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I think what makes men cry is the same thing that makes women cry. 我认为男女哭泣的原因是一样的。
It's ...it feels good to sort of let yourself feel bad. 适度地难受一下子，这感觉很不错。
I try to hide it, like I think most dudes do. 我试着隐藏它，我想很多兄弟你们也是这么干的。
But not because I'm sad, just because I don't want people to feel like they need to help. 并不是因为我悲伤，而是因为我不想让人们感觉我需要帮助。
What Makes Men Cry? 男人为什么会哭？
I honestly can't remember the last time I cried in front of somebody. 老实说，我已经想不起我上回当着别人的面哭是什么时候了。
Any movie that's sort of heartfelt or that I'm invested in will generally have me choking up. 情真意切或者是深入我心的电影，一般都会令我“无语凝咽”。
I think the last time I cried was at a TV show. 我上一次哭是在一个电视节目中。
I was watching this HBO mini series called Olive Kitteridge. 我在看HBO的迷你剧《奥丽芙·基特里奇》
I can think of the last time that I like... hit something. 我能够想起上一次我的心触碰到某些东西的时候。
But I can't think of the last time I cried. 但是，我却记不得我上一次是什么时候哭了。
It was about a month and a half ago, 那是大约一个半月前，
my grandmother had a stroke. 我的祖母得了中风。
And she died a week or so later. 大约一周后她去世了。
I cried when I talked to her on the phone. 跟她讲电话的时候，我哭了。
I basically told her I loved her for the last time. 基本上，这是我最后一次告诉她，我爱她。
A friend of mine just died. 我的一个朋友刚刚去世了。
So I was at the hospital and that was the last time I cried which was last week. 所以，我上次哭是在医院，就是上周。
Radio Live did a story about this family 在线广播讲过一家人的故事，
where they had a breakthrough with their autistic son. 他们的自闭症儿子的病情取得了突破性的进展。
And I remember just driving through LA, listening to that, 我记得那时，我正开车穿越洛杉矶，听着收音机，
and just kinda, not just tears welling up, 我并没有嚎啕大哭，
but kind of sobbing at some of the moments. 然而，只是在某一刻，有一些些抽噎。
You know, you go about your life and then there's something that reminds you of that person. 你知道的，过日子，有时候，一些东西会让你想起某人。
It's there. It's never gonna go away. 他就在那，永远不会消失!
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It's just always gonna, there's always gonna be these pits and valleys. 人生的路总会有坑坑洼洼和低谷。
I'm a person that cries very easily,and I'm not ashamed of that. 我是一个很容易落泪的人，我并不会为此感到羞愧。
I'm in touch with my emotions. 我了解自己的情感。
I think I've always been pretty sensitive and never felt like it was a bad thing if I cried. 我认为我一直都很敏感，并且我不觉得哭是一件糟糕的事。
A lot of my male friends, I've never seen them cry. 我男性朋友中的许多人，我从没见过他们哭。
And I think that society has told them that they shouldn't cry. 这个社会总是告诉他们：男人不该哭！
And if they do cry, that they're somehow less masculine,somehow less manly. 如果他们哭了，就不够有男子汉气概，就不爷们儿了。
But I think that's all crap. 但我认为这简直一派胡言！
The last time that I cried so much that I couldn't believe how much I was crying 上一次我哭的很惨的时候，我都不敢相信我在哭。
It was when I moved to Los Angeles and I left my girlfriend in Chicago. 那时我搬去了洛杉矶，离开了在芝加哥的女朋友。
It was very hard at that time. 离别时刻，太难了。
And I think that was the last time that I actually... 我想那是我最后一次真真正正地哭......
And I held it out for so long before I moved away. 在我离开之前，我真的忍了很久。
And it was the last time that we had to get out of the car at the same time. 那是最后一次，我们一起下车。
I had to go to the airport. 我不得不去机场了。
I just lost it. 我实在控制不住了。
Being able to express your emotions as a man is a good thing. 作为一个男人，我觉得能够表达情感是一件好事。
The actual physical release of tears,you just can't help it when you feel those emotions. 当你的感情到了那一步，身体会不由自主释放泪水，你根本控制不了。
It's just what happens. 事情就是这样。
I'm okay with it. 我觉得很正常。
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I'm fine being a person that cries. 我觉得作为一个人，哭很正常。
And often times, I feel a lot better after I cry. 很多时候，我哭后感觉好多了。
You should seek out things that would cause you to cry 你应该找出那些让你流泪的原因
because crying gives new meaning to things. 因为哭泣赋予了事物新的意义。
Crying allows you to seek the inner self. 哭泣可以让你寻找内在的自我。
I haven't cried in a year. 我一年多没有哭过了。
It's weird. 这很奇怪。
How have my eyes not just like shutdown one day and just went, fuck you, I'm just gonna cry? 某一天，我的眼睛闭上了，我要走了，我去！我是要哭了吗？
It's weird. 很奇怪。
When you do cry, you kinda feel like you've changed a little bit I think. 我想，当你真的流泪了，你能感觉到自己已经发生了一些变化。
And that's an important feeling for anyone to feel. 而这种感觉，对于每个人都很重要。