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hi my name is and that and today we are
going to talk about

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conversation expression we're going to
talk with three very important

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conversation expressions that will help
you organize

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your conversation as well as hell people
listening

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to what you're saying no where you are
going to go with what you are saying

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so these are very good conversation
devices that

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I'm our everyday expressions we use you
will hear them

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a lot a magnet the other thing to know
about these expressions

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if they never change me you memorize
them

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at a choc you memorize each of these
words and you use it

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always together okay so let's get
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the first expression we are going to win
today

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it it you ask me

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it you ask me now I quite like this
expression

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because I have a lot of opinion me and
when you say if you ask me

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what you are saying is this is my
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so for example I love comic books

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i love reading about superheroes I like
Batman Superman

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but it you ask me

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Wolverine is the greatest superhero a
fall apart

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SMU watching maybe any

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complete disagreement with me maybe you
think spider-man square

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or batman is way better and so what you
could

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responded it you ask me will reinvent

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the greatest superhero of all time
batman is and I would have to disagree

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with you

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if you ask me if you ask me

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Toronto is a great city to live it if
you ask me

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the government should spend more money
on health care

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so this is a very beautiful expression
because any 10-year

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giving your opinion you can use it enter

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even though it that ask me you don't
need to be asked your opinion to use

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that

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even if somebody doesn't want to know
your opinion you can still use their

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any conversation pay if you ask me
alright

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number two speaking at

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enough is very important

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you get English we really like it to
link a

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we like conversation kiss to though very
smoothly

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we like to know where somebody is going

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in the conversation for speaking out

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what it does it means a new topic

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to you and all topic so

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I'll give you an example we were just
talking about Wolverine

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as a superhero I that if you ask me

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I think will create if the greatest
superhero a ball pack

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now maybe I want to talk about something
else that will hurry

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I have a new topic I want to talk about
I can you speaking at

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telling will bring at the greatest
superhero

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to a new topic so here's an example

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speaking are if you ask me Wolverine is
the greatest superhero a fault I'm

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speaking at will worry did you know he's
Canadian

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me interacting back as an IDE

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speaking at link you're talking with the
new me

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I'm another example is

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I'm maybe I'm at a party and somebody is
talking about

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a a hockey game I just saw the other
night may be a good faith being a hockey

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did you read about Wayne Gretzky's
daughter in the newspaper

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some interesting news is just happened
rather speaking up

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what it does is that link again and your
topic general topic

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Arthur example

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that's when is very useful as well at I
with a

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me at everything

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what this does it helps you to go back

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to and earlier point in the conversation

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sometimes maybe eight you're having a
great conversation

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I you're talking about I'm movies

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for example and suddenly there's an
interruption

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maybe somebody knocks at the door maybe
your phone goes off and you have to

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answer it

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and then your friends are still talking

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and when you come back you want to
continue talking about what you were

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talking before

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so what you gon be it out everything

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so i'm talking about me the there's a
knock at the door

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I'm I leave the when I come back

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I can say other thing about movie

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i really wanna see I'm J edgar hoover a
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a new movie that just came out I'm

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another example it's not just for
interruptions we use that often for

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interruptions

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in order to keep the conversation
flowing smoothly but

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people during presentations is this a
lot as well

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maybe I'm giving a presentation on
government

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and i'm talking first about the
environment

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and then I move on my second point might
be economics

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and then maybe a third point might be I

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education so I talk a lot about
education

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but now I want to go back I wanna go
back to environment

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I've been using as I with Amy and
everything

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or as I was saying earlier the
environment is very important to Canada

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again the fifth to go back to an earlier
point in the conversation

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up I forgot to mention one thing about
speaking out

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this is actually quite an important
point

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I'm so I with eight earlier about
speaking out

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at a some people

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they don't really get the art a
conversation so well

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and so what they tend to do if they'll
be talking about something like I'm

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for example UFO's the conversation is
talking about aliens and UFO's

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and suddenly somebody want to talk about
shoes

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now these two things don't really link
up well in a conversation

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so when you speaking at you want to use

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something that kind links to

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to the initial thing you were talking
about so don't

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don't say I'm if you're talking about

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alien oh speaking alien I wanna go shoe
shopping this weekend

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because they won't make sense you really
want to

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link some aspect what you're talking
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originally to the new topic so a better

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example would be speaking at alien

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I'll I want this II

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want to read a book I it it's all about
aliens I want to be the x-files

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it the show the Italian said good to
have a link

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to keep the topic consistent

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okay so

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if you ask me everyday expression

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that child abuse are very useful

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as a with an earlier we use it beat

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expressions often and

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it will really help you in terms of both
you're speaking and you're listening

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