1 00:00:06,719 --> 00:00:12,250 Hi friends I am Niharika and welcome back to a new lesson. Today we are gonna look at 2 00:00:12,250 --> 00:00:19,028 five body language tricks that would make anyone instantly like you. Now definitely, 3 00:00:19,028 --> 00:00:26,368 It's important that people should like us. It kind of boosts up our confidence. So most 4 00:00:26,368 --> 00:00:33,369 of the people that I meet are very much in love with themselves, very much interested 5 00:00:33,369 --> 00:00:41,369 in themselves. So how do we capture and hold their attention towards our conversation or 6 00:00:41,369 --> 00:00:48,640 towards us without saying a word. Well, its a wonderful body that would help to capture 7 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:52,820 and hold their attention. So we are gonna look at 8 00:00:52,920 --> 00:00:56,179 these ways to win friends and to influence people. 9 00:01:03,299 --> 00:01:09,479 The first trick that I have for you is, The flooding smile. Please do me a favour, please 10 00:01:09,489 --> 00:01:17,000 smile. Definitely It's very important to smile. Now of course this doesn't mean that you keep 11 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:23,599 grinning all day long, keep grinning that would not help. That would not impress people 12 00:01:23,599 --> 00:01:31,419 either, because they would think that you do this for everyone. So not that impressive, 13 00:01:31,420 --> 00:01:38,969 what you need to do is the moment you greet people, give a very positive warm responsive 14 00:01:38,969 --> 00:01:45,789 smile. So the smile should flood over your face and that would stipulate good feelings. 15 00:01:45,790 --> 00:01:53,110 It would give a very positive feeling to the opposite person and will show that you are 16 00:01:53,109 --> 00:02:00,870 really happy and your'e feeling very glad to meet this person. So do smile, because it works 17 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:15,379 The second trick that I have for you is, Sticky eyes. So what are sticky eyes? Well, eyes 18 00:02:15,379 --> 00:02:22,759 are the most important part of our body and here what I mean is don't break eye contact. 19 00:02:22,759 --> 00:02:30,289 Now when you are talking to someone pretend that you are completely glued to the conversation. 20 00:02:30,289 --> 00:02:35,250 Like your eyes are completely glued to the conversation that you're having with the opposite 21 00:02:35,250 --> 00:02:42,939 person. So this brings a little bit of confidence in the opposite person, that Oh yes he's listening 22 00:02:42,939 --> 00:02:50,780 to him, to me and he is very interested in what I am saying, so this would make him or 23 00:02:50,780 --> 00:02:59,229 her to like you instantly. Now even when the conversation ends, do not just look away. 24 00:02:59,229 --> 00:03:05,439 What you need to do is reluctantly or slowly look away from that person that your'e talking 25 00:03:05,439 --> 00:03:11,800 to, so which means that don't break your eye contact instantly. 26 00:03:18,300 --> 00:03:26,020 The third trick that I have for you is the, Big baby pivot. Now here what I mean is people 27 00:03:26,030 --> 00:03:34,120 are very concious that how a person would react to them, so when you meet someone make 28 00:03:34,120 --> 00:03:40,870 sure that you turn completely, turn your body, keep your head straight and your tore sell 29 00:03:40,870 --> 00:03:47,400 straight, when you are meeting someone. You don't have to just look back and say hello 30 00:03:47,400 --> 00:03:55,069 to him, that's not right. So give a completely undivided attention like you would do it for 31 00:03:55,068 --> 00:04:02,318 a baby. If a baby crawls up to you and you know is trying to seek attention, of course 32 00:04:02,318 --> 00:04:09,539 with open arms and with a straight body, you are gonna give him that undivided attention. 33 00:04:09,539 --> 00:04:17,589 So that's what even every adult likes. He will be highly impressed, if you do that, 34 00:04:17,589 --> 00:04:20,969 complete attention is what everybody loves. 35 00:04:27,379 --> 00:04:33,740 The forth trick that I have for you is, Limit the fidget. So here what I mean is, if you 36 00:04:33,740 --> 00:04:41,030 want to appear credible, do not move much, when you are having a conversation with someone, 37 00:04:41,029 --> 00:04:48,459 not professional and definitely not appreciated by anybody, so do not move much. Also stop 38 00:04:48,459 --> 00:04:55,539 fidgeting with your hands, like stop wiggling or even stop scratching like many people have 39 00:04:55,540 --> 00:05:02,460 a habit of scratching, while they are talking or you know scratching in this manner, doesn't 40 00:05:02,459 --> 00:05:09,508 look good at all. So please stop that, also even if you are really tempted to look at 41 00:05:09,509 --> 00:05:17,810 your phone to see what emails have you received or what messages have you received. Stop multitasking, 42 00:05:17,810 --> 00:05:22,939 please give or please be attentive to the conversation that your'e having, this would 43 00:05:22,939 --> 00:05:24,560 impress the opposite person. 44 00:05:31,019 --> 00:05:37,240 The fifth and the last trick that I have for you is, Use your hands. Hands the most important 45 00:05:37,250 --> 00:05:44,579 part of a body, do use them. Well, do not cross your hands, crossing your hands or your 46 00:05:44,579 --> 00:05:51,550 arms shows disinterest or boredom. Are you really bored of a conversation? Well, yes 47 00:05:51,550 --> 00:05:57,500 then you can cross your hands, just kidding but do use your hands, when you are talking 48 00:05:57,500 --> 00:06:04,699 to someone. In fact I read it somewhere that when you use your hands, while you are talking. 49 00:06:04,699 --> 00:06:11,788 It helps active speech production, which means it helps you to take those words out, you 50 00:06:11,788 --> 00:06:18,990 know your mind is set that you have to use these words or use this vocabulary. So it's 51 00:06:18,990 --> 00:06:25,769 the hands that help you to take it out of your mouth, so do use it. Do not stand straight 52 00:06:25,769 --> 00:06:29,609 or do not cross your hands, while you are talking to someone. 53 00:06:32,100 --> 00:06:36,220 So this brings me to the end of this session. Do use these tips, because 54 00:06:36,300 --> 00:06:40,759 our body language definitely speaks out better. 55 00:06:40,759 --> 00:06:46,550 People will like you, if you end up using these tricks, if you end up using all your 56 00:06:46,550 --> 00:06:53,280 body gestures in a wonderful manner and of course, do subscribe to my channel and you 57 00:06:53,279 --> 00:06:59,109 will be posted with lots of videos. I'll be back with a new lesson for you. Till then 58 00:06:59,110 --> 00:07:00,250 you take care. 59 00:07:00,250 --> 00:07:05,250 下载YouTube(cc)字幕请访问http://zhuwei.me/youtube