do with that doorway? 而且你知道这世界会怎么利用那途径吗?
Rush in. God would rush in. 冲进去. 上帝会冲进去与你同在
Fill you with more love than you ever dreamed of. Man. 让你充满更多你从来想象不到的丰沛的爱
Groceries. 食品杂货小姐
I think you have the capacity someday to love the whole world. 我想你有可以爱整个世界的潜力
What do they sell over there? 那边在卖什么?
Ganesh. Remover of obstacles. 象鼻神. 障碍的清除者
I'm gonna need a lot of these. 我需要很多这个
Speaking of elephants, there's a rogue elephant on the loose in the area. 说到大象, 有一只调皮的大象在这地区徘徊流浪
He was with carnival. 它原本是跟嘉年华会一起的
They say he is very，very unpredictable and volatile. 他们说它非常的，非常的无法预测和反复无常.
That just makes him more attractive to her. 那只会让它听起来对她更有吸引力
How'd you get to be so smart? I'll bet it was the hard way. 你怎么会变得那么聪明? 我打赌过程一定很困难
Don't change the subject 不要改变话题
Well, when is this grieving phase going to pass? 那这悲伤的阶段什么时后才会结束?
You want a day on a calendar you can circle? 你想要我帮你在日历上帮你把某一天圈起来?
Can you give me one? - No. You got to do the work. 你可以帮我吗? - 不行. 你要自己去努力
Meditate and go to seva 去冥想，去做服务
and most important, get your butt down to the Geet every morning 然后最重要的, 每天早上来聚会
and something'll change 然后事情就会改变
I just cannot get through the Guru Gita. I can't find that feeling of devotion 我就是没办法领会那精神领袖，我没有那种奉献的感觉
Okay. Devotion's love. Pick somebody or something you wanna devote it to. 好. 奉献就是爱，选一个你想要奉献的人或事情
It doesn't have to be the guru，It's all the same to her. 对像不一定要是领袖，对她来说都一样
This is about you. 这是关于你自己
Can I tell you something, Groceries? You got some serious control issues. 让我告诉你一件事, 食品杂货小姐，你有一些严重的控制问题
Is it obvious? 那么明显吗?
All right, Richard，get out from inside my head now. 好了，理查德，从我的脑中离开.
Shut the door. 把门关上了
That's him? - That's him. 那是他吗? - 是他
He's hideous. - No，he's not. He's cute. 他很丑陋 - 不，他不会. 他很可爱
He's a Sagittarius. 他是射手座的
He studies computer programming in Delhi. 他在印度新德里攻计算机程序
He has very good grades. 成绩很好
And his family is very, very wealthy. 而且他的家庭非常非常富有
He will be very conceited and dictatorial. 他会变得非常骄傲自满与自负
My life is over at 17. 我的生命在17岁时就结束了
Tulsi 图斯
Ladies and gentlemen，welcome to the dance floor 先生和女士们，让我们欢迎要进入舞池
for their very first couples dance，Liz and Stephen. 莉兹和史蒂芬，他们成为夫妻的第一支舞
My people. 大家
Are you ready? - I'm ready. 你准备好了吗? - 我准备好了
You look beautiful - Thank you. 你看起来美极了 - 谢谢
I married a hottie. 我跟一位辣妹结婚了
What is that? That's not our song. - No, it is not. 这是什么? 这不是我们的歌 - 不, 这的确不是
Baby, that's not our song. 宝贝, 这不是我们的歌
Definitely not. - Everybody's looking at us. 绝对不是 - 每个人都在看我们
It's okay. I'm gonna go talk to the guy：It's gonna be fine. 没关系. 我去跟那个人说：一切都会好的
I told you I'd get it. - This is taking care of it? 我告诉你我会解决的 - 这样是解决阿?
I owe you a wedding gift，I didn't know what was appropriate. 我还欠你个结婚礼物，我不晓得送什么才适当
I wanted to tell you I've been 我想让你知道我一直都
dedicating my Guru Gita to you 把我的精神祈祷奉献给你
Imagining you happy is what got me through it 想象你会过的快乐让我渡过那段时间
What did it look like 那画面看起来是怎样的
when I was happy? 当我很快乐的时候?
I imagine you and Rijul 我想象你和里奇
smiling and looking at each other 微笑着看着对方
with love and kindness 眼中有着爱与祥和
It seemed very real 那画面看起来很真实
Thank you so much, Liz. 真的很谢谢你, 莉兹
That helps me to believe it as well. 这样也让我相信那是真的
Thinking about your own wedding? 在想着自己的婚礼?
Yeah, me too. 恩, 我也是
The funny thing about weddings you end up thinking about yourself. 婚礼有趣的是你最终都会想到自己的
Did you throw yourself a big shindig? Big, white, floppy dress? 你有没有为自己办一场盛大的婚礼? 白色, 又大又蓬松的婚纱?
