hi everybody welcome to love English
Valentine's Day special so happy
Valentine's Day we hope you're feeling
in the romantic mood yeah yes exactly so
guys we've got some phrasal verbs to go
through with you today related to
relationships dating and love so Laila
do you want to start us off with the
first one okay I was saying that I love
Ryan Gosling and I said you have a crush
on him okay so when you have a crush on
somebody it's very often more associated
with teenagers young love when you find
that you suddenly have strong feelings
for somebody in a romantic said they
might not know that you have a crush on
them you might have just seen them and
really liked the way they look and think
god I really want to speak to them but
maybe you haven't yet maybe you're just
waiting to get the confidence to speak
to them yeah um and then of course if
it's a little bit too strong it could be
an infatuation it be infatuated with
somebody like Sabra with Paul Ryan
Gosling and then of course if you are
really physically attracted to somebody
we've got a great verb for that
do you fancy someone yes to fancy
someone now you can fancy something for
example you might say oh I fancy a glass
of wine or I fancy a burger
yeah she doesn't she's veggie okay or
tiramisu or something like this but on
the other hand you could fancy a person
and this means you're physically
attracted to them so you can say oh I
fancy my doctor or fancy my colleague
okay yeah now at Valentine's Day in the
UK we celebrate by giving roses you be
my Valentine sabra no I don't want you I
want a man fine okay and of course with
cards yeah okay so it's quite a
commercial day it's not really a holiday
as such but st. Valentine's is obviously
all about love showing affection showing
people you care even if you don't know
them they don't know you so you may
write to them and if you're feeling
brave
your name if not can put a question mark
so they have to try thinking about who
it was from
it's a mystery you ever got a card like
that with the question is Valentine no I
don't think I have I have yes I'm sure
you've had many so that's a Valentine's
Day card
yes so let us know guys do you send them
in your countries do you send back yeah
I know in Korea they have some really
interesting traditions around eating
noodles for Valentine's yes
is there like then the spaghetti thing
where you know let us know what do you
do our country okay I have to fall in
love to fall in love this is this word
it's actually really kind of creates the
feeling of love because we fall in love
yes we've got very control yeah yeah so
we fall in love and sometimes love
doesn't last very long and you can
actually fall out of love which is bad
yeah you stopped loving the person yeah
yeah okay and what else we're going to
look at to chat someone up okay so if
you are a little bit single and if
you're at a bar then very often if
you're a girl you get chatted up or if
you're a you're a boy you might chat a
girl up although now we're done yeah
it's change reversal
yeah not necessarily true but that just
means that you would go over to somebody
to try and start a conversation and show
that you're interested in them yeah so
there are some really bad chat-up lines
that people can stay arable so Layla did
it hurt when you fell from heaven
because you're an angel don't use that
one guys okay I've got a worse one okay
really you can beat mine I can beat it
okay go
what's this saber your dress boyfriend
material
ah we have a very good friend of ours
you know who you are
yes so these kinds are very kind of
cheesy yeah without without class
without this dial yeah so hopefully you
guys don't use them please don't they
don't work on us ladies do not like okay
you might get turned
down yes turn somebody down
you say new you're not interested in
their message and you can go a stage
further with that actually and maybe you
can agree to go on a date with somebody
but then you decide hmm actually I don't
like that person I'm not gonna go on a
date with them but you don't tell them
you don't even tell them to go to the
restaurant or you leave them to go to
the bar and you don't you don't arrive
you leave them there by themselves you
stand them up this is really bad you
can't you know if you had been stood up
yeah but have you ever stood someone up
okay so that's a great one to stand
someone up if you've arranged a date and
you don't go yeah yeah okay okay so more
guys we've got to fall out now this is
where maybe you have a disagreement with
your boyfriend or girlfriend or your
friend or your family member and you're
not speaking to them they've annoyed you
and you're not speaking to them okay
you're ignoring their texts and maybe
they don't want to speak to you either
maybe you've had an argument and you've
fallen out yeah but you haven't broken
up though you haven't broken up yet but
you're you're not in a good place with
your relationship now if things go well
and you find a way to communicate again
you could make up to resolve the
argument you make up yes so here you
will become friends again or get back to
being lovey-dovey boyfriend and
girlfriend it'll be WWE yeah it's very
romantic lovey-dovey yeah okay okay so
we've said we so we need to do go out
with ah seeing all the stages of a
relationship
ages of a relationship so go out with
this is where this is your steady like
my mom says going steady very old so
this is where it's your regular
boyfriend or girlfriend you're going out
with them but before this in UK we
usually have another phase and this is
called to see someone yes and this is
where you're just going on dates it's
the best international getting to know
each other dating but you're not quite
boyfriend and girlfriend yet
okay I was about to see someone and then
to go out with somebody and obviously
when it's more serious then you may
describe being in a relationship to be
in a relationship yes yeah yeah we would
say I'm in a relationship with like you
can have that on Facebook in a
relationship with however if it gets a
bit more serious and you decide I want
to spend the rest of my life with this
person
Oh Leila on this romantic day you can
propose to them you can ask them to be
your husband and you might turn them
down yeah okay you could accept the
offer
or you could turn them down say no
you're not gonna turn me down are you so
yeah okay so guys it is proposed to
somebody I was just doing that those two
ladies preposition yeah you propose to
someone you ask them to marry you and if
they say yes you get engaged and this is
where you give the lady the ring and she
will wear the ring and you start to plan
the wedding okay and when you are
engaged
it goes from boyfriend/girlfriend to
fiance mm-hmm Yonsei yeah you would say
my fiance exactly yes well if we got any
more I think I think we're good there
very quickly guys we'll just run through
them there was have a crush on someone
to like someone that you you've seen but
maybe they don't know that you like them
it's a strong feeling to fancy someone
when you are physically attracted to
somebody could also be an actor yes to
fall in love fall in love to fall out of
love just stop loving that person to
fall out yeah to make up just stop
fighting to get runs again to break up
or split up yet to end the relationship
break up split up to chat someone up
chat up line yes yes when you are
interested in somebody and you approach
them perhaps you don't know them to turn
them down
to say no I'm not going on a date with
you yeah
to stand someone up to leave them and
low in a bar or restaurant way not go to
the date terrible don't ever do that
people not on Valentine's Day night will
crush that person forever okay so then
we had to go out with see someone
propose to someone and finally get
engaged and get married yes there we go
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