hello everyone and welcome back to my
channel I hope you all are doing really
well and I'm very excited to be
welcoming you to my channel once again
so today I decided to actually do a
slightly different video and it's going
to be a response to one of the questions
that I keep on hearing all the time
recently and the question is do I like
Asian guys and I really want to answer
this question for all of you Asian guys
or any other guy out there that's
wondering the same thing and I want to
share with you my story so just for you
to get an idea of different backgrounds
and different stories and I hope it will
inspire you to go and approach the girl
they want to approach so I'm gonna start
with a little bit of my background just
for you to get an idea where I'm coming
from
whereas my background the culture and so
on um so I grew up in Lithuania for
those who don't know it's a small
country in Eastern Europe I think it's
wrong 3 million people living in
Lithuania something around that it's
free million and more I think but we all
kind of going back and forth still
afraid Nia so the numbers always
changing
anyway so apart from growing up in a
tiny little country I actually grew up
in a tiny little city in Lithuania so
just to put in a perspective around 90%
of people living in my city well
Athenians so another 2 or 3 percent give
or take the white people from Europe
from other European countries also some
from Russia and so on P was tiny little
percentage of people from abroad so
until of eight until the age of 15 or 17
like late teenage years that was the
actually first time when I saw the first
Asian person in real life before that I
would see Asian people in magazines or
in movies or videos were all that
stuff like swoosh media all these things
by never in my real life so remember I
was shopping with my mom and we saw a
group of Asians and I remember I was
looking like oh wow you know they look
so their friend is just such different
people and different really honest with
you wasn't something like oh my god
Asian people no it was just that
curiosity because it was something
different from what we would see every
single day so I grew up with a mentality
that are gonna have probably Lithuanian
husbandless rain e'en kids because my
old family were pure Lithuanians we
didn't have any other people from abroad
in my family and so what Kievan when I
went to study in I came to UK when I was
18
well then I started to actually add get
some Asian friends some black friends
that's when I kind of started to explore
different countries and that's when I
met people from all over the world and I
loved it I honestly loved it and then so
then my mind changed a little bit more
and then I started to date white
European guys so it would be from
anywhere from Europe Spanish Italian and
German well that's not that dated so
many actually wasn't that many but um
then I changed my mind that you know
what I decided that I kind of would want
to date an European guy because I found
that they were way different from
Lithuanian guys um so what kind of oh it
opened my eyes a little bit more but
still then I I didn't think that I would
ever date an Asian guy like I would
never think and you know the reason why
I never thought going to date an Asian
guy because I always thought that Asian
guys I interested only into Asian girls
because I would always see them hanging
around
with Asian girls like during the lunches
they're always kind of in the group
hanging around together and that's why I
thought that they are not they just not
interested so none of them would ever
approach me and I personally would not
approach a guy sadly but still like none
of them would approach me I wouldn't
approach them and it was just always
like I would acknowledge that they there
and I would have some of them as my
friends but nothing ever happened like
no sort of interaction whatsoever and
then I went to London oh I didn't
mention my university wasn't Wister
which was small city in England I don't
know why I kind of keep on getting into
those small cities all the time anyway
that's not the story and then I came to
England sorry and then I came to London
and I started to work in retail and
that's when I actually started to
interact with more Asian people because
I started to work in luxury and a lot of
Chinese clients a lot of people from
Korea with shop and luxury department
stores and luxury boutiques and that is
exactly what I was working so then I
started to kind of talk with them a
little bit more and that's why I met my
now fiancé who is from South Korea
so the first Asian guy I ever dated
became my future husband how crazy is
that and how it will happen it happened
that he actually approached me so he was
also the first Asian guy who approached
me before that I wouldn't get any signal
from any Asian guys so he approached me
we started to talk and we just clicked
like that like instantly instantly like
that and so yeah I've learned a lot
about him I learned a lot about Asia and
now I am Asia obsessed that's crazy like
I can't wait for my next holiday to
Korea which is going to be in March we
already visited Beijing we already
visited Thailand so I I actually wasn't
even joking with him and I said it