Yep. I arranged it all，Nobody forced me into anything. 是啊！我筹划所有的事，没人强迫我做任何事情
Yeah. And now you can't forgive yourself. 恩. 所以你现在无法原谅自己
Honestly, I'm waiting for him to forgive me. 老实说, 我是在等他原谅我
To release me. 释放我
Waiting for him to forgive you is a damn waste of time, Groceries. 等他原谅你是他妈的浪费时间, 食品杂货
Forgive yourself. 原谅你自己
It's not that easy. 并不是很简单
Yeah. 对
Good night, Richard. 晚安, 理查德
Follow me. - I'm tired. 跟我来 - 我累了
Get your butt up here 把你的屁股移过来
It's not a pretty story 并不是一个美丽的故事
but it's pretty classic 但却很经典
Too much alcohol，too many drugs，too much mindless cheating. 太多的酒精，太多的药物，太多的精神出轨
Just regret. 只有悔恨
Ocean of regret. 海洋般宽广的悔恨
I lost everything. 我失去了一切
My pride, my job. 我的自尊, 我的工作
My family. 我的家庭
I lost my family. 我失去了我的家庭
One day after work, I stopped off，at a bar and I got shitfaced. 有一天下班回家，我到酒吧去然后喝个烂醉
I was a lot like you, you know. 我就像你一样, 你知道吗
I was just- I don't know，I thought too much, I felt too 我就只是-- 我也不晓得，我思考太多, 我觉得太过于
I wanted to feel nothing. 我想要不去感觉任何事情
I should've called a cab, but I didn't. 我应该要叫出租车的, 但我没有
I just got in my car and I drove home. 我就开着我的车然后回家
My little boy 我的小男孩
He was 8 years old at the time，He was pl 他当时候八岁，他正在
He was sitting in the driveway with his little Hot Wheels, waiting for his lost 他当时正骑着他的小车子在车道上，等他的迷失的
drunk, miserable dad 喝醉酒又被惨的老爸
to come home and play with him. 回家陪他玩
I didn't see him 我没有看到他在那边
I didn't. I just roared into that driveway and I didn't see my little boy. 我没看到，我没看到我的小男孩然后，只是冲进车道里
But he- No, he 但是他-- 不过他
He got out of the way. 他闪开了
He was used to getting out of the way，when I was around. 我再的时候, 他歹常常习惯这样闪避
And I- You know, I don't 然后我-- 我不
I don't know，I don't remember a thing. 我不晓得，我完全不记得任何事
Next day, I woke up and they were gone. 隔天，我醒来后他们已经离开了
My wife had been watching what happened out the window. 我妻子从窗户内看到所有事情发生的经过
She just wasn't gonna 她已经不打算
She just wasn't gonna do it anymore. 她再也不打算继续撑下去了
So 所以
He's 18 now 他现在18岁了
He's in school and，oh, God！he's so smart. 他正在上学而且，哦, 天啊！他很聪明
God, he's so funny and he's 天啊！他很风趣又
He's so sweet. 他是那么的体贴
I missed it all 我都错过了
I missed 我错失
my son's growing up. Just missed it. 我儿子的成长过程. 就这样错过了
Okay? 好?
Come here 过来
Here's the deal. 这样约定好了
You're gonna stay here till you forgive yourself. 你要在这边待到你原谅自己为止
You hear me? 你有听到吗?
Everything else will take care of itself. 其他的一切事情会自己去发展
Is this where you forgave yourself? 这里是让你原谅自己的地方吗?
I'm trying, Elizabeth. 我还在试, 伊莉莎白
I am trying. 我正在试
Hey. 嘿
I believe this is the song they were supposed to play at our wedding. 我想这应该是那首要在我们婚礼上放的歌
I did love you, Stephen. 我爱过你, 史蒂芬
I know. 我知道
But I still love you. 但我还爱着你
So love me. 那就爱着我
But I miss you. 但是我想你
So miss me. 那就想着我
Send me love and light every time you think of me 每次想到我的时候都给我捎来爱与光芒
then drop it. 然后让它放下
It won't last forever. 不会永远持续这样的
Nothing does. 没有任何事会
Bye-bye. - Goodbye, Mr. Richard. 再见 - 再见, 理查德先生
I'll see you. 有机会再见
Now that you're going，who is gonna kick my ass every day? 现在你要走了，谁会每天来斥责我?
Oh, I'd stay till a monsoon swept me away if I could. Bye-bye. 哦, 如果可以的话我一定会待到有季风把我扫走为止. 再见了
But you've got bills to pay and houses to build. 但是你有账单要缴, 有房子要盖
You just keep doing the work and move on with your life, will you? 你就持续下去，然后继续你的生活, 好吗?
The man is getting on a plane and you're still bossing me. 这男人都已经要上飞机了结果现在还在念我
I've got your whole list: move on，use mosquito repellent and 我已经有你所有该做的单子列表: 持续前进，使用防蚊液还有
I don't know. There were some other things. I wrote them down. 我不晓得. 还有其他的一些事，我有把它们写下来
Go back to Texas, Richard. 回去德州, 理查德
Well, I ain't getting any prettier standing here. 我继续站在这边也不会变的更美
So I'm off. 所以我走了
Hey, Groceries. 嘿, 食品杂货
Believe in love again. 要再次相信爱情
Liz. Liz, I've just taken my badge off today. 莉兹,莉兹， 我今天刚刚把我的徽章拿下来
I've done so well，Four weeks of silence，It was so dull. 我做的超好，寂静的四个礼拜，非常的沉闷
But it's like a facelift because your face 但是那感觉就好像脸部拉皮因为你的脸
you know, just relaxes and your throat just drops down. It's a bargain. 就整个放松下来然后你的喉咙也放松，这体验实在很值得
We've got so much to catch up on. 我们有好多事情要谈
Oh, golly. Good for you，You will get so much out of that. 哦, 好，对你很棒，你会从中得到好多
And your throat will look amazing as well. 然后你的喉咙也会变得令人惊叹
Excuse me, Elizabeth. 不好意思, 伊莉莎白
They're asking you to report to the seva office after dinner 他们请你晚餐后去一趟办公室
if you don't mind. 如果你不介意的话
We're taking you off the floor-scrubbing team. 我们要把你从刷地小组中调开
There are about 50 devotees arriving tomorrow from all over the world 明天会有50位从世界各地来的自愿者抵达
for a 10-day retreat and we'd，like you to be the key hostess 为了10天的静修课程, 而我们想让你当主办者
We ask that you don't take part during the meditations. 我们需要你不要参与冥想
We need you to watch over the flock， make sure everyone is all right 我们需要你看顾着群体然后确保大家情况都好
We call the person who does this job Little Suzy Cream Cheese. 我们管这职位的人叫小小奶酪奶油小姐
You need to be social and bubbly and smiling all the time. 你要善于交际，充满活力然后要一直微笑着
Madam 女士
I'm your girl. 我就是你要找的人
So just find your suitcase，it should be here somewhere 找到你的行李，应该在这里某个地方
and then head down the path to your room. 然后走这条走道到你的房间
So the holy truth of the whole adventure here in India is in one line: 所有神圣的事时发生在这印度可以总归结成一句话:
God dwells within you as you. 上帝存在于你自己
God's not interested in watching a performance 上帝对看表演没有兴趣
of how a spiritual person looks and behaves. 像是一个心灵使者长相如何或他的行为怎样
The quiet girl who glides silently through the place 那位安静并优雅的穿越这地方的女孩
with a gentle, ethereal smile，who is that person? 脸上带着温和与持久的笑容，谁会是那个人?
