Hey my name is Adrian and I wanted to
tell you why I got rid of my wife of ten
years and then found a new girlfriend
that is much younger than her it all
started about two years ago when I
realized it wasn't happy in my marriage
my wife always complained and criticized
me and to make things worse she'd gained
some weight and wasn't as attractive as
before meanwhile at my work everything
was going great I had just received the
promotion and we had an intern that was
directly reporting to me
her name was Joanne she was only 18 back
then but we got along so well I liked
how she treated me with so much
admiration like I was someone special
but when I got back home my life turned
dark again my wife told me to bring out
the trash er clean up the bathroom but
there was no love or joy between us
meanwhile I started to obsess about
Joanne and thought about her constantly
even when I was laying next to my wife
in bed I knew things needed to change
and I told my wife I wanted an open
relationship when she said no I got so
angry and I said I wanted a divorce
because she had become a fat Grinch I
immediately regretted what I said but
the damage was already done and my wife
was crying to make things worse
I'm not very good at saying sorry so I
just packed my stuff and left of course
I felt bad afterwards I never wanted to
hurt my wife and I wasn't sure if I had
only broken up with her so I could date
Joanne well the next day at work
I asked Joanne out on a date she got
really excited and said of course I want
to go out with you but I thought you
were married yes but I'm in the process
of getting a divorce so I'm free to do
whatever I want I responded I can't
describe how good it felt to be free
again
and dating Joanne was the cherry on top
of the ice cream she had so much
youthful energy and we're always having
a good time but meanwhile my wife kept
on contacting me saying she wanted us to
try again it got so annoying that at one
point I wrote back to her saying no
thanks I've already found someone new
she's in good shape and appreciates me
Wow
I can't believe I said that to my own
wife I treated the person I once loved
the most like dirty trash but what I
didn't expect was what my wife did next
she somehow found out who my new
girlfriend was and when I went on a
picnic with her my wife stormed up at us
screaming I know who she is your
girlfriend has been sleeping around with
everyone when she was in high school
apparently my wife got so mad about me
dating an 18 year old girl that she
contacted Joanne's old high school
friends to dig up dirt on her Wow I
never see my wife so mad before I
realized that our divorce had taken a
big toll on her because she looks so
exhausted and old that day hit me hard
but I was able to forget about my wife
by spending time with Joanne it was so
much fun to spend time with her in the
beginning but after a few weeks I got
bored of her too and we broke up weirdly
enough right when I left Joanne's
building and crossed the street I got
hit by a car it was a serious accident
and the doctors had to keep me in an
artificial coma for two whole days when
I woke up I saw my wife I was too weak
to say anything but I couldn't believe
anyone would still love me even after
I'd caused him so much pain the next
day's laying in the hospital gave me a
lot of time to think I came to the
conclusion that the reason my marriage
had been a disaster wasn't my wife's
fault but my own fault because in her
first year of being married everything
was great we always helped each other
and I was so in love that I didn't even
notice my wife had any flaws but in our
second year I forgot our anniversary for
the first time and I also stopped saying
I love you and those small things are so
important so once I could walk again I
immediately went back to my wife and
asked her for forgiveness I promised to
treat her again like I did when we first
met and luckily she accepted my apology
today I'm petrified of destroying my
relationship again so I'm always buying
her flowers and telling her how much I
love her because I think that's what a
relationship is all about it's about
giving and caring it's not about taking
and wanting hey let me know in the
comments if you've ever been in a
failing relationship and was it your
fault or the fault of your partner
always
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