1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:03,419 I wanted to talk to you guys about / 2 00:00:03,419 --> 00:00:05,400 I'm just thinking about the possibility of maybe 3 00:00:05,400 --> 00:00:08,130 like moving. 4 00:00:08,130 --> 00:00:09,970 Off to a dorm at college? 5 00:00:10,169 --> 00:00:12,179 Like about a year from now? 6 00:00:12,179 --> 00:00:14,580 JAZZ: I want to be able to exercise a little bit 7 00:00:14,580 --> 00:00:16,839 more freedom and a little bit more control in my life 8 00:00:16,839 --> 00:00:18,870 so by the time I do go to college 9 00:00:18,870 --> 00:00:21,500 I can be fully prepared for that lifestyle. 10 00:00:21,500 --> 00:00:24,809 Are we prohibiting you from your independence? 11 00:00:24,809 --> 00:00:27,209 JEANETTE: Last I checked, we were pretty lenient. 12 00:00:27,210 --> 00:00:28,350 Like we're pretty cool parents. 13 00:00:28,350 --> 00:00:30,250 You do well just about everything you want. 14 00:00:30,449 --> 00:00:33,159 Does this have anything to do with partners and-- 15 00:00:33,159 --> 00:00:33,959 Amir? 16 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:37,419 There is a benefit with Amir, but that's not like my reason. 17 00:00:37,619 --> 00:00:39,479 But there is a benefit in that when he does come 18 00:00:39,479 --> 00:00:41,399 down to Florida he could stay at my place, 19 00:00:41,399 --> 00:00:44,100 and that makes it easy. 20 00:00:44,100 --> 00:00:46,059 JEANETTE: I think Amir has a big role 21 00:00:46,259 --> 00:00:47,759 in her wanting to move out. 22 00:00:47,759 --> 00:00:49,679 If Amir doesn't have a place to live, 23 00:00:49,679 --> 00:00:50,990 I feel really bad about that. 24 00:00:50,990 --> 00:00:52,440 But Jazz needs to realize you don't live 25 00:00:52,640 --> 00:00:54,539 with somebody you're in a relationship with unless you're 26 00:00:54,539 --> 00:00:55,679 very serious. 27 00:00:55,679 --> 00:00:56,729 Who's paying for this? 28 00:00:56,729 --> 00:00:57,679 Me. 29 00:00:57,679 --> 00:00:58,500 All me. 30 00:00:58,500 --> 00:01:00,329 That's a lot of loot. 31 00:01:00,329 --> 00:01:02,039 Then you have your cell phone because I'm 32 00:01:02,039 --> 00:01:03,850 not gonna pay for that if you're gonna be independent. 33 00:01:03,850 --> 00:01:05,019 And I'm not gonna pay for a car-- 34 00:01:05,019 --> 00:01:05,819 You don't have a car. 35 00:01:05,819 --> 00:01:06,639 GREG: Which costs money. 36 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:08,730 And then insurance for a car costs money. 37 00:01:08,730 --> 00:01:11,609 And then cable and then utilities. 38 00:01:11,609 --> 00:01:12,689 All those things add up. 39 00:01:12,689 --> 00:01:14,219 JEANETTE: And it's free here. 40 00:01:14,219 --> 00:01:16,590 GREG: I don't think Jazz has the full picture of what 41 00:01:16,590 --> 00:01:17,730 it takes to live on your own. 42 00:01:17,730 --> 00:01:19,680 I don't think she understands all the expenses 43 00:01:19,680 --> 00:01:20,769 associated with it. 44 00:01:20,969 --> 00:01:22,469 And there's just a plethora of things 45 00:01:22,469 --> 00:01:25,439 that really have just not been something that she's 46 00:01:25,439 --> 00:01:27,120 been responsible for. 47 00:01:27,120 --> 00:01:28,870 I never handle anything for myself. 48 00:01:28,870 --> 00:01:30,840 And I think I want to start doing it for myself, 49 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:32,010 being more independent. 50 00:01:32,010 --> 00:01:34,200 I got nothing against you doing your own laundry 51 00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:36,390 and making your bed in the morning and setting an alarm 52 00:01:36,390 --> 00:01:37,230 and getting up early. 53 00:01:37,230 --> 00:01:38,560 Start doing it. 54 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:39,359 Now. 55 00:01:39,359 --> 00:01:40,409 There's nothing that's stopping you 56 00:01:40,409 --> 00:01:40,979 from doing that stuff at home. 57 00:01:40,980 --> 00:01:42,012 JEANETTE: I can't even get you to get 58 00:01:42,212 --> 00:01:43,199 out of bed in the morning. 59 00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:46,799 To be independent, you have to be very mature in many ways. 60 00:01:46,799 --> 00:01:49,899 And there are certain ways where she is not mature. 61 00:01:49,900 --> 00:01:51,000 I don't think you realize this, 62 00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:53,609 but the second you walk into my room you give me 63 00:01:53,609 --> 00:01:55,319 a list of commands for the day. 64 00:01:55,319 --> 00:01:56,500 You come in my room, you're like, 65 00:01:56,500 --> 00:01:57,930 get up, get up, get up, get up. 66 00:01:57,930 --> 00:01:59,760 Because I have to do that for you to get out of bed. 67 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:02,400 You're the type of person who is on top 68 00:02:02,400 --> 00:02:03,379 of everything in my life. 69 00:02:03,579 --> 00:02:04,379 I don't want to be. 70 00:02:04,379 --> 00:02:06,579 If you started waking up on your own, I wouldn't go there. 71 00:02:06,579 --> 00:02:10,288 Even if-- I think you will always be if I'm living here. 72 00:02:10,288 --> 00:02:12,419 You're making my brain hurt. 73 00:02:12,419 --> 00:02:16,203 This is exactly what I don't want though. 74 00:02:16,204 --> 00:02:16,870 Like you don't understand. 75 00:02:17,069 --> 00:02:18,629 You're like, I need to see all these things 76 00:02:18,629 --> 00:02:19,949 from you before I let you move. 77 00:02:19,949 --> 00:02:22,259 But all you're doing is imposing your version 78 00:02:22,259 --> 00:02:27,259 of the best lifestyle upon me.