That's Ingrid Bergman in The Bells of St. Mary's, not me. 那是英格丽包曼，在圣玛丽亚的钟声电影里，不是我
God dwells within me as me. 上帝存在于我自己
Child tormented by demon. 这孩童被恶魔缠身
It looks like teething. 那看起来好像是长乳牙
Same thing. 都一样的事
Your turn. 换你了
Hello, Ketut. 哈啰, 科图特
I'm very happy to meet you. 我很高兴见到你
You are a world traveler. 你是个世界旅游家
No, I came to see you about a year ago. 不是, 我在一年前有来见过你
You girl from California? - No, I girl from New York. 你是从加州来的女孩? - 不是, 我是从纽约来的女孩
Don't remember. 不记得了
Well, you told me I should come back here to Bali. 可是, 你告诉我应该要回到巴里岛来
You said I could help you with your English 你说我可以帮你的英文
and you would teach me the things that you know. 然后你就会教我你知道的事情
You gave me this. 你给我这个
Okay. 好
You. You. I remember you. 是你. 是你. 我记得你了
Oh, good. - You sad girl from New York. 哦, 很好 - 你, 来自纽约的伤心女孩
Yes. - You Liss. You came back. 没错 - 你是莉斯. 你回来了
I came back. - You, you, you. 我回来了 - 是你, 是你, 是你
Me, me, me. 是我, 是我, 是我
So long ago we meet. 自从我们见过后已经很久了
Last time, you have too much worry，too much sorrow. 上一次，你有太多忧愁，太多伤感.
Last time，you look like sad old woman. 上一次，你看起来像个伤心的老女人
Now you pretty. 现在你很漂亮
Why so different? - Well 为什么改变了? - 恩
a lot of things, really. 发生了很多事
But I was in Rome for four months，just feeding myself 我再罗马待了四个月，不断的喂食自己
and then I went to live at an ashram in India. 然后我去印度的一个聚会所(印度教)住
Now, we put together. 现在我们结合那一切
Exactly. That's why I'm here. 没错. 这就是为什么我要回来
Ketut good for that. - What'd you give him? 科图特对这很在行 - 你给了他什么?
Do you still want me to help you with your English? 你还要我帮忙你的英文吗?
English later, Liss. 英文等等, 莉斯
First, better idea. 首先, 我有更好的主意
How old are these? 这有几年历史了?
From grandfather Very important spells. 从祖父传下来的非常重要的咒语
Also mantras, cures. 还有祈祷文和疗法
Thousand years' worth. 至少有千年智慧
All I have, all I know, right here. 所有我拥有的, 知道的一切都在这里
You copy for me? 你可以帮复制吗?
Absolutely. I can go to town and take these 当然. 我可以去镇中心然后把这些带过去
No. You don't take. 不行. 你不能拿走
You copy here, better, Liss. 你在这边抄写, 会比较好, 莉斯
I take a nap now. I very old. 我要去午休了. 我已经很老了
How old are you, Ketut? 你多老了, 科图特?
One hundred and one 一百零一
or maybe 64. 还是64
Don't remember. 忘记了
This is gonna take me the rest of my life. 这会花上我往后的一生的时间
He make you pretty, find you husband，you work hard for him. 他让你变美，帮你找到丈夫，你要替他努力工作.
That's exactly opposite of why I'm here. 那跟我来这边的目的完全相反
Everybody need husband. 每个人都需要丈夫的
Would you mind getting me water? 你介意帮我倒杯水吗?
No. 不行
Fine. Keep making copies. I get water. 好啦. 继续抄写，我去拿水来
So, Liz, the Balinese believe that Bali's the center of the universe. 莉兹, 巴里岛人相信巴里岛是世界的中心.
And here we are in the center of Bali. 而我们正处于巴里岛的中心
You got the one bedroom，got your fish pond. 你有一间寝室，你自己的鱼池
You got your own meditation temple 你还有自己的冥想殿
I tell you, since the bombing，tourism's been way down 我可以跟你说，自从炸弹攻击后，旅游页就非常萧条
so I can give you this place at a very, very good price right now. 所以我现在可以用非常优惠的价格把这边租给你
Paradise. 天堂乐园
I'll take it. - People in Bali understand 我租了 - 巴里岛的人了解
in order to stay happy，must always know where you are 为了维持快乐，一定要了解自己身处在什么地方
every moment. 在任何的时刻里
Right here is perfect balance. Right at meeting of heaven and earth. 在这边是完美的平衡点，正好处在通往天堂与人间的中点
Not too much God，not too much selfish. 没有太多的上帝，没有太多的自私
Otherwise, life too crazy. 否则, 偏执任何一方的生活都太疯狂了
You lose balance, you lose power. 你失去了平衡就会失去力量
In morning，you do meditation from India. 早上的时候，你做从印度那边的冥想
Serious. Very serious. 认真的. 很认真的去做
In day, you enjoy Bali. 在白天, 尽情享受巴里岛
Then in afternoon, come see me. 然后下午时刻, 过来见我
End of day, you do new meditation. 一天结束之前, 你做新的冥想
Very simple. 很简单
Sit in silence and smile. 安静的坐着然后微笑
I feel balanced already. 我已经感到平衡了
Not so easy, Liss. 没那么简单, 莉斯
Smile with face. Smile with mind. 用脸去微笑. 用心灵微笑
Even smile in liver. 甚至连肝脏都要微笑
See you later, alligator. 再见了姑娘
Oh, God！ 哦, 天啊！
Are you all right? - Are you blind? 你还好吗t? - 你瞎了吗?
Please, let me take you to a doctor. - I'm fine. I just 拜托, 让我带你去看医生. - 我很好. 只是
It looks bad. 看起来很糟糕
Very bad, Liss. 非常糟糕, 莉兹
What happen? - This idiot ran me off the road. 发生什么事了? - 有一个笨蛋在路上撞到我
A man? He rich? 一个男人? 他有钱吗?