almost feels like I am Asian inside I
just oh look agent but I imagine inside
because I love the culture I love the
people I love
food everything that's cute basically so
yeah so completely changed the whole the
whole perspective for me and completely
changed the way I was thinking about
Asian people and ever since then for
some reason I started to see a lot of a
MWF couples around here in London and
for those who don't know what am W F is
Asian male white female and honestly for
the last year year and a half I started
to see a lot of those couples with white
girl and Asian guy so many honestly I
would see them around you know two two
times a day at least at least a clients
or people walking around it's a lot of
them and if it doesn't ring your bell it
does ring mine it means that agents
actually started to get out there
approach the girls or maybe girls
approach to guys but it became way more
multicultural and then it was before in
my eyes and actually recently I also
went to the nightclub and I saw this
Asian guy and he was chatting up a lot
of white girls and they all seemed to
enjoy his company as well so if you're
not gonna approach a girl that you like
it doesn't matter whether she's black or
white or Asian or whatever there's no
way you're gonna get her
what I'm trying to say here is that I
came from such a cultural you love
European Lithuanian background and I
never thought in my life they're gonna
be engaged to Korean guy honestly I
never have that told in my life until I
met him and the way I met him was he
approached me so I am not you know a
special person that you know can convert
like that I am just an ordinary girl who
likes who likes people and it doesn't
matter whether you're black or white if
I like you I like for who you are not
for your skin color or for your accent
where you're from so guys honestly there
must be a lot of girls who think the
same way like I do and actually recently
I had a conversation with the girls that
I work with and we were talking about
guys and stuff and I remember and we
said oh it was kind of discussion about
the trades that we like in guys and
everyone of us
honestly it was around 7 of us every one
of us we said that the most important
thing in a guy it's confidence like
confidence and the ability to show that
they like us to kind of approach and so
on so all of them they said it doesn't
matter whether from whether they you
know Asian European black white from
which ever country they would be from
the personality and the confidence is
the number one thing and I think to be
really honest with you now sometimes I
forget that my fiance he's Asian like I
don't see that anymore and when I see
pictures I see okay we look their friend
but it's it's not a big deal for me
anymore the end of the day guys
don't let that limiting believe that oh
I am Asian to stop you
don't let that to be your Excuse stop it
because it's not real it honestly isn't
and especially in this day and age when
we all are so mixed we when we all them
in either small or big cities over ever
we are a lot of people are very
open-minded and the Asian and white girl
couple is not a big deal anymore it
really isn't because Asian girl and
white guy is not a big deal for like
years now so don't let that thought to
kind of prevent you from actually going
and approaching a girl because what if
she is actually really into Asian I'm
not I'm not here to tell you that now
everybody likes agents I I guess it's am
also um I preference you know cuz we all
have types I mean I had a type my type
of stolen blonde and blue eyes not going
guys so the time sometimes doesn't
really matter but if you approach a girl
and she's like not completely into
Asians or at the end of the day if she
doesn't like you just because you're
Asian and don't really think that you
want to date that girl because if she
doesn't care about your personality and
she just only cares that you are agent
what kind of person she is like it's you
know date somebody that likes you for
your personality but no whether you're
Asian you're white you're black or any
other things you know so guys I really
encourage you to go out there to
approach the gold a1 approach because
and also don't be scared don't be scared
because from my perspective I always
thought that Asian guys just don't like
me I thought that they only into UM
Asian girls and imagine how many girls
think the same way that I do so if you
really want to get a white girl or if
you want if you like a white girl
already and you wondering whether she's
into into Asian guys or not just don't
think this way think whether she's into
you or not and don't put your label on
yourself like an asian guy you are who
you are and if you introduce yourself to
her and then if you will have some sort
of connection is you just remove that
label from yourself behind that whole
Asian thing it's your personality and I
feel like that is the only thing that
really mattered so I'm gonna stop
blabbering now because it's kind of 30
minutes I'm sorry I keep on looking to
the screen because it doesn't want to
focus on me today
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remove your labels embrace who you are
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