hi my name is and that and today we are going to talk about
conversation expression we're going to talk with three very important
conversation expressions that will help you organize
your conversation as well as hell people listening
to what you're saying no where you are going to go with what you are saying
so these are very good conversation devices that
I'm our everyday expressions we use you will hear them
a lot a magnet the other thing to know about these expressions
if they never change me you memorize them
at a choc you memorize each of these words and you use it
always together okay so let's get started
the first expression we are going to win today
it it you ask me
it you ask me now I quite like this expression
because I have a lot of opinion me and when you say if you ask me
what you are saying is this is my opinion I'm
so for example I love comic books
i love reading about superheroes I like Batman Superman
but it you ask me
Wolverine is the greatest superhero a fall apart
SMU watching maybe any
complete disagreement with me maybe you think spider-man square
or batman is way better and so what you could
responded it you ask me will reinvent
the greatest superhero of all time batman is and I would have to disagree
with you
if you ask me if you ask me
Toronto is a great city to live it if you ask me
the government should spend more money on health care
so this is a very beautiful expression because any 10-year
giving your opinion you can use it enter
even though it that ask me you don't need to be asked your opinion to use
that
even if somebody doesn't want to know your opinion you can still use their
any conversation pay if you ask me alright
number two speaking at
enough is very important
you get English we really like it to link a
we like conversation kiss to though very smoothly
we like to know where somebody is going
in the conversation for speaking out
what it does it means a new topic
to you and all topic so
I'll give you an example we were just talking about Wolverine
as a superhero I that if you ask me
I think will create if the greatest superhero a ball pack
now maybe I want to talk about something else that will hurry
I have a new topic I want to talk about I can you speaking at
telling will bring at the greatest superhero
to a new topic so here's an example
speaking are if you ask me Wolverine is the greatest superhero a fault I'm
speaking at will worry did you know he's Canadian
me interacting back as an IDE
speaking at link you're talking with the new me
I'm another example is
I'm maybe I'm at a party and somebody is talking about
a a hockey game I just saw the other night may be a good faith being a hockey
did you read about Wayne Gretzky's daughter in the newspaper
some interesting news is just happened rather speaking up
what it does is that link again and your topic general topic
Arthur example
that's when is very useful as well at I with a
me at everything
what this does it helps you to go back
to and earlier point in the conversation
sometimes maybe eight you're having a great conversation
I you're talking about I'm movies
for example and suddenly there's an interruption
maybe somebody knocks at the door maybe your phone goes off and you have to
answer it
and then your friends are still talking
and when you come back you want to continue talking about what you were
talking before
so what you gon be it out everything
so i'm talking about me the there's a knock at the door
I'm I leave the when I come back
I can say other thing about movie
i really wanna see I'm J edgar hoover a new
a new movie that just came out I'm
another example it's not just for interruptions we use that often for
interruptions
in order to keep the conversation flowing smoothly but
people during presentations is this a lot as well
maybe I'm giving a presentation on government
and i'm talking first about the environment
and then I move on my second point might be economics
and then maybe a third point might be I
education so I talk a lot about education
but now I want to go back I wanna go back to environment
I've been using as I with Amy and everything
or as I was saying earlier the environment is very important to Canada
again the fifth to go back to an earlier point in the conversation
up I forgot to mention one thing about speaking out
this is actually quite an important point
I'm so I with eight earlier about speaking out
at a some people
they don't really get the art a conversation so well
and so what they tend to do if they'll be talking about something like I'm
for example UFO's the conversation is talking about aliens and UFO's
and suddenly somebody want to talk about shoes
now these two things don't really link up well in a conversation
so when you speaking at you want to use
something that kind links to
to the initial thing you were talking about so don't
don't say I'm if you're talking about
alien oh speaking alien I wanna go shoe shopping this weekend
because they won't make sense you really want to
link some aspect what you're talking about
originally to the new topic so a better
example would be speaking at alien
I'll I want this II
want to read a book I it it's all about aliens I want to be the x-files
it the show the Italian said good to have a link
to keep the topic consistent
okay so
if you ask me everyday expression
that child abuse are very useful
as a with an earlier we use it beat
expressions often and
it will really help you in terms of both you're speaking and you're listening
speaking ahead speaking and with any if you want to
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