This very hot. 这很严重
You need healer. - I have you. You're a medicine man. 你需要治疗师 - 但我有你. 你是一位巫医
No. You need Wayan. - Yeah. 不. 你需要韦恩 - 没错
Jamu. Drink this，Better than antibiotic. 佳木. 把这喝下去，比抗生素还有效
She make you drink this? 她有叫你喝这个吗?
My name's Liz. What's yours? - Tutti. 我叫做莉兹. 你呢? - 图蒂
Nice to meet you, Tutti. 很高兴见到你, 图蒂
Are you married? - No. 你结婚了吗? - 没有
You sure? Not even once? 你确定? 完全没结过?
Okay, well，there was this one time 好吧，有这么一次
but I find when I tell people in Bali that I'm divorced, it upsets them. 但是我发现如果我在巴里岛跟人家说我离婚，好像会让人失望
Me too, divorce. 我也是离婚了.
Divorce make you sad and make you an outcast. 离婚让你伤心而且还让你被驱逐
You have no sex for a long time, baby. 亲爱的, 你已经很久没做爱了
I can tell by your knee. 我可以从你的膝盖看出来
The cartilage very dry，Hormones from sex lubricate joint. 软骨的部分很干硬，从做爱引发的贺尔蒙可以滋润关节
Okay. - I pray for you. 好 - 我为你祈祷
We sisters. 我们是姐妹！
Armenia! 亚美尼亚
Armenia from Brazil. 从巴西来的亚美尼亚
Armenia, this is Liz from New York. 亚美尼亚, 这是从纽约来的莉兹
Hi. - Lovely to meet you, Liz. 嗨 - 很高兴见到你, 莉兹
Time for a banana root hair treatment? 是时候来个香蕉根头发护理了吧?
Yes, of course. - It makes the hair long and lustrous. 当然 - 那会让你的头发又长又有光泽
Like Cher circa 1975. 就像1975年的雪儿一样
Do you have a nice dress? 你有漂亮的洋装吗?
One. 有一件
Put it on tonight，come to the Beach Shack. 那就今晚穿上，来海滩
I'll introduce you to everyone，The expats, the locals. 我会把你介绍给所有的人，所有的外国人和当地人
You'll dance. You will love it. 你会跳舞. 你会喜欢的
Oh, no, I don't think I can dance with my leg like this. 哦, 不行, 我想我的腿这样应该没办法跳舞
Of course you can. Leg no problem. 你当然可以. 脚没有问题
You see. 你看吧
Now you have to come. 现在你一定该来了
Hi. Could I get a tequila on the rocks with a lot of lime, please? 嗨. 可以给我来一杯加冰块的龙舌兰酒吗?
Coming right up. 马上来
Can I buy you a drink? 我可以请你喝一杯吗?
No, thank you, I'm fine. 不用了, 谢谢, 我这样可以
I- I almost killed you. 我-- 我差点杀了你
I am sorry for that, really. 我真的感到很抱歉
Hello. - Hi. 哈啰. - 嗨
I'm sorry, really. 我真的很抱歉
Yeah. 好
I'm sorry I'm laughing，but it's amazing. 我很抱歉我笑了，但是事情很奇妙
I was actually listening to this song in the car when the tape jumped. 我刚好就是在车上听这首歌然后卡带卡住了
And I leaned over to fix it and I ran you off the road. 然后我往前去修理后，把你撞离道路
Did you tell them to play it? No, no, no. I make them mixtapes. 是你叫他们播的吗? - 不, 不, 不是. 我帮他们制作音乐合辑
Mostly Brazilian music. 几乎都是巴西歌曲
But I'm also very much into Phil Collins and Air Supply. 但我也很喜欢菲尔·柯林斯和空中补给合唱团
You really shouldn't say things like that out loud. 你真的不应该这么大声的把这些事说出来
Liz! 莉兹
Hi. - Oh, I see you've already met Felipe. 嗨 - 哦, 看来你已经认识费利佩了
Oh, of course. Two sad divorces，You have so much in common. 哦, 当然. 两个同样伤心的离婚人士，你们之间有好多共通点
I have the perfect man for you. 我有一位很适合你的对象
Just a little love affair，Everyone has a little love affair in Bali. 只是一场小小的风流韵事，每个人在巴里岛都会有段小小的风流韵事
Isn't he charming? Ian. 他很迷人吧？伊恩
Doesn't he look like Sting? 他看起来不就像史汀？
Oh, yeah，I made a very good mixtape of Sting. 我录了很棒的史汀组曲
You should dance with him. 你应该要去跟他跳舞
Got you. Come on, I got you.
That's gonna hurt tomorrow. 那明天一定会很痛
All right. You know what? 好吧. 你知道吗?
That is it. We are going swimming. No, I don't even have my- I 就这样. 我们要去游泳 - 不, 我什至没有穿我的
You don't have your- You don't 你没有穿你的-- 你没有
You're so naked. 你完全裸体了
Yeah, I'm naked. 对阿, 我全裸了
Armenia says everyone should have a love affair. 亚美尼亚说每个人都该有艳遇
This is Bali. Everyone should have a love affair in Bali. 这里是巴里岛. 巴厘岛的每个人都该有艳遇
Yeah, but 我知道, 但是
Oh, God！No, no, no. 天啊，不…
Love affairs are awesome, dude. - They are. I just 艳遇超棒的 - 是啊
I dated you 15 years ago. 我15年前就跟小伙子拍拖过
And I dated you six months ago. 还有我6个月前也跟小伙子拍拖过
So I'm gonna go. 所以…我要闪人了
You're not- You're really--You're going. 你不行…你要走了
But you're cute. 但是你很可爱
I think I look good. 我想我看起来很棒
Wait a minute. 等等
Oh, sorry. Here. 哦, 抱歉. 给你
Thank you. - Do you need a ride? 谢谢 - 你需要人送你吗?
That way I won't run you over again. 这样一来我就不会再撞到你了
Hello. 哈啰
What time is it? - Five a. m. 现在几点了? - 早上5点
Oh, you party hard. 哦, 你真的是狂欢放纵太多
You really do. 你真的是如此
Thank you for 谢谢你
The ride? - Yeah. 送你一程? - 对
You're very welcome，Need help with the bicycle? 不客气，需要有人帮你弄脚踏车吗?
