listening to your buds like sharing them
and then watching anime in the back of
class it's so cute
it's any frat sorority couple ever yeah
I'm just trying to find somebody I can
watch anime with what's going on
everybody
I'm in sunny California and this is
another episode of fungos on the street
today we are talking about Asian love so
I'm here to ask people today one what is
Asian love two is there difference
between Asian love and Western love and
three is one better than the other I
don't know guys I'm looking forward to
hearing a lot of funny stories so let's
go see what we find out I'm gonna paint
these scenarios and tell me what you
think this is a more of an American
couple or a agen couple know each other
they're at a concert the party and they
look over they make eye contact they're
smiling they're kind of like dancing
with each other and far away from each
other they talk and then they dance the
rest of the night together American
American girlfriend gets sick boyfriend
spent eight hours cooking a soup for her
to drink boyfriend/girlfriend love each
other she gets in a car accident she
goes blind but then she goes into
surgery and then she comes back out she
has eyesight but now he doesn't because
he gave her his eyeballs agent sounds
like a mean Asian I would say I'd say
generally the bad drivers and also do
you guys happen to date more American
guys has anybody data asian what's the
deal well I've never dated an asian guy
but I wouldn't like be opposed yeah I
mean mostly Caucasians but I have talked
to a few what is one of the differences
between what is considered a very Asian
style of love an American style of love
I remember watching Korean dramas as a
kid a lot just that was more intimate
you know it's more like you can feel it
more when you're watching this movies
right dramas and like those just seem to
be like all this like time will stand
still for this love and that doesn't
really seem to happen as much in like
American media cuz it's more like sex
centered and like just like a traction
base for anime girls they go to this
booth and it's like the decorate was
just like a painted wall so it looks
like you're inside of some nice castle
and there's this like guy who's like
cosplayed out to like the nines he's
dressed like like a prince or something
with like white hair girls will line up
just for 30 seconds with him and he'll
just like lean in and he'll just like
plant his arm right there and the girls
just like swoon or something like and
they have kissing booths in America but
I don't know why
Asians are kind of like oh well we'll
get really close well just like blue
ball you and then just like leave you
hanging like that I like a lot more
romantic like I'm think about like
Naruto it's like that's like a big-ass
love story well there's like The
Bachelor and American stuff I think
that's like not as like romantic and
stuff it's a lot more like quick and
just get down to business
I've watched primarily Chinese we all
have a focus around family orientation
or career practicality Americans are
more quick to introduce to parents as
well Asians more like inclusive and you
kind of keep it between themselves for
Americans and dating culture it's kind
of just like bring them out go on double
dates like every other time the climax
is them like holding hands at the very
end of the episode and the climax no pun
intended for like the Western ones comes
like in the first 10 minutes of them
just getting right down to business when
I dated someone who is Filipino like
their parents were super formal and like
wanted to have dinner with me now that
I'm dating someone who's like white or
Caucasian it's more of like a kind of
laid-back and less formal experience you
never tell your parents and for American
like after the first date they want you
to meet their parents think in Asian
look there's definitely a greater
emphasis on like appearance and outside
image you have to take into account like
other people's expectations and other
people's like opinions meeting their
parents is actually pretty different I
think American parents are pretty more a
lot more relaxed than Asian parents if
you meet like an Asian girl's parents
it's like to see a trial you're like on
trial there's like lawyers probably you
know it's like there's a pressure I
don't know if you saw that commercially
the Chinese commercial where it's like
the dude pulls out the business card and
everything it's like you feel like you
have to do that I don't know it's kind
of bad just meeting like the parents
that like the Asian it was just like I
felt like I had to validate myself in
terms of like Oh what school do you go
to you know like how you doing in
classes LinkedIn profile resume got to
know how to cook treat the girl right
all those things matter with the Asian
family
Asian said to be more family focus
Mama's boys why you say that with that
toe and you said
Mama's boys like Asian boys they tend to
be more clingy I feel like their moms
spoil them a lot the Asian boyfriend
what what Asian was he just Taiwanese
they act like they have like big dick
energy all the time kind of a lot
growing up in a very international
community in Beijing China local guys
don't actually like me that much because
I'm really out there like I'm into like
fun things parties and like I don't
think they like girls like that as much
what about you you said you'd ate mostly
