okay this topic was sent in by Ronnie call on Instagram Hey she asks do you guys believe in the butterfly effect
have you had a single moment in your life big or small when you knew it would change forever
Wow the deep question honey yes well some people don't know what the
butterfly effect is do you know what it is it's like the beating of one
butterfly's wings and that it can create a small ripple that can change the
entire world so one small change can change your life so what was that for
you guys it's like when I got sick at me and Tamar decided to have a baby and it was Logan that would be a great best
thing that happened to Ani uh one day I didn't wear a bra that changed my life
oh my husband because it was like I was walking down the street longing I met a
dude and it was like and I forgot to wear the bra oh my nose all the way down
south and I'm like day now he think I'm you know cuz it makes you look older if
I would've wore brought make you look younger if you so choose your brother
wrong why I thought when I was gonna be on the ticket book funny just being real
and I loved that case I'm gonna buy you a butterfly wrong yeah okay gotcha
people MA I remember a time um when I was engaged before uh-huh and I remember really getting these signs that it
wasn't the right choice and you know how when you get engaged you're rockin the
ring everybody out graduating you it's like a big thing and you almost feel
pressured to get married but might there's something inside me and I listen
to that voice and had I not listen to that voice and got out of that gate
right I wouldn't have met the man that I loved so much today and I'm matured to
follow my dreams so that that to me was important and made me realize for other
women engagement is a time for you to really marinate and think about this
decision and amid eight right it's okay for you to walk away that's right that's
right
camara me okay I would have to say when my sister and I did Sister Sister on our
first day of work my sister and I can remember us sitting
down at this table and we're about to do a table read
yeah that's when you read the script before you actually rehearse and shoot
it and I remember looking around thinking oh my gosh
we're here we did it my sister and I did not have a lot of sitcom experience you
guys so from that moment I said you know what if you really really strive for
your dreams your dreams really can come true and that's what happens
I became obviously you know an actress and so they say I so I love it I love
that and what about B wait I feel like my butterfly effect moment happened here
I feel like doing this show made me realize I had a voice and I had
something to say and it gave me purpose I think when I looked back I used to
feel really regretful for decisions I've made or certain things I have done and I
think just being here I felt like my purpose and the reason why I had gone
through those things was maybe to help somebody out and it made me feel like
more fulfilled than I had ever been before
Wow just to be myself