You keep it. 你留着就好了
Keep it? But it has a basket. 留着? 但是它有篮子
It also has a bell. 它也有一个铃铛
Good afternoon. How are you? 午安. 你好吗?
What are you doing here? 你在这边做什么?
Well, I've brought you，Wayan's famous hangover cure 我们，我帮你把韦恩有名的解酒良方带来
because you drank a little bit too much last night. 因为你昨晚喝的有点太多了
And here it is Very delicious, as you can see 在这里非常美味, 用看的就知道了
and very tasty. 而且还很顺口
Do you make it a habit of walking into people's houses? 你习惯这样随便走进人家家里吗?
Do you make it a habit of sleeping with your front door open? 那你习惯睡觉的时候大门是开着的吗?
It's a call. Moment. 我有电话. 稍等
Hello, darling. How are you? Can't get the coffee machine to work. 哈啰, 亲爱的. 你好吗? - 没办法让咖啡机好好运作
Okay. I've told you 50 times. It's very easy. 我教过你50次了，很简单
You change the filter，you add the coffee 你把滤纸换掉，把咖啡加进去
you add water and that's it，How did you get into college? 然后加水就可以了，你是怎么上大学的?
How do I make it like you? Listen, I've been making coffee 我要怎么弄得好像你一样 - 听着, 我已经弄咖啡
darling, for 40 years, so you have to be patient with yourself. All right? 亲爱的, 用了40年了，所以你对自己要有点耐性, 好吗?
Okay. So, what's up with you? 好的. 所以你正在做什么?
Nothing. I just can't talk right now. Holy shit. You're with a girl. 没什么. 我现在没办法说话 - 我的老天. 你跟一个女孩在一起
I have to go. - Who is she? Is she hot? 我要挂了 - 她是谁? 她很辣吗?
Jesus, she's hot. - Dad, if you hang up 老天, 她很漂亮 - 老爸, 如果你挂掉我电话
I'll call back and embarrass you. 我会再打回去然后让你尴尬
Dad, don't 老爸, 不准
That's a lot of “darlings,” darling. 还真是多“亲爱的”, 亲爱的
Yeah. That darling was my son. 是啊！那位亲爱的是我儿子
I've called all my children “darling”since they were little. 我叫我所有的小孩“亲爱的”，从他们都还小的时候就开始了
Then there was a moment that between the pets and the children 然后再某段时间里卡在宠物跟小孩间
I was confused，so I called everybody “darling” 我就搞混了，所以我就叫所有的人“亲爱的”
Okay, you need to rest. 好吧, 你需要休息
Here is my number and my address. 这是我的号码和地址
I'm gonna leave it here on the table, in case you need a tour guide. 我把它放在桌子上，以防你需要一位导游
A tour guide. 导游
And please, drink that up, because it's gonna help you a big deal. 还有拜托, 把那个喝光, 那会帮你很多
Because you really look 因为你看起来
Ravishing? - Astonishing. 迷人? - 惊人
Go away. Please. - Okay. Drink it up. 拜托走开 - 把那喝光
It's gonna be helpful. 那会真的有帮助
Hey, Mr. Tour Guide. 嘿, 导游先生
Can we start with a coffee? 我们可以从喝咖啡开始吗?
Okay. 好吧
What are these? 这些是什么?
These are rambutan. They're delicious. 这些是红毛丹，它们很美味
It's like an orange made love to a plum. Would you like some? 它吃起来就好像橘子跟李子做爱的结合，你要来一些吗?
When you put it that way，yes, thank you. 既然你都这样描述了，当然要, 谢谢
Excuse me. 不好意思
What is that? 这是什么?
No, no, no. 不要, 不要, 不要
They taste like dirty feet. 他们吃起来像臭脚ㄚ
Really? - Dirty feet. 真的吗? - 臭脚ㄚ
They taste like feet. 它们吃起来像脚
Look out. Nice！How many places have you visited? 小心. 很好！你拜访过几个国家了?
I have 46 stamps on my passport. 我护照上有46个章
I happen to have 49 stamps on my passport. 我护照上恰巧有49个章
Forty-nine? I knew it. - Yes. 49? 我就知道 - 对
Knew what? - I knew it. 知道什么? - 我就知道
We are both antevasins, my dear. 我们都是“安特瓦信”，小妞
What is that? 那是什么?
Antevasin is “安特瓦信”是
It's an in-between. 意思是在之间
It is the one who lives by the border 是生活在边缘的人
because they renounce to the comfort of family life 因为他们从舒适的家庭生活中退出
in order to seek“enlightment.” 为了要寻找“启蒙”
I like your word. 我喜欢你用的词
And I like the way you say“enlightment” 而且我喜欢你说“启蒙”的方式
“Enlightment.”I try. “启蒙”我尽力了
You're missing a syllable，but I like it. 你少发了一个音节，但我喜欢
It's beautiful, no? 很漂亮吧?
It's Pura Melanting，which means“Temple of Prosperity.” 这是市场庙，意思是说“繁荣之庙”
Beautiful. - Yup. 很美. - 是啊！
So next attraction of the tour? - Yes. 要到下一个旅游景点了吗? - 好
Food from Bali. - Oh, good. I'm starving. 巴里岛的食物 - 哦, 很棒. 我好饿
Where should we go? - To the best restaurant in town. 我们要去哪里? - 去镇上最棒的餐厅
Of course. - My place. 当然 - 我家
Subtle. 狡猾
Did you always live in Brazil before you came to Bali? 你在来巴里岛前都一直住在巴西吗?
No, no. Only for 20 years. 不, 不. 只待了20年
Then I met my wife and I moved with her to Australia. 然后我遇见我的妻子，就跟她一起搬到澳洲
She traveled a lot because of the job. 她因为工作需要常常旅行
And I stayed home with the children. A good feminist husband. 然后我在家陪小孩 一个很棒的家庭主夫
Yeah. Yeah. Didn't turn out to be what she wanted, I'm afraid. 是啊！是啊！我想恐怕这不是她想要的
What happened? - What happened? 发生什么事了? - 发生什么事?
