1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,240 (knocking) 2 00:00:02,240 --> 00:00:03,740 Um, come on in. 3 00:00:03,740 --> 00:00:08,740 - Hi, Zach? 4 00:00:08,740 --> 00:00:11,240 - Yeah, hi. 5 00:00:11,240 --> 00:00:14,240 - Hi, I'm, your therapist, your parents sent me over 6 00:00:14,240 --> 00:00:16,240 because you recently went through a really bad 7 00:00:16,240 --> 00:00:19,240 college breakup and I'm here to help. 8 00:00:19,240 --> 00:00:25,740 - Ah, well, um, yeah, it's basically what I'm going 9 00:00:25,740 --> 00:00:27,240 for right now, so. 10 00:00:28,240 --> 00:00:32,240 - Great, um, I would like to talk to you about, 11 00:00:32,240 --> 00:00:35,240 um, if you've ever had any issues with girlfriends 12 00:00:35,240 --> 00:00:38,240 in the past, tell me, tell me what happened. 13 00:00:38,240 --> 00:00:42,400 - I mean, she got so upset with me one day and she, 14 00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:48,240 I don't know, she says that I don't make her come 15 00:00:48,240 --> 00:00:52,240 or whatever, so, I don't know, she said that she doesn't 16 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:57,240 want to be with me anymore, so, I don't know, it sucks. 17 00:00:57,240 --> 00:00:58,240 - I see. 18 00:00:58,240 --> 00:01:02,240 Um, and have you had any issues with anybody else like this? 19 00:01:02,240 --> 00:01:05,240 - I mean, not that I really know of, I haven't really had 20 00:01:05,240 --> 00:01:08,740 many girlfriends before this, so, um, yeah. 21 00:01:08,740 --> 00:01:15,240 - Okay, um, well I can definitely help you with this problem. 22 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:17,240 I know it's really hard sometimes when you break up 23 00:01:17,240 --> 00:01:19,240 with somebody you've been with for a long time, 24 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:21,240 you know, a lot of emotions happening. 25 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:26,240 My approach is a little more hands on though, if that's okay. 26 00:01:26,240 --> 00:01:29,240 If you'd like to try it with me, I think it'll really help you. 27 00:01:29,240 --> 00:01:33,240 - What do you mean by like a hands on approach to this? 28 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:35,240 - Let me tell you what I mean. 29 00:01:35,240 --> 00:01:36,240 - Okay. 30 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:41,240 - So, sometimes when we don't experience things hands on, 31 00:01:41,240 --> 00:01:42,240 - Mm-hmm. 32 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:44,240 - Our brain doesn't make the connection 33 00:01:44,240 --> 00:01:46,240 and we don't learn anything. 34 00:01:46,240 --> 00:01:51,240 So, what I'd like to try to do is show you a little bit 35 00:01:51,240 --> 00:01:55,240 of what turns me on, and maybe by seeing that 36 00:01:55,240 --> 00:02:00,240 and experiencing it hands on, you'll be able to do it next time 37 00:02:00,240 --> 00:02:02,240 for your next girlfriend. 38 00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:08,240 - Uh, I mean, you're the expert and that's why you're here, 39 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:09,240 so, I mean, yeah. 40 00:02:09,240 --> 00:02:10,240 - Excellent. 41 00:02:10,240 --> 00:02:13,240 So, when I think about getting turned on 42 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:16,240 and having sex with somebody, the first thing that comes 43 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:18,240 to my mind is foreplay. 44 00:02:18,240 --> 00:02:19,240 - Uh-huh. 45 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:21,240 - Did you do a lot of foreplay with your girlfriend? 46 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:28,240 - Um, I mean, she'd give me a hand job every now and then, 47 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:30,240 you know, and then like-- 48 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:31,240 - Uh-huh. 49 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:36,240 Okay, so, foreplay is more for the woman than it is for the man. 50 00:02:36,240 --> 00:02:37,240 - Okay. 51 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:41,240 - You have to turn us on in many more ways than just physical. 52 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:44,240 You have to turn us on mentally. 