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so
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thirty-year-old mary loses hair every
time she sleeps
she wakes up and finds she's bald and
there is not even
any hair particle phone on her bed that
is how one day she woke up and phoned
herself
like this people around this area have
been bullying her
saying she's a chimpanzee or any other
animal but not
a human being she had dreams of becoming
a model
but says hair loss ruined her modelling
dreams
she remains focused and has dreams of
becoming a professional
makeup artist made our friend married
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pain is the feeling suffering is the
effect
the pain inflicts if one can endure pain
one can live without suffering if one
can withstand pain
one can withstand anything if one can
learn to control pain
one can land control oneself
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she's called mary she's 30 years of age
she says she's so beautiful but whenever
people meet her
they just laugh and she wonders what
makes them laugh
she's worried that she'll never get a
husband because
men fear her due to this appearance
mainly
lack of hair where part of his head has
hair and the other one
is bald this alone chases our boys and
men
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she's called janet she's the sister in
law of mary
she says she often visits mary to see
how she's doing
janet says mary's life is and has always
been difficult
ever since knowing her no bengali
due to my appearance amur is rejected by
men
they said that i terribly look like an
animal
a chimpanzee to be precise all that
because of being this
bald that discourages me as a person who
has dreams
of having a family i'm afraid that i'll
die single
imagine failing to get a husband because
of no hair
she says when she takes the mirror and
looks at herself
she realizes that she is the most
beautiful girl
the world has ever seen at first she
could hide herself
due to this hair loss that looks like a
deformity
but now she's proud of who she is she
goes to the road
in the middle of thousands and thousands
of people and feels not ashamed as
before
she says that to her beauty means
accepting yourself
for who you are and to ignore what other
people
tell you she decided to embrace beauty
on her head
and let go of the negative comments that
is why she has to gather
all her makeup tools and start putting
makeup on herself
to look more beautiful
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she says she cannot shave her whole head
because
it might look normal and this is
something she doesn't want
she doesn't want to look like an
ordinary person
that is why she decided to have her head
remain
with one part full of hair and the other
one bald
mary was born normal and had dreams of
becoming a model
since childhood but after joining
primary school
she faced this unknown illness that
could make her not attentive in class
after the beginning of this hair loss
she started having a poor performance in
class
hence telling her parents that her and
school are part in ways
after losing hair she lost confidence in
herself
and stopped from pursuing her modeling
passion
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now she says she's keen on becoming a
makeup artist
she says she needs a few skills to
improve her makeup skills
then start her professional makeup
career that will serve her as her source
of income
since she was not lucky enough to
continue her education
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she wonders why some people see her
different and even start calling her a
monkey
or any other animal yet she knows very
well that
she's like anyone else she does each
home activity here but likes
keeping the house and the whole compound
clean about the husband
she has hopes that one day she might get
a real husband
who might come from somewhere else
heaven she says
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due to the fact that i'm jobless i once
had nowhere to sleep
i was homeless and had no money i could
sleep on streets
or walk the whole night and one day some
good people realized
i had no house and they lent me this
house freely