Well, the children were grown. 小孩都长大了
And I run an import-export jewelry business, so I could live anywhere 因为我做珠宝进出口贸易, 所以我可以住在任何地方
And Bali seemed like the perfect place to recover from a divorce. 而巴里岛看来似个适合离婚后疗伤的地方
And here I am. Here I am. 然后我就在这里了
And you? - Well, far less tragic. 你呢? - 倒是没像你这么悲情
We were immature and really too young to get married. We grew apart. 我们结婚的时候还不成熟，又太年轻，渐渐的貌合神离
Hearts were broken. 心碎了
Yes. 恩
Then it's the same. 那还是一样悲伤
This is just perfect. 这太棒了
So are you. 你本身也是
You know what you are? You're a falsa magra. 知道你算哪种身材？写段瘦
You know what that is? - What? 知道什么意思吗？ - 什么？
You are slender and elegant in a distance 远处看来你纤细又优雅
but up close，you are round and fleshy. 但近看，你是浑圆又丰腴的
Thank God for Brazilians. 感谢巴西人
Stop that! 别这样!
You are a world traveler. 你是一个世界旅游家
He says that to everyone. 他对每个人都那样说
Already make your money. 已经有累积自己的财富
You don't have young-man ambition. 你已经没有年轻人的冲劲
He's good. - You have three children. 他很厉害 - 你有三个小孩
Two. That's a callous. 两个, 那块是个老茧
And you have divorce. 你离过婚
Very difficult. 过程很艰苦
You loved her very much. 你非常爱她
You haven't healed that wound. 那伤痛的伤口还没愈合
Now you are scared to open your heart. 现在你害怕敞开你的心房
You are afraid hurt will happen to you again. 你担心你会再次受到伤害
Only way to heal 唯一能痊愈的方法
is to trust. 就是去相信
This okay. To have broken heart mean you have tried for something. 没关系的. 有破碎的心，代表你曾经去尝试过
Is it going to be broken again? 还会再心碎一次吗?
He a good man, Liz，You need a good man. 他是个好男人, 莉兹，而你需要一个好男人
Thank you. 谢谢
True. Ketut knows. 是真的，科图特都知道
I am so sick of people telling me，I need a man. 我已经厌倦别人一直告诉我，要找一个男人
You don't need a man, Liz，You need a champion. 你不需要一个男人莉兹，你需要的是一位冠军
Some spring break, huh? Come on. You're moving like turtles. 多好的春天假期是吧? - 快点. 你们前进的像乌龟一样
His enthusiasm is exhausting. 他的热情真让人吃不消
Try being dropped off at school when you're 10 试着去想象当你10岁被载去上学时
and having your father kiss you on the mouth. 然后让你老爸亲你的嘴
He still does it. 他现在还是会那样做
I'm sure it's all normal in Brazil， but I didn't grow up in Brazil. 我相信这在巴西是很正常不过的事，但我不是在巴西长大的
Friends would tease the crap out of me. 我朋友我拚死命的嘲笑我这件事
Why didn't you ask him to stop? 你何不就叫他停止?
No, I did at first，but then I realized 对, 我以前有说过，但我后来发现
how happy it made the old guy and I just gave in. 这件事会让那老家伙有多高兴我就让他去了
You know what? My grandmother hikes faster than you both 你们知道吗? 我祖母健行的比你们两个都还要快
but she's already dead. 而且她还已经过世了
Get him. Go get him. 抓他. 去抓他
How about you carry the packs for a while, eh? 你怎么不试试背着背包看看?
Come here，Look at this. 过来这里，看这景致
Is it nice? 是不是很棒?
Baby. 宝贝
Bringing up the rear. 紧接而来
So have you slept with her yet? - What was that? 所以你跟她上床了吗? - 什么?
Have you slept with her yet? 你到底跟她上床了没有?
Crossing the line. 越界了喔
Dad, it's been 10 years. It's time. 老爸, 都已经10年了. 时机到了
Stay away from all the beautiful girls. 远离所有美丽的女孩子
They are dangerous. 她们都很危险
A week is too short. - Yeah. 一个礼拜的时间太短了 - 是阿
A week is too short. - Yup. 一个礼拜真的太短 - 恩
Listen, I've made you a mixtape. 听着, 我帮你作了一卷合辑
And I give you a present，For you. 当礼物送给你，只给你
Thank you. 谢谢
I'm missing you already. 我已经开始想你了
Bye, Liz. 再见，莉兹
Be safe. - Same to you. 小心点 - 你也是
So don't I get a kiss? 难道没有一个吻吗?
I don't know. 我不晓得
I love you, Dad. - I love you too. 我爱你, 老爸 - 我也爱你
So stupid, I know. 我知道这样很蠢
He's 19 years old and he's such a man. 他已经19岁了而且还变成堂堂正正的男子汉
It's sweet. 这样很窝心
You're sweet. 你很窝心
Darling 亲爱的
it's time. 时机到了
Liz. - What? 莉兹 - 什么?
Liz. Come here，I have to tell you something. 莉兹. 过来这里，我要告诉你一些事
No，I should really，really be meditating. 不，我应该真的要去冥想了
Go, go. Do it. 去吧, 去吧. 去做
You know, I have not been to see Ketut in two weeks. 我已经有两个礼拜的时间没有去看科图特了
Really? - Yes. 真的吗? - 对
Okay. Go, go. - Okay 好. 去吧, 快去 - 好
Oh, gosh. But you are just so much cuter than Ketut. 天啊！但是你比科图特有魅力多了
No, I have to go. I have to go. 不行, 我歹走了. 我真的该走了
Why? 为什么?
You have bladder infection. 你膀胱发炎了
Common after no sex，then too much sexy time. 很正常，无性生活后做爱太频繁
We haven't even been apart for a minute in two weeks. 我们两周内无时无刻粘在一起
You're afraid now, right? 你害怕，对吧？
I understand. 我了解
You don't want to lose yourself. 你不想要失去你自己
Love is scary, dangerous. 爱是很可怕的, 很危险
Happen to me. 也发生在我身上
I pray every day，but husband bad for me. 我每天都祈祷，但我丈夫对我不好
I have to get away from him. 我必须要远离他
This from where he hit me 这是他打我的痕迹
with motorcycle helmet 用他的摩托车安全帽
And then my daughter 然后我女儿
she begged me to leave him. 求我离开他
Is that right, honey? 对吗, 宝贝?
