(knocking)
Um, come on in.
- Hi, Zach?
- Yeah, hi.
- Hi, I'm, your therapist, your parents sent me over
because you recently went through a really bad
college breakup and I'm here to help.
- Ah, well, um, yeah, it's basically what I'm going
for right now, so.
- Great, um, I would like to talk to you about,
um, if you've ever had any issues with girlfriends
in the past, tell me, tell me what happened.
- I mean, she got so upset with me one day and she,
I don't know, she says that I don't make her come
or whatever, so, I don't know, she said that she doesn't
want to be with me anymore, so, I don't know, it sucks.
- I see.
Um, and have you had any issues with anybody else like this?
- I mean, not that I really know of, I haven't really had
many girlfriends before this, so, um, yeah.
- Okay, um, well I can definitely help you with this problem.
I know it's really hard sometimes when you break up
with somebody you've been with for a long time,
you know, a lot of emotions happening.
My approach is a little more hands on though, if that's okay.
If you'd like to try it with me, I think it'll really help you.
- What do you mean by like a hands on approach to this?
- Let me tell you what I mean.
- Okay.
- So, sometimes when we don't experience things hands on,
- Mm-hmm.
- Our brain doesn't make the connection
and we don't learn anything.
So, what I'd like to try to do is show you a little bit
of what turns me on, and maybe by seeing that
and experiencing it hands on, you'll be able to do it next time
for your next girlfriend.
- Uh, I mean, you're the expert and that's why you're here,
so, I mean, yeah.
- Excellent.
So, when I think about getting turned on
and having sex with somebody, the first thing that comes
to my mind is foreplay.
- Uh-huh.
- Did you do a lot of foreplay with your girlfriend?
- Um, I mean, she'd give me a hand job every now and then,
you know, and then like--
- Uh-huh.
Okay, so, foreplay is more for the woman than it is for the man.
- Okay.
- You have to turn us on in many more ways than just physical.
You have to turn us on mentally.
You have to turn us on spiritually, emotionally,
or very complicated creatures.
- So, this is your hands on approach thing right now, then?
- Yes.
Slowly, gently, squeezing, starting to get those juices flowing.
- Wow, those are perfect.
- My eyes are up here.
A little bit of contact here and a little bit of contact here.
- It's so hard, though.
- I know, I know.
It takes practice, and that's why I'm here.
- Okay.
- Okay?
So, we're going to start slowly, and then slowly reveal this.
Gently take one finger and just press.
- Just like that?
- Oh, just like that.
Oh, see, it's working already.
- Yeah?
- Yeah.
- Wow.
- Oh, I see goosebumps on my legs.
- Cool.
- You just did that.
- I do.
Wow.
- Yeah, that's really nice.
- These are just gorgeous.
- And slowly, gently pinch.
- Just like this?
- Oh, yeah, just like that.
- Yeah?
- Uh-huh.
It's great eye contact.
- I feel like you want to kiss me right now.
- Um, would that be the next step?
- Absolutely.
I'll tell you what.
Why don't I make myself a little more comfortable?
- Okay.
- Oh.
- Is that better?
- Oh, my.
Yes.
Wow.
- I'm going to go get a massage.
- Wow.
- Oh, yes, just like that.
Gently, slowly, take it.
- Wow.
- And here, slowly, start kissing me.
Oh, now you're getting it.
- Holy fuck, these are the best titties I've ever seen.
- Thank you.
Now, it's not all about titties.
There's another very important part of foreplay.
- Fuck.
- Oh, yeah, just going to glide your hand back.
Oh, yeah, that's it.
- Oh, yeah.
- That's it.
- Oh, yeah, that's your sweet spot right there.
- Holy fuck.
- And every now and then just give her a sweet little kiss.
- Oh, yeah, that's it.
- That's it.