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she says she lives here with another
girl who is a student
but since none of them is employed life
is very difficult
that they cannot even afford themselves
a meal per day
she says the way she loses hair does not
make sense
and this always nighttime when she's
sleeping and waking up
she finds no hair on one part of the
head as if someone from nowhere came and
shaved her
waking up she cannot even find hairs on
the bed
she only finds herself this bold
she was given this house by good
samaritans but
we don't know for how long this will
last this means that
any time the owner can come and kick her
out
for her to eat it's almost not possible
when one gives her a coin
she buys bread drinking and then sleeps
but she also has a mental illness we
would have taken her to the hospital
if we had money but we don't have money
she can't go to the market for shopping
she can cook food
though she has a mental illness it
doesn't stop her from doing some
activities here
[音乐] 所以[音乐] 30岁的玛丽每次睡觉都掉头发 醒来发现自己秃了 床上连发粒手机都没有 哪天醒来给自己打电话 这个地区的人一直在欺负她说她是黑猩猩或任何其他动物而不是人类 她梦想成为模特 但说脱发毁了她的模特梦想 她仍然专注并梦想成为一名专业的化妆师 我们的朋友结婚了[音乐]痛苦是一种感觉痛苦是痛苦所带来的效果如果一个人能忍受痛苦就可以不痛苦地生活如果一个人能忍受痛苦一个人可以承受任何事情如果一个人能学会控制痛苦一个人可以控制自己[音乐] ] 她叫玛丽 她今年 30 岁 她说她很漂亮 但每当人们见到她时 他们都会笑 因为男人害怕她，主要是因为她的外表没有头发，他的一部分有头发，另一个是秃头，独自追逐我们的男孩和男人 [音乐] 她叫珍妮特 她是玛丽的嫂子 她说她经常 拜访玛丽，看看她的表现 珍妮特说玛丽的生活一直很艰难，自从我知道她没有孟加拉语，因为我的外表 阿穆尔被男人拒绝 他们说我看起来非常像一只动物 黑猩猩准确地说，这一切都是因为 作为一个有家庭梦想的人，这个秃头让我感到沮丧，我害怕我会单身死去想象因为没有头发而没有丈夫她说当她拿起镜子看着自己时，她意识到 她是世界上见过的最漂亮的女孩，起初她可以隐藏自己，因为这种看起来像畸形的脱发，但现在她为自己是谁而自豪 成千上万的人并没有像以前那样感到羞耻 她说她的美丽意味着接受自己的真实身份并无视其他人告诉你的东西 她决定拥抱美丽并放弃负面评论这就是为什么她 收集她所有的化妆工具并开始给自己化妆以看起来更漂亮 [音乐] 她说她不能剃掉整个头发，因为这可能看起来很正常而且这是她不希望的事情 她不想看起来像 这就是为什么她决定让她的头保留一部分头发，而另一个秃头玛丽出生正常，从小就有成为模特的梦想，但在上小学后，她面临了这种未知的疾病，这可能使她 开始脱发后在课堂上不专心 她开始在课堂上表现不佳，因此告诉她的父母，她和学校在脱发后参与其中 对自己失去信心并停止追求她的模特热情 [音乐] 现在她说她热衷于成为一名化妆师 她说她需要一些技能来提高她的化妆技能然后开始她的专业化妆生涯，这将成为她的来源 收入，因为她没有幸运地继续她的学业 [音乐] 她想知道为什么有些人认为她与众不同，甚至开始称她为猴子或任何其他动物，但她非常清楚她和其他人一样，她在这里做每个家庭活动，但是 喜欢保持房子和整个院子里关于丈夫的清洁 她希望有一天她能找到一个真正的丈夫，他可能来自其他地方天堂 她说 [音乐] 因为我失业了我曾经无处可去 睡觉我无家可归，没有钱我可以睡在街上或走一整夜，有一天，一些好人意识到我没有房子，他们无偿借给了我这房子 [音乐] s 他说她和另一个学生女孩住在这里，但由于他们都没有工作，生活非常困难，他们甚至连一天的饭都吃不起。 睡觉和醒来时，她发现头部的某一部分没有头发，就好像有人不知从哪里来给她剃了毛 醒来时，她甚至找不到床上的头发 她只发现自己如此大胆 不知道这会持续多久 这意味着任何时候主人可以把她踢出去让她吃饭 几乎不可能 给她一枚硬币 她买面包喝然后睡觉 但她也有精神疾病 如果我们有钱，我们会带她去医院，但我们没有钱 她不能去市场购物 她可以做饭 虽然她有精神疾病 这并没有阻止她在这里做一些活动 一种 经常探望她的人 as a person who visits her more often
她需要一所房子 she needs a house
但首先需要接受治疗 如果有人 but needs medical treatment first if one
可以支持她接受治疗 can support her get medical treatment
这将是一个人放弃的最伟大的礼物 it would be one of the greatest gifts a
之一 person has ever
given up
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许多人总是盯着她看， many people are always staring at her
因为它 不寻常地 because it's unusual
看到一个老人身上没有头发 seeing an old person without hair on one
part
，每当我们在一起时 and whenever we are together like when
，比如来或去教堂时， coming or going to church
你会发现我们周围的人都在 you find people surrounding us and
想她发生了什么事， wondering what happened to her
有些人同情她，其他人 some feel empathy for her others make
取笑她 fun of her
，继续开其他人认为的笑话 and go on making jokes others think
她不是一个人 she's not a person
，称她为动物， and call her an animal
但她很漂亮，只是因为她 but she is beautiful only that she lives
过着贫穷的生活，如果她有足够的食物 a poor life had she got enough food
和衣服，她想要然后化妆，我告诉 and clothes she want then makeup i tell
你她看起来 you she can look
很漂亮，我爱她，我总是 very beautiful i love her and i always
来看看如何 她正在做 come and check on how she's doing
然后回去我们非常友好她告诉 then go back we're so friendly she tells
我 me everything
一切我每天都告诉她 and i advise her each and every day
她已经说过她从小就想成为一名 she has already said she wanted to be a
模特 model since childhood
但是脱发毁了她的一切 but the hair loss ruined all what she
计划 had planned
她现在热衷于成为一名 she is now keen on becoming a
专业的化妆师， professional makeup artist
并坚持认为这次失去 and insists that her loss this time will
她不会阻止她的梦想 not stop her dreams
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] 通往伟大事业的道路上充满 the path to great things is filled with
了许多绊脚石 a lot of stumbles
，一路上的苦难和挑战， suffering and challenges along the way
但 but
如果你有 正确的态度， if you have the right attitude and know
知道艰难的时光会过去 that hard times will pass
，每次到达目的地时你都会起床 and you get up each time you will reach
your destination
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