I said,“I think you should get a divorce, Mommy.” 我是说,“妈咪，我想你应该离婚”
She was 4 years old when she said it. 她当时候才四岁
Don't feel bad about Felipe. 不要为费莉佩，感到难过
Everybody needs affection, honey. 每个人都需要一些爱情滋润, 亲爱的
Make people do funny things. 那会让人做出奇怪的事
Everyone gets like that at beginning of relationship. 每个人在关系的一开始都会这样
Want too much happiness，too much pleasure 想要太多的快乐，太多欢愉
until make yourself sick. 直到自己感到不舒服为止
Even to Wayan, this happen at beginning of my love affair. 连韦恩也是我的爱情萌生时也发生过
I lose myself, Liz. 我失去了自我, 莉兹
Dear friends and loved ones: 亲爱的朋友还有亲人:
My birthday's coming up soon. 我的生日即将来到
If I were home, I'd be planning a stupid, expensive 如果我在家, 我就会策画一场又愚蠢又昂贵的
birthday party and you'd all be buying me gifts and bottles of wine. 生日派对然后你们就会，买一堆礼物和酒给我
A cheaper, more lovely way to celebrate would be to 但是能庆祝的比这更便宜也更美好的方法
make a donation to help a healer named Wayan Nuriyasih 就是帮助一位名子叫维恩奴里亚西的治疗师
buy a house in Indonesia. 能在印度尼西亚买房子
She's a single mother，In Bali, after a divorce 她是一位单亲妈妈，自从她离婚后
a woman gets nothing，not even her children. 这女人一毛钱都没拿到，甚至失去她小孩的监护权
To gain custody of her daughter, Tutti, Wayan had to sell everything 为了争夺她女儿, 图蒂的监护权，韦恩必须要卖掉所有的一切
even her bath mat，to pay for a lawyer. 甚至是她的浴室垫子，就为了负担律师费用
For years，they've moved from place to place. 好几年来，她们常常在搬家
Each time, Wayan loses clientele and Tutti has to change schools. 每一次, 维恩只要失去顾客后，图蒂就该要换学校
This little group of people in Bali have become my family. 在这巴里岛的一小群人现在变成我的家人
And we must take care of our families, wherever we find them. 而我们必须要照顾我们的家人，如果我们都有幸能遇见他们的话
Today I saw Tutti playing with a blue tile she'd found in the road 今天我看到图蒂在把玩马路上捡到的一块蓝色磁砖
near a hotel construction site，She told me: 在一栋旅馆兴建工地附近捡到的，她告诉我:
Maybe if we have a house someday 如果哪一天我们有自己的家
it can have a pretty blue floor like this. 它就可以有像这样美丽的蓝色地板
When I was in Italy，I learned a word 当我在意大利时，我学到一个词
It's“tutti”with double T. 两个“T”字母开头的“图蒂”
which in Italian means“everybody.”So that's the lesson, isn't it? 在意大利文里代表“每个人”所以这就是我们该学习到的不是吗?
When you set out in the world to help yourself 当你在世界里出发去找寻自我时
sometimes you end up helping Tutti. 你会在最终的时候帮助“图蒂”
Tell me again. - Eighteen thousand American dollars. 再说一次 - 1万八千块美金
I brought you the e-mails to look at. 我为你带来了这些邮件
Oh, my God！ 哦, 我的天啊！
We get a house. 我们可以有自己的房子了
It can be the house for everybody! 那可以是每个人的房子!
I can have a pharmacy! I can have a library! 我可以有一间药局！我可以有一家图书馆!
All right. Oh, God. Close them again. Close your eyes. 好. 哦,天啊！ -眼睛闭上. 把眼睛闭上
Careful. You don't wanna break a tooth or anything. 小心点. 你不会想要摔断牙齿还是什么吧
Don't worry, but close your eyes. Where are you taking me? 别担心, 但还是闭上眼睛 - 你要带我去哪里?
You will see. 你会发现的
You helped Wayan to get a house - I know. 你帮助韦恩建立自己的家 - 我知道
and we're going to celebrate 然后我们要来庆祝
Here, here, here. - All right. 这里, 这里, 到了 - 好
Turn, turn, turn. - I know we're at the beach. 转过去, 转, 转 - 我知道我们在海滩上
Here you go. 你看
We're going to take a little boat trip. 我们要来个小船之旅
Where?
Where? To a little island nearby. 去哪? 去一个附近的小岛
It's my favorite place in the world，I've packed for two. 那里是我全世界最喜欢的地方，我已经准备了两人份的行李
We can stay there until next Tuesday. And I have the perfect camping spot. 我们可以在那边待到下礼拜二，然后有最棒的露营地点
Just you and I and 400 parrots. 只有你和400只鹦鹉
Do you like it? 你喜欢吗?
I was going to save it for tonight, but I think this is the right moment. 我原本是打算今晚才要说，但我觉得现在时机刚好
I have to be in Bali because my business is here 因为我的事业在这边所以我必须要待在巴里岛
and you have to be in New York 而你却必须要待在纽约
because that's where your life is, right? 因为那是你全部的生活不是吗?
What if we tried to create a life that is divided between the two places? 那我们何不试着在这两个地方中间创造一个相处的地方?
Why would you wanna do that? 你为何要这样做?
Because I'm in love with you. 因为我爱上你了
Let's go. Let's go. - Oh, no. I 走吧. 出发吧 - 哦, 不能. 我
What? - I can't. I'm sorry. 怎么了? - 我不能. 很抱歉
I just - You can't? 我只是 -你不能什么?
I'm sorry. I can't. - Can't what? 我很抱歉. 我没办法 - 没办法什么?
I can't go on a trip right now，okay? I 我现在没办法出游，好吗? 我
I haven't been home in five days，I haven't seen Ketut in weeks. 我已经有五天没回家了，也已经好几个礼拜没去看科图特了
It's just too much. - It's not much. 这样负载太多 - 并不会
To go 只是
by ourselves 就我们两个
apart from everything else for a couple of days， is that much for you? 花个几天远离一切的事物，这样对你来说负荷太重吗?