fobs yeah I have a lot of friends you
have like this concept with like guys
should always pay for a meals or
whatever in our nations are like we can
split bills or you know equally what do
you think the guys pay for everything do
you think that also comes with like
there is also like another buy in like
in some sort of agreement that ok you're
gonna be down for me like you're gonna
stay by my side if I I treat you well
and I treat you like princess I pay for
everything I guess a little bit maybe
because like in the old transition like
guys are like just working hard to earn
money and the girls are just like
housewives and stuff so I guess that's
maybe the reason why like with like an
Asian girl it's like it's like the
long-term game you know you got to be in
there for a while and then I feel like I
feel like with the like American couples
it doesn't take that long and then like
also like the more comfortable a casual
for each other to like on the non Asian
side they never define the relationship
it's always like kind of roll with it
have you ever seen like those maybe the
FOB couples on campus or just Asian
couples in general you don't know if
their pops where they're like sharing
ear buds listening in anime I know this
one couple where like the boyfriend will
come to the girlfriends classes and sit
with them and then when they're not in
class they're like riding the same
skateboard together laying in the grass
together having picnics together he was
always like right next to me and we were
constantly holding hands
and then I mean when I was dating other
people it wasn't always like that
listening to your buds like sharing them
and then watching anime in the back of
class is so cute like beats any frat
sorority couple ever yeah I'm just
trying to find somebody I can watch
anime with do you guys feel like
sometimes like the way Americans date is
too fast and you're like I don't like
like where it's headed there's some
sense of eight it's hard to get some
instant value in a relationship because
once things do go down it's hard to
build something romantic off of that
while Asian people tend to wait and be
more conservative and that just build
some more meaning in front of all the
sexuality got any personal stories of
Asian love versus non Asian love and by
the end of the night I read I didn't
kiss him back the next morning I got a
vemma request for $40 for the meal and I
feel like Asian guys just have that
expectation like that sexual expectation
this past summer I met this girl who's
half-asian half-white and we were like
together for like two three months I met
her Asian mom right and she like didn't
have the best English and I was pretty
ignorant and so she's like showing me
around the house I'm like oh what's this
book like oh it's Buddhism and I didn't
have a clue of Brutus and he was like yo
you're two Chinese or Asian and he's
like okay let me teach you the American
Way and like he started making me watch
Disney movies listen to like Christmas
carols and all like those super like
basic American things and that was just
different for me which style of dating
and love do you guys prefer is there one
that's better than the other I'm leaning
more towards like the American style
type of dating I think he's just a mix I
think I prefer that American and Asian I
guess I like both I'm Asian American so
I think I like would like a combination
of like the Asian and American style be
the American style like American Asian
kind of style like Jay Parker ki Hong
Lee agent in terms of like culture
understanding what foods I like without
me having to explain it and more
Americanized and that they pick like
cute dates whatever is the natural
chemistry with the person that you're
with I prefer the clingy just cuz I'm a
clean person myself matters more about
like what their values are what their
beliefs are if they match up with mine
if I can
from them I'm a lover of culture I'm not
discriminating anyway but I just feel
like when you date another culture adds
some different spice like dating Asian
it was cool but I just felt like I was
in my comfort zone and for me I like
pushing myself to get out of the comfort
zone so definitely you're wearing a bait
bandana
you definitely like to be pushed out of
your comfort zone I can tell if a man is
wearing a bandana he is definitely down
to date non-asians I know that thank you
everybody for watching that video about
Asian love Asian dating versus the
American style this is my big major
takeaway from all of these interviews
today there is no right or wrong way to
love but there are definitely definitely
cultural differences most people agree
that the American style may be a little
bit too casual and a little bit too
quick and then the Asian style might
just be a little bit too clingy and a
little bit lovey-dovey most people agree
that they would actually want some kind
of mixture of in-between and even for
some of the non Asians that I
interviewed they do respect and would
even want to adopt some of those aspects
of Asian love into their style seems
like the Asian style of love is
definitely becoming a thing but you
might also need to find that balance let
me know in the comments below what you
think is better for yourself the
American style or the Asian style or a
mixture in between and what that might
look like until next time we out peace
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