愛上了怎麼辦？教你如何處理意亂情迷的迷戀！ (How to Handle Crushes)
They happen in the privacy of our minds, pretty much everywhere. 幾乎在任何地方，這感覺會在我們的心裡偷偷地出現。
At the pool, the conference, the aisles of a supermarket. 在泳池畔、會議室中、超市的走道。
The dynamic is always the same. Very little knowledge, indeed complete ignorance, 這股力量始終是相同的。（我們）知道的很少，豈止如此，根本一無所知，
combined with a deep sense of knowing them absolutely, 又結合了一種當然能了解這些東西的感覺，
and of being entirely certain they would if only circumstances allowed, be the one. 只要氣氛對了，這東西必然會發生，就是它。
It's been going on since early adolescence at least, this madness. 這種瘋狂，至少在青春期一開始就發生，
And even now when one should know better, it happens. 甚至在一個人還尚未察覺時便悄悄發生。
These crushes, they show off our capacity for knowing how to make the most of the smallest details. 這種迷戀展現了我們如何充分運用最微不足道的細節（去想像與連結）。
A wrist, a neck, an ankle, a pair of jeans worn a certain way. 手腕、頸部、腳踝、或是穿牛仔褲的方式。
They instantly become whole people with whom we can imagine years of a life together, 他們在瞬間變成了我們希望共度生活的人，
full of profound mutual sympathy, tenderness and laughter. 充滿著深刻的溫柔、笑容與相互體諒。
This blessed person will, we know, understand us and all the secret complex, ignored parts of us. 這位被祝福的人，我們知道，他必定會了解我們，了解我們私密的情結，了解我們忽略的地方。
This capacity we have for elaborating a whole personality from a few small details, it's there when we look at sketches. 這種能力，由小細節去描繪了一個完整的人物，就像我們看著一幅铅筆的速寫。
This isn't someone who has no nostrils, eight strands of hair and no eye lashes. 這不是一個沒有鼻孔、沒有眼睫毛，只有八縷秀髮的人而已。
It's a beautiful creature we feel we understand at once. 這是一個美麗的生物，我們在一瞬間就能感受明白。
The cynics say, it's madness, this filling in of the gaps. 懷疑論者卻說，這是瘋狂的，只是在填補自己的空白。
We're just projecting wild reckless fantasies...but that's too sweeping. 我們不過在投影著狂野魯莽的幻想。但這樣講太籠統了。
We're probably right to be delighted. It's just not the whole story. 沒錯我們可能因此而被吸引，但這並不是故事的全貌。
Perhaps that remarkably thin wrist with the leather band around it 也許這特別纖細的手腕，和周圍的皮革錶帶
really does belong to someone who is skeptical, alternative, delicate, intelligent, wry. 真的是屬於那個人，那個多疑、與眾不同、柔弱、聰慧、愛揶揄的人。
The error of the crush is to go beyond that insight, 迷戀的錯誤在，超過了對彼此的深刻理解，
to think this could ever be the whole truth about a human being. 認為迷戀（想像出）的是那個人的全部真相。
Knocked off course by the crushes power, we forget one central inviolable fact of human nature. 當然我們被迷戀的力量擊倒後，我們忘記人性中有一個不容侵犯的事實。
That everyone is crazy and trouble to be around. 每個人都是瘋狂的，都難以相處。
Everyone has something substantially wrong with them. 每個人都有他們本質上無法解決的問題（個性缺點）。
Everyone is extremely hard to live with. 每個人都是非常難真的生活在一起的。
You can't know what, from an ankle or a wrist but it'll be something. 我們不能從一個腳踝或手腕就去了解到什麼，但它將會變成某些東西。
Time will reveal it sure enough... because life has messed all of us up, 時間會證明它，想當然的。因為生命會讓我們所有人一團糟，
because we all grew up inadequately parented and have all ended up terrified and anxious pretty much the whole time. 因為我們都成長在有各自不足的父母教育下，而幾乎全部時間裡，最終得到的是驚恐與焦慮。
That said, we shouldn't give up on having crushes at any age. 話雖如此，在任何年紀我們都不該放棄去墜入情網。
We just shouldn't believe in what they appear to promise anymore. 我們只是不應該去相信那些迷戀出現時給的承諾（或想像）。
Of we haven't glimpsed complete perfection. It's just a pretty nice side or two coming to the fore. 我們還沒有完全窺見完美。這只是一個不錯的側面印象，或是雙方都有的感覺，萌生出來罷了。