Liz, no entendo.What's the problem, Liz? Liz, nao entendo 问题到底是什么, 莉兹?
I mean, I have the same fears, I have the same scars that you have 我意思是说, 我跟你有同样的恐惧，我跟你一样有同样的伤痕
and I show them to you. 但是我把它们摊在你面前
But I guess the only difference between you and I is that 但我想你跟我之间的差异在于
you are afraid to love again. 你害怕再次去爱
My darling, this is it 亲爱的, 现在就是时机了
You have to look me in the eye and let me know the truth. 你要看着我然后跟我说实话
Please. Do you love me or do you love me not? 拜托. 你到底爱不爱我?
Look me in the eyes and tell me 望着我的眼睛然后告诉我
do you love me or don't you love me not? It's very easy. 你到底爱不爱我? 这问题很简单
I know you feel the same way，Why can't you say it back? 我知道你跟我的感受一样，为什么你就是无法响应我?
I don't know why. 我不晓得为什么
Why can't I? 为什么我不能 ?
Because you're terrified, my love，But listen, it's fine. Me too. 因为你被吓到了，我的爱，但是你听我说，这没关系的，我也一样
But I still want to get into that boat with you. 但是我还是想要跟你一起上那艘船
No. Okay, look. Look. - What? 不要. 好了, 这样吧 - 什么?
I don't know why you can't understand this. 我不明白为什么你无法理解
I found something and I can't give it up. 我找到了一些东西我没办法就这样放弃
And trust me, if I did，you wouldn't be so all in love with me. 而且相信我, 如果我放弃了，你就不会像现在这样爱我了
Okay, the balance thing. You traveled around the world to find your balance. 平衡点的那件事，你到处旅行就为了找寻自己的平衡点
And the balance that you think you've found is what? 那你找到所谓的平衡点是什么?
Meditating for 20 minutes and going to see an old medicine man? 冥想20分钟然后去见一位巫医?
Listen, balance, my darling, balance is not letting anybody love you 听着, 要说到平衡, 亲爱的，平衡绝对不是
less than you love yourself. You know what? You know what? 让人爱你比你爱自己还要来的少 - 你知道吗? 你知道吗?
Do not tell me what lessons I have and haven't learned in the last year 不需要由你来告诉我这过去的一年内我学到了什么
and don't tell me how balanced and wise you are 然后不需要你告诉我你多有智慧或平衡
and how I can't express myself 还有我如何无法表达自己
And do not say“darling”to me again because I am just gonna lose it. 而且不要再叫我“亲爱的”因为我就要失控了
Listen to me! I do not need to love you to prove that I love myself. 听我说! 我不需要特别去爱你来证明我爱自己
Run away from me? 就这样从我身边逃开?
You are running away from all the great possibilities of your own life. 你这样是在逃离你生命中可能有的所有很棒的可能性
I'm getting into that boat. 我会去搭那艘船
For you. 给你的
A goodbye gift. 惜别礼物
Ketut. 科图特
Liss 莉兹
you healed me. 你治愈了我
You healed me too, Ketut. 你也治愈了我, 科图特
If it wasn't for you，I wouldn't have come back to Bali 如果不是因为你，我也不会回到巴里岛来
and I wouldn't have come back to myself. 然后找到我的自我
You want coffee? Roast pig? 你要咖啡吗? 烤乳猪?
Coffee. 咖啡就好
I get you coffee. 我去帮你拿咖啡
You fly back to America soon? 你要飞回美国了吗?
In two hours. 两个小时后
Have you ever been on an airplane, Ketut? 你坐过飞机吗, 科图特?
Ketut cannot fly on aeroplane. 科图特不能坐飞机
Ketut have no teeths. 科图特没有牙齿
You are good friend to me. 你是一个好朋友
You are like daughter. 你就像我女儿一样
When I die 当我过世后
you will come back to Bali? Come to my cremation? 你会回到巴里岛来? 来我的丧礼?
Balinese cremation ceremony is very fun. 巴里岛的丧礼庆典很有趣
You will like it. - Okay. 你会喜欢的 - 好
You still smile with your liver，like I tell you? 你还是像我告诉你的一样用肝脏去微笑吗?
Yes. 对
You still meditate like your guru in India teach you? 你还是像印度领袖教导你的那样冥想吗?
Yes. - You happy now with God? 是的 - 你现在对上帝感到欢喜吗?
Yes. - You love your new boyfriend? 没错 - 你爱你的新男朋友吗?
I ended it. 我把关系结束了
Don't understand，Why you do that? 我不明白，为什么你要那样做?
I couldn't keep my balance. 我没办法保持我的平衡
Liss, listen to Ketut. 莉斯, 听听科图特的建议
Sometimes to lose balance for love 有时候为了爱失去一点平衡
is part of living balanced life. 也是平衡生活里的一部分
In the end 到最后
I've come to believe in something， I call“The Physics of the Quest.” 我总归出相信一件事叫做“探索的物理性”
A force in nature governed by laws as real as the laws of gravity. 是一种强大如永恒不变的地心引力般的大自然的原生力量
The rule of Quest Physics goes something like this: 探索的物理性原则大致可以这样说:
If you're brave enough to leave behind everything familiar and comforting 如果你够勇敢到可以放下所有你感到舒适又熟悉的一切
which can be anything from your house to bitter，old resentments 任何的一切包括你的房子和忧愁，陈年仇恨
and set out on a truth-seeking journey 然后出发去探索真理
either externally or internally 不管是表象的还是心灵上的
and if you are truly willing to regard everything 若你真的愿意去真心注重所有
that happens to you on that journey as a clue 发生在这旅途上的一切当线索时
and if you accept everyone you meet along the way as a teacher 而你接受在这过程中历经的人都会是你的导师
and if you are prepared，most of all 而你又准备好了，最重要的
to face and forgive some very difficult realities about yourself 去面对并且原谅自己一些很艰苦的现实
then the truth will not be withheld from you. 那真理就会显现出来
Felipe? 费利佩
I can't help but believe it，given my experience. 我无法不去相信，从我的经验来看
I decided on my word. 我已经决定了代表我的词
It means: 它的意思是:
“Let's cross over.” “让我们跨越过去”