53 00:02:44,240 --> 00:02:49,240 You have to turn us on spiritually, emotionally, 54 00:02:49,240 --> 00:02:51,240 or very complicated creatures. 55 00:02:51,240 --> 00:02:54,240 - So, this is your hands on approach thing right now, then? 56 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:56,240 - Yes. 57 00:02:56,240 --> 00:03:05,240 Slowly, gently, squeezing, starting to get those juices flowing. 58 00:03:05,240 --> 00:03:10,240 - Wow, those are perfect. 59 00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:12,240 - My eyes are up here. 60 00:03:12,240 --> 00:03:15,240 A little bit of contact here and a little bit of contact here. 61 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:17,240 - It's so hard, though. 62 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:19,240 - I know, I know. 63 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:21,240 It takes practice, and that's why I'm here. 64 00:03:21,240 --> 00:03:22,240 - Okay. 65 00:03:22,240 --> 00:03:23,240 - Okay? 66 00:03:23,240 --> 00:03:32,240 So, we're going to start slowly, and then slowly reveal this. 67 00:03:32,240 --> 00:03:38,240 Gently take one finger and just press. 68 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:39,240 - Just like that? 69 00:03:39,240 --> 00:03:43,240 - Oh, just like that. 70 00:03:43,240 --> 00:03:45,240 Oh, see, it's working already. 71 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:46,240 - Yeah? 72 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:47,240 - Yeah. 73 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:48,240 - Wow. 74 00:03:48,240 --> 00:03:51,240 - Oh, I see goosebumps on my legs. 75 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:52,240 - Cool. 76 00:03:52,240 --> 00:03:53,240 - You just did that. 77 00:03:53,240 --> 00:03:55,240 - I do. 78 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:57,240 Wow. 79 00:03:57,240 --> 00:03:58,240 - Yeah, that's really nice. 80 00:03:58,240 --> 00:04:00,240 - These are just gorgeous. 81 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:04,240 - And slowly, gently pinch. 82 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:05,240 - Just like this? 83 00:04:05,240 --> 00:04:06,240 - Oh, yeah, just like that. 84 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:07,240 - Yeah? 85 00:04:07,240 --> 00:04:10,240 - Uh-huh. 86 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:15,240 It's great eye contact. 87 00:04:15,240 --> 00:04:19,240 - I feel like you want to kiss me right now. 88 00:04:19,240 --> 00:04:22,240 - Um, would that be the next step? 89 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:23,240 - Absolutely. 90 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:24,240 I'll tell you what. 91 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:29,240 Why don't I make myself a little more comfortable? 92 00:04:29,240 --> 00:04:30,240 - Okay. 93 00:04:30,240 --> 00:04:31,240 - Oh. 94 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:32,240 - Is that better? 95 00:04:32,240 --> 00:04:33,240 - Oh, my. 96 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:34,240 Yes. 97 00:04:34,240 --> 00:04:35,240 Wow. 98 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:42,240 - I'm going to go get a massage. 99 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:45,240 - Wow. 100 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:50,240 - Oh, yes, just like that. 101 00:04:50,240 --> 00:04:59,240 Gently, slowly, take it. 102 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:02,240 - Wow. 103 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:18,240 - And here, slowly, start kissing me. 104 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:26,240 Oh, now you're getting it. 105 00:05:26,240 --> 00:05:34,240 - Holy fuck, these are the best titties I've ever seen. 106 00:05:34,240 --> 00:05:35,240 - Thank you. 107 00:05:35,240 --> 00:05:36,240 Now, it's not all about titties. 108 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:37,240 There's another very important part of foreplay. 109 00:05:37,240 --> 00:05:38,240 - Fuck. 110 00:05:38,240 --> 00:05:39,240 - Oh, yeah, just going to glide your hand back. 111 00:05:39,240 --> 00:05:40,240 Oh, yeah, that's it. 112 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:41,240 - 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